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Relatives home from prison 2016-09-20 02:55:08 Post No.17586606
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Relatives home from prison
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Sup /adv/
My Lil bro just finished a 2 year prison term. And he's doing great. He has a job, has been clean, the whole 9...for the most part.
He's having a hard time adjusting, specifically not eating prison food and not talking like a black dude. This dude made ramen noodles with tuna and Vienna sausages and cheese powder for dinner last night. The night before he had tuna with crackers and a honey bun. Shits disgusting. I've asked him about it and he says he's having a hard time with his stomach when he eats non prison food. He also seems to have lost most of his patience. Like he just fucking snaps. The other day some kids were hanging out in front of our town home and my Lil bro was like "yo you fucking faggots better find some other place to blow each other niggas is trying to sleep here" and when one of the kids told him to fuck off he told them "I spent 2 for some scrawny faggot just like you I'll spend 5 for you pussy". Needless to say they left. When speaking to him about it he said he wasnt going to actually hit them or anything but that he laughs at how beta everyone is when they hear someone has spent any time in prison. It is kinda funny , but I feel like he thinks too much of that place. He's doing real well for himself all things considering but I just don't want him to identify proudly as a man whose spent time in prison, or worse go back to prison.
How should I approach this? I know despite is act, he wouldn't let anything between us get physical I'm not worried about that, I'm worried about him leaving my house in anger more than anything.
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First I think you gotta make him understand the whole meaning of his situation. He's done prison, been through horrid shit and got desensibilized to that kind of awfull deeds. Now if he wants to stay out if troubles he better chill the fuck out.
So try to bring him to calmness and simple pleasures. Bring him a day at the beach or something, calmly discuss stuff, let him know that he's loved and that he's got to let his past behind him.
Meditation helps with anger too. Good luck.
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Let him find a good gf, almost every "bad" person I have met in my life turned out to a very good one when established in a long term relationship with a good woman. Obviously if he hooks up a murderer he will turn out for the worse. Keep in mind that some behaviours can't be changed. For example if someone manages to hurt you, her future gf or son the inner nigger in him will awake. But this isn't necessairly a bad thing, sometimes prison people hold more values than a spineless normie
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Why did he go to prison? I am trying to understand the root cause here. Also how old is he?
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Failing Computer Science course 2016-09-20 02:53:46 Post No.17586603
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Failing Computer Science course
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I'm in my 4th year of college as a junior taking a 300 level course. I had an assignement due tonight out of the 4 total, all of which are 40% of my grade. The assignment rubric is 40% no memory leaks, 40% displays output exactly, and a default 20% if it compiles and runs. I get a fucking 20% which means the 2 weeks I spent doing the assignment were as useless as writing cout<<"Hello World"; I started the assignment when it was given, went to the professors office 4 times, and asked for plenty of help. A classmate of mine recieved 60% when her's didn't even display the major part of the assignment. I'm very frustrated, and feel useless. Of course I will go to his office, but I don't know how to feel better about this.
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babe plz respond
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>>17586603
why do you wanna feel better about it?
Embrace what happened and move on, you cant stop for a failure.
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>>17586886
Embrace failure, how so?
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I'm a 19 y/o guy. Should I get a tattoo or is it a bad idea? For those who have one, did you get it because it's important to you or do you just like the idea of a tattoo? Those who don't have any share your thoughts as to why people shouldn't.
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>>17586533
tattoos are a good idea if they are meaningful. this isnt to say everyone regrets getting non meaningful tattoos, but you're more likely to refret something simply because you wanted to permanently mark your body and had to choose something random.
i intend to get a tattoo of a thing called a 'latte stone'. its a weird structure found all over the island of Guam which holds a very special placxe of my heart. it would be a reminder of my childhood and what island life meant to me. a place i can hopefully one day return to.
its not a good idea to get tattoos that reference people or relationships. even children can turn out to be serial killers.
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>>17586533
Only trashy retards get tattoos, and only trashy tattooies find it hot, or whatever other dumb 'deep' shit reason people make up to have one. You're already thinking about it, so fuck it, it's too late to worry about what anyone will think about it.
I mean I guess some people, few people, can pull them off, but all it says to me is 'I am so insecure in my body or validation in myself as a person, I need to print some shit on my body so people KNOW I matter and I have meaning.'
It's just like ridiculous non-natural hair color or piercings, or any other stupid ass physical devastation on a body; a sad fucking attempt at attention, and then years (or hours) down the line it serves as nothing but an attention repellent to anyone outside of the trash/attention-wanting crowd.
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>>17586566
jesus man, some people just get a tattoo on their shulder, not exactly a 'HEY LOOK AT ME' spot.
i dont like the idea of messing with the body, but ear piercings? really? thats a scream for attention? yes you do it to look good, but thats like saying you cant wear make up without ebing screaming for attention.
its just somethign that looks nice.
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>want to go out and volunteer and be useful, maybe meet a qt and get a gf
>Dont know what to do because im afraid I'll fuck it up or i won't like it
I really do want to make a difference but I mean shit dude, I'm worried I won't like it then ill feel like a spoiled dick or something
I need to do some thing to get out of the house and meet people, because it might help my severe depression. But I don't know adv f a m
Should I just continue to lay in bed all day and be an empty shell?
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You live near a library?
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>>17586472
No
It doesn't help the area I'm in is ghetto as fuck
I want to help nice well mannered people not fucking Tyrone and his six niglets
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>>17586478
I feel you man. How ghetto are we talking?
There has to be a community
establishment of some kind looking for volunteers. And everything you'll find will be in order to help lower income people unless you go to a nursing home in a nice white area idk
There's this girl she's cute. Flirting is well received, how long should I wait before making a move. I either wait to long or go for it to quickly.
Ps I'm in high school sr year
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Is that you?
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Yeah that's me
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>>17586429
Gross.
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what do people do all day? those with lives? i dont want to sit in my room in front of the computer all day. but ive been saying that for a few years now. im tired of this life. this desperation. im so exhausted.
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also this face bart is making. it's perfect. i can relate to it so much.
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>>17586417
I've fallen into a schedule with a full time job. I have a few days open but they're weekdays so I spend them doing jack shit mostly. I was somewhat like you. For about four years I didn't have a job or friends or anything and it was boring. Now I'm working, making money, and have gotten in better shape, but there's still fucking nothing going on in my life. I've met new people but I don't hang out with any of them and I don't really want to. Right now, I hate my job and I'm pretty bored with little to do outside of it. I can't find interest or motivation. I just appreciate the lazy days. I still feel the same way I did mentally, but I haven't exactly been looking for or taking opportunities. I'm just becoming complacent in a dead end job at 22
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>>17586432
OP here. Also 22. My routine consists of staying home working on the computer for a job or commuting to class. After class I come right home and sit in my room on the computer. I don't smoke as much weed as I used to, but I still do the same shit if I don't have any.
I don't have friends at the moment. I don't have any interest in hanging out with people I know. I think about doing things like camping alone. All I do is think and never do.
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Richfag here. Or should I say richfag's son. My dad is the managing partner of a big law firm. I'm in my last year at uni, and my dad wants me to come work for him once I graduate--long term, to also go to law school and eventually take over his company.
I don't want to do it. He's right, law is something I'd be good at, and I can't think of a single other career path where I'd make that much money. But honestly fuck him. This whole process is making me feel like I don't have control of my own life. I feel like I either can't go out and do other things, or that if I do, I'll always be looking back thinking "Yeah, but you could have made more money/been more successful/been happier/whatever as a lawyer!" In the scheme of things, I'd be more okay with law if I didn't have to work for my dad. I really don't want to work for my dad.
What do I do? Do I throw in the towel and say I'm gonna become a lawyer? Or is that not even throwing in the towel and I'm just being a whiny bitch? It's lose-lose, I feel like I'll either be thinking "You should have listened to your dad and become a lawyer" or "I can't believe you gave up on anything else and became a lawyer" for the rest of my life.
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Wow being upper class must be hard. Getting career opportunities thrown at you? No need to go out of your way and apply for shit?
Sounds rough buddy
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>>17586415
To be good at something doesn't mean you like it. Trust me as the guy that is more skilled in IT than many but dislikes it very much.
I also think your dad is going to make you ceo at some point so you won't always work under him.
So if you like it, do it. Otherwise, your choice.
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do you know what you want to do?
id still just not do it desu. is he threatening to cut you off if you dont? id still do my own thing.
i think ur making a bigger deal of this than you should. ur describing literally any scenario. "i should have worked at mc donalds instead of bk'. just make a choice you like and go with that.
ur dad will get over it, and if hes not the type to get over it, you'll be grateful you didnt wokr with him and having to put up with his rantings of a different failure every fucking day for the rest of your life.
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I'm planning on running away from my abusive home and leaving the country and I want to leave no trails behind that can lead my family to me.
I've been saving up money in secret in order to escape my physically and emotionally abusive family and I'm at long last at the point where I can pull it off. I won't say what country I'm from out of paranoia, but I will say that it's part of Scandinavia. My destination is that of a friend of mine that lives in the US that has agreed to house me. I have all the hard parts of the process sorted out, such as money, transport to the airport and my ticket booked, but I'm struggling with trying to come up with a way to leave as little of a trail behind me as I can.
I want them to think that I'm still in the country so that they're looking in the wrong place, but I'm worried that if they figure out I ran away with something like a suitcase they'll start catching on. That's not what I'm the most worried about, though since I will probably be fine with just a larger backpack if I end up having to resort to that. What worries me the most is my passport. It's still valid for several years, but since I need it to leave the country and enter the states, they'll know immediately where I am if they find out that it's missing. I can't get a new passport and keep my old one due to laws and shit, so I'd have to turn in my old passport in order to get a new one or I'd get fined or worse. One plan I had was to use an old expired passport from when I was a kid to put among my family's passports, since they're close to impossible to tell a part from just looking at the outside of them. However, if they were to go through the passports and open them I'd be fucked once again.
I'm just really desperate to get away from this place and never have to be afraid for my safety in my own home again. Any advice that can help me cover my tracks better will be very appreciated.
Thanks.
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Leave a Koran and some leaflets about islam in your room.
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Travel in a group and tell a family about the situation. Make sure they look similar.
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Why not just go to a shelter? Unless you can afford to travel.
How do I get girl friends? Like girls for friends? I'm an ugly, short femanon struggling hard to fit in with other women because women don't seem to like me at all. If anything, I have a feeling a lot of them think I'm a lesbian. It's not too far off with my sexuality (bi) and I did cut my hair short recently, only because it was very damaged.
Why are girls so hard to be friends with? I like makeup and clothes despite not being able to afford any of that.
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>>17586346
You have trouble making friends with girls because maybe you had a mean mum or got bullied at lot? Get therapy.
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>>17586366
Relationship with mother isn't too good :-( and I have had a few run ins with alpha females before but that was during school. It's been a few years now.
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Bumping because desperate and I want to see what 4chan has to say
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Quitting Cigarettes or any Addiction 2016-09-20 01:31:02 Post No.17586324
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Quitting Cigarettes or any Addiction
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Anyone quit cigarettes or any other addiction lately? I quit cigarettes a while ago but lately I picked up a pack. Just trying to make it easier to wean by making this thread.
Personally, to distract myself from buying more cigarettes I try to do some sort of physical exercise. It sucks but it works. Anyone want to share and turn this into a decent thread?
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>>17586324
recovered alcoholic, 20 years sober
fill you life with activity
build, create, run around, have fun
as soon as you stop to think, especially at the beginning, your thoughts all wander to the same place - my old addiction
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Porn addict, 5 months clean.
I used to be addicted to porn. Talking twice to three times a day. I would justify by saying "oh doctors say guy who fap a lot have lower chance to get prostate cancer" and would fap away to my hearts content. But then I just noticed I needed to do it everyday and the porn got worse. It got to the point where I needed to see some nasty german shit to get off.
Anyway I just substituted cold showers and meditation to my daily routine. I would eat dinner earlier and go to bed earlier to not tempt myself. I also have a journal to keep my thoughts in and make it religious to do it every night.
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>>17586337
>as soon as you stop to think, especially at the beginning, your thoughts all wander to the same place - my old addiction
This is true, for anyone wondering.
Take this man's advice. Distract yourself with wholesome activity.
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>It got to the point where I needed to see some nasty german shit to get off.
Cold showers and meditation was enough to stop a 2-3 times a day masturbation habit?
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How to text guys without sounding autistic?
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Are you ugly and a weeb? Because those are pretty bad points if you are a girl.
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>>17586299
Kinda weeb i guess. Not ugly and it doesn't really matter when i text
What do they expect me to text? I can't even handle casual texting.
I talk irl normally though
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Literally anything. Just don't use obnoxious text-speak like say lol and k all the time.
And no fucking 1 word responses
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So... I was brushing my teeth, and a piece of my tooth fell out. Now I can't drink or eat without pain. I'm pretty sure it's an exposed nerve. I'm too poor to go a dentist and I have no insurance. I have no idea what to do and I'm starting to get really depressed. Advice?
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>>17586269
Fix it yourself.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Strength-Permanent-Filling-Cement-Material/dp/B009P4IDXS
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>>17586292
Hmm interesting. But seems risky if i mess up.
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>>17586269
Dental shit can kill you. Go to a dentist.
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How do you text a girl if you have nothing in particular to say? How do you hold a conversation when you're struggling to find things to say? Please give tips on conversing
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>>17586263
Why would you want to?
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>>17586286
Because I'm interested in her
It's not that we don't get along, I'm just a social autist
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>>17586288
You cannot have a conversation, you cannot have a relationship.
There is no need of talking all the time with a girl you're interested in. I actually think it ruins things.
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So i'm going to my senior year homecoming with my gf of 3 weeks. First time doing something like this.
She's open to sex but I have no idea how to start it.
Any advice /adv/?
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18 to post here fag.
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>>17586250
you can be 18 in senior year of hs fag
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>>17586252
The problem isn't getting sex but where you are going to do it. You both live with your parents I assume and cash is probably tight. So unless you want your first time in a car, I don't know how you will pull it off.
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Choose a hobby for me /a/. I'm boring as fuck and want to be more interesting. Right now my only hobbies are anime, games, /fit/, and kendo.
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Sewing. Go to your local library and join something of that kind. Anything with older women. It'll make you feel better about yourself
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Learn the flute
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Unrelated but that girl looks so unappealing it is ridiculous. Flat as a cardboard, no shape in her hips, skinny legs and her face looks like she is 14.
Do guys really find this appealing?