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Becoming a misogynist? 2016-08-29 02:55:45 Post No.17508527
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In my life I cannot think of a single woman who has not lied to me. I'm not talking about some little white lie or inconsequential subject. I mean about important subjects.
The latest instance is my own, oldest daughter, who I've always thought of as my closest relative, lied straight to my face yesterday. I've found out this has been a pattern of behavior for her the last few years. My question is not specifically about her, but women in general.
At this stage, after all these years, I'm reluctant to even TRY to start a relationship again due to trust issues.
My question is not about my daughter or any one woman, specifically, but women in general.
Why? Why lie?
What point does it serve?
Right now it just makes me sad and mad at the same time. Any thoughts other than the usual internet stuff like kill yourself now or quit being a pussy or whatever?
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>>17508527
It is in women's nature to be deceitful, trust me. Im not just talking relationship wise either just in life. But its like holding a snake and the snake bites you. You can't get mad at the snake because it's in the snakes nature. Same applies to ALL women. They don't mean it, it just comes natural.
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and you know the dog whisperer? You cant beat the dog because it pissed on the sofa because it makes bad habits and makes the dog weird and shit, doesnt accomplish anything. The dog are women's actions. So what does the guy do? He talks to the owners about the dogs problem and begins to fix it, you cannot beat the problem out of the dog, you can only learn how to correct it with its owners. get it?
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I have no fucking idea.
"Did you wash the dishes?"
"Yes"
*goes outside to check*
"They aren't done"
"I did them"
It's like second nature to lie to women. About anything and everything.
What the fuck?
Yes my gf and I are having a period scare. We have tested several times over the past month or so with about 3 home tests and one at the hospital when she had a UTI. She's been ultra stressed lately with her job and school. We have worked out for one week pretty vigorously. We have recently tested about 4 days ago and it came out negative like all of the other tests but we are still waiting for her period. What's the deal?
On a side note the last test we took I did something different. As I looked on the test I tilted it and the pee ran through the non pregnant line and there wasn't a plus meaning she wasn't pregnant. Was I suppose to do that or is the test invalid? Thank you for replying.
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>>17508488
That looks bleak, sorry.
Enjoy being a father I guess.
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She could have missed her period for a variety of reasons other than pregnancy. Stress is a big factor.
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>pregnancy test including one done at a hospital all came up negative
congrats, you're not a father
women can completely skip a period for a variety of reasons, it's usually due to stress. You have my permission to stop freaking out now.
See what she can do about reducing those stress levels though, being so strung out is not good for you.
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What the fuck do I do
OMFG someone give me a fucking solution, GIVE ME A FUCKING GUIDE
WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO TO STOP CONSTANTLY THINKING ABOUT SUICIDE
What the fuck do I do to just be at the very least neutral, why the fuck do I constantly have to be at the edge of existential despair that can only be satiated by thinking about killing myself as a way out
Why can't I be fucking happy, why can't I just have fucking friends and a girlfriend like everyone else, why can't I just fucking be satisfied with my life
I swear to God every moment of my existence is me convincing myself not to kill myself because my family would get sad. FUCK THIS. FUCK THIS LIFE, FUCK THIS UNIVERSE, FUCK CONSCIOUSNESS, FUCK ALL LIFE. FUCK THIS ALL FUCK IT
WHY AM I FUCKING ALIVE
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if thats u in the pic related just get a bf u hot af
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Do something different aka be creative
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>>17508476
Did you not see? He said he wanted a gf dude lmao
Every time I take a shit, I cry. Not because of pain, to be honest, I don't know why, and that is why I am here. I was wondering if I am the only one who has this problem and why I do it.
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Never happened to me, but sometimes I take a shit and it feels so good it is euphoric. Maybe your shits are always blissful
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>>17508463
You're probably depressed and probably the only place you can find a place to be alone is in the toilet causing everything to blow out.
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Same here. Sometimes even when I pee. My eyes pretty much water justtt enough for a tear or two to form
I've been dating my bf for 5 years (we're both 23) and everything has been fine up until recently. For the past three months, he's been refusing to have sex with me. We've only done it twice this whole summer. He swears that everything is fine between us, but we used to have sex almost every day, and he shuts me down completely when I tell him I feel like he doesn't love me anymore. Why would he be doing this? And no, I'm not ugly, fat, or a bitch. There's nothing wrong with me that would suddenly make him change his behavior like this. And I have never said no to his sexual advances. I always put out for him no matter what, but now he won't even touch me in a sexual way. Help! I'm worried that he doesn't love me anymore.
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>>17508422
He's cheating on you.
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>>17508435
My sister thinks so too. I don't know how to prove it though. I don't want to accuse him of anything unless I have proof
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>>17508422
Because you are too fucking easy, mens like to hunt, we dont like shit placed in front of us. So do some sexual shit but not directed at him, like masturbate in his bed and just do not acknowledge him. Just get him to hunt, buying a new dress or planning to fuck is not good, just be sexual, but not directed at him. If you really arent ugly and he doesnt sound like the type to cheat, he might not be cheating
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Alright, so here's my deal.
I'm 23, i work a part-time job, have my own apartment, and live with my gf.
I make just barely enough money to make it buy, rent's paid, bills are good, very little money left over after everything's paid. Sometimes i have to pray i get good tips at my job to afford groceries.
I've been struggling with depression for about the last 10 years. Working a full time job is something i've tried, and it really left me drained. This last year i've been starting to feel better about it though, and its something i've been considering, which brings me to you looking for advice.
Over the years, ive become more and more of a shut-in. i lost contact with many of my friends, and i don't like to deal with people as much as i used to. probably due to the depression, but i just don't have the people skills anymore.
So, i'm considering getting a full time job, right? I don't want a customer service job at some big retail store, which seems like the majority of jobs in my area, especially with no degree requirements (i have none)
There's also a good amount of factory jobs available near me. most are 3rd shift, which is less than ideal. 2nd shift would be fine, but i'm worried working a factory job would drain on me, especially if my depression comes around full force again.
My current job is a breeze. Work 5-6 hour shifts, not much hard work, and i get paid well enough to afford living, even if its just barely, i'm not really putting forth a lot of work to warrant an amazing pay anyways. Its a small local business, so i'm very close to the owners and i've been here a long time, so i'm very appreciated here. But living paycheck to paycheck is starting to get to me. I'm 23, and i feel like i'm not applying my full potential at my current job. I would like to be able to afford a house (my apartment is in a shitty neighborhood and it gets worse every day, i don't feel safe here any more)
I'm reaching the text limit, so i'll add more in a bit
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Basically, i want a better job to afford a better lifestyle. I dont have a car, so that makes getting to better paying jobs hard. I'm worried that working full time will make me more depressed again. I mainly want advice on whether or not i should stick to my current comfy job, or look for something that will pay better, but drain on me more. I'll be around to answer questions and talk. thanks for reading this.
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>>17508407
Eat more vitamin b12. (You can get it from oatmeal). Make sure to eat it regularly throughout the day for maximum absorption.
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>>17508440
i will try that i guess. Is it supposed to help with depression? that might help.
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I just saw a different post about something similar so i thought id post my problem too, /adv/.
Ive always been a romantic kind of dude, even when i was a little kid.
Course, I was sorta really beta and would get my hopes up for a girl who i was infatuated with only to be let down big time.
I finally met a girl at age 16 who i fell into a relationship with. We had obvious problems but i wanted to have someone so much that i overlooked them. I went all out for this girl, and she knew it and took advantage of it. When the relationship died a year later, i was really bitter because of how much trust i had put into a girl, only for her to cheat on me and tell me that it doesnt matter how hard i try to make her happy, she wont love me.
Fast forward 6 months, im over her but still a bit bitter. I meet this girl that is by far everything i could ever want in a girl, and then some. Looks, personality, interests, the whole deal. Compatible in every way, and what i had always wanted but never thought id ever get.
Ive been with her for 3 years and i just cant get myself to truly love her with a passion like she does to me. Ive cheated on her (never in person, just sent nudes and what not) and there are times where i feel nothing towards her at all. I know its stupid, and whats keeping me to her is the fact that i know im going to regret ever losing her if i do. Without making excuses for myself, i know im a piece of shit for what im doing but why is it so hard for me to be passionate about someone i never ever thought i could ever get? Am i still bitter/jaded from the years of being let down and the failed relationship i had before?
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op here.
I want to stay with this girl, i just want to get through whatever my problem is so i can truly appreciate her and lover for who she is. I just want to get rid of whatever is stopping me.
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>>17508402
Too long,didn't read.
P/s: also boring
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Am I doing it right guys? Guys?
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My gf and I just talked once again of me being kinda fit. She never makes me be it, like "you HAVE to be it or I will leave" but I can say without fear that our sex is in my hands and in my non-fit belly.
What do you think /adv/? Will you try to get fit if your gf just wants it but she doesn't want to MAKE you do it?
If yes, what's the best cardio exercise to do it? I fear if I go to /fit/ I will just get memes.
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>>17508383
>She never makes me be it, like "you HAVE to be it or I will leave"
No, but it's implied. There's only so long she can put up with your bullshit and fat ass
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Buy a jump rope and look up some beginner HIIT program. Also, read sticky over at /fit/ it's a good source of info if you're just starting out.
Finally, don't eat like shit, stop drinking beer, and stay hydrated all the time.
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>>17508383
Get fit. I don't understand why anyone would think it's fair to seek hot women and be a fat fuck.
Here's the gist of losing weight:
>Manage your calories
Here's the gist of fitness:
>Manage your calories
>Incorporate strength training and a little cardio
Read the /fit/ FAQ. There's literally no manlet bullshit or memes. Genuinely decent info to get you started.
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/adv/ how do i get rid of a crush i've had on a girl for the past six years?
i also feel like she is perfect in every way witch makes it harder for me to forget about her
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>>17508323
should have mentioned pic unrelated
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It's going to pass.
But why not improve yourself a bit, and ask her out?
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>>17508342
this, have you asked her out? did she turn you down? if yes to both then move on with another girl cut this other girl out from you life entirely at least for a few months.
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Advice on being harassed 2016-08-29 02:03:26 Post No.17508307
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Hi /adv/
I'm trying to deal with a scumbag who's harassed my family online. The short version of the story - he runs a "news" website in my hometown, and wrote that a family member is "getting like old yeller" and "maybe it's time to put him down." It's a pretty shitty thing to write.
I've reached out to all of his advertisers and asked them to pull ads. Is there anything else I can do?
Pic related, it's him.
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>>17508307
why does colonel sanders hate your family so much? you bad mouth his chicken? I mean it is shit but you musta went overboard.
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>>17508307
You should talk to a lawyer if you really want to do something about this.
Assuming you're in the USA, yes, there is case law supporting the right to privacy and to be free from harassment. If your family member is a public figure you're really not going to be able to do much about this, but if not, considering that he's running a for-profit website, you have a right to privacy and for him to not exploit you for gain without permission.
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>>17508307
The fuck do you care what a local blogger said about anything?
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>qt girl at work
>smart, funny, chill
>my best friend / worst enemy is discreetly dating her
>everything going fine, except for the past few weeks she's been super flirty and has told me she has a thing for me
>i've been declining her advances but flirting back just enough to keep her stringing along because I guess I like the attention
>but I'm also definitely attracted to her and fantasize about getting to know her better
>feel guilty that I'm doing this to my bro
>start making myself more distant with the girl
>she's getting the message and ignoring me more
I'm just posting this because nobody except her knows that I'm even doing this, and I can never tell my buddy because it would hurt his feelings
I -could've- just fucked her secretly and nobody would've ever known. I -could've- just taken her as my own and say "fuck you" to my friend. But NOOOOOOO I have to be a great dude and all that faggy shit
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>>17508291
You are a cool guy OP, you did the right thing
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>>17508291
Ya done good
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You a good friend. Thats hard to come by.
You did the right thing.
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What do?
You live your life dating who you want to date without worrying about what other people think of you ... like a goddam adult does.
You going to stop dating a perfectly nice young woman just because someone gives you shit about it? Is that what you're gonna do?
Goddam kids today - can't wipe their own asses without worrying about what someones gonna say about it.
Get off my lawn and go hang out with your girlfriend, ya damn kid! And don't take any shit from anyone about it!
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>>17508286
/thread
And to reiterate, just don't give a shit.
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>>17508262
>See this image... I'm now paranoid
Ha, genetics doesn't work that way.
As for the mocking, come up with rejoinders, jokes, or even respond back in Japanese—that'll confuse the fuck out of them. "Damare, maru me" (Da-ma-re ma-ru meh) means "shut up, round eye".
Once you go yellow, become a mellow fellow.
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>>17508262
I'm not even into gooks, but I can already tell that image was made by some salty white whore.
Why don't you date whoever the fuck you want, OP?
I need I guess comfort. Last Friday, two of my online friends suddenly disappeared on me. I noticed that my friends list said they were offline when they were really online. I then realized I wasn't on either one of their friend lists. A few minutes ago I removed one and tried to re-friend them, and I found out I'm blocked. I never did anything to make them angry, and there were no fights before this. I feel like my heart is broken because they meant a lot to me, we had been through a lot. I'm still teary-eyed and don't know what to do. I tried to contact them a different way and got no response, on Friday. To anyone reading this, just venting it out helps.
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>>17508261
I never got the point removing people unless there was harassment. were they women?
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>>17508274
No. And I never harassed them, we were very close friends. [spoiler]Im the girl[/spoiler]. I just want them back, I don't know what I did, or if I even did anything
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>>17508274
Me too the same situation. We were online friends for like 6 years already and for like 3 months without talking he just romeve me from his friends list.
I was sad,and embarrassing,and confusing. I don't know what I did wrong though. I didn't even message him since I found out his new Facebook. Weird and funny how people do such a thing like this to others
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I am breaking up with someone I still have feelings for 2016-08-29 01:36:02 Post No.17508216
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I am breaking up with someone I still have feelings for
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I've been in a loving relationship for over 3 months with another guy, let's call him R.
My relationship with him is the longest and best I have ever been in, but lately we have started to argue a lot, and it comes down to the fact that I am simply losing the spark for him. I don't find him physically as sexy any longer, but more importantly, I feel like I can't relate to him with my interests. R enjoys reality TV and pop music, while I enjoy films, literature and politics. I am not saying that my interests are necessarily better than his, but I simply can't have the stimulating conversations with him that I would like to have with a partner.
Last night I told him about my feelings; that he wasn't what I was hoping for, and we had a long argument, and in the morning we argued again and he left, as we both agreed to take some time off to think. He still wants to be with me and cried a lot.
I got off the phone with him just now. I told him we should break up because it's not fair of me to hold on to a relationship that I don't believe is going to last. The problem is that I still have a lot of feelings for him and I miss him. I suggested an open relationship, or simply being friends, but he wants neither of those things at this moment.
Am I right in breaking up with him? Why must I ruin something that makes me happy? I love waking up to him in the morning, I love his cooking, I love cuddling him, but I just don't feel like he's "the one", and I love him too much to lead him on. What do you guys think?
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>>17508216
he sounds like a feminized guy, girls like guys that are cooler than them and i think you see him below you, it comes naturally to want to find someone to look up to for women so i think it is in your nature to find someone more masculine.
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>>17508234
We are both guys
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>>17508237
oh well fuck i have no clue in the fag department, find someone cooler i guess and dump the guy
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Whenever I am "pleasuring" myself , sometimes I rub the head of my penis with my palm. If it has lubricant or something like that it's soo sensitive that it almost hurts. Is it normal for it to feel like that?
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>>17508208
That's called a Rosy Palm.
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>>17508215
Wait what?
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>>17508288
>That's called a Rosy Palm.