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So I'm in college, and I'm normally pretty introverted (I look good and I know how to talk to people etc., I just get anxious really easily) but a couple nights ago I was drunk and decided to open Grindr up. Started talking to a guy, cute, seems smart and funny and all that, and everything's actually going well, which is weird for me. Basically what I'm asking is, when's a good time to start escalating shit? I mean we're meeting on the weekend because our schedules have us both waking up really early, and it's college so whatever happens it'll probably end in me blowing him. What I'm asking is when to start working it into conversations, and how early is too early to start sending pictures?
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Believe me, I know how common these threads are and how it can seem borderline insulting to everyone who came here for advice on real issues. I'm usually the one helping, it's just that this is one area where I've had...not a lot of success in. Any tips anyone wants to throw in would mean a lot.
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>>17590789
No homo, but it depends on the person, and what you want out of the relationship.
Sex? Go hard and fast man.
Deep connections? Get dates in first.
You can send pics as much as you want, whenever. It sounds like you are paralyzed by choice bro, which really only ends when you bite the bullet. Fuck, ask him about it, he probably has a better idea of "etiquette" for this sort of thing, and it will give you an idea of what he wants.
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Don't blow him right away, then, lol.
Give him something to chase, and that buys both of you more time (meaning additional dates) to find out if there's more to you (plural) than just a pump and dump.
So yesterday i found a really really good porno and diddled myself. It didn't seem particularly rough and everything was fine that night but the next morning i woke up with a big bump on the side of my dick and now it's leaning slightly to the left. The weird part is that it doesn't hurt or anything.
What's going on? Did i break it? Should i see a doctor? Will it get better?
I really hate bent dicks and i had such a cute femdick until now. What should i do?
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Is there a hair coming out of it? Might be an ingrown hair. I've gotten those on my crotch twice and I freaked out both times but I just pulled the hair out and popped it, nothing since.
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>>17590731
No it's on my shaft where hair doesn't grow. The lump is about the size of a grape.
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Shit happens OP, try using your other hand to balance it out. It's basically just a callous, like the kind you get on your hands after doing a lot of shoveling or something. On the bright side, now your cock is girthier.
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Thinking of girl with new guys making me sick 2016-09-21 04:52:01 Post No.17590688
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Thinking of girl with new guys making me sick
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>started seeing girl over the summer
>we have a lot of sex
>college starts
>she stops meeting up with me
>but keeps texting me saying "I miss you and we should hang out"
>also texted me saying "we should fuck again, I haven't gotten laid in a really long time"
>she never actually wants to hang out
>come to the conclusion that she is probably getting fucked all the time by new guys
>can't get images out of my head of faceless dudes plowing her while she moans
>starting to interfere with my college/work
I know it was just a summer fling, but I had a lot of feelings for her. She was the first girl I have really liked since high school (6 years ago). Thinking of her with other dudes is seriously making me sick. How do I stop caring? Should I stop returning her texts? Why does she keep texting me?
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>>17590688
Take it for what it is: she only sees you as a fuck buddy.
And yes, she possibly has fucked a guy or two while away from you.
If you can accept that type of relationship, then fuck her until you meet a girl worth dating. Or jyst move on and delete her number.
Either way, don't pursue anything serious with her.
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>>17590712
Well I have asked her to hang out like three times since college started, and she either says she's busy or flakes out.
She keeps saying she wants to fuck again and sends all of these flirty texts, but I kinda wonder if she has no intentions of ever sleeping with me again, but just texts me to get attention/validation. Like I've been demoted from fuckbuddy to being used for text messages.
Ego is bruised
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>>17590718
Delete her number bro. Don't get hung up over some chick. You're clearly capable of getting a girl. Drop her and find yourself a better one
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/adv/ I need help.
I have been estranged from my father since I was two, I haven't spoken to him since and I have no memories of him.
I recently turned 18 and my mother asked for my inheritance (>10k).
He sent a letter saying he would like to give me the money face to face and that he wants contact information so that we could schedule time and place.
I have two options, meet him and get the money or get a lawyer to force him to hand the money over.
On one hand I don't want to see him, on the other I want to see him and maybe see if he has a heart, on my third hand I want to meet him just to insult him to his face, calling him a piece of shit and that I would spit on his grave (not really a final draft, but you get the idea).
My friend (who was in similar situation) wants me to meet him just so I could insult him.
Thoughts?
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>inheritance
You don't have a right to an inheritance if the person is still alive
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>>17590684
you fucking monkey he is the beneficiary of inheritance I am owed from someone who has died. Come on...
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>>17590696
That's not how wills and succession work, buddy. If you were entitled to the money, YOU'D be the beneficiary
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I want to report a rape. I'm afraid the guy is gonna kill me. 2016-09-21 04:47:44 Post No.17590674
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I want to report a rape. I'm afraid the guy is gonna kill me.
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nobody knows except a legal aid I've been talking to who wants me to start the process.
The guy is hyper and narcissistic and I'm afraid he'll do something from public shaming (she has done x y z) to actually getting someone to attack me. He knows a lot of people.
I'm not lying. I'm shitting bricks I'm so nervous, but I'm angry and I don't want him to get away with it.
Tell me what to do guys. Should I just let it go?
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Report and hide in police station.
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Report it to the police.
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Yeah but he's probably gonna talk shit about me and I don't want my name out there on social media. Or he'll literally find me and fuck me up or get someone else to.
This can't end well.
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what /adv/ think about kidnapping a qt?
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Kazakstyle.
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>>17590671
the trick is to induce Stockholm syndrome and bond with her deeply, also don't forget to feed her, let her for poop and bath her
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>>17590671
Sounds great. Pick one up for me too, while you're at it.
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My best bro and a girl we know are in a discreet relationship (because of work) and they have yet to make it "official". In fact right now they're trying hard to make their thing a secret to our social circle. However, when me and her are alone or in a group (when her guy isn't around), she'll flirt with me like "anon is such a stud" and "our kids would be super cute!" while cuddling and being touchyfeely with me while I pretend to hate it or just ignore her
It's weird how she'll be this way around everyone at work but then she'll stop when my friend shows up. She'll just act friendly or indifferent towards him and will draw the line at flirting with him or even touching him. The most I've ever seen them do was hold hands once
To make it more weird, the guy is my really good friend and he refuses to be straight with me about it. We share everything with each other; hopes, dreams, all that gay shit. But for some reason he gets uncomfortable about the subject of this girl. When I confronted him about it, our other friends were like "Wait, you never told Anon about you and Jennifer? Haha I thought you were best friends!"
What is going on here?
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Have you told your friend what she's doing when he's not around?
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>>17590675
No. No point in hurting his feelings
Me and him are still super tight and if he was jealous about something then I have yet to sense any hostility from him. And he's the type of guy that has attachment issues and gets jealous easily
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you've already fallen in their trap. some couples like to wrap you in the petty dynamics of their relationships. for some reason, these types of people need whoever's around them to feel the fluctuations of their bullshit. normally they're cool people on their own, but when confronted with dick/pussy they sabotage their own personal relationships.
how do you fix this? you remove yourself from it. not caring about the dynamics of two other's people relationship is the healthy thing to do. why should two people fucking effect your life personally. it shouldn't.
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What the fuck is wrong with every fucker in the world. At what point did it become okay and the norm to cheat and lie. When did it become alright to pass on your morals. Not to mention the stupidity of most people, seriously when did some falsified value placed on our numeric system become more important that the health of your fellow humans. When did it become the norm to practice the destruction of will power. Who the fuck took my good given right as native lifeform of this planter to travel freely. At what point did ensuring the few don't do the wrong thing mean all must suffer?
How the fuck does anyone deal with this? I feel like a slave, you are not free, your free to choose how you serve your sentence. You arenlitterallu freer in jail. No taxes, the square meals a day, don't have to worry about not having a bed or roof over your head, and all the free time in the world and no imposed responsibities that have nothing to do with you your community or anything that will effect you or anything around you.
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>I hate the world reeeeeeeeeeeeeee. Look at how insightful I am
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>>17590663
Calm your tits down OP, it has always been like this. Man the fuck up and do what you believe is right despite the rest of the world being shitty.
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>>17590663
lol OP believes that the world was fair and moral at some point
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>get asked out
>agree because I figure no one else would ever like me
>half a week later an 11/10 who I fell for completely admits she likes me
What do
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then pursue the 11/10?
going out on a date != being in a relationship
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>>17590656
Oh, should have clarified that it was for a relationship
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>>17590683
Wait til she finds out you post on a Japanese-style message board. It ruined my previous relationship. :(
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What does getting this tattoo say about a girl? Can I trust her not to cheat?
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whore
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Was this photo shot in a mirror, or was the camera pointed straight at the tattoo?
Strange as it may sound, this could be important. "Take these broken wings and learn to fly" is clearly a message, but for whom is it intended?
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She's fatter than she's letting on. The gut suck is obvious
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/adv/,
My gf of 5 years or so and now common law partner of about 1.5 years is starting to wear me down.
I am not sure if it's depression, anxiety, SAD, or what ever, but she can never be happy.
When we first started dating, it was her lack of 'real' friends, and missing her home country, then it was general university stuff, then it was moving out, then it was a decent job or lack thereof of, and now it's her complaining about said job and she doesn't go out anymore. There's always something.
Now, those are only the major issues, there's so many more. But she's always in a perpetual mood of being negative. And it's starting to really get to me. I try my hardest to keep positive, but I get shot down, and I have to walk on egg shells when I open my mouth.
Today I made a comment about how we work really hard for our life style. And other people have it far worse than us. And she got all moody saying that's not what you tell someone with depression. She twisted my words to fit her negative thoughts.
I'm not sure what to do anymore. Her attitude just sucks. And yes, I've tried getting her out of the house, supporting her hobbies and shit, but she goes back to the mind set that life sucks for some reason. She's toxic to herself and others.
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>>17590600
ur the toxic one, she cant enjoy her hobbies and ur not helping her, shes sad and you tell her people have it worse. sounds like you ARENT supportive. showing her the way and guiding her are two separate things
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What do you want us to tell you? You're clearly not happy in this relationship and probably won't ever be, so break up
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>>17590600
She said she is depressed, either she gets help, or just dump her. People who are all depressed just drag other people down and there is literally nothing you can do to help them.
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<Trying to get in a relationship is a waste of time, learn to be alone
>Never being in a relationship is creepy, get laid and have a girl/boyfriend
Which is it you fucking normies
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A good relationship is better than being alone.
Being alone is better than a bad relationship.
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and constantly failing to be in a relationship?
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>>17590590
"Trying to get in a relationship" us a waste of time because it is counterproductive. The greater the efforts you make, the more those very same efforts will push women away from you. That's part of why learning to be alone is important. It makes the "need" for relationships far less urgent, which will help you scale back your efforts.
There is another reason to learn to be alone. Almost invariably, the /lonely/ folks on these boards treat rejection as though it is (or would be) the end of the world. But this reaction is also creepy, because people act funny when they get desperate, and no one wants to be a potebtial target of that. Learning to be alone means, in part, recognizing that even though rejection stings, it is survivable, and learning to take it in stride. This is what "confidence" really is: not so much "she'll say yes" as "even if she says no, I'll be okay". This is what women want to see in a man who approaches them, because it means he's far less liable to turn psycho on her if she says no (or worse, if she says yes). It is the very essence of not being creepy. And it is completely compatible wiith OP's two statements.
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girls lose interest as soon as I talk to them 2016-09-21 04:12:24 Post No.17590585
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girls lose interest as soon as I talk to them
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I can easily make girls extremely attracted to me by keeping a distance and I am extremely good at texting to the point that ive been on a crazy amount of dates with super hot girls
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as soon as I open my fucking mouth and talk about something other than hey whats your number or a response to a girls compliments its over
I have aspergers but I know what is and what isnt attractive
I know that what I say isnt necessarily wrong but its always too much and forced feeling because im forcing myself to say something more than "yup" because otherwise its always awkward silence
sometimes ill even stutter like jimmy two shoes and it feels like the words I say arent coming from my head but from my mouth like a endless line of verbal garbage because im just saying things for the sake of saying something
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Im not trying to be rude but you hit the lottery and got a bad card, because 95% of women do not want a man with aspergers, that being said, there is still a large number of the female population that will love you and want to fuck you for who you are, so keep on lookin tiger!
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bump i guess
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>>17590585
I dont think you should force yourself to continue conversation after a yep.
The more you say, the more of a chance to look like a fool. Instead of having the frame that you're trying to keep their attentiom, switch it around to where they have to work to keep your attention, my friend.
I used to have this fucking problem too. My first relations would last just a few months. The more i learn from my mistakes, the longer my relationships last. Just my most previous relationship, i was the one to dump my girlfriend for the first time. I didnt want to, but her sister was toxic as fuck. Before that, i was the one who always got dumped. In another relationship though, I'm gonna settle down since this girl is a 23 year old virgin and her sister is nice.
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20 yo here. Is life really that bad after 25?
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How am I supposed to answer this question, bad compared to what and for what reasons?
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Is it less enjoyable
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Should I put effort in a life I will enjoy momentarily until I hit the point of questioning why I'm doing it or should I end my life now since I can't enjoy it anyway?
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Alright so due to mostly self-imposed circumstances, I didn't receive any Financial Aid for this school year, which so happens to be the first year that I'm attending an actual school since I'm freshly transferring out of a community college. As it stands I estimate a year's worth of tuition (and parking and textbooks) would cost me roughly $7600-7800 per year (~2550/quarter). I work a part time retail job that makes a little over minimum wage (calicuck if that makes a difference) that I'm quite fond of, though I'd guess I make something along the lines of maybe 10-12k per year after taxes at most. Would it be feasible for me to be able to pay my tuition basically on my own?
At best my family would be able to take care of ~$2k from this cumulatively but they tell me I should just take out a loan so that I don't have to use my money on this. I really don't want to take out a loan since the idea of repaying that for 15 years is appalling to me. Apart from that, my work and school is somewhat far and my car isn't the most fuel efficient so gas is a regular purchase for me. With that in mind, with my finances is it possible to go about paying this year without taking out a loan?
I have secondary sources of income but at best they'd get me another $2000 spread very unevenly though. I'm also sitting on about $2000 right now, considering I just paid 1/3 of my first quarter ($782) and a parking permit ($130). Since I'll be working less hours due to school, my paychecks will probably fall around $270-400 each time so I feel like I'd be essentially pouring all my money onto my tuition.
Is my idea of paying for most of my schooling a realistic one?
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Haven't read it properly, but I'm getting a 'I need money for school, what do I do' vibe. You need to take time off, work and save up.
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Take out loans
This is the only correct answer, assuming you're studying something worthwhile like CS
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No, you're being stupid. You're not making enough money to pay for school. First of all, please tell me you're studying something worthwhile. If so then you'll make enough money after school so that student loans won't be a huge issue. If you're studying something stupid then just stop altogether. You're gonna have to save literally everything you make and spend basically nothing and still barely make it.