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>>17475745
Do your goddamn research. People on the deep web can do that for you for a cost.

>>17475745
I think there was a VHS tape about how to do that. No idea about the name

better call Saul

>>17475732
Probably best to talk to your boss about it, but you might want to start looking for another job.

>>17475732

The fact that you still have a job is a small miracle in itself.

>>17475732
>scalded a customer
>still employed
>bitches about it

Seriously?

the "right thing to do" is tell people before you have sexual contact with them. but, it's a really low chance that they will contract it if you aren't currently displaying symptoms. or it's pretty low anyway.

i think most sexually active people figure they just might get herpes somewhere down the road and they're crossing their fingers that they won't. it's honestly not that big of a deal, you'll just have herpes blister things a few times a year. it's not like it does anything major.

if you tell people, there will be some that get freaked out and don't fuck you, so you just have to weigh the options. do you want to play dumb and act like you had no idea when they come at you like "YOU GAVE ME HERPES" if they even do get it, or tell them upfront and risk them bailing but at least you were a 'good guy'. you can also not tell them and then if you're starting to get serious say you just got tested and found out you have herpes, by then they might like you enough to not give a shit.

the only people who care about herpes are the people who don't have it yet.

dont fuck during an outbreak or use a condom during an outbreak

be upfront and honest about it. a lot of people have herpes these days. and if they dont and theyre an alright person they probably wont care as long as you take the correct steps not to infect them . take the medication or whatever you need to keep the virus down so you dont infect others n youll be fine. its really not that bad... dont be sad about herpes, you get a few sores every now n again and thats about it. no biggy. its like how when you get herpes on your mouth, occasionally you get a cold sore and maybe give other people coldsores and then it goes away. sometimes you only get it a few times in your life, sometimes a couple times a year.

>>17475734
You do realize that knowingly transmitting an STD and not telling your partner can land you in a civil court case, and in some states, lead to criminal charges?

Do you have any idea how slowly those cards would move, not to mention it's extremely unlikely you'd be able to get the price you think you're going to? People ask for high prices for those cards, but rarely do they sell for that.

>>17475685
This. If you are trying to get max price for those cards you'll still be selling them five years from now.

Go for it but sell 15 percent under what others post them as so your not sitting on them for years. If you dont buy em someone else will for their kids and they will get all torn up and shit

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Friend, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be spend your life with a particular kind of woman. It's your show, let it play out however you like.

Of course your problem could be with acceptance. Maybe you feel you don't belong with an Asian women?

it was not necessary for you to post the entire first half of that greentext

You are very delusional.

Will grace this thread with a sage. I honestly recommend that you consider suicide.

Id say if you were into the whole cultural aspect of it as well.

Im typical white male, upper middle class, private school, and finishing a college degree in STEM. Im fit, into outdoor shit, love the mountains.

Im not sure if i see myself with a white girl though. A lot of the interracial couples i see involve a white woman and I dont understand why rappers talk about how many white girls they fuck etc... I think if i dated a white girl people might think im a cuckold.

Ive been considering asian or indian girls. If i find a sexy asian girl that loves to play golf ill probably be set.

>>17475643
Panic attack? Funky Migraine?

>>17475653
no migraine and dident feel like a full out panic. Just like symptoms that are similar to panic attacks but dident feel like a panic attack if you know what i mean

>>17475655
Mini panic attack?

I don't think they are partially retarded at all. In fact, I'd say they are fully retarded.

r9k spillover

need I remind you that even though this is an advice board, you are still on 4chan

>>17475587
Anymore context?

>>17475690

We've known each other for about a year, I really liked her at first to the point of obsession but quickly moved past that so we've been mates for a while.

Regarding her character, she's quite paranoid and has issues but is too secretive to share them. As such she drinks alot when we are out together to compensate.

We go to the same university, she's 19 and I'm 22 so she's the youngest in our group.I have a feeling she tries to outdrink the others to prove she can be 'one of the guys' as well.

>>17475711
Yeah ok... Girl who has a problem with alcohol and "issues" and this is who you're interested in? This sounds like some desperate "I want a girlfriend and I don't really care who it is" bullshit.

But you know what you can do? Ask her out on a date.

>>17475585
Did you tell the employee it was serious? If so then this falls under asking for it.

>>17475585
Reach into your pants and smear it on the door to the restaurant.

>>17475593
They couldn't hear me banging on the door.

>I was put in special ed for adhd medication

*I was put in special ed for adhd

sorry

You don't have the motivation because you don't know what you want.

>>17475513
Anything I should do?

>>17475492

did you cook it first or not?

if yes, then go to bed you baby.

If not, are you retarded?

My late grandfather told me a story about how when he first moved out he ate and entire chicken and pot of soup. He lived to tell us the story im sure you will too.

>>17475514
I'm not that hardcore so yes I cooked it.

I'd probably break my teeth if I didn't.

>>17475457

One of the places that you can get your feet wet into the BDSM scene is Second Life which is free and online.

It is a far cry from RL, but it can serve as a good place to learn about yourself, explore some kinks, and get at least a small amount of a handle on the community.

Generally, for RL it is going to be important that you find a dom(me) who is experienced. Particularly when dealing with humiliation and verbal abuse, one has to be able to probe your hard and soft limits to know the best way for each side to find fulfillment. If you have a local scene or location, then that would be ideal. A lot of clubs are insular, so entry might be hard without someone to vouche for you.

Now, in an online environment like Second Life, there is going to be a ton of bad dominants. Anyone with a name MasterABC or MistressXYZ should probably be written off immediately. Also, one should be wary of dominants who are only in things for self-gratification, without keeping their sub's needs in mind.

>>17475541
I should try Second Life, like you said it sounds like a good way to get my feet wet.

A question about RL: My town does have a scene apparently but like I'm curious if I can find people who are interested in a more mild form of sadism there? Like I said physical pain really makes me squeamish. I just kind of assumed that everyone there would want that from a relationship and would expect that from me as a sub, in your experience is that the case?

>>17475638

>I should try Second Life, like you said it sounds like a good way to get my feet wet.

Like I said, you'll probably end up dealing with a bunch of fakes, but there can be actual quality there. Also, a lot of the people in female avatars are going to be guys gender-bending online.

>My town does have a scene apparently but like I'm curious if I can find people who are interested in a more mild form of sadism there?

This all depends on the location and the people there. I think that there are probably a fair number of dommes who go for the humiliation and verbal abuse, so it'll be about finding the right fit.

>Like I said physical pain really makes me squeamish. I just kind of assumed that everyone there would want that from a relationship and would expect that from me as a sub, in your experience is that the case?

Sadism and masochism are a spectrum, so there are people that have kinks at all ranges. The important thing as a sub is that you clearly understand and define what your limits are. If you have a hard limit, then your mistress should never cross that line. Not all dominants are into branding irons.

As to my own experience in that area, I can't really help you too much. I'm a Daddy Dominant (a guy), so my subs tend to be bratty women, and I enjoy guiding and teaching them. I focus far more on the D&s than the S&M. The advice I can give will be general, but not incredibly specific to your own kink.

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24 here. Literally holding back on dating more serious Women because waiting on parents to make good on the promise of them buying me a car...man i should have killed myself at 18

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>>17475475
yeah I've been insecure about it since high school. I was always known for not having my license and having to be driven around everywhere. In fact I just got my license last week.

Now I just wanna hear what people would think of me from an outside source

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that's quite the pickle

That's quite the potato

break up with her

You sound like a capable dude. Man make a difference in this world. We don't need these hoes.

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The reason why I even care is because lately me and the girl have been getting really flirty with each other. Especially when he's not around.

Now, I really want to give her the D, and -technically- I SHOULD be able to since I directly asked him if there's anything going on and he still declines to say

But it just feels wrong. I don't know what to do. I'm keeping it in my pants until I gain more insight into what's going on

Pic related, it's a representation of me deciding whether or not to give her the D

I'm in this exact same situation at work right now.

Except i'm the guy you're talking about.

I just don't talk to him about it because I know he really wants to know and i'm just being a dick

>>17475452

Would you feel betrayed if he banged your girl? I mean, he DID ask