My best bro and a girl we know are in a discreet relationship

Have you told your friend what she's doing when he's not around?

>>17590675

No. No point in hurting his feelings

Me and him are still super tight and if he was jealous about something then I have yet to sense any hostility from him. And he's the type of guy that has attachment issues and gets jealous easily

you've already fallen in their trap. some couples like to wrap you in the petty dynamics of their relationships. for some reason, these types of people need whoever's around them to feel the fluctuations of their bullshit. normally they're cool people on their own, but when confronted with dick/pussy they sabotage their own personal relationships.

how do you fix this? you remove yourself from it. not caring about the dynamics of two other's people relationship is the healthy thing to do. why should two people fucking effect your life personally. it shouldn't.

>>17590694
He needs to know IMO. Someone in a relationship, secret or otherwise, shouldn't be acting like that and their partner deserves to know. And whatever you do, do NOT get involved with her.

>>17590706
>how do you fix this? you remove yourself from it. not caring about the dynamics of two other's people relationship is the healthy thing to do.

Yeah...you're right. I've already stopped flirting back and just started treating her like any other girl that my friends are dating. Looks like she's getting the message.

>why should two people fucking effect your life personally. it shouldn't.

I guess I'm jealous because he's the one that ended up hooking up with her first. It's immature, I know. I wouldn't want to be with a girl that's doing what she's doing anyway

>>17590715

I tried to once but chickened out. Once I remove myself completely from their dynamic then it'll be a moot point anyway

>>17590736
>I tried to once but chickened out. Once I remove myself completely from their dynamic then it'll be a moot point anyway
If it's not with you, it'll be with someone else. Is this the sort of girl you want your friend to be dating?

>>17590740

Maybe he thinks I'm trying to get with her, knows I don't have a chance, and is trying to spare my feelings by not being straight up with me? I'd look pretty dumb if I went up to him like "hey bro your girl wants my D just FYI"

Nah. Besides, he might be too far gone. I had a talk with him and he suggested that they might be in love. These are intelligent adults, btw, not high school kids.

>>17590765
>These are intelligent adults
Then he shouldn't have a problem with you if you say to him "your girlfriend has been acting inappropriately towards me. I'd want to know if I were in your situation"