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I need some help to know if my friend became a toxic little shit or I'm just an idealist that happens to have other friends that are stellar snowflakes in comparison.
Her claims are:
>In any friendship no matter how close it is, you can disappear for a month and not say anything and people can't complain because you can technically do whatever the fuck you want. (To clairfy, with friends that are not close at all, I don't think this is such a problem, but if you do it with people that are close...)
>You can tell a person that you don't wanna talk in specific with him or her (in other words, not a general problem, just you alone) and never give a justification that surpasses "because". If you get mad, it's your problem, not hers.
>You can judge something that a person likes just by one minimal element and call it bad despite never experiencing it, all while being a complete asshole in the process.
>This is something very specific, but after you help her in something about her well being, she can accuse you of not knowing shit about her. Once again, if you get mad, not her fault.
>If you tell her she is annoying because of those previous statements , she accuses you of pushing your morals on her and tells you that with her other friends all this shit is completely normal.
She literally told me she didn't want to talk anyomre because I get mad about her shit, so it is possible she will not be a problem anymore.
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Sounds like a normal woman. Get over her you ponyfag
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>>17473594
this
Majority of women are brainless entitled over-opinionated under-educated scum
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>>17473583
She sounds like a cunt that has absolutely no intentions to change - all because people like you tolerate her poor behavior. OP, it's your decision whether or not to keep someone as a friend. If you do not like this type of behavior, don't have her as a friend. If you can stand it, and think it's worth the trouble - although, why would it be? - then that's your choice too.
So nobody answer my last thread so hopefully this time somebody answers
Hi /adv/,
So I've been working as a case manager for at least 3 monts now, and yeserday I just graduated training.
Today I had my first court hearing and things went not so well. My supervisor called me into her office and basically threatened me to fire me and gave a lot of bullshit about how I am not listening to people. Everything I tried to say in my defense came up as an excuse for her and I feel like we cannot communicate at all.
I am going to quit today (I'm actually right now in my lunch break) but I don't want to get a bad reference if I do so. I just want to let them know that I don't feel fit for this job, nothing personal. Do you think that would affect my possibilities of getting hired somewhere else?
Update: I have not quitted yet but I talked to my mentor and told her I am going to quit. She recommended me to think about it and if I still want to do it, to give a 2 weeks notice to my supervisor.
I don't really know what to do because this is my first job after college, I don't want to add a bad reference to my work history but I feel like this job is just not for me.
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>>17473379
>give a 2 weeks notice to my supervisor.
this. Be polite and they should give you a good reference.
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>>17473496
I guess that's the appropriate thing to do. I'm just worried since this is my first job and is not going as expected. I feel like my supervisor is going to act like an ape when I show her my resignation letter. If she does approve me to stay those 2 weeks, I'm sure it will be hell.
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two week notice most definitely
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Help me not cheat on my gf 2016-08-18 15:07:03 Post No.17473329
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Help me not cheat on my gf
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1/2
So i know i will sound like an asshole, but I just want to hear some outsider's voice on this.
Tl;dr nutshell, my girlfriend's is absolute wife material, i really love her but somewhere in my gut i feel I'm just not satisfied. We've been together for 2 years, and I've went out with quite a few girls before and i know she's a keeper. But the sex is boring and unsaucy. It's like we're sexually incompatible and i haven't had much interest in putting in effort to fix it.
In the early stages of our relationship she had just broken up with someone else and had pretty low self esteem, and a low sex drive. While i did try to help her pick herself up i also wanted an outlet to my sexual frustration. I compensated with porn and fapping, lots of it.
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Actually 2/3
Fast forward a year or so later. Our relationship blossoms. She's caring, creative, positive, thoughtful, smart, we can laugh and talk about something new every day. She's adventurous and can keep up with my high energy lifestyle. Personally we're closer than ever, we've traveled on holidays together, we have plans for moving in together. We talk about kids all the time. There's never a dull moment with her. But we still haven't developed a healthy sex life, with our own 'language'.we brought up the subject of our boring sex life more than a few times but it was never really addressed conclusively. During our trip the sex was a little better, but the momentum wasn't strong enough to have a long lasting positive impact on us.
I'm really attached to her but i can't help but just ogle savagely at every piece of meat i see in the street, even when I'm with her. I was doing my best to ignore the beautiful foreign backpackers during our trip. I'm feeling the urge to walk up and talk to any girl i find attractive. I haven't done that in years. i want to fool around, have some sex crazed adventures before I'm tied down. Tinder stories make me gasp for air. I have so many fantasies i haven't had the chance to live before but feel like i can, now, and I want to act up on them before it's too late. I wasn't always like this. It's like I've lost faith in monogamy. i can't really tell where do my morals end and where do my urges start. The line between what i really want versus what my dick wants is pretty blurry to my eyes.
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3/3
For example it's like I'm mad about her for a week or two, but for the following week or two i need to take a breather. during this phase i fap to lots of different types of girls online while thinking, "why isn't my girlfriend more like her x? Why can't she be a little more kinky/a little taller/more athletic/have juicier ass and thighs/dress more womanly?" and then lose faith in our future as a couple. but once I'm fed up with porn i drop it for a week or two, and at that point when i see her again i feel stupid for having such bleak thoughts about her, i feel like i couldn't need anyone else in my life and should be more grateful and stop being so unnaturally nitpicky. Until i build up enough sexual energy and blast it furiously the next week... And repeat.
Fire away guys... I know cutting down on porn will help but that's the thing... It's been going on for so long i really can't tell what it is i truly want at this point. I need someone to either remind me that the grass is always greener on the other side and i should suck it up, or that i need to act on my urges.
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Just don't do it. It's not that hard.
So today I got my A-Level results, delighted I can go to university this year considering I took a nap in my Psychology paper.
However, over the last couple weeks I've been talking to a really gorgeous girl whose in the year below me at school, we've only been on one date so far but it got *incredibly* passionate by the end.
I'd envisaged having a relationship with her in the theoretical gap year I'd be taking, as I was certain I'd have to resit my Psychology and go to uni in 2017 instead. We're due to meet this coming Tuesday - I've already told her I'm going to uni today but neither of us have really discussed it on an emotional level. Is it safe to assume she's done with me? Is it unlikely she'd be up for a fling until I leave for uni late next month? I don't know what to do.
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*bump*
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*bump*
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c'mon guys, I need a hand.
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how long should i wait for my boyfriend to want to move in with me. we're 20 and 21 and together 2 years. is moving on after 4 years with no commitment reasonable?
how long did you wait?
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>>17473289
Have you spoken of moving in together yet? This post doesn't really give enough detail to just say "Yeah, leave him."
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>>17473291
multiple times. he wants to wait 7 years until he's 25. i think after we finish school in 2 years is reasonable. im hurt that it would take him that long to decide to even be a little serious. he's unwilling to compromise on this in spite of seeing the average amount of time to be 6 months to a year.
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>>17473291
what details do you need? >>17473291
I made a thread about this yesterday, I should be seeing a girl tonight and I'm not nervous at all, kind of excited really. She's similar to the picture.
Any advice or experiences with larger women would be heavily appreciated.
pun intended
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>>17473192
That's fucking enormous.
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>>17473199
slightly better example
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dont get her pregnant. ive seen a black skinny ass guy who had a baby with a 200+lb sharkisha. it was a moment he regretted.
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Possible to hang out / sleep with women if I don't have a place of my own? 2016-08-18 13:11:36 Post No.17473174
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Possible to hang out / sleep with women if I don't have a place of my own?
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Have a mother with abysmally low IQ who is a staunch Muslim. And I have a pussywhipped repressed homosexual father. I live with these people because uncle sam won't give me financial aid and I can't get a job yet that would hire me given my class hours.
I want to hang out with women / go to bars and maybe have sex if that's what's needed to build relationships. Problem is my parents and my home is out of the question, I can't bring anyone there, it's pure hell. What the fuck do I do? godamn I hate living here but I can't get a fucking job.
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>>17473174
It is definitely unattractive that you don't have your own place but you can get away with it. If you haven't known a girl long you can make up excuses as to why you can't take her back to your place, and ask to go to hers instead.
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>>17473240
Yeah nvm. I guess i have to wait. The only point in doing what you said was to just have sex. I am not interested in that >_> fuck!
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>>17473240
Not OP. I can't bring girls to my place because of family issues also. I don't know how could I smoothly ask to go to hers. In a relationship I guess it'd be ok to ask to go to hers or bring her to mine, but I'm talking about when I only want to bang.
Can't pull off the "wanna come watch a movie?" move, ugh.
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Moving in with my Ldr gf soon, only visited for a month before. She doesn't know i watch porn at all, none the less, the hentai and slightly more fucked interests. I enjoy jerking off to it, constantly, 5+ times a day, didn't when I was there, but wanted to every now and then. She wants sex multiple times a day, and masturbating is a waste and gross. How can I kick this porn habit? She's great and there is nothing wrong with the sex, but I just crave hentai from time to time. My ex and I would watch and get off to hentai together, and I think it poisoned me. What do
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And thinks masturbating is a waste and gross*
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>>17473019
Blue/wrong board dickhead
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>My ex and I would watch and get off to hentai together
lucky bastard.
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How do I find a passable trap?
Bi guy here who has dated guys and girls
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>>17472654
Step 1 - tie a noose
Step 2 - attach to a tree
Step 3 - stand on stepladder and put head through noose
Step 4 - knock stepladder out from under yourself.
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>>17472663
Im already dead inside
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>>17472668
Well follow my simple 4 step plan and you'll be dead full stop.
I have no problems with straight people. I have no problems with gay people. People that want to fuck something that sort of looks like something else are just fucked.
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Thread for those of us that have done something that would constitute being a 'crazy ex' or are on the receiving end of someones total meltdown.
keyed cars, house broken into, screaming matches, throwing stuff, driving inordinate distances, etc.
Hit me with it anon.
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>>17472415
My sister dated a guy who had spent 7 years in and out of prison on various offenses. Never knew what she saw in him. Probably some retard meme of her liking a bad boy or some other stupid shit. Anyway, he killed her 5 years ago. She broke up with him and he didn't like that, so he shot her 4 times in the chest.
He's in prison for the rest of his life now. Not that it matters. It doesn't change anything. Moral of the story: don't date trash. Don't date crazy. You're hurting more than just yourself.
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>>17472433
holy fucking shit.
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>>17472433
kek
I mean, I am sorry for your loss. But it's still funny.
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why are women on facebook so fucking stupid? 2016-08-18 04:45:28 Post No.17472185
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why are women on facebook so fucking stupid?
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Anyone know? I can't even go on facebook... all it is, is women posting dumb shit like pic related and taking pictures of themselves in the mirror.
It seriously makes me rage.
Women, where do you find the time to peruse dumb quotes and take selfies all fucking day? Don't you have careers? Aren't you trying to pursue equality?
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Why does this make you so mad, anon?
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>>17472190
Because the globalist agenda to make people dumber is working? Niggers are rioting in the streets? People are getting beheaded overseas? Immigrants are destroying europe? The media is blatantly lying to us? The bureau of land management is grabbing millions of acres of privately owned land? The welfare state is failing us? Our academia has been infiltrated with communists?
And of all the causes... of all the things out there to be upset about, and all the atrocities being committed every day... this is what women (generally) concern themselves with?
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>>17472207
Who cares?
Went to Buffalo Wild Wings with my bf tonight bc I had a coupon for free snack size wings and we had never tried it and had been talking about it. My bf said he was starving and wanted to go. I said it would be my treat. We got there and he seemed excited at first but then the food took forever to come out and when it did he didn't like it at all. He started getting really rude and complaining and I said I am paying just try to enjoy it but he couldnt enjoy it and he went off. He said that I forced him to go and I am an idiot and he could have bought chicken wings from the grocery and made something better. We were supposed to go to a party together and he said he didnt want to go. I almost started crying in the restaurant. He decided in his rage to pay for the meal then complained the whole car ride home.
The food was total crap but it always is when you go out which is why I usually pay for it.
The worst part is he did some really crappy stuff last weekend and I wanted to break up but he said he was so sorry. But a day later he is acting like a rude jerk.
He is 34. I think he honestly is the rudest person towards his woman and I don't understand how he can act like that.
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Then break up with him. A 34 year old acting like that is pretty shameful.
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What advice exactly are you looking for? Just dump thay shithead
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I dont know really.
I guess to understand why someone would act like that.
Most restaurants suck but when people take me out to dinner I enjoy the setting and their company and make an effort to enjoy the food because I don't want them to feel like crap.
He says he loves me so much but he hates most women and has never dated or been in a relationship before now.
It just hurts when he acts like this
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Tell me about your problems /adv/, I want to hear them all.
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>>17471533
I give advice to people to feel like I'm doing something with my life.
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Can't find someone to bond with my musical tastes. t b h
No friends
No Gf
Unfit, I'm probably ugly, have a chest deformation.
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Im behind on my rent and i cant find a job cuz no social so im fucked
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White people bother me. 2016-08-16 09:08:03 Post No.17466138
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I'm a 21 year old black guy and white males I find annoying. I hang out with a mixture of blacks/asians/mexicans with the occasional white person. First off I DONT hate white people they sort of just annoy me. Whenever there are like two white guys in our group they just do backward bullshit. It seems like try hard mode. Is there a way to just get them to stop being so fucking annoying?
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Maybe if you stopped being black you'd find them less annoying
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sounds like your in a gang, is the life of drugs and rap dance the life you want to live?
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>>17466138
Now you know how white people feel all the time around black people. Get it?
The Look
He did not know the moment that, in his eyes, she became beautiful to him. All he knew was that, now, as his eyes were transfixed on hers, he could not force them to focus on anything else, as though they had seen the paramount of everything that they were made to see and were reluctant to settle for anything less.
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>>17458543
Lovely. Don't lose her.
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I go through periods of hating you and loving you. I usually think about when you were a cunt, so it's mostly hate. But yeah, you got under my skin, and my life has been extremely fucked up since you passed away. It's getting better though, 7 goddamn years later, after a bout of drug addiction and homelessness. You really are a piece of shit to do that to someone. Hope you're rotting in hell, cunt.
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L,
Please talk to me. I feel lonely.
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