I asked a girl out and told her we'd figure out a date to go out. This is me figuring out a date. I don't feel like she's excited at all. I'm really new to this how'd I do?
We're not in her head. Anything 4chan tells you is just going to make you panic and feel like shit. Stop overthinking this and just enjoy your date
>>17472394
isnt buffalo an entire city? she cant get excited about general hang out. she is interested enough, she is following hte 'please ask me on a date' script. i do it to.
as soon as somsone asks me out i said
"what did you have in mind?' if they're non specific iti s a turn off. whats worse is when they ask what i want to do, basically planning hte seduction FOR THEM.
that being said, dont worry about how excited she is. she either likes you or she doesnt. exciting her with an activity wont make her think 'WOW I GUESS IM STARTING TO LIEK ANON' shes either in or shes out. for now shes seemingly in. seal the deal and dont worry about 'excitement'.
>>17472408
It's a restaurant, she's cute so I hope I don't fuck this up
So I just found out Air Traffic Control workers make $125,000 a year and only need an associate's degree.
Why isn't everybody doing this?
I'm considering entering into this career path, does anybody have experience and can tell me a little more about it?
>>17472371
think about how many air ports there really are in america. divide that by the number of people who actually know about it, and then multiply by the number of fucks i give, and you'll find out why you're such a fucking faggot.
>>17472371
I know someone who went to the training program. Apparently it is tough and not very many people pass.
>>17472392
I'm in college one year left until I get my bachelor's degree in exercise science. This is a total 180 but when I found out about how much they make it was blown away. The guy I talked to said he did it straight out of high school years ago but it's harder to get into but totally worth it. If he can do it with a high school education then it can't be that hard, right?
I hear that both trump and shillary are planning to really ban shota and loli. I never enjoyed either of those things,but I have seen it. My question is,since its always been a massive legal grey area,could I be punished retroactively for viewing it? Rational part of the brain tells me it'd be unconstitutional. My gut has been driving me crazy lately,and I'm ridiculously paranoid. I mean,if its posted on /b/ pretty regularly and is sold by j list,it cant be right? I just need confirmation.
Please respond in depth. I don't want to die,but i'll take it over prison.
>>17472354
you have nothign to worry about if you dont actually seek it out. if a law passes banning something it does not mean that those operating it are immediately under arrest. thats not how the law works. if that was the case literally every single food company would be shut down because of ever changing FDA regulations.
a lot of houses or apartments would have to be ufcking demolished cuz they dont fit the new standard. when a new law gets passed, things begin to slowly phase out. a company like J-list might have several months to begin removing them from american markets. but theres always the international grey area.
but no, you would not get retroactively punished, that makes no sense. its not even abotu constitutional, its just blatantly fuckign silly.
as for the random postings of /b/ i wouldnt worry. even with CP crack downs no one just scrolling by a thread has ever been V&.
>>17472378
But there have been cases where people have had the punishment hiked and all of those had to do with sex crimes,so whats preventing this especially when dealing with insane nutjobs like shillary and trump
who or what makes you want to kill your self? for me its my mother and sister.
>>17472344
>other people make you want to kill yourself
are you sure you dont want to just kill them?
>>17472364
back when i was a kid i did but then some of my depression eased up
nothing but myself desu anon
Hi,
Currently in the process of going "cold turkey" on SSRI inhibitors. I'm not sure what to do to make it easier, no vomiting so far, I just feel like like my brain is getting electroshocks, losing track of time, sweating as fuck, nausea. I can't tell when exactly I've stopped taking Seroxat, 30mg, about a week ago, +/-1 day. My motor functions are reduced a decent amount, I can tell because I've been playing a guitar every day since coming off as a reference to previous days, I'm missing a lot more notes and playing much slower.
Does anyone have any similar expiriences in the past with this? How long is this going to last, considering I've been around 3 years on Zoloft and last 6 months on Seroxat? What the fuck have I gotten myself in?
As dumb as it was to go cold turkey on this, I can't stop now, I don't want to waste another 6 months reducing the dose marginally every other week, I just have my reasons for going off SSRI inhibs. My fucking brains feel like mashed potatoes right now and I have exams to prepare. Googling this shit basically tells you that you're going to have to sell your soul to the devil to start feeling fine again, which I personally think it's kind of an exaggeration.
Any advice?
You're an idiot enjoy fucking your endocrine system because you think you're smarter than a doctor who could actually help you safely taper off meds or get new ones
Its stupidity like yours that gives SSRIs such a bad rep
>>17472372
I don't need "safely" and I don't need "taper off" I need it flushed A.S.A.P.
ASAP implies you cut some corners, I am not smarter than a doctor and you're not smarter than a fucking retard, because even fucking retards can connect the two dots that need connecting here.
>>17472426
You do realize that you can cause some serious, permanent harm to your body by cutting drugs like this cold turkey, right? There is no "cutting corners" with this shit.
yo /adv/ should I be a dumb faggot and buy a 1070 with my excess financial aid?
>pic related
buy a 1060 instead, or commit and get a 1080
the 1070 is basically a 1060 trying to be a 1080
>>17472301
hwo good is this thing? i do visual effects but know nothing of graphics card. i just know that my computer needs some sort of an upgrade cuz it is not doing well with some of the more intense stuff
>>17472297
buy a refurbished laptop and spray paint it
I'm in love with my ex's little sister, and I worry that she's off-limits. Also, we barely know each other.
Wtf do I do??!
>>17472231
>in love
>we barely know each other
Ya DUMB
is it worth the potential drama? ask her out. if not, then move on.
>>17472266
Idk. It seems dumb, and destined to fail, but I want to.
Whats the best most sneakiest method to screenshotting someone's snapchat story without them finding out?
If I load the snap, then switch off wifi, mobile network etc, and activate airplane mode, that wont notify them when Ive screenshotted right?
Until Ive turnt off airplane mode and reconnected. If I kept airplane mode on until the snap story expires, they'll never see the notification of a screenshot next to the viewer notification right?
Any tips from other sneaky cunts gladly appreciated
>download bluestacks
>Link account to PC
>Use snipping tool or print screen
Fucking noob
Use a separate device to take a photo of your device while the chat is on screen.
Snapception.
>>17472219
turnt isn't a word.
tl;dr: My girlfriend just broke up with me to see other people, but she's still DTF. What do?
Sup guys? Here's the part where I vent.
I'm a loser that made it to my late 20's without ever having a significant relationship. She's a punk that's probably had more relationships than letters in the alphabet. I met her through a friend she dated briefly. After they broke up, we chatted on Facebook for months. No flirting, just friends. I caught feels, but kept them to myself. One day she called me out on being single and asked if I had any crushes. I confessed, she reciprocated, you can guess the rest.
We dated for almost 3 months. We became very intimate, of course, and very much in love. But several issues arose that made it clear we are incompatible. She's introverted, I'm extroverted. I like going out, she's a homebody. She has a morning job, I have an evening job. She has a preschooler, which severely limits her options and availability, and I don't (my assistance in raising this child was mutually undesirable and a non-issue; go ahead and call me a cuck.). She's a genderqueer pansexual polyamorous social justice warrior, and I'm a cisgender heterosexual monogamous egalitarian. I could go on.
Anyway, she recently came to the realization that she can't be in a committed relationship with me or probably anyone ever again (apparently). And although she still loves me very much and would still like to stay friends, hang out, and possibly hook up every now and again, she's going to go start fucking other people. By the way she made it sound, you'd think she means immediately.
On one hand, I feel like continuing a sexual relationship with her will stunt my drive to move on and seek other partners, while simultaneously feeding unhealthy emotions like jealously and bitterness, until eventually what's left of our friendship is ruined. On the other hand, sex is great, it'd be great to have occasional sex until I find someone else, it's just sex right?
>>17472191
>Should I keep fucking my recent ex?
I didn't even need to read past that, the answer is automatically no. they're your ex for a reason. either stop fucking them or make them not an ex anymore. next.
>>17472206
Fair enough. Thanks for the input.
I'm guessing that's the only answer I'm going to get, from you alone or if anyone else comments. I just wanted to put this out there and see if anyone would say otherwise.
>>17472229
Yeah I agree with the other poster, don't unless you were to get back together
Hello adv/. I'm bummed out, and like 7 shots in. I probably couldn't walk across the room right now imso drunk.
last week I left my abusiv boyfriend. The perfect guy ofr me is un boyfriendable. I've been rethinking leaving the ashole because now I'm lonely and feel like damaged goods. How do moveon and leave all the bad behind me.? I just want to be happy.
Get a haircut, workout, improve your self image and stop trying to get a boyfriend. You need to love yourself before someone can love you. I'm sure you felt your previous boyfriend was perfect for you as well.
You accept the love you think you deserve.
>>17472170
Also don't start offering up your pussy because you wan companionship. No man will treat you kindly if you disrespect yourself for some kind of "liberation"
Just forewarning from a guy looking for a girl with decent morals in a city. FML
>>17472181
tto late for that. I'm already used up and broken. no guy who wants a decent woman would ever consdier me anyway.
Found this on the light rail what do I do with this?
>>17472095
Fap
Why would you even pick it up and take it with you?
>>17472095
Come fuck me
I've been contemplating what makes an individual perfect and how to life a rich and rewarding lifestyle and I believe that I've come up with 8 steps on how to achieve this:
1. Water
2. Diet
3. Meditation
4. Books
5. Music
6. Exercise
7. Sleep
8. Work
My belief is that doing these 8 things and fulfilling these tasks each day, your life is likely to improve. As a side, the music is just my personal recreational preference and can be swapped with anything that spurs creativity. Any suggestions as to improvements would be appreciated.
>>17472090
Goals and fun
>>17472141
The Work aspect applies to Goals also and the fun is what happens in between the fulfilment of these steps.
>>17472090
what about Other People?
How to stop the feeling of crying for no reason even when there's nothing to cry about something wrong with me ?
>>17472064
Be a hero. Do it
>>17472064
Be edgy like >>17472115
>>17472064
argue on /pol/
Hi guys, this is a real story, about 2 months ago my entire family almost got kidnapped. I need some eyes to read some info that I personally havent talked about it with the people around me.
I'll post more as I can organize my mind.
I was in college when an employee of a relative was kidnapped, i didnt know until my father called me and told me very important instructions to not leave the college, as he was telling me that, I got myself a little knife that I use to make some engineering stuff, awaiting his arrival.
Since this point everything might seems as a movie, but it isn't, when he arrived I get in my car and started the trip to our home, I hid my knife under my legs, and near to our house there was a unusual police prescense, I thought my family called them but they didn't.
Where I live the police isnt very trustable, many cases were reported where the police officers are the criminals, using the state resources to achieve their bad goals, even "nonexistent" hacking technology. :/
So I have a strong desire to do an awful thing /adv/.
>22 female just moved to the city
>Always attracted to tall blonde jerks
>Trying to make new friends so I try and go check out local events/groups
>See that larpers be larping, go check it out
I start talking to this dude. He's a larper so I instinctively want to make fun of him but he's genuinely charming and pretty cute in a nerdy kind of way. I don't want to like blatantly hit on him because I'm a commitaphobe and I'm honestly just trying to make friends
>Find out he has a GF
>Start talking to GF for a bit
She's.. kind of a loser. She seems really nice, but we were talking and she's been in junior college for like.. 10 years. Going for an art degree. And she seems a little.. on the spectrum.
So the narcissist that I am has been thinking, "you know who would be far better for that guy than the girl he's been dating for 2 years and is probably very much in love with? ME"
I'm not going to do anything to come between these two people because I'm not a shitty person, but it just seems dirty to have such awful ideas, you know?
Like I know it probably just stems from jealousy since I haven't had a healthy relationship for half a decade, but does anyone have any advice about how I can grow past being a instinctive bastard?
Ur a Cunt. Accept it
>>17471998
Thoughts like that occur in every girl with high self esteem, as long as you don't act on it you're good
>>17471998
>22 female just moved to the city
>Always attracted to tall blonde jerks
> I haven't had a healthy relationship for half a decade
It's because you're both vapid and attracted to people with equally terrible personalities. I doubt a kind larp nerd will fall for your shit; at best, you're just tossing some new possible friends out because you can't not be a dumb whore.
But you say you won't do it, so that's good.