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>>17588430

Damn why would you do that to your self. You never heard about less is more ?

I love mdma but I allow my self to use it only once in 2-3 months. Some time I don't follow that rule but I never go crazy with it.

This is what you should do. Get drunk and maybe just take 2-3 lines of speed
when drinking and hanging out with them before going out. When you get at party focus on meeting people and dancing and should be fine. When your
friends are in trance you just brake away and do something else.

And of course don't forget to keep your alcohol level up and you should have awesome time.

>>17588430
Make new friends before you fuck up and do something you regret in the hopes of "not feeling left out".

>>17588449
i dont really know to much about speed? can you educate me abit on its effects and how you would feel?

>>17588452
yeah but at the end of the day these guys are my boys been through a lot with them its hard making friends with this level of connection you know?

All we can do is press forward, emptiness or no.

Somewhere along the way you might find something that fills that void, you might not find such a thing also and that is fine.

From my standpoint of things I think you just have to get over associating emptiness with negativity.

That is just my standpoint though, the point of life is something that has been studied and argued about more than could ever be conveyed in a lifetime, and I'm sure you may be able to find solace in reading some such works. Particularly I might recommend looking up the concept of "absurdism".

>>17588403
I'm exactly in the same position, I was about to start a thread similar to yours. 2 years ago, I wanted to become a comedian/actor/writer/allthiscrazyshit while also being quite decent at school.I was so enthusiastic about my future but now it's all gone. Doing poorly in school, no motivation whatsoever to watch tv series and movies like I used to do before(those were my main hobbies back then), can't enjoy any vidya, gradually getting out of shape, stopped caring for relationships and besides all of these, my friends became people I hang out with in order to feel less lonely. I don't really care about them and rarely does it happen to have fun with them. My parents are mad at me because I don't want to have a regular job nor to study something that actually requires putting effort into it and we basically argue everyday on this subject. Im not even depressed at this point, I just feel empty. Couldn't care less whether or not my life improves or not. What would /adv/ do if you guys were in my place?

“I saw my life branching out before me like the green fig tree in the story. From the tip of every branch, like a fat purple fig, a wonderful future beckoned and winked. One fig was a husband and a happy home and children, and another fig was a famous poet and another fig was a brilliant professor, and another fig was Ee Gee, the amazing editor, and another fig was Europe and Africa and South America, and another fig was Constantin and Socrates and Attila and a pack of other lovers with queer names and offbeat professions, and another fig was an Olympic lady crew champion, and beyond and above these figs were many more figs I couldn't quite make out. I saw myself sitting in the crotch of this fig tree, starving to death, just because I couldn't make up my mind which of the figs I would choose. I wanted each and every one of them, but choosing one meant losing all the rest, and, as I sat there, unable to decide, the figs began to wrinkle and go black, and, one by one, they plopped to the ground at my feet.”

-Sylvia Plath

>>17588358
Just adding thiis real quick.
My idea, my plan, is too.. maybe be more clear of my life. Find some sort of peace with myself.
As i said im confused about my sexuality.
I just wanna accept it.
Do u understand?
I really wanna experience this feeling of being in heaven, or, being One with the earth.
I want answers.

Alright time for a quick redpill :

Your life is gonna be no different after you take shrooms. You might think it's gonna, but that's only because you're EXPECTING it to happen.

I took an 8th of shrooms at once one time and then smoked weed after. I reckon you double the dosage and make it two 8ths you take. This is probably the closest you can get to feeling new and changed.

>>17588385
Interesting :)
The dose im thinking about is probably something in between 1gram and 2,5grams.. not alot.
But thanks for saying that.. my life is gonna be the same afterwards.. i never really thought of that.. i always think that OOMG MYLIFE IS GONNA BE DIFFERENT after i try these shrooms omg omg.

>>17588340
Have you sought medical help at all? Your brain operates on a series of chemical reactions, free will barely exists.

You probably have a chemical imbalance, the medication doctors prescribe are like a diabetic who needs insulin shots. The medication is to make up for any imbalances of chemicals your brain cannot produce. Medication will also give you happy highs but then in the downtime and come off shitty lows. So its up to you. I would still recommending consulting an actual doctor and seeing what he prescribes if he does at all.

For me depression is caused by wasting/not using my time. It means I sit at home and ruminate, bring on a negative mindset.

To fix it ive started forcing myself to shit every hour of everyday and get into meditation. Meditation so I have quiet time to reflect, it also alters your mental state in a good way, especially if you start with guided mediation.

I watch my diet, cut all unnecessary sugars from my diet, eat mostly protein, carbs and fats from yogurts as well as vegetables/fruit.

I Lift, It helps me vent, I get big and attention from women. It boosted my confidence substantially.

So, keep busy, meditate every morning, watch your diet by staying healthy, exercise preferably lifting. Getting a hobby such as rockclimbing, surfing, bike rides, boating, cooking etc are also good things to fill up your free time with.

>>17588340
Shut the fuck up

Your uncle died, its normal you feel that way.

Sadness is a human emotion, if you try to use drugs to push it down believe, you will regret it.

Trust me, from 6 months to a year you will feel better. If you want something usefull go to the psychologist and develop a stronger personality.

>>17588340
I would say seek some professional help

>>17588256

Tell her she's getting fat and you're losing interest.

Either she'll fix the problem or she'll bawl and tell all her friends what a scumbag you are and whine whine and om nom nom and you'll break up. Win-win.

>>17588256

A: Start exercising + eating healthy and invite her to join you. Keep doing that for a while even if she refuses in attempt to shame her into changing her slug ways.

Break up if she can't get a hint.

>>17588276
>>17588285

Tell it to me straight, is it even possible for women to lose weight? In my life I've met dudes who lost impressive weight but never a chick. Every woman in my life has always tried to lose weight and then gives up and never loses anything. My mom is fat and my sister is fat I'm surrounded by fat women and they drive me crazy.

What's your sexual history like bub?
You seem pretty high up there on your ivory tower.

>>17588250
Just one. Best friend in college. Started dating and everything was great, but later issues arose because of differences in your ideals. Not matter how well we got along it didnt change how we fundamentally were incompatible with some of the views we held, including those about sex.
I havent slept with any of the other girls Ive been in a relationship with and so for some the sex talk comes up early and disaster happens. Ive made the mistake of going too long before having the talk before as well and its just a nightmare.

>>17588240
>talking about sexual history

Generally speaking, unless she opens up on her own or she has a disease, her sexual history is not your business.
Whether she's been with 1guy, 2 guys or 6guys, she's still the same person.

I suggest instead you focus on getting off that pedestal you're on.

>>17588229

Gut it out. Life's not always about what you want. Get it done with and then you can move on.

If you've only got a year left, just fucking power through there's no point in taking a break and you'll be more likely to just never go back and finish. You can and probably will work some shit jobs right after graduation anyway while looking for something in your field.

>>17588229
Professor writing here

Statistically, the odds are that if you drop out you won't come back. Of course you might be in the minority that do.

If you do take a year off, don't just disappear. Arrange with your dean to take a furlough or whatever it's called there, that will guarantee you admission back in.

But really, you're best off if you take a few days off right now to relax and get out of your blue funk of the moment, and then just get through the last year.

Ignore her. Women always ruin your life.

>>17588233
This.

Trust me it doesn't get better, new girl just means new problems and these ones you won't be prepared for

>>17588233
I've had this attitude for a long time now. But now im finally ready for a change. Shes a good girl. Shes not some trashy drug slut like all these other bitches I know. She wont throw herself on me and I don't think she does drugs or other crazy shit. I can tell shes a keeper. In the past when I met nice girls who were interested I ran away with my tail between my legs. I was scared cuz it wasn't something I was used to. But lately I've been really building my life up again. Making alot of changes and improvements and I think im ready for something like this again

>>17588202
without killing myself, possibly

please help

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>>17588202
Read "The Ego And Its Own"

b urself ;^]

>>17588180
just politely refuse sex and avoid drinking at parties and you'll be fine

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>>17588181
10/10 post

>>17588138
I bet you 100$ shes exaggerating.

Give more details on the "rape"

>>17588161
This.
Because any real fucking rape victim would have never even contacted the school about it herself, she would have gone to actual fucking police like any rational human being and sued the school later.

Should have lawyered up and had her lawyer fucking speak to the school.

As far as I can gleam, she was with guy, guy wanted sex, she said no, guy was forceful, attempted to penetrate her, failed. Campus police respond, guy is jailed. That's as much as I know, and mostly assumptions.

With her being poor and more or less homeless (home life is shit and parent relationship nonexistent), I'm not sure if she knew to do this, or if it was an option at the time due to the emotional impact of the ordeal

>>17588122

You should see a dermatologist. He\She will probably prescribe a blood test first to see if you're missing basic stuff like Zinc and Vitamin D and then prescribe supplements (not drugs). Mine also gave me a shampoo and Minoxidil.

In terms of lifestyle, reducing stress is the most obvious thing. Like, if you do go to a doctor, that's likely the first thing you'll be asked about.

>>17588133
Immediately I would assume stress is the culprit, since I feel like I have been stressed for so long it has become a default.

That does seem tricky to remedy though since the solution is probably going to be a lot more abstract than "eat more X" or exercise more often or something.

I guess I'll work on researching stress a bit and see about finding a dermatologist.

>>17588122
Lifestyle changes won't change the amount of DHT your body produces. Just ignore it.

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Utter fucking bullshit. There are plenty of people your age who are into what you said but you just don't meet them. You probably don't go out much and listen to the talkings of a select few people and then make a generalization on the entire "generation" of people based on that. Grow the fuck up and stop thinking you are some profound intellectual when you are some depressed fuck needing companionship.

>>17588103

A: Move.
B: Join an online community about things you like.
C: Stop being a prepotent snob and realise that you don't actually need to be among literal soulmates to have meaningful social interactions.

What college are you at? If you need someone to talk to, I am here.

Anyone have experience going from a hand-holdless to a normie, in your mid 20s?

The lack of experience is such a huge monkey on my back. I could definitely get dates but I feel like there's a metric ton of spaghetti just waiting to explode out of my pockets. I'm so embarrassed by my own innocence/ignorance and don't want anyone to know

>>17588142
>but I feel like there's a metric ton of spaghetti just waiting to explode out of my pockets. I'm so embarrassed by my own innocence/ignorance and don't want anyone to know

What's worse: Shitting your pants or dying from constipation?

>>17588177
Dying from constipation :(

She probably has a bastard in the oven and there is a time frame in which if she fucks you she can claim, "anon, I'm knocked up".

Sounds like you're one of her "possible stand by chads"

If you were a autistic beta, none of this would be happening. Go back to that and delete this slag's number.

There is a very good reason for the phrase "Don't stick your dick in crazy".

There is plenty of non-crazy pussy out there Anon, if you really just want to get your dick wet, get a hooker.

What >>17588079 said can be very true as well, if that's the case, then fucking her would only make matters MUCH worse.

Just don't do it dude.