So I'm in college, and I'm normally pretty introverted

Thread replies: 7
Thread images: 1

Anonymous
2016-09-21 05:08:14 Post No. 17590726
[Report] Image search: [Google]

File: t3_52kqqh.jpg (116KB, 750x731px) Image search: [Google]

Anonymous 2016-09-21 05:08:14 Post No. 17590726 [Report]

So I'm in college, and I'm normally pretty introverted (I look good and I know how to talk to people etc., I just get anxious really easily) but a couple nights ago I was drunk and decided to open Grindr up. Started talking to a guy, cute, seems smart and funny and all that, and everything's actually going well, which is weird for me. Basically what I'm asking is, when's a good time to start escalating shit? I mean we're meeting on the weekend because our schedules have us both waking up really early, and it's college so whatever happens it'll probably end in me blowing him. What I'm asking is when to start working it into conversations, and how early is too early to start sending pictures?

Anonymous 2016-09-21 05:32:40 Post No.17590789
[Report]

Anonymous 2016-09-21 05:32:40 Post No.17590789 [Report]

Believe me, I know how common these threads are and how it can seem borderline insulting to everyone who came here for advice on real issues. I'm usually the one helping, it's just that this is one area where I've had...not a lot of success in. Any tips anyone wants to throw in would mean a lot.

Anonymous 2016-09-21 06:36:13 Post No.17590915
[Report]

Anonymous 2016-09-21 06:36:13 Post No.17590915 [Report]

>>17590789
No homo, but it depends on the person, and what you want out of the relationship.
Sex? Go hard and fast man.
Deep connections? Get dates in first.
You can send pics as much as you want, whenever. It sounds like you are paralyzed by choice bro, which really only ends when you bite the bullet. Fuck, ask him about it, he probably has a better idea of "etiquette" for this sort of thing, and it will give you an idea of what he wants.

Anonymous 2016-09-21 06:37:43 Post No.17590916
[Report]

Anonymous 2016-09-21 06:37:43 Post No.17590916 [Report]

Don't blow him right away, then, lol.
Give him something to chase, and that buys both of you more time (meaning additional dates) to find out if there's more to you (plural) than just a pump and dump.

Anonymous 2016-09-21 16:41:14 Post No.17592084
[Report]

Anonymous 2016-09-21 16:41:14 Post No.17592084 [Report]

>>17590915
>>17590916
Duly noted, ty anons.

Anonymous 2016-09-21 16:54:34 Post No.17592111
[Report]

Anonymous 2016-09-21 16:54:34 Post No.17592111 [Report]

>>17590726
It's fucking Grindr, say hi and offer him to the succ

Anonymous 2016-09-21 16:59:00 Post No.17592121
[Report]

Anonymous 2016-09-21 16:59:00 Post No.17592121 [Report]

>>17592111
He's actually really nice though, seems smart too. I just don't want to make it all about sex immediately in case there's a chance of it turning into something more. His profile says he's looking for pretty much anything.

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible. Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/