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If my diet isn't good (like not enough carbs or eating too much sugar), I end up being tired.

>>17510744
Fuck ME man.
What do I eat? Recently I've been drink energy drinks because I feel good with energy. But I think you right.
What is some good food idea?

>>17510752
Minimize sugar or cut it out.
eat carbs, fats, proteins.
Stuff like vegetables, oatmeal, beans, cheese, fruit is ok.

Depends on a varying factors, in fucking crikey-land I'm really surprised there aren't more murders here since the outback is practically one big garbage disposal.
Bury something 6ft under out there and its likely never coming back. Be creative.

Eat it

In my experience, yes.

Based on personal experiences, yeah

i dont know since ive never dated anyone

>>17510691
nothing
i have no gf
no friends
no hobbies
no job
no confidence or self esteem
im autistic

>>17510691
to not become your fucking brother man that's your motivation right there, pretty easy just don't do what he does and you've met your goals, don't keep climbing up some arbitrary and fictitious ladder of success. Or do whatever I'm not your boss.

Mines to just wait till my parents are gone so I can end myself without guilt

>>17510691

throughout much of human history motivation has been intrinsic. you did something because it needed to be done, either for survival, or for your spiritual health.

the problem these days is a combiantion of the following:
>too many options
>and too comfortable lives

the too many options thing is a thing because you used to more or less be born into a destiny. you could always forsake this and do what you want, but people used to do what their parents planned for them. often times this was simply inheriting the family business. other times it was going off to do what they had in mind for you like going to be a doctor, or lawyer or what have you.

regardless, man had a destiny that he was more or less forced to do, but had the option of doing something else if he foudn something he wanted. but if he didn't, his 'destiny' was a well enough plan.

>too comfortable

we live in a time where the natural comforts of NOT being productive are too high. it doesn't push us to do things. we can settle for a low paying job and do that forever then just go home and eat and watch TV and think about how tomorrow were going to do something to make life more exciting.


the question here you ask is
>what thoughts come to mind that makes you feel you're actually doing progress, and that you can accomplish your desire and dream?

but it begs the question OP, what is YOUR desire and dream?

is 'web development' your dream? why?

>>17510665
>my best friend of 9 years
>online friends
>no phone number and addresses

Shit. Get IRL friends, or get close to people with less serious trust issues.

>>17510665
Why did you get this close to someone you never even met before? Are you a shut-in with no real life friends?

>>17510665
>how do I get over it
well, just accept that we live in a society where those things are permitted and are pretty normal. Accept that humanity, especially women, are shit.

If she's trying to hook you up it's probably with her friend's approval, so be confident in that.

Mention something about the other day, then ask if she'd like to get a coffee, drink, or whatever you feel comfortable doing with just the two of you.

If you're nervous just pretend like you're not and know exactly what you're doing.

go for it man
im really autistic so i will probably die a handholdless kissless virgin

go anon

>>17510634
Well apparently she asked my sister if I was seeing anyone but I'm not sure whether to believe that or not..

It's just a matter of me plucking up the confidence to drop her a message or wait for my sister to mention her again and talk to her about it.

>>17510607
>how do you improve self esteem and confidence and get rid of social anxiety?
Not that I have any self confidence, but I imagine working on yourself to the point that you can have confidence in yourself, like learning a skill or body building would be a step in the right direction.

>>17510761
what if you are reasonably /fit/?

Go outside, do small things. People who stay inside get scared of the real world, and people who stay on the internet grow angry.

Man if only there were like doctors who specialized dealing with skin issues.

>>17510595
go to a dermatologist man there's shit that clears acne pretty well these days.

>>17510595
Step one: Ask out girls anyway, you will get better at it the more you do it even if you get rejected.

Step two:
I had a friend that looked like his face was one giant infection and he still got a average gf. I personally found stuff like Proactiv to irritate my skin and make it worse, so try not using it if you do. Also waahing your face too regularly will dry your skin and make acne worse.

Acne is also caused by many other factors including diet, stress, and how much you touch your face wothout realizing.

>>17510586
She is insane. Dump her immediately.

>>17510586
>Why the hell would she go berzerk on me
lack of respect, you need to put your foot down once in a while
either that is shes indeed crazy

>>17510646
insane indeed.

Normal people sit wherever/whenever.

>>17510543
Nigga who cares your ex is fucking hideous
This best be a troll
She looks like if nigella lawson got knocked up by shrek and had this as their filthy lovechild


Ps. They are fucking

>>17510543
they look related

>>17510543
which guy is your ex, the one with the beard or clean shaven

>>17510441
every man has had this happen to them. things fine, they meet a guy, all the blood rushes to their pussy and they drop the bf to chase the other guy. Then when they have the new guy doubt creeps in they may have been a bit rash but how do they get the old bf back and he feel the winner. Oh boy. First, she has fucked the guy, otherwise there was no point and two, she sure didn't consider your feelings when she dumped you for a guy she met over a weekend. Don't take her back.

It's either she just wanted to pursue the fling (she probably got dumped/rejected/discarded by the other guy) OR your friend was telling the truth that your ex regrets it.

Maybe you can tell your ex (if the conversation comes up about getting back together) that you want to get back BUT that she has to honestly tell you what went on with her and the guy. Tell her (if she makes excuses saying instincts again) that love should have mattered more than her 'primal' instincts and believe there was more to it.

Maybe that'll get your answer anon.

>I couldn't get that guy out of my head
>i still like you though!

Fuck that slut, you did the right thing op.
Even if she didnt touch that guy, imagine what will happen when the next chad comes about?

I'm exactly like you. I feel like I'm too overprotective of my gf and depend on her too much, I get jealous real easy and for minor stuff and generally I'm too suffocating.
She says it's OK, so I don't know.

>>17510412

Same she even wants to get married and I feel so horrible. I have dreams where she finds someone else or cheats. Maybe I'm just not in a good place to start something new?

Look, fellas, the gay thing... better think long and hard (so to speak) before marrying or getting into a long-term relationship. That's a lifelong commitment, and if you're secretly pining away for enjoying sausage while strolling up the strada chocolata, that's a serious stumbling block, one that will, joking aside, prevent both you and your spouse or gf from getting what you signed up for- the love, commitment and devotion for your spouse, which is 100% critical to every marriage, and even, to a lesser extent, in a long-term relationship
So don't commit until you're ready to commit.

The dependence thing, that's on you. Oneitis, the insecurity that inspires jealousy, that implies several things- you're feeling insecure, either from the dynamic of the relationship, or from your own baggage... both of which need addressing before you completely fuck everything up. If she isn't inspiring your insecurity, you better get it into your head that you need to fix your own shit. Happiness comes from within. Quit trying to make her make you happy. That's not fair, equitable or possible. Own and address your shit.

It is all about physical attractiveness.

Get /fit/ and wear nice clothes and girls will come up to you, then just talk some shit about yourself like what you do and ask about their life pretend to care, and tell them they are gorgeous.

This will lead to some making out, they after a bit you suggest that you should leave together and then you have sex.

Get wasted so you stop caring, pull girls at the bar or smoking shelter where you can communicate and you stand out it is also an easy way to start a conversation ask them for a cigarette even if you dont smoke.

>>17510402
>How to get girls in the club?
club is the simplest place to get girls, I doubt any answer is gonna help you if you have to ask this

I do it one of two ways. Only two ways that have ever worked for me.

1. Nothing. I've sat by myself with a drink just vibing to the music and have had girls come up and grab my hand and pull me into the dance floor

2. Just walk up and look them in the eye and signal you want to move in closer. They'll either wave you off or let you dance. If they do just put a hand on a hip and have fun man

>>17510335
If you have a history of acne problems, why did you choose the pill as your form of BC?

>>17510335
>Hey fellow females
ROASTIES OUT

>>17510354
You're on the wrong board, moron.

>>17510309
Damaged people will tell you all day that you're perfect. So in that regard, yeah, you can find someone who will love you.

But that also means you both will destroy one another beyond repair, and both of you will be hurt physically, mentally or most likely, both.

If that sounds decent to you, then go for it.

>>17510309
>does anyone actually want a jealous and needy girlfriend
Yes
>as a positive quality
No
>do i need to change
Yes
>to find someone to love me?
No

>>17510315
why would we hurt each other? i think i would be happy in a relationship with a guy who wants to spend as much time with me as i do with him.
i'd be ok going every where together.