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A guy is getting picked on on my bus by three bullies (bullying in 2016 still exists lol) and he doesn't plan on doing anything, but i want to confront these guys and tell them to stop.
Now, i'm pretty confident in my fighting abilities and i have boxed for around a year and even had matches, but 3vs1 is still 3vs1.
Is there a way to make them stop without resorting to violence?
I will fight if i have to and i'm not scared of them, we're about the same height so no david vs goloath.
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How do you know the guy and the 3 guys will be on the bus the next time?
Confronting random people is a bad idea especially if they outnumber you. They be carrying hidden weapons that you have no idea about.
Boxing in a gym with an opponent on a flat non moving floor versus a moving floor and having 3 people from different angles coming at you are completely different. One punch from your blind spot could stumble you and you would be gone. Who knows what they would do after.
I suggest you not interfere.
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>>17591814
simple really. Download the anarchist cookbook and make a bomb or zip gun or some shit and go to town. Is it legal? no. are you gonna get jail time? probably. you could also be a normal person and find a way to blackmail them. and considering that people already put a fuckton of personal information out there already I'm sure it wouldnt be too difficult.
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>>17591819
They are students like me, that's why i know they'll be on the bus.
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Hi /adv,
I am a 1st year college student living in a shared apartment abroad. I got 2 big luggages and a small 1, all fully packed. I only bought toiletries, furniture and food here, besides a bicycle and technology necessary for school.
I am planning on moving after my second year and I want to avoid accumulating stuff. I'll sell my furniture and would leave toiletries behind if there is any, I don't plan on buying new clothes (brought almost all of mine for all 4 seasons) unless I get rid of something of the same category/weight/size. I actively follow frugal and minimalist (not the pretentious hipster kind) blogs and I am curious what others have did that they want to share.
As for me:
>cook for myself
>have a budget
>sleep in layers of clothing
>use extra towels as blankets
>build drawers from cardboard boxes
>take free food/toiletry samples
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What advice are you looking for?
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>>17591773
>>sleep in layers of clothing
>>use extra towels as blankets
why? how pricey are blankets where you are?
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>>17591811
I just don't want to buy extra shit. I would want to bring it with myself if I moved. But I don't want to not bring the things I already have. Weight of luggages would be an issue; most were on the verge of being too heavy for planes. Plus I already own a thin blanket and if it gets cold at night I just throw on the towel I don't use at the time and some clean jackets or a coat.
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I'm just going to get into it.
I have a tiny penis (4" erect, about 2" flaccid). I was a virgin until 2 months ago because of this. A nice girl essentially came along and convinced me it didn't matter. In the end, we couldn't stay together (she moved away). I overheard her talking to her friend about how small my dick was and I had an emotional fit. This was the only girl I've ever loved.
I only made her cum when fingering her or eating her out. Penetrative sex was entirely for me, she didn't seem to get any real enjoyment out of it. I'm afraid that I'll essentially never be good enough, no matter how good at fingering or cunnilignus I get I'll always be completely inferior. Please don't tell me sex doesn't matter. It does.
TL;DR I have depression. I have a small dick. I'm 19. It won't grow. I'm suicidal.
I'm currently caught between suicide and a life of shame. Just make me pick a side, I don't care which you choose.
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Life of shame I guess. At least you have your limbs, a functioning brain and no diseases. Be greatful for that.
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>>17591764
I shouldn't be grateful that my life isn't shit. The "it could always be worse" argument is the worst thing. I suppose I could have it worse but it's bad enough already.
Fuck I'm sorry. I'm just really torn about this. I want to fucking die.
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>>17591770
I am not going to cuddle you because I simply don't have the care for it. If you really want to kill yourself because your penis is small than average then go for it but I gotta say that is the dumbest thing I ever read about on here about killing yourself about.
Anyway, keep it clean and rip.
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Am in love with this girl, but things are getting to my head.
> Friday meet for breakfast, she is so happy being with me
> Saturday meet for a dinner date, she starts wearing jeans just for me.
> At the end, she returns my feelings by telling me she loves me.
> feelsgoodman.jpeg
Now she has work (teacher) and she is really busy and worse when she finishes she likes to go to the gym. and I told her i want us to see each other more often and get close. but she wants two weeks away from "us" to go back to her routine (Teaching and gym) which I disrupted
I cant wait two weeks and I am angry and feel played with. I love her company and she does too. should i just bite the bullet and be patient? I want to flip on her tonight. I dont know. please help!
she is my first GF, so no experience and I dont know what to do. I really care for her. how should I approach this situation?
Pic related last night.
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Hands down the most cringiest text message I ever read on this god forsaken place. Jesus. You two text like 13 year olds.
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>>17591759
I worried about this.
I know, I though I would play hard to get. but i wanted to be genuine. perhaps that was a wrong decision. sucks having no prior experience with this situation
any advice on how I can improve this?
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>>17591767
Well I am going to be honest. I have had a quite a few girlfriend and never in all my time have I ever heard them say they need two weeks off from "us". Sounds like a break to me and breaks are never good. Hell I worked two jobs during college and my ex still would see every day when she had time.
Don't flip. Sit her down and tell her that this is unacceptable behaviour and that you will not wait 2 weeks. Explain to her that adults have to rearrange their schedule constantly inorder to pencil in important things. You are important and you will not be pushed to the side for 14 days. Respect is a two way street and that if she doesn't respect you then you will take a break as well from her.
Why should you be the one who has deal with this when you love her so much. No. It doesn't work like that. This needs to be nipped in the ass now but don't yell, keep it calm.
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My long term girlfriend and I have technically broke up. It's a break. I've been in such turmoil. She said we can try again in a few weeks maybe.
I know the standard advice here is to just break up. But I want to do this right and become a better person for her. I want to rekindle our old relationship when shes had time to think and some space. What can I do in the mean time? I'm going to do lots of self improvement, work out again, work on self esteem, some medical issues and learn more about everything, and especially how to work on the issues we had in our relationship. She still wants to talk to me and stuff.
How do I make this work?
She just said she didn't have the same feelings anymore. But she seems hesitant and kind of unsure.
What can I do /adv/. This relationship honestly and genuinely means to world to me. I'm sure I'm not the first to say that, especially here but can you still please just help me out?
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If a girl tells you she doesn't have the same feelings anymore, no amount of self improvement can fix that.
I am just being honest I don't want to get your hopes up like other anons will.
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>>17592077
I don't know. She said there was a chance. She just needs space and time and stuff. I really don't want to give up until I try everything
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>>17592092
Space is never good. Think about it, how does getting away from someone make them more desirable? A little seperation here and there but space is talking about significant amount of time before she is ready to come back to you. Does that sound like a healthy relationship to you?
Also why are you doing all the work? Busting your ass in the gym, working on your self esteem and putting in work while she does nothing but take time off from the relationship. Does that sound like a fair relationship to you? Where one person does all the work and the other person is aimlessly taking a break.
I'm finding it impossible to make friends at college.
My anxiety prevented me from making close friends last year, and there's a group I sit with during class but it's as if words just vanish from my mouth whenever they start talking. I just can't bring myself to chime in because I think I'll look foolish, that they will judge me. Yesterday one of them brought up a favorite TV show of mine but I couldn't say a thing. My anxiety about all of this got so bad that I left after that class.
How do I muster up the courage to speak? I'm taking medication for social anxiety but it doesn't seem to be helping when it comes to actually speaking to people.
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You don't. Focus on your studies and be the cool loner that girls will crave from afar. Of course not talking to them won't get you no pussy but being cool in your head is much better than actual socialization.
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>>17591709
Youre deeply insecure nigga, you need to think deep and find why youre so insecure.
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>>17591709
desu i used to have groups like that. its because you feel ugly or its because theyre super rude and they only talk to you because they pity you. if i were you, i'd just look for nicer people. its not impossible but theres not many. just today i asked a girl i sit next to to exchange phone numbers and it worked out fine. i can tell you shes sure as hell nicer than my bff.
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Bullied relentlessly in high school going to ten year reunion this Saturday. Was used by them for my athletic ability and nothing more I am a international level runner for distance events. They would treat me like shit and then pressure me to represent the school in events. Only did it cause the Chads hated the fact little worthless me was able to destroy them with fractured weight bearing bones (yes I have competed with fractures).
Go to TAFE and then uni thinking things will improve maybe I'll get a GF and a career if I work hard. Nope while at uni struggle massively with depression and anxiety all by you guessed it the constant bullying i have had multiple shrink said highschool was the root. Continue to be rejected by women because of my height of 5'3'', eventually find r9k and pol while at TAFE/UNI and it wakens me to the true nature of western women.
After uni I managed to get a year long contract at a company doing web dev/graphic design and marketing assistant type work. Mining boom goes to shit fuck all jobs go to study a marketing postgrad, at the suggest of my former coordinator. Get a 85 average work wise only manage to find short term contract jobs like 4 months, 3 months after getting nothing for ten months during this time take up Filipino martial arts find out I have a talent for it keep doing it. Graduate manage to get a job with a digital marketing firm doing SEO/SEM and account management, was there for 8 months. Company died because of the fuck ups of the two women I replaced and offshored Flips.
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Been unemployed for 6 months can't find shit retail/ professional nothing. The people who bullied me got to have success with women, got jobs due to being Chad and benefiting from their parents connections. Never had a GF, never have had a woman show any interest in me, my own mother said I deserve to die alone and still acts like a victim because I have depression. If any of the Chads try anything is it wrong that I'm thinking of hurting them badly if they try to physical threaten me or mock me? I'm fucked aren't I I'm too old to ahve my life improve and have any meaning in it.
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>pol
Stopped reading there. Kill yourself via hanging, dead serious.
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>>17591644
>I'm fucked aren't ?I I'm too old to have my life improve and have any meaning in it
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Is it possible to be a regular weed user without it effecting your motivation?
I find that since I started using my already low motivation has gotten worse. Yet i know many regular users that are extremely motivated and live life to the fullest.
Are some people just UNABLE to live productive lifestyles while regularly using. Or do I simply need to find ways to work on my attitudes in regards to work.
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>>17591620
Smoke more sativa.
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>>17591620
>Is it possible to be a regular weed user without it effecting your motivation?
Yes, but I think it depends largely on your personality.
>Are some people just UNABLE to live productive lifestyles while regularly using. Or do I simply need to find ways to work on my attitudes in regards to work.
I don't think it's impossible for anyone to use any substances moderately.
What it really boils down to is, how much do you like smoking, and how often are you able to comfortably fuck off without screwing yourself over in the long run. Like most things, smoking just needs to be done moderately, whether moderate use for you is smoking 10 grams a day or just having a puff before bed every couple nights.
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>>17591795
I've always been a pretty lazy guy desu.
Anyways on simply working on that then?
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met a girl a few years back. she is amazing but super chinese culturally. We had a good friendship and feeling for eachother. didn't go further due to said chineseness, aside from a deep kiss at the airport when she had to go back to china.
one year later im in a long term relationship with another girl. chinese girl returns to italy but she got married to who her father chose. we work together, both in managerial job, many late nights and alone together.
she admit she still loves me and to be honest i to her too. but now we have seperate lives.
i can't leave the job but we are together 6 days a week and i already endured one year like this. We didn't cheat but sometimes a close call.
what do?
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self bump
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You. Do. Nothing.
I repeat. You. Do. Nothing.
Talk to her normally but keep professional. Girl is married now and so don't even think about fucking up your career for this chick.
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Do what you want and ruin everything
What is the best way to convince a girl to get an abortion?
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Tell her you will not be part of her or the baby's life. then ask her to go to adv and ask a question, posing as a guy wanting to date a single mom. Tell that's how guys think about girls with a baby out of wedlock and wirhout being able to keep the dad around. Tell her she will be doomed to settle for subhuman idiots that can't get their dick wet otherwise and even those just want to jump and dump. Or show her that comment, because it's coming from a dumb girl that DIDN'T get an abortion and is now a single mom
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>>17591549
Be a nigger.
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>>17591549
What is the best way to steal a baby and kill it without ending up in jail?
Let the baby be born. Maybe it's the next Einstein.
But if you notice any obnoxious autistic behaviour then end it before you grow too attached to it.
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Fight with boyfriend over cellulite
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Pic related. Cellulite side is similar to mine, but mine's smaller and has more dimples.
Tl;dr:
>INFP gf (me)
>ISTP bf 20 years older than me
>we've been fighting lately
>never had sex with each other
>2 days ago he agreed to be more kind/understanding when I'm upset
>bf says my butt is perfect
>but he says he doesn't want to see unflattering pic that shows cellulite
>I'm honest about feelings being hurt
>he is mad, tells me to drop it, calls me "cellulite ass"
>nothing gets resolved, he asks for the cellulite pic
>calls me disrespectful for sending it
>I call him an ass
>wtf do I do?
>should I get off the roller coaster?
>can I fix it?
Lately my boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot because I'm INFP and he's ISTP, so I'm really sensitive and he can be very insensitive. He's also 20 years older than me.
Last night we were texting and I told him how I was self conscious of my butt. We haven't had sex yet (I want to wait until we are in love, I know it's cheesy), so he hasn't seen it in person, but he's seen pics of it. He said it's perfect, so I ask if he would still love it if it had cellulite. I know my cellulite is genetic, there's very little I can do about it especially since my butt is already very small.
He said yes, so when I asked to send a pic he said "No thanks." I told him that makes me even more self conscious, and he got hostile, so I went to sleep.
When I woke up, I was very honest and told him it feels like he thinks cellulite is disgusting and he won't like it anymore if I show him. He pointed out "You've got some self destructive tendencies" which was really a hit below the belt and made me cry.
(I have a lot of issues from things that happened to me in the past, and just yesterday I was talking to him about how I might have a mental disorder, one of the huge symptoms is self destructive behavior, which I have under control for the most part)
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>>INFP gf (me)
kek, I see you have long left your sanity behind. I havent read the rest but I know that this is gonna be hilarious
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>>17591544
So we had a long argument about how he just doesn't want to see and I'm doing permanent damage and I'm now "cellulite ass" (which feels like a little boy teasing me) and how "your ass=cellulite, you=cellulite", which really hurt my feelings. He kept saying to drop it, but I know if I hide how I feel I'm going to resent him even more. I wanted to solve this issue.
Then when he told me to send the cellulite-y pic for the third time (the first he said "Just kidding. Don't really" and the second time I didn't), he said "You need to think about how disrespectful it was to keep this whole thing up and press the issue until you actually sent me that pic that I blatantly told you I didn't want to see. And think about if you'll be able to trust me to know what's best sometimes, for you but especially knowing my own mind. This whole thing is destructive." Then I said "Maybe you need a more submissive girlfriend" and I called him an ass. (Which I know I shouldn't have, 2 wrongs don't make a right, but I was done)
Just the day before yesterday we had a talk for a few hours about how if I'm upset about something he said, he'll try to be more empathetic, sympathetic, and sensitive to how I feel. Then this happens.
What the fuck do I do? I care about him so much, but things are like black and white. When things are good, it's the best relationship I've ever had, when they're bad, they're some of the worst fights I've ever had in a relationship. This relationship feels like a roller coaster, and I want to "fix" it, but I don't know how.
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How old are you? How lpng have you been dating?
Seriously, you should first try to fix yourself atleast a little bit. Then find a guy that isn't a blinking pile of red flags. As for now, drop contact and focus on getting your shit together
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>don't see a future with current gf
>don't wanna break up with her and hurt her feelings
how can I make it so that she breaks up with me? Without having to act like an annoying douchebag...
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>>17591472
"It's over."
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Fuck that. You know how long it will take to make that happen?
Just say it is over and that you want to find a more compatible girlfriend. The longer you stretch this out the closer to Christmas and we all know suicide is prevalent past that time of the year. Do it now when the whether it is still nice and you can go out without having to wear a jacket.
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>>17591472
>How can I break up without the grief of a breakup
This is obviously impossible or literally everyone would do it.
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>Work min wage dead end job. pic related
>Live with my mom because neither of us can afford being alone
>After rent and bills I have about $150 a month for food
>No car
>Live in one of the poorest cities in the US
>If I got a degree at the local community college i would have to look for jobs hours away from here
>can't do that because I don't have a car and absolutely no money saved up to just up and move anywhere
How do I get out of this situation
I feel like I'm stuck and my life is ruined
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>>17591449
Use the Internet to outsource yourself
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>>17591449
either get out of the city
or get a degree and see if you can get a higher paying job closer to your area.
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>>17591449
look for a job at a hospital. or at a university. some have kitchens, or decently paid custodial/warehouse staff. try to reduce your bills. eventually move, get more education. maybe a mechanic would be willing to train you.
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Cutting a real long story short 5 years ago I got with a girl she lied about pretty much her entire life, i thought i found most out after the first year, just at the begging of this year i found out a lot more, she twisted things and hid things away.
I mean really, these are things about her past, id like if she never had to lie about them but she does, now having a weird past is fine, but its not when these things pop up and i realize a elaborate lie shes spun me which is what bugs me, you can lie about your past because the past no longer matters, but if i find out its a lie then that is what bugs me.
Getting to the point i have fun with her id love to say i love her but i hate her a lot, she wants to make it up to me and be with me yet i have 0 trust for her in anything, i wont even ask her to do anything because i fear she will fuck it up some how.
We live with eachother and have nowhere else to go, rent is split and needs the both of us to afford it.
tl;dr
Stuck with girl i like and would be happy to stay with but the damage she did in the past keeps fucking with me and my feelings, i cant leave her so got to deal with it, how do i deal with being with someone i do not trust, hate, and cant forgive? desu when im not in one of those moods im happy with her and enjoy her company.
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>>17591447
What did she do?
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>>17591452
Like she never cheated as far as i know, the only thing she literally did whilst with me is watch porn, i found out because i saw stuff on her phone, she denied, a lot, then said like once, then twice, then a couple of times, then it was only watching blablabla, then i wouldnt even play with myself over it, then finally she just told me when i was not having any of it.
Its these sort of annoyng lies that bug me, its like im cool with it, you already knew i watched it, just fucking tell me dude.
I wont get into the other lies about her past because thats long, but she pretty much twists it and makes it extremely long and hard to get the full story out in the end which makes it fucking awkward and annoying. I am a straight to the point sort of person so her bullshit fucks me off to no end.
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>>17591447
You are a woman.
Should I even try to like older women?
I'm almost 25 I don't feel particularly attracted to women of my age or slightly older.
It seems women reach their best at the age of 19-21 and everything goes downhill for them from there.
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You either hang out with shitty people or are a relationshipless virgin. Or both.
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>>17591435
t. old woman
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>>17591435
Or he's a perfectly normal male.
OP, women don't get better as they get older. They are in their prime late teens- prime ends during the early 20s. What you're experiencing is normal. Just gonna have to deal with it, make sure to get a girl that's a few years younger than you - that's the natural order of things.