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How to deal with a family member, that is addicted to alcohol
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>>17511434
Drink with them. Then you'll be too drunk to care.
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this is honestly one of the hardest things to deal with
alcohol isn't illegal so you can't just call the cops on him.
have you tried asking him/her to quit? let them know how much it's changed them. He's likely to take it bad, but you need to tell them that they're not the only one affected
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If it affects you in a negative way, voice that.
If it doesn't, it's his problem, and you should shut the fuck up.
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Don't enjoy making new friends or staying in contact with existing, being social in general.
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What's the problem.
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>>17511402
I have a human emotion that's called loneliness and it is eating me from inside
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>>17511413
Well do you have any interests or hobbies?
Well, if you do there's probably a club or organization near you about whatever the hell you like. I found socializing way easier when there something really obvious to talk about. Then you aren't think "Oh fuck I have to talk to this person" because you're too caught up in the shit you're interested in.
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What are some of the best ways to win internet debates, especially on youtube?
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>>17511363
Bump
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Don't engage in them.
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if you're wrong: they know you're wrong and you're just too dumb to realize it
if you're right: they know you're right and will never submit
OR they're too dumb to realize it
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Straight guy, Gay porn 2016-08-29 19:58:44 Post No.17511356
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Is it weird for a straight guy to masturbate to gay porn every once in awhile? I mostly jack off to women but sometimes I get off to dudes. However, I notice that in real life I'm always staring at women and have zero attraction towards men. Is gay porn a fetish? Or, can it be? I think I might be bi but that might be the right thing to call myself since I can't find myself being attracted to a dude.
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Just call yourself straight until you actually want to fuck guys.
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>>17511356
nah it's not weird, dudes in gay porn are totally different from dudes irl. They are just aesthetically pleasing and naturally erotic. I never fapped to gay porn but I like looking at them first thing in the morning while having my coffee.
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>inb4 op is a faggot
good luck getting a serious answer
fwiw I think it's one of those fringe fetishes you'd never act on because it's so taboo (to a straight male, that is).
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What do females think of traps?
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>>17511339
Likely same as we see butch lesbians: very unattractive if not revolting.
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>>17511339
Faggots. But I would a reverse trap, or even a tomboy. Kanbaru is mai waifu, come fight me.
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>>17511339
I personally dig them. I always thought it was cute for a guy to get super cute like a girl or vice versa.
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Hey, /adv/ I just found these wireless headphones on a bus stop, and i tried to pair them with my phone, and my laptop, but it didn't really work. My phone and laptop cant find them, and i tried plugging them in the PC, but yet again it did not show anything. I can't really figure ot the model of headphones they are, so I'm asking here if somebody knows.
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Is there a light indicator or anything on the device? Or does it give out an audible cue if you try to power it on?
And also, try to send a closer image of the label/logo.
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>>17511354
There is no label or logo on them, and yes when i hold the middle button there is a voice that says device is powered on/off.
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>>17511354
also there is a blue light when its charging
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Another faggot with relationship issues
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Good afternoon, bros of /adv/. I want to share my story so far. I want advice for what to do next and know if I really fucked up.
> Be me
> College freshman
> Met cute girl
> started dating
> life gets good.
> good sex, she loves me
> i love her more than anything
> More than bacon, man
> Fast foward a semester
> She starts getting closer with a girl in our class
> Start getting distant
> I start getting worried because she's bissexual, but says I'm the only man she likes, if it wasn't for me, she would be a lesbian
> Started getting more and more romantic with her, trying to mantain her close
> Someday, she texts me
> "Anon, can we have a talk?"
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Cont?
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Sure, I need something to read on the bus
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cont
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>>17511343
ok, thanks for replying. Really need to get this off my chest
> Tried to play it cool
> "Sure Honey, what's up?"
> "So, I noticed you start getting too clingy. Don't think I don't like when you're kind to me, but It's getting really annoying
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> "Ok, honey, I will try and be less clingy"
> "But, there's something else. I think you deserve to know, i got a crush on a girl from our class"
> broken hearted.
> "But it doesn't change a thing! I still only love you! It's with you I want to be with!"
> Feels that I'm not enough to make her happy
> Starts thinking she is a lesbian and doesn't know yet.
> Pretends that never happened.
> Things started getting good again
> She came back, started giving me love again.
> Great times
> Fast forward next semester.
> A friend of her starts studying at our university
> She starts talking way too much to her
> Feel alone again
> Feel that she prefers her
> One of my gf's bff starts having fights with her
> Saying she doesn't spend time with her anymore
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bi girlfriend wants to talk about having a threeway with another girl, all I really know yet is she doesn't want me to directly have sex with the other girl which really is fine with me.
anyone out there with advice on pitfalls, boundary suggestions, tips, etc?
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>>17511324
>Let's have a threeway where you don't have sex
Sounds fair.
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>>17511349
>fair
there's still two naked women in the room, can't really complain. I also assume there's a chance that limitation will change if she can feel comfortable with me in that context.
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>>17511400
If you're okay being a literal cuck then that's on you.
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I had a big pimple on my chest for like a year now. Popped it once but it grew again, bigger and made skin around it darker, so it looked kinda like a nipple. I just doozled inside with needle and pincers, but there was nearly no puss, just like kinda harder skin that was `wormy` while pulling out, it came out in bits but if I caught good it felt like there was a core. I wasnt able to get everything out with one pull tho. I guess i had a cyst and the wormy skin i pulled out was its sack, yeah? How to make sure i removed all of it, so it wont grow back? Also, how to treat the gaping hole in my skin now?
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you may have to squeeze it to make sure it all comes out. and when your finished use a cotton ball put rubbing alcohol on it and the effected area makeing sure the alcohol gets inside the wound, it will burn like a bitch but it will clean it out. then bandage up the hole. possibly with gauze if you have it.
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>>17511309
You can't. Go to a doctor so they can dig around with forceps and stitch it shut, or else you've got a possibility of it healing into a giant hole or getting massively infected.
Just go to a walk in clinic.
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>>17511522
Thats what i did so far.
>>17511533
Eh, no way i can sew myself up? It may actualy be a bad idea, forget it. Well, i guess i should visit a doctor. But its 11 pm right now. Ill see how things will be going tomorrow.
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/adv/, I had unprotected sex with a grill two weeks ago on the basis that she had PCOS and hasn't had a period since last year (usually people with PCOS need fertility treatment to get pregnant)
I'm not that concerned about it, but it's an issue that's there. She has since got back with her ex (we both knew we were nothing really more than a quick fuck)
How weird would it be to ask her to do a pregnancy test?
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Pregnancy is the last thing you should be worrying about.
Since she likes casually rawdoging you should go to a clinic to check you don't have an std or HIV now.
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>>17511290
"results all clear no further action required"
On it
And HIV is very unlikely from vaginal sex
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>>17511319
>And HIV is very unlikely from vaginal sex
stay positive, m8
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I am honestly depressed and afraid of the world. Help please.
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>>17511252
why?
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>>17511252
i am too anon
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4chan will just make it worse or better. go to r9k
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I took a lot of drugs (meth, coke etc)yesterday and me and this girl got off really well but I don't know if she liked me or if it was just because we were high or if she genuinely like me how do I find out if she likes me without sounding like an idiot also how do I get over this come down I feel like I want to kill myself
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Been there done that mang
Only one way to find out, get to know her and "b urlfse"
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>>17511280
Should I text her or wait until the next time I see her?
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>>17511236
Disgusting degenerate.
I lied in my resume and wrote that I worked in a retail shop for 1 year. It's the only way I could fill up not having worked ever. I'm 24 years old.
How fucked am I if a company calls me for an interview? Will they ask me for a phone to check? How do I work around it? I plan to tell them the shop closed down that year but even so.
It's for a programmer position that I'm applying for so it's unrelated.
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/adv/ pls help ;-;
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>>17511294
Its unlikely you will be called as you have no related experience. If they do call decline, its not worth the risk. Next time dont lie.
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>>17511311
Is it really very risky?
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Hey guys. Little backstory here:
>Started dating a girl Jan 2013
>Dated until Oct 2014, broke up for 3 months
>During this time I had sex with 3 girls, she got raped by a guy she was friends with
>We get back together, I come clean about my shit, she is psychologically destroyed
>From Jan 2015 - Oct 2015 I endure an enormous amount of emotional and mental abuse from her, therapy doesn't seem to be helping, but I can't take it anymore
>Throughout this time I was held hostage with suicide threats, etc. The thought of leaving her alone in this sadness left an intense feeling of dread in me. I can't emphasize just how strong this feeling is.
>In this time she drops out of college, drops out of the military, stops therapy, decreases contact with family and friends
>She writes me occasionally, tried dating another guy, it didn't work out, and around June of this year I try to be friends with her again
>Obviously bad idea, shit hits the fan, once again I realize I can't have her in my life. The intense feeling of dread and sadness comes back when I think of her, and I don't know what to do about it except to cut off all contact with her, which is the only thing that seems to make her happy.
What the fuck can I do? If she's in my life, she makes me unhappy, if she's not in my life, I'm sad because she's unhappy. This sucks.
She said she's moving across the country to start a new life in two days, and she wants to know if I'll see her one last time. The feeling of sorrow is so bad right now.
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>>17511208
dont talk to her no more man
she has to let go
t. someone that has never been in a relationship
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>>17511218
I know that's what I need to do but it fucking sucks. I want this feeling to go away.
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>>17511232
The feeling will only go away with time. It really sucks that she was raped, but she needs to realize that she might need help and not just go because other people are telling her to do it.
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I met the girl when I was 18, we moved in together when we were 19, got married when we were 21. I had a good job, she didn't work for all these years and we could still afford pretty much everything we wanted (nice rental apartment, a car, abroad holiday every now and then). We were really happy, a couple all the other couples look up to.
When I was 26 I realized that we're not spending enough time together because of my work (i used to work about 250h/month back then). I decided to quit the job and look for something closer to home, with less working hours and less responsibilities on my shoulders. Of course, that came along with a worse pay.
It wasn’t a massive paycut, we could still afford everyday stuff, pay our taxes, go on a countryside trip, and I arranged our 5th wedding anniversary in a beautiful old manor. I was happier than ever before.
Few months later on 5th January 2016 we were sitting home, had a few drinks, and she suddenly burst into tears, telling me that on the other day she got drunk and slept with someone else. Older, rich, married guy, my mum’s colleague. It was fucking hard, but I decided that our relationship is worth more than a one night drunken mistake and I forgave her.
Two weeks later I discovered that it wasn’t a one night thing, it was a regular affair, lasting for months, and that she still meets the guy. I was heartbroken.
It’s the worst kind of breakup, you feel worthless, like a little piece of shit and you have to leave somebody you still love.
And then, it got worse.
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We live in a country where you need a visa to travel to United States. Her sister lives there, started with temporary worker visa and stayed illegally afterwards. She wanted to join her, so she called me to ask if I could wait with filing the divorce papers before she got her tourist visa (it’s much easier to get one when your husband is staying in the country), promising me that she will wait until we’re divorced before her travel. Of course I agreed. Of course she didn’t wait.
She also blackmailed the guy she had an affair with to get the money for the plane and her first months in States. Right now she lives somewhere in NY. I still miss her sometimes, can’t divorce her (because the court isn’t capable of delivering papers to her), she has a new phone number, her parents said that it was her decision and they will not help me. I can’t even get a visa just to get a look of her face when she sees me standing in the middle of god-damn Times Square holding the divorce papers in my hand, because my wife lives in USA illegally.
Any ideas what could I to do close the chapter and leave it all behind me?
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>>17511204
ayy thats fucked up anon
best of luck to you
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>>17511198
Dude that fucking sucks. I'm sorry.
There's no way around it. You made the right decision, give it time, focus on improving yourself, and it'll get better :\