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answer this question with only a yes or no.

are you personally responsible for what this girl does?

>>17512382
I personally believe everyone should do whatever they can to make themselves happy within reason. You do not seem happy in this relationship. Relationships do not seem to bring you happiness. Therefore i think you should end your relationship if you really do want to enjoy your hobbies and focus on yourself..

And about your gf "killing herself" if you dump her. If she really is suicidal, she has other mental health issues. If you werent in her life, some other thing would push her over the edge and make her commit suicide. You can't blame yourself if that were to happen.

bump.. this guy needs help and i think this is a pretty unique situation.

>>17512340
Give us a little more context and we might be able to help you man. Its hard when every question on this board is the equivalent of "I have a maths problem but none of the variables have values, what's the answer?"

>>17512353
Thanks for evening answering. I'm not sure what the relevant details are. It's like I'm completely filled with feelings and knowledge, feels like I can't be filled with anything more. I want to become successful but it's almost like I can't/don't want to do anything to get there.

I have a loving girlfriend, a good family, friends who "care" (as much as they can I guess). Every moment is filled with thought. Thoughts that seem relevant at the time but become irrelevant in a matter of hours.

I can focus on a few things, things that are not really marketable or useful, like games or pornographic material. Everything else seems interesting for an hour at best.

Not sure what else to say for the time being.

>>17512376
so are you saying that you want to become successful in objective terms, like money, material achievements, a good job, etc.? And you're finding it hard to stay interested and motivated on things that you reckon would be good avenues for becoming successful? Am I reading that right, or is that not the case for you?

>>17512322
Yes, now go to /trash/ and Jack off to furry porn like a good boyfriend.

Probably.

But honestly your GF sounds lame as shit.

>>17512330
To be honest this is the one thing I miss with a passion. And it boggles my mind how different they are, since I was the first of both of them.

My ex was crazy horny and wanted to sext pretty much every day, I still have a huge folder with dozens of crazy pictures she sent me. She'd talk dirty and want to see my body and beg me to bust a nut all over her. It was insane.

My current gf doesn't ever want to see my body, in fact she only fucks with the lights off, doesn't like when I cum near her, and hates receiving or sending pictures.

I mean, come the fuck on.

>>17512315
>2
yes

>>17512317
I wonder if my desire of her will go away after I fuck her, so I can leave without getting attached a 3rd time

>>17512338
If she's able to get a rise out of you like that do you really think just banging her is gonna solve your problems?

>>17512312

Hmmm, I think I will answer my own question with parallel / reverse park perfectly for the lulz.

>>17512350
learn to play drums.
learn sign language
learn to oil paint.

>>17512312
Learn to pull the trigger when it's time.

>>17512247
It can take a long time to become a cop, they only do exams once every few years and the selection process is extremely competitive. What will you do while you're trying to get in?

>>17512281
well I where i live looking at small departments down time is typically 6 months or less large departments are more involved, doing army to build up credentials as well as being an 01 looks better then being a E5.

>>17512247
Dispatcher here. Where you looking to be a cop? We're putting guys through the academy 3 classes a year per year and can't get them hired and trained quick enough to replace the retirees and people quitting since Ferguson.

Military experience can help, but sometimes larger departments prefer guys without it. You'll have to learn a whole new way of doing things and suppress certain things the military trains you to do.

Whatever you do, if you started your military service, don't quit. Finish what you commit to, make sure you maintain good credit and don't get arrested for anything.

let me guess, you neither asked him directly, nor did you attempt to just start sucking his dick?

>>17512223
this. have you tried communicating with him about it or are you trying to play mind games. He can't read your mind, so say whats on your mind.

>>17512223
>>17512235
I did everything he likes, kissed him all over his body and he loves it on the neck.
I started sucking his dick when he got hard, but he kinda pushed me away, but either way, I know he won't fuck me once I start, so it's not really a good option.

After that I gave up and I told him it frustrates me when he won't just tell me "no" straight away, because I was doing shit for 30 minutes. He even played with my tits which he knows gets me going.

>>17512205
>This movie worth watching /b/
Idk why don't you ask them.

>>17512210
Had it in notepad, was originally going to ask /b/ but decided to come here instead

>>17512227
Well personally I wouldn't bother, these political agenda movies usually suck. Even when I agree with them I feel like they exaggerate everything to beat a point over your head and it's just not enjoyable. A decade of 4chan has made me so contrarian that I often feel a need to disagree with everything and anything, so these movies can make me a bit uncomfortable.

Anyway I heard Ben Hur was pretty good, I'm gonna go see that later.

>>17512167


I can tell you what you enjoy if you answer me these questions


>what type video games do you play if any
>what music do you listen to the most
>what kind of car do you have
>what was the happiest day of your life (first that comes to mind)
>is there a God?
>do you want children
>where do you prefer to eat
>what do you watch on Netflix/TV

>>17512549
I'm not op but hell why not
>Multiplayer fps
>Deep house, g-house
>None
>Idk I'm not a nihilist fag but I can't think of one
>No
>No
>At home or in some restaurant abroad in a holiday, not at work/school
>I don't watch tv

>>17512621
>>17512621
>>17512621


You enjoy escapism. You should be an Author.

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"Life is worth living"

confirmed meme

>>17512108
Anime and games? Also food.

>>17512108
There is no objective reason to live neither to die, do what you want.

for what OS?

You could go with chatzilla on firefox. cross platform easy to use.

>>17512116
Win10

>>17512120
search for "best irc client windows"

Looks like AriIRC is the favorite.
I use hexchat on linux and I like it.

>>17512044
Life is gay and then you die

>>17512044
To realize my dreams of traveling and early retirement I'm going to need a good job. So back in school finishing next spring.

Don't be an idiot.

Change my life.

Where do you reside?

>>17512035
>eloquent, tall
REEEEEEEEE

>>17512052
With my parents. There's no escape

Run.

This has bad news written all over it. Either bf is a manipulative cunt or he's so far down the spectrum you can't expect a normal relationship with him; I'm sure you know which one he is.

Trust me. I had an ex who behaved very similarly and bad shit goes down. They'll just keep pushing the boundaries of what you'll tolerate. Break that cycle now before it eats up all your time and energy.

>>17512086


yeah i mean idk, I'm worried about our relationship for a lot of reasons so I've been thinking about things for a while

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have you considered maybe you are naive and he is cheating on you?

Send the nudes for me so I can jerk off.

Make sure that either whatever you decide on is legal or that it can't be traced back to you. In some states posting pictures like that is a crime.

You could be the bigger person here and restrain yourself from ruining the public image of this person you once cared about because it seems that life would end up screwing people that makes stupid choices like that
Or print the pictures and stick them all over the walls at her job or something.