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If a girl talks to me online everyday, writing essay long messages and responding to my messages as soon as can could it mean she likes me?
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Not definitely but probably.
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She likes you, romantically or not that remains to be seen. Try flirting a bit and see how she responds.
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Yeah, she likes you.
Tips to give girlfriend for giving blowjobs? I've apparently only received awesome blowjobs up to this point. I feel almost no pleasure from hers and it can be downright painful. But, I don't know what makes a blowjob better besides I guess not using your teeth.
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>>17476446
What did the other girls do that she doesn't? Tell her to do that
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>>17476446
There's literally nothing you can do other than get a new girl.
Some girls just swallow cock better than others. Some girls just have tiny mouths. They can practice on their own accord maybe with a dildo but that's about it.
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>>17476471
This
My first girlfriend gave the best blowjobs ever, I was so dissatisfied and shocked when the next tried, because she had been with a fair amount of guys, but was just terrible at it.
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My parents are defective...Specifically Dad. 2016-08-19 14:28:41 Post No.17476388
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Basically some time ago I called upon my father to help bring me to a job interview. He obliged but actually failed to bring me to the job interview because we were so late. Basically he kept taking the wrong turn off...over..and..over. It was literally the most sad thing I have ever seen. To this day I fail to believe he was doing it because "confused" and think he did it because my fucking shitstain parents think they are psychologists and they though I didn't really want this job...so they didn't let me get it....
Anyways...fast forward to recently. I was browsing some job sites and came across something my dad would be interested in. I let him know. Not only could he not grasp the idea of applying I actually had to do it for it.(note this position would be something he could retire with ) and he couldent muster up the fucking know how to apply. Anyways...im happy for him cuz he got the interview for the job...but it leave me thinking...my parents treat me like shit..I made sure I let my mother know and I straight up told you that they don't deserve a child like me...WHy the fuck do I even feel happy for him...its not like they actually 100 percent had my back?
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Why can't you drive yourself to the interview?
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>>17476399
Normally I would take transport but this was at least a two hour train ride(at least). He offered to drive...I have no car.
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>>17476402
Why not drive his car?
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Are men supposed to be racist? 2016-08-19 14:01:54 Post No.17476334
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It's not factually correct to say I grew up without a dad, but he was always distant and ambiguous and we never spent any kind of real time together. He was an alcoholic autist with no social skills and his own demons to fight with, of course, but on atop of that he pretty much hated everything stereotypically masculine, sports, military, hunting, doing physical work with your hands. He didn't like other men and I don't think he liked having a son.
I won't go into a more thorough sob story of why I haven't had any kind of male friends before my 20s, but now that I've actually gotten around other guys my age, it seems like they're all racist in private.
It's like some special treasured imported whiskey that gets taken out as a treat and bonding method as soon as the women aren't around.
Save for dad's few whispered remarks about the romani, I've never heard this kind of talk before, and I'm just just as stunned and shocked every time. It honestly surprises me to hear a guy who's been all fun and nice to hang out with jokingly admit that he'd kill a nigger if he ever had the chance.
It seems to be some kind of relaxation to them, admitting stuff they're all thinking, anyway, but isn't acceptable to talk in women's company.
I've overheard women talk amongst themselves, their casual gross subjects are mostly about their sexual lives or bodily functions. They don't seem to have an inherent hate to people of different colours, regardless of sex.
Is this just one of those men's things that somebody was supposed to teach me but didn't?
Is there any place where this doesn't happen?
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Racists feel guilty about being racist around people who would call them out on it. This build tension that they seek to release by sharing exaggerations of their views in private.
Women are pressured more by society to be polite. Racism is seen as the ultimate act of impoliteness. Some women don't play by these rules and behave in the same manner I described above.
I know lots of guys that hate racism myself included but it is human nature to make downward comparisons in response to stress. Conceptually placing someone below yourself makes you feel more important and expressing this can ease a lot of tension. Racism is truly a sign of an unhealthy mind.
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>>17476362
What can I do about it?
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>>17476369
Care more about your own values than those of others. If you think that racism is appalling it would be a shame if you betrayed the notion to fit in with other men. It may be lonely but in the long run you'll be glad you stayed true to yourself.
So /adv/
Are friends really necessary?
I dumped all of mine, cuz one is alcoholic and a girl who i love but she will never see me as a man.
So i didn't really dumped this girl. But now she usually ignores my messages, sometimes answering like once in a week and don't want to go anywhere without him. (but she has a bf)
The funny thing is i dumped this alcoholic friend cuz he confessed his love to me and became really attached to me, i said him that i'm straight but it seems like he doesn't give a fuck and keep behaving himself like a lover to me. It's not like i'm homophobe but for me it's weird.
Btw i feel great.
TL;DR Will i go insane without friends or do i need to find new ones?
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>>17476303
well, why would you go withouth friends? Find new ones!
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Not the ones I used to have.
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Eventually you will go insane without human contact, I know it too well. But if you don't live by yourself, you'll be fine until that situation changes and then you realize you have literally no one to talk to or look at once you're not at work.
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Tell me, /adv/, why do I always feel depressed and want to cry after I go out with my friends?
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Either because you feel your relationship with them is more superficial than you'd like it to be, or because they exhibit success that you don't have.
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>>17476322
That's a reasonable guess. Even tho I believe it might be because I'm so happy around them that when I get home and realize it's pretty much "Well, back to good ol loneliness I guess" I get teared up.
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>>17476796
Wew lad. This is a very serious issue, if you believe that to be true. It points to you relying entirely on other people to provide fulfillment and happiness in your life. That's dangerous and unhealthy. God forbid, if you ever get into a relationship, your dependency on that person will be suffocating and damaging. You can't behave like this forever.
You should find some hobbies and goals that give you purpose and happiness. Things to do and work toward that you alone are responsible for. You need to learn to be content with and by yourself.
I dont know what gender I am. Can you help me?
Sometimes I feel really girlish and on some other days I feel like the manliest man there is. Sometimes I dont feel like any of those and somedqys I just feel like nothing :(
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Ask your gender studies professor
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>>17476242
See a psychologist that is not brainwashed into believing that gender dysphoria is normal.
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>>17476245
What do I need a psychologist? Arent there many different gender terms which are all considered normal?
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Why the fuck does all of my female friends tell me I'm cute, cool, friendly, smart, and all around a great human being, yet I've been single for nearly a year now and none of them understand why?
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The fact that you asked this question is the answer to your question. You're too focused on it. Why do you care so much? Just live your life, if you see someone you like then approach them. It's not hard
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>>17476258
The thing is I'm pretty much satisfied of every other aspect of my life. I love what I'm studying, have a lot of friends, good health... so I'm focusing on the only thing I'm not satisfied with
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>>17476289
And what efforts have you made to improve this aspect of your life?
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Hey guys, I smoked a whole bowl and proposed to my girlfriend and she accepted it. We're NEETS and she wants to have kids. I am 24 and she is only 21. I know its a mistake and I can't take it because I am too much of a pussy to hurt her. She went full crazy on my friends after one told her to give us a bit of time apart. Because my only break from her is sleep she is at me like a tumor. I am currently sleeping in a single bed for a kid, but she sleeps on the floor next to me like a dog and she pays me money to sleep there because I don't want her there. She can't give me anal because she is a sook. She won't let me masturbate alone because she says that I might hookup with a pornstar and then she looked up a pornstar haircut just so I can't look up porn? Every time I used to watch a movie with my friends every time a girl with a cup size bigger than C she would let out an audible sigh. She is also $5000 AUD in debt we got a bonus that could of paid off the debt back when it was manageable, but she spent it clothes shopping Approx $3000. My friend in the next room is always banging random girls, is a pre-med student and I think he has loud sex on purpose. I just want his life, I want to be single, not in this guilt trap and I am sick of having to go back on everything I say every time she cries. Please can I have some advice?
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Just break up with her jfc
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>>17476217
Well how about some serious talk about your future and hers?
If you just want to get that tumor off you then grow some balls, break up with her and kick her out.
You don't stick your dick in crazy famalam.
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>>17476223
I think its a little late. I sort of cut off everyone around me friends and family. I literally only have her left in my life. I tried apologizing to my friends, but they won't accept it.
>>17476227
I try but she starts crying every time without fail threatening to kill herself.
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Hi /adv/ !
There's a guy I know who is very attractive, nice face, /fit/ body, great personnality. And he would like me to be his gf for sure.
The only problem is his freakin unibrow, I just can't see anything on his face but that. How can I push him into getting rid of it ? Am I being too superficial ? I mean I get my eyebrows done and I'm pretty sure if I had a unibrow I wouldn't even attract him.
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>>17476207
Unibrow here, just tell him to shave it, easy
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next time you talk to him and he make eye contact just keep putting your finger on the spot in between your brows where they would connect, then run your fingers across your brows, pull out a disposable razor and put it there, have conversations about where hair should and shouldnt be, talk about how you want to get lazor hair removal for your mustache hair even if you dont need it or get hair there, show him pictures of guys you think are ugly and make sure the unibrow is the common noticable feature, etc
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>>17476557
oh and show him your photoshop skills, like how you get add and removed hair, try showing him how to make eyelashes bolder but then say "hey lets make some hair around his face disappear LOL" then give the pic a receding hairline. then maybe he'll take the hint
I need a confidence boost, not necessarily to get out there, but just the confidence that I can.
>College Student
>Social anxiety disorder
>However amazing friend group I've known for a year+ now
However, even though I have really great friends and all who care about/love me, why does it hurt that they're all sexually/relationally active? I've never had luck with this sort of thing in my life (virgin on all fronts, except for kissless ages ago), so I never try to find these things, as I'm too awkward to get close to anything unless it somehow comes to *me* first.
It doesn't help that I have a best friend who's only into hookup scenarios, and of course I had to go and have feelings.
Why can't I just accept what good I've got and what good I am and wait? Why do I have to feel so inadequate? And why does something that isn't even a necessity get me down almost daily?
I just need something to help me get some relief of this loop of thinking...
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Kind of in the same boat as you OP.
Do you find that even if everything else is going fine for you, your mood drops after having an interaction with that person that suggests they only like you as a friend? Or if they're talking about a hookup they had or something?
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>>17476187
This quote from the great poet Shia Labeouf really helped me. Pic related
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>>17476208
Yep.
It's to where I overthink the slightest thing that could be remotely considered negative. We're both, by society's standards "weird", and are pretty similar. However that also means I bear similarities to her twin sister which *does not help at all*.
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Am I rushing with too many expectations?
Some days ago I told thus girl I liked her. She also told me she liked me and we kissed, walked, talked. Things seemed good.
Then she went to visit some relative and even though we texted a bit, I have this shit feeling that she's not answering my texts with much enthusiasm.
I mean she barely seems to answer at all. Tonight she's coming home and tomorrow/Sunday we'll likely meet.
I feel like I was rushing too much based on her responses and what we talked previously. What should I tell her, what should we talk about, how do I strengthen this not-yet-relationship? I mean we were only "together" for like a day.
I feel like this is ending before it even started and it's killing me. Today she didn't text me at all, only responded to some generic "have a good trip" and some inside jokes of ours that I sent.
Do I just ignore her today, see if she bothers tell me anything, like when she gets back, when she's on the train, stuff like that?
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Bumping
I think that she feels I'm trying too much now. I mean before confessing our feelings, we never talked / texted over the phone. Could it be that? I texted her so "much" because I don't want to make her feel like I don't care. My first, last and only relationship ended exactly because of lack of communication, because I never bothered to call her and text her.
When we met, should I just tell her that, the truth? Should I even bring up this subject?
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>>17476177
Fuck stop spamming this board with high school tier "problems". Stop over thinking it you retard. Just hang out with her and act normal. If she wants things to progress then they will and if she doesn't then they won't.
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Having expectations in relationships leads to failure and make you feel like shit do don't have any just have standards as in who you date just sit back see what they do. Communicate and if they aren't for you move around
Im in a foriegn country, at a bar, shitposting on 4chan. When did you realize you were retarded /adv/ ?
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>>17476130
Long before i got here
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>>17476141
We're on the same page then
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>tfw I do this too
Should I be worried?
I keep waking up at 4-5 am FUCKING WHY
This is fucking up my life i cant sleep properly and when i do manage to go back to sleep around an hour later ill wake up at noon feeling like shit.
What is causing this?
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do you take any medication?
happens to me when I take montelucast for asthma
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>>17476101
No medication
No caffeine
I live a rather spartan lifestyle, proper diet and nutrition, regular exercise etc
I really cant find anything that could adversely affect my sleep. This is only happening the past week but its had severe detrimental effects in my life.
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I never went to sleep last night. I keep thinking it's like 5am but it's barely crawled past midday here. I just want to make it to a reasonable time tonight so I can right my sleep schedule.
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stuck in a toxic relationship. 2016-08-19 10:28:17 Post No.17476052
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stuck in a toxic relationship.
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>was neet
>moved to alaskan wilderness for online bf and fixing life.
>"work" for his dad, for food and rent, no pay.
>5 years later.
still "working" with nothing to show for it.
>need to find a way to make money to go to school.
that is the stuck part...
the toxic relationship... actually might not matter so much, as i am only stuck in it since i have no funds to leave, and nowhere to go to.
can't just stop showing up to work so i can look for a job, or i am foodless and homeless, which makes finding employment difficult.
i need to leave this relationship.
it started out as something helpful.
now it is poison to everyone involved.
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>can't just stop showing up to work so i can look for a job, or i am foodless and homeless,
Stop projecting you loser. You dont know the future, nobody does.
Safe up some money. Get the fuck away. Find a cheap place. Find a new job as soon as possible.
Life is easy. What the fuck is with all these fucking losers on advice lately? Jesus fucking christ.
If you dont know the answers to life stop asking other people. You are just a sheep.
Leaders lead! Losers just ask for permission and opinions all the time.
Be creative and figure things out yourself for once in your miserable life!
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>>17476052
273.15/2 Kelvins
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>>17476144
There is no money.
No income to safe.
I get precisely zero dollars.
If i do not go to work, i do not get rent and food.
What fucking money do i save?