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Is Boxing morally wrong?

My parents are telling me it is morally wrong to box/watch boxing. Which sucks because that's the only thing I live for.
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Morality is subjective, I can't answer that question. Clearly they think it's immoral and if you're living in their house you have to respect that.
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>>17585988
Any idea what they have to say about other martial arts? If those are acceptable, then what makes boxing different?
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>>17585988

Bloodsports are civilization, from the Bronze age to now

Excitement, thrill, tempered bloodlust and gambling, all in one setiing

Add skill, resilience and physical prowess

Martial arts are the backbone of civilization

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Hey guys could use some advice.

I recently transferred to a new school after going to community college for four years to get here. It is a relatively small school but it's in the area I thought I wanted to be in. To get here I had to take out a big loan. Anyway, we are 5 weeks in and I am fucking misrebel. I don't have a single friend and all of the social gatherings and clubs and hang seshs I've gone too have no aliviated this problem. I'm trying so so hard but I'm just slipping deeper and deeper into a depression coma every day.

/adv:?
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Are you the same dude from last night?
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>>17585965

Keep trying

Keep your eyes on the prize

Loose weight

Read a book or two about body language so you can pass for a normie
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>>17585965
Are you sure you should be in college if you can't spell miserable?

Where is the line between being yourself and being weird?

Shit, recently I've met a girl who was almost "manic pixie dream" and simply talking to her made me remember the dreams i left behind.

I've always wanted to be that funny joking outgoing classy suave dude, who captivates women and what not. And manages to bring up otaku or 4chan memes without any embarassment.

In my first year of college I became a normie to fit in and be more disciplined, but this state is too suffocating.

What do, how to be yourself in the best possible sense?

pic unrelated
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>>17585957
Yourself needs to not be autistic
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>>17585961
Elaborate pls
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>>17585957
>Where is the line between being yourself and being weird?
>who captivates women and what not. And manages to bring up otaku or 4chan memes without any embarassment.
There's a very distinct line between weirdness/being eccentric and being an autistic, eternal virgin, anon.

Is bringing a blanket to college autistic?

I dress plainly, sit near the front, get good marks/know shit and don't ever talk to anyone unless they talk to me first so I think people probably think I'm autistic anyways. For the record, I'm not.

If I just brought a blanket in my backpack and wrapped it around myself during class would it matter? Is this a really strange thing to do or just kind of strange? Would a professor take issue to it? Class sizes of about 30 people.

I don't particularly care too much if people think I'm weird but I don't want to cause any sort of reaction.

People I've talked to in real life had said it'd be strange, but I just want to be warm and comfy as fall rolls around and I tend to always be freezing.

I'm a girl if it makes a difference.
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>>17585918
As a girl you could probably get away with it. An equal number of people will probably think it's cute as think it's weird. That said, it is a bit weird. Most people would just wear a jacket.
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No one gives a fuck about about anything in college. Though I personally prefer to bring a big scarf and wrap that around me
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>>17585918

Wear a thick sweater and woolen socks you autistic fucktard

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>parents just ignored me
>no one ever spoke to me for 20 years
>parents wonder why i turned out shit

what is wrong with people? Now they expect you to do things for them now that theyre old....fuck off
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>>17585905
Yeah
Me too
My dad didn't give a shit
My mom was too busy looking for dicks
And now they wonder why I literally never contact them.

Anyway, House is a good show.
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My father was a psychologist, and had my mom hold my sister as a baby, and not hold me. We ended up so detached from each other that my great grandmother just picked me up one day without even saying a word to them. It was pretty alright, I learned a lot of life lessons from her, and she loved me unconditionally. When she died I moved back in with them for a couple of years and my dad just kept kicking me out on the street. I'm in college now and I have no idea who my family is, but I feel like the life I've had has matured me and I'm grateful for it.
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>>17586519
Why do psychologists like fucking around with their children? There's too many stories akin to this one out there starring a psych field parent

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I managed to collect a rather large amount of cyber-Evidence pertaining to drug-dealing, robbers and assaults gangs. Many criminals, with serious offenses, and connections to mexican cartels(from the USA.)
I already sent anonymous tips but what else can I do??
is there any news website that accepts info from anonymous tipsters?

Could/should i start my own website showcasing my trophies?
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>>17585899
>>17585911

>gets two dubs in a roll
>still gonna report you

nypa
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hi /adv/, is there anyway to stop your father to from verbally abusing your mother?
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>>17585887

No

She loveslikes it

Otherwise she would have bailed years ago
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>>17585903
nope, she hates his guts. I asked her why doesn't she leave that jerk. she says she's afraid of society. i live in a 3rd world country. So society is more likely to blame her if she leaves him.
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>>17585887
start little by little calling that fuck out on it. And how it's messed up.

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How do I get over a crush?
>inb4 meet new people

I'm shy as fuck. (Only have one friend)
23 yo girl here.
This crush has been on my mind since 2 years ago. I don't even see him regularly. Maybe 7 times a year a little more a little less.

What the fuck. Help.
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>>17585851

if you're going to put stupid limitations so you dont have to grow as a person, then dont ask for advice. we don't cater to egotistical victims.
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>>17585870
>>17585870
But I'm really happy with my life?
If you knew me you would say I'm pretty boring (I don't party. Don't drink. Mostly just am with dog. Paint and draw and lift and work) but I'm really happy with my life. I don't want to change who I am.
I don't feel embarrassed either.

But I'd like to change these feelings I have for this guy. If you can help me then I'd be glad to hear your opinion.
I'm really not egotistical I just don't have much ambition
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>>17585892
>lift

bruh are you a buff qt

i can help you get over your crush

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I'm in my 3rd week of uni and I'm enjoying my time here. Befriended many great people (male and female). Having fun at parties. Even have my own study group. Profs are all nice.

But there's this girl in one of my lectures that is hella cute. She offered a seat beside her last week when i came late to class looking for an empty seat. We walked out of class together and we talked for a minute. but for some i lost all courage and told her i had to meet up with a friend (i said that to cut the convo short).

Today, she sat behind me and all i did was exchange "heys" with her and ended up talking with the guy beside me for the majority of the class instead of her.

Normally, talking to girls and meeting new people wouldn't be a problem but this case feels different. How do i start talking to her? What are good ways or reasons to talk to her during or after the class? I normally offer to study with a girl to get to know them better but give me advice as if i have no experience with any girl.
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Say "hey, would you mind to explain me this shit?" And it will go around
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(first of all sorry for my english im not very good writing yet)

you have to call her attention ... idk maybe in class ask for a pencil or something ... be nice and smile (it have to look natural you know like you're pretty but not weird ) ... at the end of the class ask for her notes or something that makes you talk with she ... then you just start the conversation while you're "checking the notes" ...


MAYBE she is having a strange behavior 'cause she wanted to "call your attention"and you just "ignore" she

good luck ... and once again sorry for my english
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>>17585926
Your english was understandable so dont worry, anon

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So, long story short: My and my girlfriend have not had sex or done anything sexual for about a month. Right before this drought, we had sex like 4 days in a row (we were on a vacation). When we got back from vacation she was put on a new medication that is for a psychological illness she has (she is on about 4 other medications). She has told me that her libido is dropped significantly and she has had no desire for the sex. I on the other hand, have a very high libido, almost too high. I believe her, but a month of no sex seems like a lot. Am I complaining/thinking too much about this? Or am I reasonable in thinking that this is odd? A month is a long time for me with no sex in this relationship.
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Stop thinking with your dick. Many medications can destroy the libido of both men and women, as does depression.
She probably feels bad enough as it is without you pressuring her.
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>>17585841
But is it not weird to feel a little suspicious?
She has genetic and manic depression also.
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>>17585832
You aren't being unreasonable. If she were a virgin, that would be one thing but to expect sex once a month is ridiculous to me.

For reference, I think 3 times a week is a minimum but I wouldn't look down on someone for only having sex once or twice a week.

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Where is a great place to live? I'm looking for work as a software developer and I want somewhere liberal where I can move with my boyfriend. I also like stuff to do and cooler weather. If you live somewhere cool what's so cool about it?
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>>17585815
How cool?
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>>17585815

san francisco sounds like your area.

its very liberal, ghey capital of the universe (second only to Uranus) and its considered the app center of the country as well if thats the kind of software you like.

its california yes, but the winters are real, you are buy the ocean. its not snowy from what i know, but it does get cold in winter, and not too devastatingly hot in summer like it does in socal.

i live in los angeles though and its nice, and i imagine any big city has some software jobs, but each one differs in how liberal it is.
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move to melbourne in australia, it is definitely cooler weather, and there is loads to do around here.

the public transport system is also great, people are generally really nice. if you can find a programming job anywhere, you can find one here, too.

plus, you get to hang out with this cool guy
(me)

tl;dr thinly veiled attempt to recruit friends from other countries

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How do you talk to girls?
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Generally by flapping your mouth hole and exhaling.
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>>17585807
Like how you talk to your mother
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>>17585807
>approach girl
>proceed with verbal communication
Wow

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Girlfriend left me about two weeks ago (too much other stuff going on in her life to handle a relationship) and this weekend is a mutual friends birthday
We'd both known him before before we started dating, and I didn't meet him through her and he's a good friend
I told her soon after the breakup that I was still going, just to give he the heads up, but I'm not sure if I want to anymore
I haven't seen her since before the breakup (she did it over text) and out last in-person interaction was a goodbye kiss and an "I love you"
And I'm not sure how I'll react seeing her again, because I still love her
She'll either be really cold to me which will hurt, or be civil and nice which will just make me want her back even more

But I also don't want to ditch my friend on his birthday and I don't want to be petty or immature by not going because she's there, and I don't really want to spend the rest of my life having to actively avoid someone I really care about

What do I do?

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Hey guys. I'm at Uni and off the meal plan this year to save my appetite and my wallet.

It's been a month and I'm doing pretty well, but everything has been pretty basic, mostly simple heating. So I was wondering, what are some tips you have to help spice up my cooking? I'd say I'm still beginner, but I worked at a restaurant once and helped prepare things so I know how to chop, fry, mix, etc.

Favorite recipes? Favorite place to get recipes? Any must know secrets (like potatoe chips go really well in chicken noodle soup)? Any overall tips? Anything will be appreciated
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One of my favorites is Tortillas with peanut butter, then put it in the microwave.
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>>17585896
That's interesting, never heard of it before
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>>17585896
I second this

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My boyfriend of 3 years has recently lost a lot of weight for unknown reasons. My type has always been chubbier men, but when I met my boyfriend (who is a thin man, even was back when we met) I still found him attractive. However, he has recently lost A LOT of weight and he has become less attractive to me. I am shallow, but not shallow enough to leave him over it. My biggest problem is touching him is physically painful. He has sharp points sticking out everywhere. Not just during sex, just hugging, or even if his elbow brushes mine, it feels like a knife. It makes me less attracted to him again.

No matter how much he eats he just loses more weight. He is still young, so I am hoping it might sort itself out with age. I just don't know what to do. How do I tell him to see a doctor about it without looking like an asshole? How do I tell him he hurts me without looking like an asshole? How the hell do I get him to gain weight again??
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>>17585742

Cancer

Get him to a doctor asap
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>>17585750
what for real? he's only 25
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>>17585766

Sudden weight loss is always medical and most often cancer

Testicular cancer is 'common' in under 30 men

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