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Why doesnt my boyfriend want me to donate some of my eggs or get my ovaries taken out? Donating my eggs would get me so much money, and he doesn't even want kids and I'd love to never have a period again, so whats the deal? He won't answer me directly when I ask, I really dont get it.
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>>17513640
hate it to break it to you sweetheart, but you are dating an asshole.
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>>17513666
satanic trips check'd
>>17513640
maybe he doesn't want kids now, but for some time in the future?
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>>17513666
He's really not an asshole. He's just not giving me a solid reason he doesn't want me to do these things. If it was anyone else, I'd just assume they were just on the fence about having kids and think they might change their minds later, but he is pretty solid about not having any.
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This girl who rejected me like 3 months ago is messaging me now? 2016-08-30 06:27:53 Post No.17513565
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This girl who rejected me like 3 months ago is messaging me now?
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I posted about this last night, got one response that told me to make a move, but I want some more advice.
> Met a girl from my classes last semester, had a huge crush on her
> We play League so we became pretty good friends off that
> Was going to ask her out, she got a boyfriend.
> Never hung out much with her off campus, all initiation done by me in messages
> Halfway through second semester becomes apparent she broke up with bf
> Ask her out last day of second semester, she says yes, around mid-May.
> Message her next day to talk, she basically tells me, "I'm sorry, but don't expect anything of the date. My boyfriend cheated on me not even 2 months ago in March and I'm on emotional tilt. I'm not able to have romantic feelings for you or anyone else, I'm really sorry. I can't even see myself with anyone at all, I'm sorry, I have a lot on my plate"
> Let her vent, just said it's fine
> It's not fine, felt like shit.
> Stopped messaging her entirely week after this
It's been 3 months now, sporadic messages but nothing of importance, literally she never messaged me once after. Past few days I've randomly gotten messages from her, which is extremely odd to me, and they seem like convo starters. She always take a while to respond, but she's been messaging me first which is entirely weird for me. I don't respond more than 2 or 3 times though.
Another Anon said it could be her trying to get me to do stuff with her or something, but I dunno. I think it's prob cause fall semester is starting and she's going to try and hang out with me again like 2nd semester. Any advice?
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She just wants a backup guy to give her affection. It's pretty clear with the sudden texts and long reply time. If you to her you have to be careful since you might get that crush feeling again.
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>>17513577
A backup guy?
I mean, I don't see why she'd need me for that, she's got a lot of friends who reply and talk to her more often than I do or did.
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I had a girl who acted like this. She'd totally blow me off and act like a bitch. Id text her and she'd barely respond until I just gave up and stopped texting. A few days later she'd ask me to meet up and she'd be riding and sucking my cock. Then she'd go back to ignoring me.
I just don't get it. Not really complaining, I mean she let me cum down her throat... But I really liked her haha.
Maybe just be aloof. Don't ask her it again. Just chill out and see what she says. She'll probably reject you and she probably just wants attention/affection, but ya never know.
So a couple weeks ago I banged my gf, and then went in for the round 2. However I was clumsy and began to put the condom on backwards -- I quickly put it on proper and went on with the deed.
>I'm now concerned that some sperm residue was launched directly into her vagina
Now her period has been like a week late. She said she was feeling the onset symptoms but.. Nothing.
Help me to not freak the fuck out
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>>17513511
Sup nigga, if her period is a week late, it's time for a test. I've been having shit like that too, but yeah it's time to take a trip to the convinence store
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Some women may experience mild period symptoms when impregnated.
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Paranoid Schizo since childhood possible? 2016-08-30 05:44:48 Post No.17513471
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I used to think I recently acquired these traits ,but my mother tells me even when I was young I used to suspect people of plotting against me all the time, and used to wonder why they were mad at me. My mother said I was "too proud" and "not nice to people". Which is whack because I was nice and ok back then and even now I am rude.But I legit had so many fucking experiences where people were cruel to me that it did effect me quite abit. I was short back then, really short.
But I still always have this paranoia that people hate me, want me to keep from success etc. And it turns out that people are usually wanting to be my friends...wtf? So am I a paranoid schizo since birth? only other thing is that my father's loathing towards me, or maybe my mother's enabling conditioned me to suspect everyone - seems like a good way to control me because both of them are psycho level controlling / manipulative and abusive. Or maybe I really am just an unpleasant person? can someone please put in their 2 cents.
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If you want to be a balanced and successful read about islam
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>>17513471
Just chill out a bit and live your life the way you want to, if you "aren't nice" other people will just have to deal with it. Sometimes people are horrible and plot against you, you need a neutral stance where you don't assume anything but calculate based off of what could through what has been said or done.
If you read about psychopaths you come to the realization that there are people out there that will toss you around and play games and its best just to use your brain to figure out who they are and avoid them. Being nice to everyone and assuming the best of them is the way to go if you want to get toyed with like a doll.
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>>17513471
OP stop fucking worrying lol
If you are legitimately paranoid schizo you would KNOW it, you wouldn't be like "Hmmm am I or am I not? Let's ask 4chan"
My girlfriend lingered by a door to look at a guy today. I'm extremely jealous, but I keep it in check and make sure it never surfaces, but I'm having a hard time with this one.
Mainly because she did it so openly. And every time I've done it without her near, I think of her and say to myself "she wouldn't appreciate this".
And now I'm looking and flirting with people just to be petty. I don't like the person I'm becoming.
Should I just quit this relationship while I'm ahead?
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>>17513460
you secretly have low self esteem,
jks, kis.
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Wtf is wrong with you
Being able to be open with people you find attractive just shows you have good trust and communication in the relationship
If she actually wanted to cheat on you, she'd hide it (obviously), not openly do that. By openly looking at a guy she's letting you know (even if it's subconscious) that she likes you enough and is comfortable enough with you to be able to point that out without it being a legitimate threat
Fuck you're so insecure
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Well, you're conscious of the motives behind your feelings and actions which not a lot of people are. Do the same for her. You think she did that because she wanted to look at a side she found attractive or she did it to piss you off?? You might be right in feeling this way or you might be blowing it out of proportion. I get the feeling this isn't the first 'issue' you've dealt with as you're ready to call it quits. Jealousy is normal. You will find other girls hot. She will find other dudes hot. It's what you do after that matters. I wouldn't be thrilled if this happened to me but I don't know.. I wouldn't think about it too much
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Saturday I went with my gf camping.
We had a good time and all, then went back home (we don't live together) and ever since Saturday evening/night she acted cold towards me. First she didn't want to meet with me sunday and monday, her texts seemed forced even if she typed kisses and all that.
Today we'll meet.
How do I tackle this situation? How can I ask her what happened? She claims to be the type of person who always says if something's wrong, and she didn't say anything out of the ordinary.
Could it be that I'm thinking far too much about this and it's basically nothing?
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>>17513382
Hey babe, I'm feeling like there's something wrong. Can you help me figure this out?
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>>17513389
This, or something like this anyway.
You should talk to her like you will trust her. Don't accuse her or do anything of the sort. If anything, she'll be willing to open up to you as long as you lead her with a gentle hand.
Should be fine as long as you act like a human being, keep cool, think, and let her know that your love for her is strong through your composure in other words.
> t. tarantula wizard
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>>17513389
This. She's your girlfriend. You can ask her if you think something is wrong.
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ITT: Questions that dont need their own thread 2016-08-30 04:49:20 Post No.17513306
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Simple questions that dont need their own thread.
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How feasible is it to move to a new city and live out of your car?
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>>17513313
>new city
Which city? Also what kind of car?
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>>17513314
Nashville, TN. And it is a Honda civic but I can get a larger car if I need to. Which I probably will
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So I've been in a secret relationship for approximately 4 months now, and it's wearing on me. That being said please read the whole thing b4 jumping to conclusions.
It started at work, I was happy to have gotten a new job that I desperately needed and I see this guy there and think he's cute, we talked a dropped a few hints and we flirted a bit, that same day he winds up driving me home, it was fun we laughed and listened to music on loud, when were got to my house I said good-bye and he drove off, the next few times we worked we hung around each other and continued flirting, then one day after we got off at like 3 in the morning we spontaneously went to the beach, we ran and had fun being dorky. The next week we hang out outside if work and go to the beach swim drink a beer or two and he kisses me I was ecstatic and happy I had started to get a relationship going, a few more days out and he messaged me telling me that he feels like a complete dick and he has a girlfriend, but. He was going to break up with her for a while. I actually don't blow up and tell him okay I understand and I'll wait for you. A few weeks later I'm head over heels in love, and I tell him, "I love you" he told me he loves me back, i cried because I was so happy, we skipped work one day and slept in a hotel instead, that day was great but past that I decide I want to meet the girlfriend and he says no at first but then agrees and I met her, I wanted to hate her I really did, buy now we're friends and we are going behind her back. We started doing three sums and shit too like it's wild, but now I'm just getting more and more jealous because I love him with all my heart and I can't stop chasing him no matter how hard I try idk what to do
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>>17513224
You're fucking crazy.
I read the whole thing. I hope this is bait.
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It's not a bait
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Haha you're a really cool girl. I know this isn't bait. Anyway, if he hasn't broken up with her yet you are giving this guy delux treatment and as long as you believe that's all you deserve then you're going to stay. It's obvious now that after the honeymoon stages you want more and he's not willing to give that to you. Now you gotta make a decision and remember this, there is no neutral. You are going up or you're going down. You gotta put on some big girl pants and draw the line here.
That's the best advice I could give because I had a girl in the same position as you and I eventually settled down with her. If this happens, know things aren't gonna be honeymoon anymore. You both are going to hate the other side of each other after a while. There's a reason he needs her even tho he has you. The relationship just won't workout. If you try, be prepared and never let go of your life for him otherwise you'll be left with nothing and restarting from nothing sucks.
Can you actually DIE from a lack of physical contact, or does it just make you wish it would?
How do I ward off the craving for a few more years without going insane?
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>>17513145
get a dog? a pet would probably help alot.
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>>17513145
Pets, or at the very least, plants.
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>>17513208
They don't. We have three dogs, it's not the same.
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resume gap or shady work experience 2016-08-30 03:51:32 Post No.17513084
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I used to work at a shop run by some old guy, that was later accused of scams and fraud, and has recently left the town. I have no way to contact him but even so I don't really want anything to do with that guy.
The thing is, if I don't include this in my resume I can't justify a 2 year gap that would look like I was pretty much a NEET in those years.
Should I not include it since I can't prove I worked there?
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just be upfront and bring up the shadiness if they ask to speak to a reference
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Oh boy that's gonna be hard and awkward to explain. I don't want to bore my employers or accidentally come off as judgemental or weird. But I guess it's better tha pretending I've been doing nothing then.
Otherwise should I cover those years up by saying that instead I wasn't working but I was at home teaching some high school subjects to teens? That doesn't require references right? And I guess it's sort of some value for time.
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Are gaps like this in resumes really that big of a deal? What if you just said you wanted to take a year off or something? Are they really going to judge you that hard?
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I have never posted before, but loved the site 4ever.. I am a Mom of 2. a 16 year old boy and a 12 year old girl who had an oxygen loss at about a year old and is severely brain damaged now. This incident and the sudden death of my third son at 8 weeks old led to a brief but terrible addiction to prescription drugs. I am NOT excusing my addiction, just describing the circumstances. I have been clean for over a decade and that time in my life is still shameful to me. Both my parents are deceased and I have no other family now. I have always worked hard and gotten as much help for my children as possible. I admit my daughter can be overwhelming with self injuring and other issues that are tough to deal with at times. She requires an intensive school and one on one care at all times. My son often has to take a back seat and I am never fully able to make that right but I try. Both of them are very special and bring me great joy with the challenges. My problem is this... my company closed months ago and sincew then I have beenunable to find work. NOTHING has worked, and I have delayed bills, rent, and had to get food from the Church for many weeks now. I have tried EVERYTHING! The only responses I have received to my attempt to put my skills and need out there are porn type requests and other despicable replies. I have done ANY temp work offered even cleaning out dumpsters. Now, the wolves are at the door and I am drowning. We are all about to be homeless, and I am so ashamed. I have thought about robbing a bank even which I know I can't do, but I am so scared. Their father is gone, and I am all they have. I feel like such a failure. I should be able to provide for them, and save for their futures, especially for my youngest who will always need help. I truly have gone to every length I can think of, and every organization in my area to ask for help. I am out of time. I don't know what is going to happen but if anyone has any genuine advice, please help me. Thank you
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Can't you get onto state welfare, being a mom with kids? Go to DSHS and look into welfare programs, subsidized housing, anything you can possibly get. It's possible to get by on the cheap with what they give you, but you're going to have to sacrifice a lot of expenses. How's the transit system where you are, would you be able to live your life without a car? Do you absolutely NEED a cell phone? Etc. Cut out as many expenses as possible. As far as bills from past debts, look into declaring bankruptcy.
There are solutions, and while a lot of people may complain about welfare and social programs for political reasons, you're one of the people that they're meant for and you deserve them.
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I did not qualify for those options due to my daughter's small SSI payment which is used every month towards her therapy. While bankruptcy may help with credi card bills, etc.. the process os lengthy, costs A LOT AND WILL NOT HELP MY IMMEDIATE and urgent circumstances. I really appreciate your reply.
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What's happening regarding child support? If it's not being paid, talk to your state's child support agency.
Are you getting foodstamps?
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Is there a crowdfunding website where I don't have to give out my real name? I want to beg for money like on Gofundme, but I don't want my real name on the page.
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>want to beg for money
why
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>>17512883
Last year, I paid $40 for an elaborate commission, but haven't heard back from the artist since November. I'm seriously buttmad about it. I'm not going to explain that on a page that has my real fucking name, though.
I know there are people who give out their money to the non-homeless. There's a Reparations page on Facebook for dindus who feel they're owed money because they have a certain amount of melanin in their body. Don't ask me why people do this sort of thing, but they just do. Fuck, I gave $7 to a girl at my school who needed money to feed her cat once, though I wouldn't do that today. (For one thing, that was my mom's money that she gave me to buy food with, and not money I earned.)
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Get a job like everyone else.
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Am I crazy... or just aware? 2016-08-30 02:31:19 Post No.17512857
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I feel like when I'm watching a show or news or reading or pretty much any kind of media I am always analyzing and reading very deeply into what it means, what the message is supposed to be, what effect it is supposed to have, what the creators intentions were, etc.
Nobody I know really does this, at least not at the level that I do it.
Examples:
>roommate watching House (back when it was popular)
>sit down for a minute and watch it with him
>he swears its the greatest show ever
>after about ten minutes of watching it, I realize its biased and obviously the intention of the show is to make patients look like the bad guys or the ignorant sheep, and make doctors look like the good guys that are always looking out for your best interest regardless of your gut feeling
>tell him it's just propaganda to get you to listen to your doctor when they try to prescribe new drugs and probably sponsored by pill ads and shit...
>nexium ad airs
>zymbocort ad airs
>several others air in commercial time
>friend is like "...wtf you might be right? I never looked at it that way"
another (more recent):
>me and a friend love Filter (the band)
>friend plays the new album for me
>he likes it: "dude it rawks!!"
>"No. This is garbage I can't believe they are buying into BLM... fuck I loved this band..."
>friend is like "what? what are you talking about?"
>I explain
>"The second track is named "Nothing in my hands"... it's obviously a reference to being unarmed... it's angry. And it's followed up by Pride Flag, a song clearly about unity and standing together against hate... and then City of the Blinding Riots... it's a satire of U2's City of the Blinding Lights, only about riots and burning down cities. Fuck Filter man..."
>friend is like wtf bro, it still rocks
I don't wanna be crazy conspiracy theory guy but fuck, how do you come back from this? How do you come back from thinking this way about EVERYTHING you see?
pic related is... me. Am I a paranoid psycho?
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>Am I a paranoid psycho?
you just have special snowflake syndrome and want to hear that you are smart/deep/blabla.
your interpretations are possible but not certain. if you dont forget that and obsess over it then you are fine
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>>17512872
Special snowflake syndrome? I'm familiar with that, but can you explain better how it relates to me? I certainly don't think I'm a special snowflake, I know there are others that are like me, probably capable of analyzing things to an even greater level of detail. I just don't know that any of them ever find happiness or a girlfriend, and that's what scares me. How am I supposed to relate to women if they don't even know that JFK was assassinated by the globalists?
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Where'd you get that watch post link
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>be me
>19yo
>no job
>no money
>free university
>no goal in life
>no gf
>no friend
>only skill is programming
>cant sleep
>loves classic music
>lives in middle east
>live with family
>7/24 stay in home
any suggestions ?
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>>17512830
what country in the middle east?
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>>17512830
That's literally me 4 years ago, except the Middle East part. Now the only differences are that I have a job, degree, and money. Not happy yet though.
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>>17512835
turkey
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I've started starving myself and was wondering when I will start to lose significant weight (I also do 10 minuets of cardio a day) and wanted some tips on how to get through the day without eating
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You will gain it back if you jump back to normal eating. You need to not cheat.
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>>17512915
How long should I starve myself for until I go back to normal eating?
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>>17512827
Don't do this! I am recovering from an eating disorder and it was horrible. I almost died several times.
Starting yourself is putting you down this road. Do more cardio. Est several small meals per day, you will lose weight. Starving yourself will only lead to disaster and unimaginable pain.
I could answer your question but I'm not going to. Don't play with fire. Be safe.