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>>17470979
You should have a sidechick fyi, since she most likely has a side dude.

See this one once a week M-F since she clearly is okay with the bare minimum, and see the other one on weekends.

I'm dead serious by the way. This is a standard.

>>17470979
I personally can't handle every day.
3-4 hours every other day would be okay.

Well it seems like you have different needs or different views of relationship. But maybe she has so underlying issues. Some people have so severe anxiety, that they are not able to relax even (or specially) when meeting with their significant other. If your girl is one of this people, she would be very self concious and stressed out during every meet up thinking constantly about how you see her and if she don't do something good. If such a scenario seems likely to your girl, best way of proceding would be to make her more confident in herself and in your relationship and let her relax, reasure her or such.

who the fuck would buy your disease-ridden genetic material

>>17470993
LA area women who bemoan a lack of latino men in their area?

>>17471006
I don't think those exist, my friend.

>>17470944
Maybe post your videos to see what is there to improve? You are asking for advice but you are not giving anything out lmao.

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BUMP (that works on this board right?)
Please help me out guys, I have nothing in life to occupy myself this is my only hobby and I want to be good at it

>>17471005
see
>>17470960

There is nothing wrong with going to a bar by yourself after work.

Hell you can talk to the other people there that are alone and make friends

>>17470945
Not OP but literally no one does this where i live, i mean there is people but its just married losers that are on their 40 so there is not really a point to going out to just relate to this kind of people

>>17470955
Where do you live?

>>17470937
I liked my graveyard job because it was really quiet and I didn't have to deal with people. Downsides are the physical labor + fucked up sleep schedule. It can make it difficult to socialize with people, because you're sleeping at odd hours.

CVS blows dicks. Fuck that company. Nothing but nightmare stories from people I know who have worked there.

Produce clerk is pretty chill. Most likely daytime hours. Don't have to interact with customers as much as a cashier does.

So if you're a night owl without much of a social life anyway, go for graveyard. If you want to maintain some normalcy, go produce clerk.

>>17470937
>>17470949
only take the night shift if you have REALLY good blinds or sleep in a basement. when i worked night shift i would end up getting 4-5 hours of sleep a night because the sun would always wake me up

id take the produce clerk job

>>17470959
yeah that too. I bought blackout curtains from Walmart and they worked fine.

>>17470929
What are you studying?

>>17470934

Engineering physics.

I know a girl who's marrying a guy 15 years older than her and they seem happy so I say go for it.

You have 2 options: go through with it or don't. If you are going to go through with it, do it in a way that your comfortable. Maybe your worried she will kidnap or rape your or something, so do it at your house. Maybe you'll be turned off by her immense saggy old body shaking over you, so turn of the lights. If you don't want to do it just stall. Say you have a family emergency or something and give yourself more time to think. good luck

Just ghost her dude

>>17471015
Pretty much this.

>>17470908
wtf is 12.01? is it january?
she cheated on you but trowing nudes out will make you a lesser man*

*unless you post them here

I don't understand what you mean. Your gf was in a relationship with someone else but sent you nudes?

>>17470908
Don't do long distance relationships. White people are terrible at it.

But also don't spread the nudes. It's not worth it and if she's a true whore, someone else will do it for you eventually.

Move on.

>>17470892
Robotics. Everybody and their mother knows network shit now. They teach kids in junior high how to program and shit these days. Robotics will give you more opportunities that aren't as competitive, and will pay more.

Or go into networking and enjoy $16 an hour forever with all the chucklefucks who went to community college.

>>17470892
Robotics. BUT make sure you get an additional engineering because robotics is practically. useless on its own.

>>17470911
Know anything about the field? Haven't been exposed to it too much
>>17470906
Damn, I thought it a good field. Is computer science still good?

>>17470870
I meant*
>Deadline to find an internship is this Friday

>>17470870

This was literally me for a few years. I've gotten past it though. I've realized that different organizations have different standards for interns, and my issue was that I was consistently applying for internships at places that expected interns to have a few internships under their belt already. You're going to have to start applying at shit teir places for unpaid jobs, also look up places that want people to volunteer, which is sort of like a job. You can also do temp work by applying at local temp agencies

>>17471615
To finish, having connections only helps you beat out others if you already meet their requirements

>>17470863
I can't even check my email right now because I may have a meeting tomorrow or on Friday.

>>17470877
Same here brah. I got a job interview at a pub/bar and I'm too anxious to call in and arrange it. I'm leaving it till tomorrow regardless (britbong, it's kinda late) but still man, it's getting to me.

It's all part of the fun of being a beta

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>>17470861

cont.

I've spoken to gay people now for the past week on their thoughts about sexual orientation. They've told me that being gay is something they knew pretty well ever since a young age, they've told me that if I feel sexually attracted to women, that won't change because you can't change who you're attracted to. This is one thing that's calmed me down, but I'm still having my doubts. They've also told me that they find men attractive the same way I find women attractive. But nevertheless, I still have my doubts. My mind's been thrown into disarray and I can't take it anymore, fear is consuming me. Why the fuck do I get turned on jacking off to gay porn and thinking about gay things? I've come up with a few conclusions. One, I'm attracted to things that are taboo. Two, my tastes in porn have escalated and I can't get off to the same lesbian porn I used to jack off to. I'm scared that I might magically wake up and lose interest in women even though I've been told multiple times that it's impossible for that to happen. I'm going to quit porn and see what happens. I'm going to stop jacking off. I need to get outside. I can't cope with this shit. I haven't been able to get horny at all lately. I got horny earlier actually though from watching some lewd shit in some anime. But my boner only lasted for like 5 seconds. I've jacked off so much in the past week. I need to stop. I'm confused about sexual orientation. I'm confused about a lot of things, and I need help.

>>17470880

I've literally had crushes on tons of girls in the past, all throughout school. I would stay up obsessing on these women, thinking I would want to marry them in the future. I've always had strong affectionate feelings for some girls. I would always hide my boners in math class because this one girl had the most phenomenal ass I've ever seen. I remember one Summer I tried to buy another girl's used panties online because I had a dirty panty fetish. I don't want to become gay, I don't want to even become bisexual. The thought of liking men in anyway that's sexual fucking scares me. I've never been into dudes, ever. So, why the fuck are these thoughts happening? I can't stop them.

>>17470861
Lay off the porn and jacking off a bit, give yourself a break. Bombarding your brain with too much of it can fuck with your sexual preferences, at least in the short term. You're probably not going to get turned off women from porn alone, but it helps to actually get out and talk to real people (including girls).

While I knew some kids who were very obviously going to turn out gay, I know a few for whom it was kind of a development without them realising (it happened with me, straight until my friend asked if I'd ever consider another guy, I hadn't until then). Just wondering and getting off to a few weird things isn't going to suddenly turn you into a flaming homo. That said, if it carries on for long after you've calmed down, don't beat yourself up about it - you might just bend that way for a specific look, guy or girl, there's no shame in that.

If you get sucked into a certain routine and way of thinking for too long people can have some weird thoughts. Go hang out with people and get some fresh air instead of being stuck in your room fapping, talk to a girl or two and you'll be fine.

Get your GF new friends she hasn't slept with yet.

>>17470829
Bump. Two guys try to flirt with my gf, she keeps telling them no, however she still chats with them and considers them as a friends. Wat do

>>17470829
Check them out to see how pathetic they are

If you dont find them pathetic you are the problem, try harder.

I'm not her but I just wanted to say that I had this sometimes when I was younger, and what happened was that I'd be pissed or insecure over something, and then it would wear off and I realized I'd been silly. Too embarrassed to admit that something so trivial was bothering me, and afraid to scare a guy off if I was negative too much, so I'd just try to talk over it so to speak. Perhaps it is the same for her.

>>17470814
If she shrugs when you say you love her is no good, do you offer her what a woman needs?

Like, do you have a good social status, good looking, money and that kind of stuff? Maybe she can't see herself with you in a future.

>>17470817
I know she can be super insecure, but I try my hardest to boost her confidence with encouraging words and such. Should I just not think anything of it?
>>17470826
I'm 18 and she's 17, but I'm fairly well liked by people, she often tells me how attractive she finds me, and I buy her things all the time. But she does like to talk about the future and she often assumes the worst when it comes to things like that.

Sorry if it's a bit uncohesive, i'm rambling because i'm super pissed off at having these hour long discussiong about this bullshit.

First "problem" is that you can't be yourself with your gf. Can't you just chill with her? How much time do you have for her? 5 times a week or 1? If it's one, because you wanna be at home and "chill" and be "yourself" I would be mad too.

Also, "couple bullshit" yeeeah just break up with her and do fuck buddies. You don't seem interested in a relationship.