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I believe that communication is the key of a relationship. Me and my gf talk a lot, daily. Even if we don't meet that day, we still talk on the phone, over texts, etc.
Since she was very sick yesterday, we didn't meet but we talked like usual.
She told me she can't come out because she is very very sick, won't leave home. Then she called me later and she told me her cousin came to visit and she went out with him and stayed until very late at night. Now, she and her cousins are very close, they practically grew up together, so it's no issue right.
Well the whole last week she refused all attempts to go out together for dinner/drinks/whatever. She only came with me on walks.
Then the very day she says she's sick and can't come out, she goes out with her cousin to dinner.
Obviously I'm very mad at this. Very fucking mad. Today we'll meet and I plan to talk to her about her.
Perhaps she sensed something because she asked me yesterday if I'm angry about something.
Now /adv/ what do I tell her? How do I talk to her about her? There's no reason for me to believe she went out with anyone else, just her cousin, but I'm still suspicious.
How do I tackle this situation?
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>>17508851
her cousin came to visit, so she felt obligated to leave the house with him. her cousin will get sick, but she wont have to deal with it.
whereas if she is sick, and then gets you sick, she has to deal with you being sick on top of her being sick, and if theres very little overlap thats even worse cuz its a loner period of people being sick.
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>>17508883
I'm already sick anon. We both got sick during our vacation though I'm getting way better while she keeps getting worse.
Anyway I'm not mad she went out with her cousin.
I'm mad she went out with her cousin WHEN she told me she wants to stay at home because she's sick AND while she refused to go out with me the whole time.
I'm glad she is told me at least, that's why I'm compelled to think she's chill. She never gave me any reasons to think she cheats or wants to cheat, that's why I went a bit mad when she told me she goes out with cousin after she specifically refused to go out with me.
How do I talk to her about it without sounding like a desperate fearful beta freak?
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>>17508906
again, cousin was visiting, there is more of an obligation.
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I'm a black trump supporter
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Black anon here. Why do a lot of blacks on facebook hate it when I say trump isnt bad and that I'd vote him rather than hillary? I'm mainly voting him because bernie lost and I'm tired of following the black community. They haven't done much for me recently but put me down and let me down.
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>>17508850
Because most people listen to the narratives fed to them without questioning it.
So they ignorantly attack whoever their friends, family, and the media tell them to.
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>>17508870
They claim I have no argument as to why I'd support him.
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>>17508881
ARGUMENTS?!
this is all you need brother
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TQtCiW5hTes
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how do I stop being a shitty person? I'm genuinely incapable of feeling good about myself or feeling like I can achieve something which keeps my motivation extremely low.
On top of that, it worries my family and my dad sat me down for a serious talk a couple of hours ago and I couldn't find anything worthwhile to say even though he was doing his best to be as supportive as he could to find out what the problem was. I just wanted nothing more than the conversation to end so I could leave, I was silent for the majority of it. The fact that I managed to keep my head so empty the whole time makes it feel like it barely even happened. I love my dad but I don't know if I can talk to him about this kind of thing. I feel fucking awful because I don't want anyone's help/don't want anyone to worry about me but at the same time I don't think I can deal with it on my own.
I might just break down and get therapy but I dunno what I'd say other than "I feel bad just cuz". I feel like I could make up reasons but I dunno if they'd be excuses or genuine problems. Thoughts?
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>>17508842
what do you want to achieve?
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>>17508844
In general or like feelings wise?
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>>17508849
lets go with both
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More or less anons I feel like the next elliot rodgers.
People look down on me, but it's not my fault I had a really abusive upbringing and I just don't fit in anymore.
Having alot of mood swings today, this morning was like, nothing matters, just do whatever and relax
and now I think about killing people because they have nice lives.
Please advise
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>>17508833
dont kill people. learn to love your own life by doing things you want, not doing things society says ur supposed to do.
people were happy before the 'club' was invented.
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>>17508833
Play more vidya, lift more, watch more anime, play basketball, watch a lot of tv. I almost went down that same road. I used to war h isis be headings and terrorists being blown up because I was in a blind fury in high school earlier this year. But overwatch, tv shows, and comics legit changed my life for the better.
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The problem is I know how to do body disposal, I have a gym membership, I read the terrorist training manuals when I was like 17 because it was on 4chan.
They have advice on making traps, and so forth.
It's like I have split morals, one day I think I want to be a good person, and make my dad proud of me.
Another day all I think about it how I could kill another person and get away with it.
Jesus christ anons. I want to die but everyone tells me no anon don't kill yourself. ;_;
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Is it ever acceptable to, when you have a significant other, to spend an extended amount of 1 on 1 time with a member of the opposite sex for a non work/school/etc related reason?
Is it ever acceptable to, when you have a significant other, to go to an establishment (without your SO present) where you can reasonably expect attention from members of the opposite sex (bars, clubs, parties, raves, etc)?
Basically me and my boyfriend both kinda have mixed feelings on these. It's not even a trust issue, we both trust each other. It's more of a respect thing. I feel it'd be disrespectful for him to hang out with another girl, but I also feel it'd be disrespectful if I went to a bar/club/rave without him or otherwise put myself in a position where I could expect a lot of male attention.
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>>17508828
mostly its what your partner feels that matters and whether or not you are willing to compromise. society itself does not matter.
that being said, as a general rule if there is a guarantee of no romantic or sexual feelings, whats the harm?
i mean if you go to the club alone, why are you going? that seems a bit weird. but iwth friends? just tell guys you have a boyfriend and be done with it.
wahts his agenda with her? do they legit get along as friends, or is there an undertone? dont be afraid to admit or ask about these things.
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>>17508828
You pretty much answered your own question. Trust, respect, and communications.
If your SO has communicated his boundaries, then respect those boundaries. Any of what you mentioned can be acceptable; given you aren't betraying the trust of YOUR partner.
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>>17508828
Is only acceptable if you are into cuckolding, otherwise it is a disrespectful thing to do.
Your bf should be spending time with you, no with random hoes that demand it.
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is there an elixir of empathy one can take to become a normalfaggot?
a draught of delusion?
philter of personability?
potent potion of people skills?
blue pill of instant keinberndity?
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>>17508822
of course not.
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>>17508822
yeah, it is called getting a job and becoming independent.
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>>17508861
I can't do that while simultaneously still being in the matrix tho, pham
It's all fucking pointless, you know.
So many people have a skill they're very proficient at, goals that they are willing to work for to accomplish, or are just plain lucky.
I'm not talking about some celebrity or jackpot winner, I am talking about everyday people. Neighbours, people that live in the same street, random fucks you meet on the street or the internet.
I have always been a skill-less sub-human that lacks the desire to change anything in his pathetic life. Luckily life has been generous enough to remind me of this almost every single fucking day, by shutting close one open door after another. Nothing, and I mean absolutely fucking nothing, has ever worked out in my favour.
Perhaps I am a deafetist little fagtron, but I am content with that. This is who I am, and it will never change. There is nothing on the horizon that promises me a better future, because I know myself better than anyone else. There never was, and there never will be anything of value.
The single purpose that I have is to jerk off to anime, shitpost on fourchins and wait for the sweet release of death, since I am too much of a bitchbaby to end it all myself.
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>>17508722
>lacks the desire to change
thats your problem, no one wants to help a guy who doesn't want to change.
>nothing has workedi n my favor
you live comfortably enough taht you can shitpost on 4chan.
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>>17508722
>Perhaps I am a deafetist little fagtron, but I am content with that.
So, you had a question?
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>>17508740
>you live comfortably enough taht you can shitpost on 4chan
Just because somebody has internet access, doesn't mean they live under the same conditions as you do.
Whatever, I don't even feel like talking anymore.
Saging this, let this worthless thread 404, it's not like crying on fourchins will change anything.
Cheers
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I got beat up by someone a while ago for something I was trying to stay out of. I didn't fight back because I didn't even want to fight at all and I wasn't confident in my ability to fight back so I just took my lumps without taking it personally. It is now 3 days after and it's all I'm thinking about. For some reason I'm angry about it now and feel like I won't be at peace with myself unless I cave his head in, There's a lead pipe in my basement. He's black, same flabby physique as me but taller, know just as little about fighting as I do. What should I do? Should I fight him fair, knock his teeth out with a pipe, or just leave it be?
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Leave it be. You had your chance to protect yourself and you didn't take it.
You engaging him again will only open yourself up for more humiliation.
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>>17508692
carry a weapon wtih you, never start a fight, but be ready when it happens
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>>17508692
man you are one dumb motherfucker. when that shit happens to you, you man up and start taking martial arts classes. hell, even go to that all-girls self defence class and tell all of them that you got your ass handed to you and you bent over and took it like a champ.
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>be 35yo NEET living @home
>have 17yo sister
>she come home from work @Subway
>I tackle her and give her tickles
>she crying.... horrible smell
>she had diarrhea
>haven't seen her in 9 hours
>shes' a voiding me
How do I make this fucking right?
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>>17508690
Nigga what? You sound like a fucking creep G.
I mean its not even the living at home thing, but tackling your 17 year old sister and tickling her is shit you should've left behind a decade ago.
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>>17508693
I'm a little under a decade younger than him. Can I tackle his sister?
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>>17508690
Just apologize.
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Things I should do on the first day back to school (I'm 18 btw so fack off)
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>>17508671
take notes if the teachers start lectures
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>>17508671
Kill yourself, I'm joking.
Seriously though please leave and never come back you gave no context or even a question worth advice.
Context such as gender, grade, etc. Post meaningful shit if you're gonna make a whole thread.
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you must be 18 or older to post here
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Is it okay to date your friends ex? They were together for 1 1/2 years but mutally broke up, my friend tried to get back with her but she said no. Also my friend has a gf now. We all still hangout together though me him and her (the ex) with other guys but would I be an asshole to ask her out?
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>>17508664
Yes you would be. Just don't, dating already brings plenty of baggage and fucking your friends ex is just not gonna be worth it.
Imagine all the awkward shit you're gonna have to deal with.
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>>17508664
See what makes me question this is a few things, First of all they had a mutual break up and if she wanted to be with him she could of done it. Second I know my friend would do this is he had the chance to. He would say something like oh she liked me and I liked her so it happened. Third I kinda feel like what I said for the second thing is true. If we both have feelings for each other why hold them back?
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>>17508664
depends on what he says. our opinions dont matter. you cant go to him and say 'WELL IT DOESNT MATTER CUZ THE INTERNET SAID IM NOT AN ASSHOLE'.
hes either upset about it, or hes not. asking him is the best way to find out.
decide whats more important to you based on that answer.
Hey 4chan, so I am looking for advice with college.
I just transferred to a University from CC, and I am working on my major classes. I unexpectedly got kicked out from my house and that's when it all started falling apart. I am maxed out on my credit cards now, and have no money for food. I have no time to go to work or to study. Well actually I could possibly have more time for work, but then I would have to blow off studying, which would result in a failing grade (Classes are fairly difficult if I don't study.) I have been eating Ramen Noodles for the past week and I feel sick, I have totally dropped out of all of my clubs, because I have no time.
What are my options?
I am thinking of dorming, but I can't do that till next year, so I am fairly screwed.
Also, I am at 18 Credits atm, and weather I take 12 or 18 credits, the university will charge the same.
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>>17508567
Drop out and get a job/join the military. You're not in a good position to continue, unless you can get a loan.
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>>17508595
I already have a loan, and if I were to dorm, per my calculations, they would be able to give me a loan that would cover my dorm. I can pickup a job on campus to provide enough cash for food and give enough time for studying. But that would have to happen next year. Somehow I would have to struggle through this semester.
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>>17508567
I would start by dropping a course or two; why are you taking 18 credits? That's fucking stupid, anon.
Drop at least one course. Drop the one that takes the most time (a course with labs, etc) and go from there. Even if you dropped 2 courses, that is something you could cover during the summer.
It sounds like you had a lot on your plate them other circumstances kicked in and now you're overwhelmed. Get off that "I need 18crs to be an awesome student" train and stop force feeding yourself this shit.
I got blackout drunk with my dad downtown today. We had fun, I'm pretty sure. I woke up on my floor, and I have no idea where my phone is. I honestly can't tell what is a dream and what is real, but I halfway recall my mom threatening to burn down my house.
I don't feel like I'm hungover, moreso like I've been hit in the back of the head with a shovel, or fell down the stairs on my head.
What do I do next to piece this together? I fly out on a trip 12 hours from now and I'm not even sure I'm writing this post.
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Call your dad… and your mom. Be straightforward with them.
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>>17508565
You feel a hangover. A real one. Where you feel slow and just want to sleep.
A factor of that is feeling anxious. Like you've done something wrong.
You keep searching your memory for something that you should feel guilty for.
But that's the chemicals talking. The hangover involves feeling guilt and anxiety. It's normal.
But maybe you made a total fool of yourself in front of your dad. Ask him if he remembers. Maybe he don't either.
In any case, it'll pass.
Drink some gatorade and shit. Drink lots of water and eat food when you can stomach it.
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>accidentally starting a new thread instead of posting a reply
I don't think I've seen someone make that mistake in like 4 years, how the hell did you even manage to fuck up that badly?
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Any paralegals in here, friends with any, or those that have knowledge about the profession? I'm 28 years old and considering a career change. The law interests me, but I'm wondering if paralegal is a wise decision compared to going to law school.
Of course law school is very expensive, and much longer (3 vs 1 yr for para), but I'm confident that I have the grades to achieve that as well. However, from what I've read on the net, people shouldn't go to law school because they're "thinking about what to do", as it just leads to stress and unhappiness. Yes, the job market is awful, but an end goal would be private practice.
This is why I feel like a paralegal program would let me get my feet wet in law. Having said that, I also don't want to waste one year, or be ridiculed either (as it's a female-centric profession).
Thanks /adv/,
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why would you be ridiculed? People don't ridicule male nurses anymore, and that's thought of as much more of a female-centric profession than paralegal.
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>>17508582
Yup you're absolutely right regarding nurses. I just felt I had to bring it up, because I'm sure it still exists somewhat. The landscape is changing, no doubt.
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Don't you practice as a paralegal in training to become a lawyer.
I'd imagine it's a pretty busy job.
>be me
>never been on /adv/
>don't know where else to turn
> have female problem
> just need people to relate to
Please
>share stories
> give advice for females in general
> yes I am Hetero make
Anything helps, thanks
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Be more specific and I can probably give you some tips
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>>17508538#
Every girl I meet is crazy or friends ones me and I become really good friends. The girl in currently intrested in and talking to started talking to me about how she loves this other guy (she wasn't aware of how I felt) I just feel like I can never get in a serious romantic relationship with a girl
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>>17508556
And you're a lesbian?
You have to network if you're not straight. Harder so you best off getting tinder or something.