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What's the point of being fucking attractive if I can't hold a fucking conversation?

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I screwed up real bad..
>depressed, social phobia, somatoform disorder
>got beaten up and abused as a child
>had no friends whole life
>video games freak,no interest in anything else
>losing interest in video games as well,just hating on everything equally
>stopping to care about anything
>one day, I meet this one guy on internet
>he seems perfect,manly,very strange and somehow cold
>I end up loving him to the guts and he is only one I actually care about
>he starts making me masturbate and he does it as well
>he asks me to webcam everything but I didn't
>he gets fully dissapointed,everything is getting awkward
>I ask him "so..after all,are you ever going to show yourself? Just the face?"
>"After this, I'm completely sure I won't" he answers
>feel even more depressed and exhausted
What to do?

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How do I get a girlfriend?

It seems every girl I really like is either taken, not interested, or our lifestyles don't match enough to date. I try to meet people at college, and my part-time retail job but no dice.While I have made a few friends and some of them female I currently have no clear path to a girlfriend or even just sex.

I'm 23, 6'0" in decent shape (but not ripped yet). Not a bad dresser, clean. Normal social skills, well-read, have good credit, over $20,000 in the bank...but no gf.

I would like a serious relationship (I hadn't felt this way before desu) but I would be satisfied with just sex. My standards are not incredibly high or anything.

How do I go about finding someone?

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>live in a co-ed house with 15-20 other people
>cute girl moved in at the beginning the semester
>flirted with her a little
>went on a hike with her and she told me that a few people from work would probably be there
>the work friends apparently have a thing and we left them kind of early and walked back to her car alone
>talked a lot; she asked how often I get "physical" with pretty clear sexual undertones
>she brought up a movie on the way back and I said we should watch
>planned to watch it together this Friday night after our house dinner

If she isn't interested romantically, will she invite other people to join us at dinner?

I feel like it's a bad sign, but at the same time we do live together. If she is interested, she may be wanting to take things slow and one way of doing that would be to invite people to watch the movie with us.

We brushed shoulders a lot on the hike btw. I feel like we've got really good chemistry and things in common. I just can't tell if she feels the same way.

Do you guys think I'll know for sure by the time we're done watching the movie?

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I honestly feel like I can't attract females. It's so strange. I just don't have what women want but they have what I want.

What can be done? I feel like asking women out is a fucking suicide mission too.

My confidence is low too. I have never had any confidence because confidence seems like a huge lie.

What does it feel like when a woman actually likes you? I may never know.

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How much of a turn-off is it for most women to have a bf into femdom?I assume it's off-putting because it's not masculine.

I want to my gf to roleplay for my lewd femdom fantasies but I'm very reluctant to tell her that I'm into any of that. I don't like cheesy shit like leather clothing and weird furniture.

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she's beautiful.
I'm dating her

guys always look at her.
in class guys always try to chat her

she's friendly

how do I stop from getting jealous

she says, she's only mine.

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So basically some friends who abandoned me about a month ago decided to re add me yesterday (only one). There were short responses from him. Today I log on and realize he fucking removed and blocked me again, out of no where. I don't even know why they did that the first time. I'm so angry, and I need some responses on how to handle this, and maybe get over it. Please help, /adv/.

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I'm a 25 year old man, and people keep telling me that I'm wasting my youth, and that one day I'm going to be bitter when looking back in the past. They tell me this because I'm the quiet type. For example, I just did a 20 day solo trip to Europe. Went all over, saw a lot of things. But, I didn't do anything "crazy", I didn't party, I didn't flirt with any girls, I didn't have any sex, i barely even drank. but I enjoyed my trip, I just walked through many different towns, which to me is enjoyable.

But everyone keeps saying "you can do that shit when you're older. If you don't start having sex now, you're really going to hate yourself in the future when you get old" that shit pisses me off, and frankly, I hear it so much they are starting to make me ponder if I'm doing the right thing. I mean, I haven't had sex in 5 years, but I honestly don't even care. But people keep saying that I'm wasting my 20s. But I don't feel like I am. But they still say I'll regret my choices later on..

So.. am I?

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I sent her an email confirming that I put 1pm on 31st to meet for my project idea.

Her reply was
>'yes, I am aware. Don't message me confirming times the website confirms it, once is enough'

she says things like
>refer to me as Dr
>God help you if you are late
>I hope you have done plenty of reading over summer break

Like she is literally so sassy it just feels awkward, even in person. How do you please a person like this?

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I'm taking a vow of silence in October for about a month. Any Advice?

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this might sound like a dumb post but hear me out.

>on phone to gf whilst she's walking through town
>sorry anon i have to go
>oh ok no worries, speak to you later

>several minutes later messages me
>oh sorry anon i bumped into a friend
>then sends a message saying "Oh you didn't sound very happy at all when I abruptly ended the call"
>makes a big point about how that somehow made me upset and says "apologies"

FFS man. I'm fed up of her acting like I'm being overly sensitive and assuming things about my reactions and making out like i'm a little bitch.

how do I even respond to this message without sounding insincere and imply that she's acting stupid

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Help me please

So I started working/training with this guy who is an HVAC technician(basically skilled labor). Problem is he's a complete asshole. He'll make me move entire furnaces or boilers that require two people to move alone and if I fail he's like "what's the matter, didn't have your breakfast?"

He expects so much of me even though this work isn't simple and takes a long time to learn. And if I do something wrong he taunts me like "why are you such a stupid shit, huh?" And he threatens to take money out of my paycheck if I even slightly scuff a wall. I'm fucking tired of it all.

But I don't want to tell him off because I really need this job until I learn the trade. Help me please

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>pretty much kicked out of (almost entirely supporting Sanders) friend group along with 3 other friends
>because we're voting Trump (because they're literally the same on 80% of the actual important issues like TPP social security etc)
>others are half third party half Clinton (despite her being opposed to sanders and trump on a lot of the actually important issues)
>they've all said they don't want to talk to us anymore and that we must be racist (we aren't)

How do I deal with the pain of rejection? I've never been rejected like this before and never for such a goddamn stupid reason like politics. I feel incredibly hurt and before they knew of my voting intentions we had a lot of great times together.

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I have had plenty of crushes during high school, but none of them ever got passed hand-holding and making out. It wasn't until high school that I started a real relationship while enjoying the summer before college, and he and I dated for about two years. About nine months ago we broke up, and it wasn't a nasty break-up at all; we just both realized college was taking up so much of our time that we couldn't realistically spend as much time with each other, and rather than be stupid kids who "fought the world to be together" we should focus on our schooling and, if serendipity would let us, get back together after we have our degrees.

Fast forward to three months ago, and a guy that I've been partnering with for classes starts to catch my interest. It started with a cup of coffee, and next thing I know we're going to all the cultured parts of the downtown metropolitan area. My first boyfriend never had any interest in that stuff -- he thought non-comedy movies were high-brow, for crying out loud. The new one and I go to cooking lessons; my old one and I would go dancing. It's basically a much slower pace, and I'm very, very comfortable with that considering my workload.

Last night, he and I agreed to finally have sex since we've known each other long enough, and this is the part that I'm having difficulty reconciling. See, I've been having regular sex with my old boyfriend for about two years, and -- after doing research on my -- he was huge. A little bit more than 8 1/2 inches long and 6 3/4 inches around. I've become used to that, I presume, because my new boyfriend is a little less than 6 inches long and 4 3/4 inches around. And I can hardly feel him.

My question is, will my body go back to taking "normal" sizes? It's not like I'm a slut going around with my legs spread for any guy with a bigger dick, but at the same time, sex is important in a relationship, and if I can't get off, what's the point?