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Are all girlfriends such drama queens? I'm on holiday with mine and she is in bad mood for almost two says now, not talking with me, no hugging or kissing, etc. but when I talk with her she acts like everything is fine. Why she has to be so complicated?
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>>17587448
Bitches, right.
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>>17587448
"I can't know what's wrong if you don't tell me. I am not a mind reader. I <term of affection> you, and it seems like something is bothering you, but because you haven't come to me with any grievances I can't know."
something like that. you need to speak to her openly and honestly without judgement. Tell her what you observe and tell her that you're there for her, might be good to mention that it's a vacation, which is generally a time to relax.
If you can work it in how that's manipulative behaviour without her turning it on you then kudos.
I don't know why people, women in particular, do this. There are definitely psych articles out there though if you want to do research. But no, not all women are drama queens, just like not all men are sex-crazed.
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>go do something pleasant that you never get to do
>woman throws a passive aggressive fit the whole time
Dropped. Have had a couple girlfriends do this, and it's just selfish.
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How do I stop obsessing about my gfs past? 2016-09-20 07:09:22 Post No.17587411
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How do I stop obsessing about my gfs past?
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So my current gf of one year has had two relationships, ie tinder hookups
The thought of another man having sex, let alone taking advantage of her for sex makes my blood boil and draws horrendous images in my head. Sometimes I wonder if sex between us is truly special?
Yes, I know im being a hypocrite, considering I'm not a virgin (however I did lose my virginity to a non-virgin). Yes, I know that virgins are not common. Yes, I know this on a logical level. But on an emotional level, it hurts. Sometimes I wonder if I can truly love a girl with a sexual history.
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>>17587411
>two relationships, ie tinder hookups
Those aren't relationships
>advantage of her for sex
But she wasn't taken advantage of, she would have consented
>I know im being a hypocrite
Good, so cut it out.
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>>17587411
How do you think she feels about you bot being a Virgin? Don't go in a relationship if you can't stop being a selfish autismo
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wish I knew
I dropped mine and found a traditional qt Virgin (really)
it has its downsides though. she's a fob and her English isn't perfect. but I'd rather that then multiple exs
it's just something I couldn't get over
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how long to date before a relationship?
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Usually 2-3 times,you get to know them and process if they are a suitable partner for you
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>>17587413
>Usually 2-3 times,
really, thats all? I haven't dated so I dont know the norm; im surprised.
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>>17587406
It depends on the person. There is no rule.
For me, at least 2 months.
I stop seeing other guys (if I'm seeing other guys at all) after 2/3 dates if they're going well, but I want to know a person decently well before saying we're in a relationship.
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Is this athletes foot? I was reading that it can appear on the top. Only itches when agitated. Noticed it about a week ago.
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>>17587373
That looks like ringworm, which is also a fungus
get anti fungal foot cream/powder/spray and wash what ever footwear you are using
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>>17587373
It looks like snoo
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>>17587566
Aw shit, I have like 6 pairs or shoes, I have to soak all them basically?
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>friend hosts an orgy
>kinda homely fat girl there
>shes in just thigh highs and gloves
>No one is paying much attention to her, not even the guy she came with.
>Fuck it, go over there, say hello.
>Chat a bit before she starts blowing me,
>guy she came with is balls deep in a 9/10, not even paying attention.
>this was months ago
>friend has more orgies, same girl there, dresses differently every time.
>Always excited to see me, always wet as fuck
>let's me do whatever I want to her, even got her to go ass to mouth to ass back to mouth.
>one time came up her ass and put a buttplug up her ass, she didn't remove it the whole night until I managed to get hard again.
Whats her deal? are her and the guy dating? it seems like they are but as soon as he gets to the orgies he ignores her... she isn't the only girl I fuck there, I honestly go after the fat girls because guys seem to be willing to crowd and rub up on eachother to get to the hotter girls...
Anyone have experience with orgies? is ignoring fat girl common?
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>>17587350
How do you even go about hosting an orgy? How do you invite other people to it? Do you just send them a card with a dick scribbled on it?
I missed out on way too much by not going to college, it's like a whole new world out there.
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>>17587356
>How do you even go about hosting an orgy?
went to college and i dont even know. You didnt miss out on shit.
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>>17587350
>guy she came with is balls deep in a 9/10, not even paying attention.
you should aspire to be this guy
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I always feel awkward with my daughter. I work a lot and I'm DEFINITELY not the touchy-feely type. Even my wife has to remind me to express affection towards people.
According to my wife my daughter thinks I dislike her, so she's become something of a tryhard in school because I usually smile and praise her when she does well. I'd rather not let her turn into an attention starved validation seeking slut when she's older.
What do fathers and daughters even do? She thinks amusement parks are "for babies" even though she was supposedly giggling like a lunatic when her grandma took her to one back in July. I played a fighting game with her before, she got BTFO and I immediately got up and left after winning. When she was younger I'd always be the one carrying her around, singing to her, reading to her, looking dead serious and engaging in mock conversation while she babbled, etc. It was easy then.
It just feels awkward trying to spend time with her now. Like I'm an alien.
I'm not a robot but damn.
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>an attention starved validation seeking slut
I cant believe you used those words while talking about your own child. Jesus man you are cold
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why do robots feel the need to shitpost in /adv/?
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>>17587339
Why are we so commonly sensitized to reality? Are you so detached from the truth that children grow up to have sex and complexes?
I think children should learn more about reality at a younger age. So that they can grow into stronger adults.
Now, don't take this the wrong way, children should enjoy their childhoods.
Though, they shouldn't be treated in a manner that makes it seem like their world doesn't exist in the "adult" world.
I think OP is smart enough to understand the reality of human nature and how we grow to an extent.
As far as advice OP, you are thinking too much about the subject. There is a fine line between starving attention and spoiling.
Find a balance and ensure it helps you to raise your child so that she becomes independent and strong willed.
You also can't change your nature or how you like to show your affection.
Try being more thoughtful and sincere when you decide it's a good time to show affection, though.
Just remember the balance.
Too much affection and you can give her the wrong idea. >father complex and looks for guys like you to date.
Too little and she will seek attention elsewhere. >an attention starved validation seeking slut.
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Heres what happened.
>went on a date with chubby asian girl.
>was set up by friends
>date goes well, have a lot of fun
>see a movie, go to dinner
>do some pokemon go cruising.
>end up in front of her place
>she leans in, I lean in
>we kiss a bit, start making out
>she puts her hands on me, suddenly, grabbing my junk
>pulls away and apologizes, gets out of my truck and runs off.
Should I call her? I don't know what just happened to be honest.
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>>17587288
butterscotch, yo
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I mean yea text her
obvi she's into something, whether it be sex or dating props both
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She's probably attention/sex starved and got carried away.
She obviously wants you so if you enjoyed it and like her then go for it
So guys I have a slight dilemma.
I'm 26 and sort of seeing a 19 year old girl. I feel a little weirded out by the whole thing.
I met her on Tinder and really only wanted a FWB situation. Her and I stupidly hit it off and now we're seeing each other and it's feeling.like a real relationship.
I just can't get past that she's 19, almost 20. She's travelled all over for school, so she is worldly. She is very intelligent and pays most of her own bills. And I'm not the most mature 26 year old. I love restaurant work and basically just finished my four year degree at 26. I want to grad school but I'd be lying if I said I really wanted more responsibility. But I do need to grow up.
Not sure what to do. I feel like if I end it with her, I have to do it soon because she's getting very attached. I like that she can't drink... I've had problems with alcohol, and some of my relationships with women my own age have come about due to alcohol, but I am worried that her personality might change in two years when she can go to bars.
My last girlfriend was 24 and honestly they don't feel much different to talk to. The 19 year old is very sweet and isn't jaded or pissed at men.
Just wondering if this situation is strange to an outside eye or if anyone has any advice.
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What's the problem?
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>>17587272
This. I don't understand what the problem here is.
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>>17587272
I don't know. I feel like my brain is creating problems. This is how all my previous relationships have ended...
I think the girl is fucked up for liking me, or something, and my brain creates imaginary problems that aren't really there and I sabotage the relationship. I talk to a professional on a pretty regular basis.
I guess I'm afraid of people judging me. My life is not together as a 26 year old so like... should I really be dating her? Or anyone?
I just wanted to get laid and she was cool as shit and would not fuck me and that caught my attention since every girl I've dated made me work to sleep with her.
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Almost a year ago I got involved with an older woman but shouldn't have. She was married and pushed me into having a sexual relationship. Their marriage was/is struggling hard and divorce had already been on the table. I felt really guilty about the whole thing, but it was so hard to resist and we got emotionally attached. Her friends even made implications about her divorcing for me. Her wife found out and, after a full week of us still having contact and going on pseudo dates, ended it. A few months later, she and her wife re-established contact and we all became friends, which was fucking weird. We even went on a road trip together.
One night, she and I were talking alone and got on the subject of the affair. She admitted that she still had strong feelings for me that were difficult to put aside. They took a vacation over the summer back to their home state and I didn't hear from them for a long time. I moved on, got a girlfriend, broke up with her, and decided to stay single and focus on myself.
She came into my work to see me a few days ago and revealed that her wife is moving to another state for a job opportunity. We caught up a little bit and she left. I sent her a text saying it was nice to see her and she replied saying that she intended to limit contact because being friends made things difficult. Then she showed up the next day, all giggly and red-faced when I just asked her if she had everything she needed. Then she went to another town for the weekend and showed up again today. She watched me walk to my car but I pretended not to see her for reasons I don't know. I was kind of scared.
It's bringing back old feelings. It's hard not to think about reigniting things but I don't know what to do. I kind of want to. Should I text her and ask her what's going on? Pursue? Avoid?
Note: She lives over half an hour away from my city. She's going where her wife currently resides and could easily avoid where I work.
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this whole situation sounds suspicious as fuck. in my professional armchair psychologist's opinion, if you're a guy, she's scouting you as a surrogate. either way she seems like an emotional rollercoaster and i would avoid like the plague.
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>>17587308
She's not looking to have a kid and she already has a sperm donor decided if she does. She's definitely an emotional rollercoaster though, I'll give you that. I don't think I've ever scrutinized a person's actions more and I've been killing myself to figure her out. Suspicious though I don't see.
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>>17587264
>Should I text her and ask her what's going on?
this
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So I have to get together with this girl, i know for a fact she likes me, she's a qt and although quite a smart chick, she's terribly terribly boring.
She's 21 in her 2nd year of college. I say she's smart as in she knows a lot of shit from technical fields which I could care less about, she loves cats and spends most of her time scrolling on facebook or watching naruto for the second time. That's right, she finished it and now is watching it for the second time, all hundreds of episodes of it.
She's just plain uninteresting man, I tried having adult discussions with her she just agrees and when I try to get deep and ask what she thinks, she just changes the subject to something mundane.
She's out of town for a week so I'm limited to texting her. We only saw eachother in person once through mutual friends and guess what she was quiet as a fucking graveyard back then. We'l meet next week, I wanna ask her out, I know she'l agree, but I don't know if it's worth it. What do you think? Would you try and change her and if so how? Should I just quit it?
/adv/ mates
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End it. You don't like her, and there's nothing you can do about it.
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>>17587242
If you think you can "change her", perhaps you should pass her by.
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Just dont get together with her man? Grow a spine, you never 'have' to do anything and you'll just hate yourself if you force it
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Should I go to college, or sell drugs?
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>>17587191
go to college, selling drugs only works for a little while until someone busts you. and i know what your thinking o i wouldnt get caught im too smart. well thats what they all thought. just saying. sorry to be a buzz kill but college will get you further
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>>17587191
o and not to mention the awesome party's you'll go to at college lol
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>>17587191
Why not both?
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I tried this on r9foreveralonemightaswellbegay
so I'll try this here.
I hope it will be of use to someone out there.
Here I will dedicate this thread to cyborgs. (inb4 REEEE fuck off normie) I'm slightly older then most of you here.
I'm 29, I'd be safe to say I'm a cyborg.
I've learned a lot of things in my attempts to be normie. Here I will share what I have learned when it comes to getting a gf.
I know there's tons of shit that you hear everywhere so I will try to give you a different insight on things. Maybe some of you already know this but, it helps to hear things in different words.
You can ask me life questions or whatever.
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I have tried 3 distinct methods, No I'm no casanova but, I've attempted this enough to have at least learned a few things.
the first one I nicknamed white knight mode
I'm sure you've all heard the same old same old cliches so I won't repeat them but, here I will add to those tried and true methods or at least bring in some specifics.
This is the morale high ground of getting a gf.
Okay so you've self improved or constantly self improving well, that's great.
Have you ever thought of meeting chicks through volunteer work?
Namely at things were girls your age will likely volunteer at?
I've done some volunteer work for left leaning things before and I've had chicks offer me their number. Something about being a provider for free seems to appeal to some women out there.
If nothing else you can meet some other good people or explore something that might be a passion. Meeting new friends might introduce you to a single girl. It would boost your chances. Just make sure you're not getting used. I don't think people volunteer for nothing. There has to be some kind of gain out from it.
If you already made a thread just copypaste it here and I'll answer it if no one is giving you any answers or if you want a second opinion.
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Okay method 2.
This is the more shady of my two paths.
Basically,you don't be yourself you make yourself into what they want you to be, what she wants you to be.
fake it till you make it but, stay ahead of the game, don't catch feelings, enjoy and practice being a good bf, have the sex,
Just know that one day your act will slip and the mask will fall off.
Lie your way into getting laid, if you know you want sex more then love and all that wholesome shit. Go for it.
Be sure to keep her out of your social circles or she might just ruin it for you. It's a risky gamble but, I've made it work and you can too.
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Lastly, is the easy but, viewed as sleazy method.
Legal sex houses.
In the US they are legal in Nevada, No in Vegas but, the county north of it.
Then, There's some in AUS and Europe,
Do your own research save your own money.
It's better then illegal street whores because, less chance of STD's no worries from the law,
And their professionals.
It's good stuff fuck what other people think.
>2007
>poor
>abusive mother
>suicidal
>father turns blind eye
>few friends, but are good
>alone most of the time
>starve every day (1-1.5K cal)
>on track team
>autismo for most of highschool
>2009 I've read a ton of self help
>find meaning in life
>use track as an outlet to develop iron will
>visit /fit/ when it was good (zyzz and motivation period)
>decided on USMC because college is a fucking scam
>get to bootcamp Dec 2011
>graduate bootcamp, still basically the same
>go to Okinawa working as a Top Secret "IT guy"
>get VERY lucky, the unit is basically a family
>cocoon mode for two years in okinawa, travel to south korea, philipines, guam
>work out non-stop
>study IT non-stop
>leave okinawa, investigated for alleged misconduct with a Marines spouse
>didn't do anything, clean as a rose
>go to California
>terrible unit, no organization, leadership has no spine, only looks great on paper
>become a sergeant
>IT wizard
>teach my Marines
>develop counter culture of excellence, achievement, and professionalism
>embarrass my bosses
>meet current girlfriend
>leave Marine corps 4 days ago
>Cyber Security Analyst
>135K a year
>going to college for free
>girlfriend becomes fiance
>happy... not because of what I have... but because of who I AM
You can do it. If you want some pointers on how to live, ask me
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2007 was the year everything went to shit.
In a way its like I'm trying to make up for that.
Well, It seems in all my endevers I lose motivation.
Oh sure a time or two here and there I was pumped and ready to something. I did it or whatever but, then in the long run I don't want it anymore or something like that.
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>>17587124
Give me more background, tell me more about yourself
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How do you get a girlfriend in 2016?
Is it supposed to be easy or is it supposed to be hard? Because I keep getting rejected and blown off for unknown reasons and I don't know if this is standard fare for most guys or if I'm just a fucking loser. I've been on dates and hung out with women but they all end with me getting ghosted or me being told she just wants to be friends. It's like, women like to be friendly with me and talk to me but past that I seem to be lousy at generating more attraction for some reason. The only woman who took serious interest in me after initial impressions (that I could confirm) had an insane amount of baggage, she was fucking two other guys besides me and is too overweight for me to find attractive.
I have a car, a place of my own, and I'm otherwise financially independent. I'd like to think that I am not an insufferable person to be around, I can make people laugh, I can hold my own in conversation, people like to spend time with me and I do photography just as a hobby but I'm very passionate about it. I'm in OK shape although I could be better since I'm not technically underweight but close to it. I'm also short but so many guys I know are my height or shorter and have gotten girlfriends easily so I doubt that's it.
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>>17587049
>How do you get a girlfriend in 2016?
You say this like things have drastically changed in the past few decades
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>>17587056
Hasn't online dating shifted things quite a bit? I mean it's something like a third of relationships seem to start there now, or at least that's what the sites are saying, possibly in order to get more people to sign up.
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>>17587062
We're better connected, sure, but the basic process of getting into a relationship hasn't really changed. You meet someone (in person or online), you date them, you enter a relationship.
is there a strong rationale behind 'the good ones are taken' regarding relationships and single availability around 25+ years old?
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>>17587038
Yes. The really good ones were snapped up early, and anyone who does become single will be snapped up again before you have a chance to do anything about it.
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>>17587038
good ones are desirable. no one wnats a bad one. ergo good oens are pursued. by the time a girl breaks up they already have guys who were just waiting for their chance, or even have a back up in mind.
this isn't to sound dumb ass meninist 'boo hoo girls have it easy' though because there are still plenty of good ones you can get your hands on.
the problem here is you are judging people on an objective scale instead of a subjective one.
real relationships come from a mutual feeling, and girls tend to wait more for that mutua lfeeling whereas guys tend to just date hte first girl to settle for them.
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You have four choices past 25
1.) You can date ugly women
2.) You can date single mothers
3.) Alone forever
4.) Cradle rob