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bumping again. She wants me to meet her in a hour.

What's she getting out of it? The most you've done is kissed? Is there anything that might cause her to change her mind (example: you mention something romantic and she immediately says she can't make it)?

It sounds like she sees you as a friend but has some of her own personal issues - but we don't know very much about the situation from the info you've given. If you think you're being taken advantage of, we need to figure out what she is getting out of it.

>>17474732
From the information you've given she seems a little off. I wouldn't invest in a relationship since she's going back to Haiti soon. Just enjoy whatever time you have. Take it in strides and don't be too needy. Progress things at a comfortable pace. However, if she flakes again just drop her.

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>>17474725
>>>/pol/ I'm sorry but my best friend is half black. I need the blacks to stay

>>17474720
Yes, there is. I'm so glad to see that you ask this question actually but you can't do it by yourself.

Changing the whole neighborhood is hard man, let me tell you that. You will need others help.


Get on the good side of everyone in the neighborhood, invite neighbors to have tea or coffee, try to be helpful, to sum it up : send them the good vibe. Once you do that you will have a certain status in the neighborhood, then you could participate to random gestures like removing waste from the streets etc. A very few people will understand what you're trying to do, and then there's two options:

> 1 : Everything ends fine, the neighborhood is better than it was, people are bonding and you could even get yourself an official status of good citizen or some shit if this keeps up in a few years.
> 2 : Your momentum didn't create many helpers and what you did is only temporary and in a small scale.

You're still seen as a good guy either way.

Death is an effective solution.

>>17474627

You don't cope with lonely unless you want to. You don't seem to want to.

But unless I got that wrong :
> Inner thoughts : Make yourself conformable with yourself, yeah that sounds weird but you will face these thoughts everytime you will be lonely, so better think about them and prepare.
> Passions : Whatever they are, getting to learn things, work out, playing an instrument, learning another language, do it.
> Read a lot : Even if it's not your passion, you'll find yourself more insightful, more centered as a person.

But again, you don't seem to know why you're alone. Are you sure you want to do this in the first place ?

>>17474643
Please

Touch her boobs

Generally speaking, sex in a park is frowned upon.

when things start getting hot, lean over and whisper in her ear:

confucius say, good to meet girl in park, better to park meat in girl

>captcha: pouss rideau

>>17474623
Don't worry, nobody will remember you anyway.

Start living so that nobody remembers you while you're still alive.
But seriously get help.

>>17474638
Hooooo fuck.
Kek

>>17474622
How long have you been dating? How long has her effort been less? Are you long distance? Did something new happen in her life?

>>17474637
>How long have you been dating?
about 2 months

>How long has her effort been less
about 2 weeks

>Are you long distance?
kind of, i mean it takes about 40 minutes on the train. i havent seen her for a little while actually due to her spending money on surgery related things.

>Did something new happen in her life?
I have noticed that since dating me she has started going out with her friends more. i dont know if i gave her a confidence boost or something. She found out she has PCOS about a month about but i know its not due to being down over that.

this is all i can think of right now.

>>17474664
>>17474699

There's nothing to bump anon. You didn't give us enough infos to understand her point of view. I don't of cheating in the first place, she might be tired of your shit, of your lack of understanding, or you just don't make her feel great. But that's all possibilities and nobody will give you a proper answer, she's the only one who has the real answer.
You'll have to confront her. Be gentle, subtle, don't oppose her, don't try to imply to many things, just simply ask if something's off lately.

>>17474608
Don't change.
Men like it tight, your discomfort is actually a compliment.

>>17474621
I mean, I'd like it to be tight too to give me boyfriend pleasure but he couldn't even get it all the way in and it was way too painful to bear. We couldn't even properly fuck because it was just too much.

Please, I really want some advice.

>>17474608
See a doctor about it.

You don't know anything about this guy. You think you know him because you exchanged text messages between each other but that means nothing in the grand scheme of things. Frankly, it's a bit strange to get so obsessed over someone you've never met before. It shows that you have no other priorities in life besides him and reeks of desperation. If you want to see him at least one time before he leaves, I recommend you be as slutty as possible and make it really easy for him.

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We talked everyday for two months, how is it desperate? I obviously liked him and he did too pic related

Thing is, I really want to know why' so I'm thinking to ask him why he stopped talking to me, or would that be bad idea?

>>17474516
Meant for
>>17474491

nobody cares fbm

>>17474436
Oh btw can't get a new gun cuz my backwards yurop cuntry sucks.

last self-bump

We definitely don't know.

Calm down though, trained professionals are there helping you.

>>17474389
>Doctor is saying they'll need to induce
That means it's dead (or atleast unviable) but your body hasn't flushed it out on its own so they're gonna go in there and do it surgically.

>>17474462
this. I am sorry for your loss, OP.

one piece of advice...you really should get in the habit of asking your doctor what they mean when they say something that is confusing to you. it is part of their job to make sure you know what's going on and what they're going to be doing. if you don't feel like you can ask your doctor those questions and get good answers, then you should find a different doctor.

You're weak. The only thing that makes you stronger or better is repetitive failure.

>>17474317
You seek instant gratification in a world where there is none.

>>17474317
Samuel Beckett: "Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better."

Must have been a good joke

>>17474369
This, what was the joke?

>>17474278
That sucks about your girlfriend. Try to keep in mind that the rape is her trauma, not yours. Do people really need to point out that you at least have someone who likes you well enough to BE your girlfriend?

Why not focus on what you DO have? Why not focus on planning how to make your life better and then putting that plan into action?

So call some of your friends and invite them to do things. If they don't want to, oh well, you've learned the consequence of acting like an asshole. Has it occurred to you to apologize?

If you can't get into a community college, you probably aren't cut out for more schooling right now. However, it's not like you can't look up information on subjects/testing that you had a problem with and study.

Apply to more jobs. Go back and apply to some of the same jobs if you see they're still open in a month or two.

There's a lot of conversational territory between "be an asshole" and "say nothing".

>not even my toddler sister loves me
Do you try to interact with her? I've found that you can make almost any little kid laugh simply by picking them up and playing "airplane" or something. I mean shit, I get little kids I don't even know running over to me when I pick up my nieces and nephews in public.

>>17474169
Extra note: I'm not saying that I don't want them dependent on me, it's just how do I limit it to a point where it's not obsessive

>>17474169
>has talked 19 people out of suicide
Holy shit where do you meet these people. Are all normies secretly depressed?

>>17474200
Honesty yes. I'm 18, you'll see that a lot. It's gotten to a point where suicidal depression is like a fucking trend.

>>17474149
It's a study that requires a lot of discipline. Mainly because it's boring as fuck. Countless of people quit. The ones who don't become lawyers and make above average. It's all up to you dawg.

Expensive schooling and no guarantee that you'll pass the bar exam, with some schools having bar exam passing rates as low as 50%. If you do go into it, look into the exam passing rates of the school you plan to attend

>>17474149
No.

t. lawyer

Ladies suppose you click with a guy and it's all going well. The suppose he tells you he has herpes. Do you stay with him?

>>17474114
Probably not. There are guys out there without herpes that I could be with.

Guy here. I've never seen a woman naked. Or kissed one. Will my erection make my dick "bigger" if I see a woman naked or kiss one, in comparisson to the boner I normally have when masturbating or watching pornography? Or is it the same thing?