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This better be b8.

You've known him less than a week. You don't owe him an explanation and he has no right to any real indignation at this point.

Just let him know that you had serious intentions but that you're moving and can't pursue things further, and his response SHOULD not be anything other than "that's a shame, but I understand."

You've known this fucking guy for three days.

ghosting is for bitches

fuck, just link him this thread

What benefits do you provide for her, does she work, how old is she/you?

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>A friend of the family said that he heard of a store owner near by fucking my wife

Don't know why, but I lost my shit at this.

>>17473988
Yeah it wasn't great to hear it but I get that it sounds pretty fucking stupid

Op I'm really hoping that you're a virgin because every man who says this ironically has already had sex with a couple of women.
I personally prefer virgin men it makes me feel more special, and I feel that it's reasonable for men to feel the same , that's why I'm saving myself for marriage, not for religious reasons but more so I can be sure that is who i will be with.

I doubt anyone truly wants someone who has slept around a lot calling it "experienced" is like calling a fat chick curvy.

>>17473965
I'm so virgin I never kissed a girl.
I see it the same way, I want to have only one partner for the whole life.
I barely talk to girls too, I'm not good at social things.

Get other hobbies and hope she isn't full feminazi about video games

>>17473956
I have other hobbies, but they're all pretty solitary. I take boxing lessons a few days a week, I like lifting, reading, movies, and generally enjoy going out of town on weekends for some light travel.

But I'm a grown man of 30 who's been playing video games since I was 6. There simply isn't any other activity that provides me the mental relaxation that gaming does and it is my go-to means of unwinding after a long day of work.

>>17473945
You just can't let video games fill all your available free time. I like video games too, but I also very much enjoy spending time with the people I like.

It's very helpful if you get a girlfriend who has interests that she likes to pursue that are independent, as opposed to someone who, outside of doing necessary things, just looks to kill time.

>>17473914

Girls ignore because you have to pursue

Gay men are pursuing you because you are desirable

Pursue girls instead of waiting for them to notice you (they have) and come flirt with you (they won't)

>>17473922
But don't girls just enjoy the attention?

I don't want to put all that effort into flirting and approaching and all this shit when an army of thirsty guys are doing the same, fuck those odds

What happened to strong independent women and feminism? Shouldn't liberated women be able to take charge?

>>17473931
Pretending to be ignorant and stupid, makes you legitimately ignorant and stupid.

>>17473911

Weekend drinking
Sex with spuse/partner
Driving like an asshole with the car full of your spawn
Home repairs, slapping stuff with a hammer is very therapeutic

>>17473911
Exercising, hobbies, food, recreational activities.

>>17473924
Drinking seems pretty destructive, so dismissed.
Sex with spouse is a great idea, but the reason i'm so lonely is that he's in military, so this one is impossible too.
Not going to risk my kids life. Dropped.
I built up a lot of ikea furniture lately. It's pretty addictive. But now my home is full and my budget is used up. I might have to look into building something myself. Good suggestion! Thanks

>>17473910
Master basic English.

>>17473910
Why the fuck would you do that? You confronted him at his workplace about how he was stealing from them, what the hell did you expect to happen? Lol, I'd invite you to a bbq tomorrow, and by bbq I mean ass whooping.

time to apologize and say that while you don't agree with his stealing, you should have come to him with it first rather than snitching, you autistic fuck

>>17473873

the native americans had a spirit totem for the bobcat that taught those under its guidance how to be 'alone without being lonely'. this isn't to say that those born following the bobcat were meant to be forever alone, permasingle, or life long virgin hermits. just that they need to be able to enjoy time with themselves better than other people.

something to think about

>>17473895

heres a copy pasta:


define 'alone'. im guessing you are edgy and claiming that the universe has magically decided that you will be single, so im going to write out assuming that.

the things you need for a happy life are
>a job you can stand
>'productive' hobbies
>meaningful relationsihps

lets start with
>a job you can stand

not everyone gets their dream jobs and most dream jobs are not what they are cracked up to be. however if work is something you hate or get sad at the thought of, then your job isnt right for you. try to find a career field you can stand.

my best friend loves working at a restaurant cuz its social. he just has to take orders, make small talk, and deliver plates. it keeps him on his feet and burning calories. I cant stand wokring at a restaurant. i enjoy the exercise but after that it makes me feel like im dead inside. I prefer working in a small business cuz i enjoy wearing suits, relaxing, doing math etc.

dont be afraid to try new jobs. it may take up extra time until you find the right one (what iwth working one job and applying for another) but its an important sacrifice to make until you find one that works for you.

Life basically boils down to college->work->sleep rinse repeat. The couple of friends I do have are usually busy and our schedules rarely overlap with free time. Dating is also a shit show.

Current plan is to finish college and maybe make some progress on the other fronts once my schedule frees up.

Be asexual, it's great

>>17473830
You can't just 'be' asexual. I would have to wait until menopause for it to stop

>>17473821
You are a great troll so there is that.
Why does /adv/ have the best trolls? It's not even because they need to be good since any poor attempt gets a lot of (you)s.

>>17473761
Maybe you've caught a new, undocumented STD.

>>17473761

Herpes

You could also be out of shape though

>>17473799
I doubt that.
Could these simply be a symptom of being a bit unfit? I don't have a headache or aches anywhere else than my arms and legs. I also feel bloated in the stomach. I want to get myself checked regardless.
Again could this just be me being unhealthy? I feel indifferent about what I did.

Bump
Come on, nobody?

Alcoholic here.

I'm afraid nothing you say or do will have any impact on your father. He will have an answer to anything you say. He will justify or dismiss anything you say. He will get offended or upset by anything you say. He will turn anything you say against you. It's all part of the addiction.

You could tell him you think his drinking is harming him and those who love him but I'd say that on the final day just before you leave not when you arrive or while he has days to think of an answer.

This is his road. He is travelling it alone. He needs to come to the realisation by himself. Change will only happen when he wants to change.

>>17474986
Thanks for your answer, it does make me feel a bit more prepared for whats to come

Lemme guess, you're skinny and have an undercut hairstyle.

>>17474306
No. I do have an undercut, but I'm fat and kinda muscular. Also a manlet.

>>17474319
They might think you are a bear.

>>17473272
Because it hasn't.
You're seeing a rapidly changing market, where you have little buying power and expensive tastes, and feel like it's the end of the world, but it isn't.
It's just that your place isn't what you wanted it to be.
You have to either get more power, or change your tastes.

>>17473280
>Because it hasn't.
Yes it has.

The rest of your post is projection. Shall we argue about it? I just wanna confirm you're not gonna vanish.

Because why talk about the obvious.

>>17473144
>i'm a pretty anxious person by default and get frazzled in large social situations. should i still try them?
Yeah, but make sure you can get some peace and quiet when you're tripping. Natural surroundings are best IMO.

Shrooms ok but start with a small dose and do it with a sitter

>>17473144
I recommend also that you try salvia first. Trip is short and good. Small dose of lsd can also be a good start

5'1, 130lbs, no tits.
Just wondering if guys on adv thinks being short and chubby child-like is attractive...

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Yes, is very attractive, but don't become too fat. You have an awesome body.

>>17473146
you're not chubby you're fat

go work out