How do I stop finding women who are submissive disgusting? I just don't feel that they're human. Its like how women find weak men repulsive but for me I feel disgust and could never respect or like a girl who does that. I broke up with my last gf because after 7 months of what i thought was the best normal sex she told me she liked to be dominated in bed.
Anyone?
Wow really? Thanks a lot /adv/.
Yeah it can be kinda cringey if a woman fawns over you too much and is always asking what do you need sweetie/baby, etc. It's like there's no challenge or chase anymore to make things exciting, so you lose interest or become bored.
Hey /adv/ just wanted to get some suggestions of some kinky things to try in bed other than your typical bdsm shit. Nothing too crazy that'd scare her off but still enough to be exciting
Cut her with a knife. Sexily
Choking. And if you're too scared about scaring her off, try putting 2 fingers in her mouth.
Stab her in the tit with a needle
I cannot stop being a terrible person in general, specially to my mother.
A few days ago I made a post about this situation of how I, suddenly, started hating her even tho shes fragile and in a poor condition.
Tonight she fainted and me and my sister tried to carry her back to the bed. Although any normal person would feel worried about her, I just felt annoyed and wanted to get it over with, the thought of touching her made me feel disgusted.
I think she might die this year, either way I am left alone forever once shes gone I am done. The traces of my actions haunt me, mistreating her makes me feel terrible, but I just cant stop doing it, I feel some deep hatred for her.
But why would such a thing be when she has given me everything and continues to do so? Why am I such an hypocrite?
This exactly the kind of person I was warned of when I was a child. I made a promise I would never be like this and here I am, literally one of the worst possible outcomes that there could have been of all the other possibilities: dumb, a piece of shit without a job, friendless, coward.
Nobody wants me, my mother cares for me, I am so alone yet I don't want to be with no one, Its so terrible to having to deal with people, I feel awkward, sad, yet I do feel like everybody else, and I do feel lonely and I am going to lose my mother and then what.
Everyday the weight of every single one of these actions is bothering me, I feel it present as if it just happened, all of these absurd situations in which I am, inevitably, the bad guy, just put me down and made me realize of how disgusting I am, as if I came trully in contact with the absurdity of my plans, my hopes, myself and my existence, and I just see a grim future for me and that honestly makes me feel pretty bad.
help me
clearly your only option is to go trans
>>17475480
Thats a girl anon, Ive seen it myself!
Shes some russian cosplayer!
In a few days my girlfriend and I are starting college.
Our schools are a 2-3 hour train ride apart, so we'll probably get to see eachother a bit.
I love her so much, but I don't know if I'm going to be able to handle the distance. I get paranoid and jealous sometimes and it really sucks.
I don't even know what arrangement we'll have in college. She proposed the idea of an open relationship, but I definitely don't want that. I'd be too insecure. She said that's fine and she'll do whatever makes me happy.
I just want a normal closed and committed relationship, but she mentions that she's anxious about making the comitment.
I guess I can just see what it's like once I get to school. Maybe things will work out. I'm looking to transfer to a school in her city anyways. Not because I want to be with her, but because I decided I want to change from a liberal arts school to an acting conservatory.
People who have tried to make it work in college, what advice do you have?
>>17475334
If she's already thinking about open relationships, unsure if it'll work etc then sorry but I doubt it'll work out
>>17475334
95% of high school relationships end by freshmen year of college. It would be better to just end it, because it will end , regardless.
>>17475334
its all ogre
>change from a liberal arts school to an acting conservatory.
your career is, just to clarify
Not sure if this is the proper board but surely yall gonna redirect me to wherever that is
So some real shit:
Me and my friends never get drunk around water because we don't want to die and shit
But when we get high I noticed our motor skills are still good yknow?
So do you think it's safe to smoke by the river and go for a dip after?
Pic is just whatever was at the top of the folder
>>17475325
You don't seem so bright.
I would suggest you stay away from large bodies of water, open flame, train tracks, heavy machinery, household chemicals and high places at all times.
Why are you afraid of water?
>>17475336
I ain't fucking retarded mate.
>>17475341
Not afraid, I swim since I was a kid, but yknow drunk swimming usually ends in death
Technically I'm a virgin but I go to soapland spas which offer everything but penetrative sex. Lately they they added penetrative sex in the services. Should I just get it over with?
Yeah. It's no use to keep from it, you might feel morally divided but just forget that, it's pleasure, embrace that shit like a fucking body pillow
>>17475322
Which country are you in? Id say try to go for a genuine relationship rather than a soapland. It would probably be an empty experience 8n soapland..
>>17475337
Philippines. I mean Ive done everything but sex with the spa "therapists" but when the option of actual penetration opened I didn't jump on it and actually felt conflicted. The only two girls I dated were virgins becaise we were to young at the time and another was the religious type. So I ended up just going to soapland spas.
>hate working
>perform badly
>get demoted to even more mindless position
>perform worse
>become NEET
>get bored
>start working
>hate work
wat do /adv/?
>>17475317
At least you keep getting back to work. I don't.
Just bite the stick and keep working
At least it's useful
>>17475370
>underpaid wagecuck position
>boss likes to make me to do things again just to be a cunt
>reportedly have a high iq (whatever that's worth)
>job is entirely a test of my physical stamina, of which i have none.
nah, anon, i think i'm wasting my life here.
Why don't rappers get arrested for drinking lean and smoking weed in their videos? He says he gets a prescription but admits to abuse so wouldn't that get his prescription revoked and his doctor fired?
I also see several other rap artists that drink lean and do Xanax while smoking weed even live on snapchat and they even invite others on social media to come do drugs with them and post where they are.
Do the cops just watch the videos and shake their head and call them idiots and can't really do anything unless they're local and happen to pull them over? I even see lower level rappers doing it and they pour lean right from the bottles into a cup and roll the weed. Is it the prescription that gets them away with the shit? Isn't doing drugs on social media enough for probable cause and people can report you to the police?
>>17475314
It's a case of people looking the other way because they don't want to deal with a royal shirt storm of press/lawyers/fans/etc over something that's looking more and more likely to be a non issue in the very near future (in regards to weed anyway).
On a related note, I was at Fetty show a few months ago and was pretty amused when they started throwing out fistfull of joins out in to the crowd
>>17475314
Because when you have a lot of money you can do whatever you want.
People with money seldom face the laws as hard as people without it.
I want to be a girl so I can be a slut and wear little skirts and blush and makeup and eyeliner and tight tops that show my medium sized little nipples, and for guys to come hit on me and then I suck their dicks and let them fuck my little wet pussy from behind back at their apartment, slapping my ass hard so it goes red
Are male to female transitions ever successful for someone in their early 20s who already looks naturally a bit girly in figure and has a bit of a high voice?
i bet you're autistic
Sometimes I want a cock so I can feel what it's like to actually enjoy sex/orgasm.
But that usually passes pretty quickly.
It's nice to have fantasies.
>>17475328
You'd probably still be incapable of pleasure
Is loyalty and monogamous relationships a meme nowadays? Why people such sluts and always intend on cheating and doing suspicious shit before breaking up?
Its not a meme unless ur below 21 years of age. After that people usually grow up. Except for the extreme sluts, but they just go to LA.
So never date anyone from LA unless you just want sex.
Dont be so paranoid
>>17476134
This. If you look at people who got married at 25+ and have higher education, divorce statistics aren't even that bad.
http://psychcentral.com/lib/the-myth-of-the-high-rate-of-divorce/
Hope it's the age like the other anon said, but idk lot of cheating/crazy sluts, feel like there is no social pressure to keep behaving like you're suppose to.
Few decades ago it would be looked down upon, but now it's "you go gurl !!111".
Same for men tho.
/adv/ I don't know how to spice up the bedroom
for refrence, I'm a 24 year old female, so I'm not into stupid daddy-dom tumblr babby shit
my boyfriend and I don't get a lot of time to fuck, and when we do, it's usually pretty boring
He's so shy, it hurts
we've been together for a year and a half and it's just so stale
I came out of a relationship with a dude who was pretty kinky, and I enjoyed it
I love my boyfriend, but he just kind of fucks me, cums, and then gives me a kiss
I just don't get it. He has had a ton more experience than I have, but he's so boring, it hurts
I've tried so many things, and nothing seems to click with him
I've tried suggesting bondage, I've bought some hot massage candles, I've bought lingerie, dildos, buttplugs, costumes, like all the easy entry-level kink stuff
I don't know what to do anymore
I feel like crying. Sex isn't fun.
It's a miracle if I even cum
WHAT DO I DO
>>17475213
Tell all this to your boyfriend.
>>17475254
I feel like telling him this all with no buffer is going to crush his heart
we've had so many other problems, i kinda just want to leave, but i do love him and i don't want to hurt him
>>17475213
Love your boyfriend but find yourself a guy on the side who will scramble your ovaries.
You have a nice, loving boyfriend, etc. but you also have needs that aren't being met.
You're not doing this vindictively or to look for other guys to replace him; you're simply doing this to have your physical needs met.
I was in the same situation; my grillfriend I didn't have sex for over 6 months and I needed a jump start so I started fucking a cutie from college and my libido increased to OVER 9000.
Good luck and may the Force be with you.
okay, i know this sounds stupid, but let me explain, im a pansexual girl, & like 6 months ago i had sex with another girl, okay, then like a month ago i liked a boy & we started dating, everything was fine & last week, he asked me if i was a virgin, so i told him im not, & he started yelling at me & he was so mad, & he asked who was it, & when i replied the girls name he was like oh, so you are still a virgin, cause a girl does not count, we broke up anyways but now im confused, if im a girl, & i have sex with another girl im still virgin? cause now im just confused & i want different opinions
Virginity is a meme op
>>17475212
I would consider you a virgin personally.
>>17475212
Physically, yes.
"Emotionally", no - if a girl fucked with another girl for all her life would you consider her virgin?
I'm pretty sure I got fucking ghosted, my gf of 8 years left to Air Force basic training over 10 weeks ago and I haven't heard shit from here. I got letters the first month and I sent her about 14. I know training is only about 8 and a half weeks. I've sent emails I've tried contacting her family, calls, everything I can think of. How do I move on from this? I'm in med school and I have a lot of friends that are girls, do I start there? I'm pretty devastated.
Oh you again. How was your birthday?
>>17475182
Fucking shit, except for a friend of mine came over and we had drinks and she made me a cake. She's super sweet, I told her I'd take her dancing this weekend.
>>17475182
Do I delete all my ex's pictures and get rid of the stuff she left at my place? I wanna get over her and move on you'd think after 8 years of dating she'd atleast break up with me normal
I live in Singapore and I got a temporary job at a Danish company. Befriended a coworker from the Danish branch (we are both fans of jazz music so we just clicked). How often can I text him without bugging him too much? Should I avoid texting him during the weekdays as he has to go to work?
start slow, if you get good responses and conversation, speed up. Once a week, or perhaps a few times a week. Feel it out a bit.
>>17475637
>perhaps a few times a week
Even during the weekdays when he goes to work?
I feel like I will always be the one initiating the conversation. This is pretty much the case with almost all of my friends. Is this an issue?
Anyone good with washers here. It's full of water and I don't know which one is the drain pipe.
>>17475101
really?
>>17475101
I'm not sure off the top of my head. I'm not sure any of us does.
But I see three hoses, one of which goes into a blue valve. That one almost certainly isn't the drainpipe, and it stands to reason that the one just like it isn't either (my guess is that it goes into a red valve somewhere off camera). That leaves only the third pipe, which I will also note is bigger than the other two. Assuming it doesn't go into some kind of valve too, it's probably the one you're looking for.
>>17475145
>>17475121
It was the middle one. Tried to gravity drain but only a tiny bit of water came out.