Nicholas here. I want opinions on my chest. As some of you may know I have pectus excavatum. How does my chest look to you?
doesn't look like you have it.
>>17473789
You look you could be a swimmer, bro.
Wtf is meant to be different about your chest to anybody else's
I'm 25 and next year I'll be in university for Physics. I've been studying quite a bit and I thoroughly enjoy this pursuit.
But, I've been a total fucking loser until now. I've never held a job for longer than 3 days, never accomplished anything and no discernible skills. My biggest anxiety is competing versus other fucks that have some sort of portfolio of skills, work experience and completed projects to show just how much talent and competence they have compared to normies.
Am I going to have any chance in hell in getting some sort of internship while I'm in school? Am I doomed to just being some generic faggot with a gay degree and no work experience or projects just because I've only recently stopped being a fuck up?
You're fine. You'll soon realize that 25 is still young for college.
>>17473697
Is it really? Won't the compete with people much younger for every internship, scholarship and job prospects be massive?
How do I get a normal day job when all my work experience has been one six month stint of three-shift work at a factory storage?
I can't do it anymore because I got into night school (gon b an electrician) and you can't really do both.
I'm 22, I'd like to do literally anything else for a living, but everyone keeps stressing me that There Are No Jobs, at all, ever, especially since I have no legit useful education, save for a lisence to handle foodstuffs.
How do I employment
Send help.
pls people my fragile sanity cannot handle unemployment again
>>17473664
Apply at different jobs. Put your hour restrictions on the application.
Have an understanding of the hours you'll be working, and make sure they have an understanding of the hours you wont be working before you accept the position.
Some bitch in Florida scammed me out of some clothes when we were supposed to do a clothing swap. I have all of her information and I want her to feel some karma....ideas?
I'm so annoyed! I asked her to send the stuff and se said "or what " I'm sick of this shit ass generation. garbage
Not your personal army. Get a job so that you don't have to swap clothes you poor loser.
Literally wasn't asking you to be, I was asking for ideas. And I have a job, but this way you get clothes for "free" as well as buying new ones
Hey /adv/, its a sexual problem i want to take advice. Long story short, my gf (we re together for like 3 years) suddenly stopped doing sex with me for like 3 months, she get into depression and i get into depression in meantime, so recently she want to have sex and i didnt get it up and failed (its never happend before), she fucken pissed so much because i failed. I told her it was because of my depression etc, but problem is i deployed anxiety over it. My mind is like always "what if i fail again, what if i didnt get it up again" and avoiding my gf like a plague. I dont know everything seems normal at me on getting erections and my horny levels, but whenever i saw my gf this anxiety begins and my dick goes limp.
TLDR; Gf stopped sex for no reason, i failed to get it up my dick one time, she goes mad, i deployed "what if i fail again" anxiety and now avoiding her (everything seems normal with my sexual mood).
So my question is, what the fuck is goin on? Im bored with her or what?
>>17473476
Hey another poor dude in a completely dead relationship!
Anything besides moving on as soon as possible will bring you sadness!
Good luck, sorry buddy, women are cunts!
Maybe she's even fucking someone else!
>>17473549
I dont think its dead, yeah im mad at her for being cunt, but i want to know how to get over that anxiety and why its deployed at first place.
>>17473549
>EXCLAMATION MARK1111
This guy is a fag, but he is right.
Whenever I hear about teenage pregnancy I get really jealous and bitter. When I was a teenage girl I never got to have sex, so these girls getting pregnant are obviously more wanted than I was. I'm inferior to them.
And then my self hate intensifies and I start crying for a good hour or two.
How do I not become an emotional wreck whenever I hear about young girls being desired in some way?
>>17473440
... so you're sad because you didn't get your life ruined by an unexpected early pregnancy?
>>17473440
>feeling inferior to people totally fucking over their life and future prospects
Don't OP. I am sure you will meet a nice guy that will put a baby in you when the time is right. You will find a guy who will make you feel that desired and then your problems are solved.
>>17473440
Wait, you wanted to get pregnant or you're upset about not being one of those teenagers who was fucked?
How old are you?
The teenagers were just sluttier than you were. If you hung out with the guys they did or went to parties then you would have gotten knocked the fuck up for sure.
I got a vasectomy six years ago and I never tell the girls I fuck that so if they try to trap me by getting knocked up, jokes on them.
They just fuck my brains out for nothing.
God Bless America.
I'm a 25 year old guy, soon I'll be 26. Unhappy with my life and existence and I don't know what to do. Some days are "good" and others even hurt wake up.
I work in a company that requires me to travel a lot around my country. So I have losteoporosis all my friends because I had been living out a lot of time. I realised that sometimes time and distance breaks.
Also you can imagine my love life and sexual life. I don't have had a girlfriend since I was in high school and that was more than 10 years ago. My self esteem is in a basement locked with chains. I consider myself ugly, not the kind of ugly that is difficult to see but enough to not be desired by anybody. Also I'm bald so that helps the mix.
So that's how I am, alone (I have my family and I thank God for it), sexually and love frustrated and anything right now but my family makes me feel that my life is worthy.
I have been with several escorts and I realised that I don't want only sex, I need something more and I was trying to obtain it with them.
I see that each day I'm becoming more desperate and I don't know what to do.
Sorry for the self pity wall of text.
* lost not losteoporosis my phone auto corrected that
>>17473394
that's funny as hell
losteoporosis
what have you tried?
>invite somebody to play videogames
>upon leaving, they take my playing card collection and throw the cards all over the floor
>I get very upset about this, but keep the feelings inside
>they come over again
>they ask for a drink
>then, they ask whether I picked the cards up
>I say that yes, I did
>then, that person says "You're my slave"
What kind of behavior is this? Joking? Manipulative?
>>17473363
>they come over again
Why did you let them come over again?
>>17473363
>someone is an asshole
>hey let's keep in touch with this person!
People are only assholes because they get away with it.
Dick behavior.
What happened is this asshole sensed a weak/non confrontational personality and wants to see how far they can take whatever game they decided to play.
Hey /adv/, you know why I'm here. I fucked myself with 20k of debt just to have this dumb ass car. Now I've reached a point in life where I realized how stupid that is, and how little I want to work to pay it off. I'd rather get rid of it. What's the best way to go about breaking even or coming out on top here? All answers accepted
>>17473285
Depends, is that car in the picture actually the one you bought? What shape is it in?
>>17473308
That's a picture of the model of the car I financed. It's on good condition, it's got a couple little dents and some light scratches on the paint, but mechanically it's very sound.
>>17473285
Ask someone to take over your loan with a down payment to you that's fair based on what you have left to pay, and the value of the car. A craigslist ad should be fine, but you're going to have to set it up with who you are financing the vehicle through.
I made this mistake myself when I was 18 and got a promotion. The car ended up being junk, and I'd only paid maybe 2000 of it off, so I just abandoned it broke down, and told them to come repo it and that was all I heard about it.
I went and bought a little 900 dollar car on craigslist, and now I have two little less than 1000 dollar cars in my driveway.
One has had about 1500 bucks of work done, and the other just got new tires. But, I've had them for years now.
I want to start smoking weed more.
I've only smoked with friends/family. And the preparation: griding, pipes, bongs, cutting is done for me. But I want to learn how to do this. Aside from asking my senpai on how to do it, are there any books/tutorials/things I can watch and learn the basics of weed preparation.
whitest post 2016
>>17473278
>Roll, roll, roll my joint. Pick out my seeds and stems.
Pretty much just pick apart the bud, and if you come across any seeds pick them out (they taste bad when smoked), and if you come across any stems that you feel are a threat to the paper you're rolling with, pick them out too.
If you're using a pipe, the stems don't matter as much. But, you basically want loose small pebbles of weed to be what you're smoking.
If you're just doing bowls, you shouldn't worry about a grinder. But, if you plan on getting into rolling your weed, a grinder can save quite a bit of time.
>>17473287
>Xbox One
Eewww.....
I'm a girl. I have been depressed for the last three years. I recently got better (yay me) and I want to start taking better care of myself.
I am not exactly girly and I don't want to spend hours getting ready in the morning.
I started exercising to get more toned. I eat healthy.
I'd like to get some advice on a few topics things.
>Hair
I have healthy hair, but it's very thin and doesn't have much volume. Anything that can be done about this?
I wash it often because I go swimming almost every. I use a mask twice a week, and wash it with a good shampoo and conditioner.
>Face
I am very pale. My skin is dry. I get a lot of pimples.
Are there any good products for my skin type? Every product for pimples kills my skin, every moisturiser gives me pimples.
Also - advice on make up? Any foundation that has REALLY pale shades? Good eyeliners?
>Feet
I did ballet for years so my feet are destroyed - super dry, get callous, etc.
How do I unfuck them? Moisturiser alone isn't enough.
>Routine
I'd like to make taking care of myself an habit and not something I do on a night when I feel particularly feminine.
What would be a good routine to do this?
Thank you!
>>17473264
For diet and exercise, go ask /fit/. Read the sticky first, then post. Don't start the post with 'I'm a girl', or you won't get serious answers.
You're probably not doing it efficiently right now, follow their advice.
For hair and feet: use oil. Coconut oil is considered godly nowadays, but whatever oil you can stand the smell of is good, in the past the golden standard was olive. Beware that hair will keep the smell of oil for a long time, but you can use essential oils to make it into a nourishing perfume.
For the pimples: are you sure you aren't using too harsh cleansers, and then throwing the moisturizer on the bare skin?
>>17473264
Hair: get a good haircut. I'm talking spend $150 on a haircut with someone who knows what they're doing. Thin hair is very difficult, but once you have a good cut you can go to Hair Butchery and all they have to do is follow the lines.
Face: Just stay out of the sun. Maybe someone else with these problems can help. As far as make-up goes, skip the foundation entirely. You'll hate it because you're not used to it and will be rushing to take that shit off your face. It doesn't matter if you are using Chanel or CVS brand, you'll hate it. Just drink more water and eat right to get your skin in shape and don't put anything on top of it to clog pores/make matters worse.
Also for eyeliner get light brown liquid and practice with it. It won't look like a whore, will bring out your eyes a bit, and stays put. I got my stuff in Japan but I'm sure there are brands there you can get.
Feet: ballet is the functional equivalent of taking a hammer to your feet for years. You cannot unfuck this. You just can't without surgery, and I don't think you want to do this. The callouses are from ill-fitting shoes, so that means you're buying crap shoes. Don't. Spend the extra shekels for a really good pair of shoes that will last for years.
If they're really dry, that means you're not drinking enough water. Do you take a shower after you get out of the pool? Chlorine isn't exactly easy on the skin. But lack of water intake explains your face as well. Drink more water.
Routine: Sounds like you're taking care of yourself anyway. You could look at life like the moment you go out of your front door you are the unwitting subject of anyone with a phone and a YouTube account's "Cringeworthy" channel, but that's an awful way to live. (Although it's true.)
Good luck.
>>17473271
I think I'm doing things well with diet and exercise. I have a ton of health issues (arthritis, blood diseases), so I basically just went to a doctor and he gave me a diet and some exercises to do. I have a healthy weight and I feel good.
>use oil
Won't it make my hair "heavier" and even less voluminous? I don't have split ends, it is not dry at all, it generally looks very nice.
>are you sure you aren't using too harsh cleansers, and then throwing the moisturizer on the bare skin?
I am using a soap bar from Gamila (I think, it was a gift) and after 10 minutes I use moisturiser.
The soap isn't particularly aggressive, it doesn't irritate my skin.
What should I do?
>>17473273
>get a good haircut.
That seems like a good start. I have been going to my dad's barber to get it cut because I couldn't stand spending an hour at my old hairdresser.
Maybe it's time to become a real girl and go cut my hair decently.
>light brown liquid
I didn't even know it existed. Sounds less hard than the black one.
>The callouses are from ill-fitting shoes, so that means you're buying crap shoes. Don't. Spend the extra shekels for a really good pair of shoes that will last for years.
So basically I should listen to my mom. Heh. I will try.
>Do you take a shower after you get out of the pool?
Yes. I rarely moisturise tho. So maybe I should start doing it.
>Drink more water.
That'd be good. I am not drinking that much water.
Thank you both!
So apparently the tits you see online are better than the average pair of tits
What do average tits look like? I know I don't have great tits, they're very droopy/saggy and not that big either
But could someone who's seen many tits direct me to some pics of average looking tits?
Maybe I should just never take my bra off in front of people
>>17473231
Join a gym and hang out at the women's locker room
>>17473234
Women don't walk around naked in locker rooms where I'm from.
Google "normal breasts gallery." There are sites dedicated to this, because a lot of women don't know what average tits look like.
I'm drawn to women but I can't have them in my life. I'm all purposes a broken male, tall and athletic and good looking on the outside, emotional and beta on the inside. I've tried to swear off of women multiple times, but all it takes is for one girl to hit on me before I fall back into a cycle of hope and despair.
One of my exes left me and I just simply refuse to sleep with anyone who doesn't look like her. Seeing how this is a futile effort, I have just decided to never think about girls again. But I have testosterone and a sex drive which makes this difficult. Furthermore I've begun to hold the entire female gender in contempt-they'll never love me for ME, they'll use sex as a weapon, they'll cheat on me when they're bored. Yeah getting your dick sucked is nice for a couple minutes but long term I just don't see myself being in an LTR or married.
What now?
I'm 23, how long does it take before my testosterone levels drop with age so I can stop thinking about sex and women all the time so I can live in peace?
when you kill yourself. seriously though, stop complaining about a first world problem, go read 'Models: Attract Women Through Honesty: Mark Manson' and go get laid.
>>17473186
In increasing order of risk:
>go to prostitutes
>start drinking heavily
>tell your doctor you want a sex change and go on medication
You could also take this as a lesson in self-control, but since you like to be Mr. Extremist I don't think you will.
>>17473195
>first world problems aren't problems take it up the ass bitch
2 many cucks
How to look older? I'm short, 20 and I keep getting told that I look young. I know it should be a compliment but I get carded whenever I go out to drink and I've been told my I.D is fake.
A guy I was dating told me he only went out with me because I look 16.
Is there anything besides spending a heap on surgery that would work?
>>17473077
Time should work.
>>17473088
No shit
>>17473117
You could try a fake mustache.
What is the highest part of 4chan? I've been to fa, sci, x and pol - all of them are very, very lowly.
What does that even mean you schmuck?
>>17473045
>What is the highest part of 4chan?
Probably /adv/, at least when /r9k/ and /pol/ aren't raiding us.
>>17473045
>/pol/
>better than anything