>>17576408
He blocked me on whatsapp. I didn't even send him any pictures, I just said I'm sorry. (for getting mad at him being with a new girl).
Someone tell me what to do so that he'll remember me forever.
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pic related is a clone of his new girl. (white girl who tries hard to look middle eastern like him)
I'm gutted.
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>>17589013
Nobody cares, especially this guy you're lusting after. Move on and piss off you vapid cunt.
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>>17589013
>white girl who tries hard to look middle eastern like him
how about a pic of yourself kek
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Alright, so I recently got engaged and knew exactly who my maid of honor would be. We have been best friends since 2010 and even though we wouldn't see each other as often anymore, it was still unspoken that no one could replace each other. When we would see each other again, it was like no time had passed.
That changed when she started dating this guy. He was aggressive from the start towards me, would try to get me to have threesomes with them(even though I was dating current fiance) and then my friend would get upset with him for showing interest, he would project that on me and that it was my fault she was upset, etc etc. An absolute mess. They got married last year after she became pregnant and since then she has been completely focused on baby and husband. Nothing wrong with that! Makes perfect sense! What doesn't is that her husband tries to make us all hang out against her will(She has a new baby and it is hard to get out). When we do go out together, the night always ends with her crying and him sending me horrible and hateful messages about he loathes my existence. I do not understand. I do not know what to do. She comes to me with her marital problems, and even if i just sit and agree that her unhappiness is not unfounded, he lashes out on me.
He does these power plays where he shows me pictures of her naked and comments on how hot she is, he sends me rude messages and inappropriate things, and so on.
Through all this he still wants us all to hang out and subsequently, my fiance and I literally come up with talking points and "red zones" before we go out so there is not a blow up.
I do not know why I put up with it anymore. Through all this I still act like nothing is wrong when we see each other and tolerate his power play type shit.
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Continued>>>
Most recently he sent me a message saying my fiance shouldn't come dress shopping with us(fucking duh, who does that) and when I responded saying "obviously" to him, he lost his shit and sent me this big long rant about his absolute disgust and hatred for me(again) and this time calls me a bitch. At this point my fiance has had it and texts him himself.
The next day I pretended nothing happened, we went dress shopping, and we still have never spoken of it.
How the fuck do I proceed? They are both so delusional that I cannot even have a conversation with them about how he acts. We do not want him at the wedding and I am questioning if she can even be there given how he feels about me. I hate that it has come to this. Even his former friends(they both turned into hermits when they started dating) agree that this is out of control.
Help please. Thanks guys. I just need another perspective
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Have you shown your friend these texts? Does you friend care/know that their fiancé is treating you like this. If so, cut contact; there is no winning move with this. Otherwise show her explain and explain how he belittles her just to make you upset Etc
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>>17588983
After the last rant she sent me an 11 page message apologizing for him because he was drunk. She knows how he acts, but treats it as situational. For example, she apologized for him saying he misunderstood and though my fiance was coming wedding dress shopping. Not for the fact that he just insulted every part of my being and then told ME not to take it out on her(like messaging her and getting upset for his behavior, claiming I'm too childish to not punish her?? I don't know).
It really makes no sense
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I have an appointment with my first psychologist Monday, I'm debating calling and cancelling... Has anyone seen a psychologist and can tell me if it's worth the $120 a session?
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$120 is too much, at least where I live.
But if you have issues and the psychologist knows his shit then yeah, it's worth it. Thing is, many psychologists don't know their shit. Some of them give the same cliche advice you'd receive here. Still, if you're struggling with something you should give it a try, a few hundred bucks aren't a big deal in the long run.
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>>17588926
It's worth it if you're actually going to take their advice and put the work in. They aren't going to give you a magic solution to your problems. They're going to give you tools you can use to get shit done by yourself. If you're on the fence about going, are you going to be able to commit to the program?
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>>17588926
buy an escort with that money, learn how to fuck and then sorround yourself with slutty bitches, that should clear your mental disorder
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I feel like my life is falling apart. I graduated from college in May. I'm not getting jobs in my degree field so I've been applying for whatever I can get. I have a tutoring job right now but I'm not making much money from it. I've been applying for jobs at the mall and what not. I went yesterday to follow up on my applications and they all said they would call me this week. No promise for an actual job. I tell my mom this and then at home I hear her telling my grandfather "She probably sabotages herself just so that she doesn't have to work retail" and then suggests that I pick the worst answers for those scenario questions they ask on the retail job applications. I tell her that it's not true. I don't do this at all. She doesn't believe me and she talks shit about me and tells me what a screw up I am.
In July, a guy I was romantically interested in got fed up with me asking him to go to the art museum and just went on this long rant directed towards me about how much he hates me and he ranted about how shitty feminism is. And like it's just awful having two people you were close to talking so much shit about you.
I just feel so stressed out. I can barely sleep, I have throbbing headaches, and I just feel so sad all the time. I don't really have any friends in Houston to hang out with and all my friends live out of town or state. It gets so lonely.
I just really want a job right now so that I can save up money and move to California. I know it's such an impossible dream but I would love to have a chance to audition for a part in the DC comics movie. I love the character Huntress. It's so impossible but it's all I have going for me right now. I just think about that to make myself feel better. On Friday my sister and I will plan what to shoot for a demo reel to send to an acting agency.
I just want some good luck. I just want things to get better. But it seems like no matter what I do, everything just falls apart. Any idea how I can get through?
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>>17588924
>feminism
Shouldnt if majored in woman studies dipshit
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>>17588924
Everything will get better. Don't worry about other people. Fuck that guy for blowing up on you, find someone better. Can you talk to your family about all of this stress?
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What was your degree field? There are a lot of customer service jobs opening up, especially online for the holiday season. Don't worry about that guy. Don't worry about relationships at all right now, honestly.
Just being realistic, you will seriously probably not have a chance at that role unless you have a buddy working on that movie. They hire big time names to bring in crowds. If you don't already have a long list of accomplishments then just concentrate on getting a job and moving out. Plus if you already feel this shitty about your mom and grandpa and this random guy talking about you, you're not going to like it when people shit on you for not being the perfect Huntress.
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A friend of mine believes he is dying. He had a friend that just died from cancer and now he thinks the same is gonna happen to him. please I need advice on what to say to my friend. He is frantic and some times he wont stop crying in front of me. I am so worried at this point.
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Tell him that he isn't sick, he's ok, and that even though his friend got cancer, doesn't mean he's going to get it because it's not contagious. If this doesn't work, consider bringing him to therapy
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after that he will say he is still dying. anything else I could say to him.
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Please help this is way to complicated for me and my friend is seriously in need of help.
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I've been having a lot of stomach problems and head fuzziness for this year. I burp constantly and have trouble breathing at times. My stomach makes weird noises and is tight. I went to the ER and they told me everything is fine.
I think something has gone wrong with my brain (chemical imbalance) and has to do with anxiety. I hate my life and where I live and the people I live with. I've never been this sick before and I really been hating my life this year ever since my mom put me into debt. I never had a history of anxiety before but I think that has changed now. Please any advice or help anyone?
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>>17588817
I also don't feel anxious but I feel very angry almost ready to explode but hold it in whenever something bad happens.
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My anxiety started in this way too. I've just recently conquered it (aside from while I'm driving). How old are you? What are your diet/eating habits like? Any other symptoms?
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>>17588834
19 average slim body. I usually eat clean but I do eat when I'm stressed lately I've lost my appetite because of the burping.
Hey guys.
I rent out a townhouse and fell through my rear deck's flooring last night. I didn't really suffer any injury, just a scraped elbow. How should I go about possibly milking this situation? I've spoken to the property manager and he's aware that I didn't need medical attention, although to put a little pressure on them, I did lie and say I had a bit of an ankle sprain as well. What should I do? I figure at the very least, I'll use this opportunity to get on his and the owner's good side by not coming off as a sue-happy problematic resident and admitting outright I don't need medical attention (I really don't and it would be clear to the doctors). They acknowledged that the deck is in bad shape already and are planning on taping mine and my neighbor's decks off for repairs.
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>>17588789
Bump
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>>17588789
Kill yourself my man
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>>17588885
How would that help?
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>wake up
>go to class at uni
>be social in class, people generally like me, have a good time in class
>leave class, go to water ski club
>we're all friends there, but don't socialize much because water ski
>go back to dorm, browse 4chan and study for rest of evening, never see friends outside of class or club, don't go to any parties or events, don't even hang out with other people in the dorm
>asleep by 12
>wake up, repeat until weekend
oh shit, it's the weekend
>sleep in
>stay in dorm and watch youtube and play vidya, nobody invites me to do stuff, roommate is always gone
I've lost 5 pounds because I don't want to eat alone. Am I a recluse? I have no idea how to make plans and be social outside of class. What do college-age people like to do? How do I find the parties?
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Just talk to people around you about mutual interests and in general be friendly to them. People like you more if your nice to them
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Bump for similar interests.
Havent found a solution, but try getting into a more social club too. Besides frats and roommates I've yet to find another answer (and I don't have roommates)
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The reason is people have already formed their cliques and groups while you were on your own. So it is unlikely that they will invite you unless you yourself take the initiative and work your way in.
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What's a polite way of ignoring people? I want to go out and meet new people but I'm afraid that they'll like me buy I won't like them, and if I just ignore them I'll feel like an asshole.
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>>17588717
sunday night just text the people you didnt respond to saying 'hey sorry, been really busy'
but i wouldnt worry about it.
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>>17588717
Ignoring is never polite its even rude so don't do that. Just excuse your self and go talk to someone else or something. Sometimes you just have to talk to people even when you don't like them especially in group environment.
Go out and do it and you will figure out what to do just keep in mind this. Don't do to others what you wouldn't like to be done to you.
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>>17588717
There is no polite way to ignore people and there is no way to be straight to someone's face about not liking them.
The socially accpetable thing to do is be cordial with them when you're forced to speak to one another and limit your interactions. Most people can tell when you don't like them and will back off of you once they sense that vibe.
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I need to rewire my brain ASAP
Basically I saw my bf's dad's dick through his sweatpants this weekend and it was fucking huge, not even kidding. My reaction was pretty much pic related. Since then that's all I can seem to think about and it's ruining me.
What do?
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>>17588663
Cuck your boyfriend.
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Trade in the calf for the bull, if you know what I'm saying.
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>>17588666
devils trips dont lie, you gotta fuck the dad OP.
i feel ya. im a dude and dont even like dick, but as soon as i saw my roommates i was obsessed, this thing was monstrously long.
ladies: what should guys smell like? It's always nice that girls smell so nice but maybe that's not appealing on men?
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>>17588614
>Axe
thats like kiddy's first deo here in my country
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Anything but axe. Irish spring just came out with a new line of shower gels and they work like a charm. I suggest picking one up. Deodorant wise, use regular deodorant- if you still smell, see a doctor.
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>>17588614
Jesus fucking Christ, is this really a question on 4chan? How about you graduate from high school?
I use Armani code tho
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>be me
>insecure
>boring, no interests
>lazy
>avoidant, antisocial
>misanthropic, misogynistic
>always tired
>sensitive and touchy
>can't for the life of my get into a relationship
Why live, /adv/? What does an utter failure of a human being like me have to live for? I don't enjoy doing anything and I hate being around other people. I just want to go to sleep and die but that will take at least a couple of decades.
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>>17588611
do it
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>>17588624
Do what
I'm too much of a pussy to go any route that's actually effective since pure helium isn't readily available anymore.
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>>17588611
what do you do with your time?
I was arrested for refusing to answer questions at an internal immigration checkpoint. I've been on bond for about 10 months now. What should I do here /b/? I was officially charged with 18 US code subsection 111. I never touched anyone. The only thing I kept repeating was "I do not wish to answer any questions" and "am I free to go?" Tips? Tricks?
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>>17588599
You have to go back Pueblo.
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>internal immigration
What?
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>>17588599
Did you talk to lawyer yet? Holy shit, the retarded threads some retarded make sometimes, Phew!
If a girl touches or flicks her hair back when she sees you, is she interested?
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Ask her out.
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>>17588531
/thread
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I'll expand. This is not me talking or flirting with women. This is just walking past women on the way to work and school and a large number of the girls flicked their hair behind the ear. So is it nothing or are women reacting?
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I see little hair growing there now ever since my fucking idiot cousin fucked up my hairline. Please i need help/advice on what to do and how i can make the little hair grow :( my confidence is shrinking by the day :(
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The line is where the little hair has grown! But im having trouble on getting back to where they were before :(
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>>17588510
99% of balding is genetic (and that looks like classic 'male pattern baldness') and there ain't nothin you can do about it.
1% might be the result of some curable skin condition, but your doesn't look like that.
Get used to it and start making it part of your style.
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>>17588510
>I see little hair growing there
i don't see any hair at all growing there. when did you cousin cut your hair ?