Any tips on how to make a person sel sufficient? My sister in law has kind of been dumped on us. Since she turned 16 she went from living with her aunt (who raised her) to living with her older sister (who also kicked her out) to living with her dad (who is on meth) to living with a boyfriend (which lasted for 4 years, so cool) to being dumped on us. Older sister would take her, but she is currently burdened with OTHER SISTER AND her BF who are btw pregnant.
So even though we try to stay out Of this ghetto shit, here we are.
This girl is 21, but she is inno way ready to survive on her own.she got a job within a week of being out here, but the job is shit Nashe almost has another one, but in the act of taking the bus (there is only ONE bus line between her and her work) she has got off at the wrong stop, got on in the wrong direction, missed her stop and ended up at the station.
She doesn't know how to handle her life, keep her room tidy, look for work
And yet she drinks, she is 4'10" tiny tiny. And when she has more than 2 drinks she is fucking retarded.
She is hot, but has no self esteem. So women are mean to her, and she is harassed by men wherever she goes (her tits are huge) but she has the mentality of maybe a 15 year old.
How the fuck to I transition her to independancel???
>>17583820
>She is hot
>her tits are huge
well these are pretty important
pics ?
>>17583822
Me showing you pics isn't going to help me.
Her siblings and I have discussed that selling her to a middle eastern oil tycoon would be the best option. She cooks a little.
I shouldn't have to explain to you why I won't post a pic of my little sis in law. Even the ones I have are not sexy at all.
Just picture a little Mexican girl who looks about 17, is about 4'10" waves hair, thick lips, but tits, no chola, perpetually confused look on her face.
>>17583820
Sounds like there are bigger issues she's got to deal with.
shitty family, wrong friends, drinking etc.
Fucking shit how do you assholes deal with rejection?
I'm not talking about 'sorry I have a boyfriend' rejection but the kind where she goes out of her fucking way to pretend you don't even exist.
It literally should be a crime to treat people this way. How do you scummy fucks deal with this?
>>17583712
Pic related, and other things.
If she rejects me, it's her loss.
Move on.
>>17583829
Easy if you're a scummy bird brain prole.
I'm a boy, and I have a best friend who's also a guy, we met 10+ years ago when we were middle schoolers and he helped me out a few years ago with a massive heartbreak in my late college years, that's when we became super close friends. Lately, however, he's always angry and putting me down, becoming increasingly insulting, because he's supposedly stressed with his life as of late, he's chanelling his anger on me, he's been hurtful for months, I just confessed my love for him in my weakest moment while he kept putting me down, despite the fact he's straight, has a girlfriend, and her girlfriend hates my guts so much she has said she wants me dead.
It's my first time experiencing something like this, and he hasn't talked back to me since... it's over is it not...?
OP obviously he either doesn't feel the same or is angry because he doesn't understand or doesn't want to accept he is into you
>>17583632
it is if you want it to be, and frankly, id want it to be. i dont think there is anythign wrong with expressing feelings but you have to accept the consequences.
it is a noble idea to love someone and just be their friend. the kind of thing that is often written about but very rarely truly experienced in real life for more than a short period of time. because its hard to keep that bottled in. you have to let it out so you can get closure and move on. and tahts what you did.
and with him already being an ass, it may be time.
i had a similar experience, or more of a backwards experience. i met a guy, asked him out, oops hes straight. now hes my best friend. literally just now left my apartment.
>>17583638
I've been pondering after I posted OP, I think the reason he's being such a humongous asshole is because of his father. He's an under-archiever jackass who works on some goverment office and is pressing him that he's a failure. The jackass dad is projecting himself into my friend, and my friend has been channeling all that anger unto me since we (used to, not so much these past few days) text each other a lot.
I don't expect him to answer my feelings back, I just legitimately want to keep being his friend, we had a lot of good times, a lot of laughs together, we were like brothers for so long, it's just... depressing to think about it ending... I personally don't want it to end. I just want to keep being there for the day he says "Anon. I need help/be listened to/need someone to chill out with/just hang out". Or even just get together to draw in a giant white desk without talking much... I miss drawing with him...
>>17583637
>doesn't want to accept he is into you
Well, he said once, time ago, I'd be cuter if I didn't had facial hair marks on me but I can't help it, I shave every day and you can still notice if I didn't shave for a week I'd have a full beard, it's my genes.
I've been a pedophile for a long time. Recently I've moved in with my sister and her very young niece. I'm not attracted to her but I'm afraid of what could happen in five years or so. Should I cut down on the loli porn? I've never felt like I could act on my urges, but I wonder if that would be different living with a young girl. I don't even want to see her that way, though, even if acting on that feeling is out of the question.
I don't even know if it'd change anything.
U need to either stop being a pedo or just slit your wrist what the fuck is wrong with u you sick fuck man people like u r fucking trash I wish I could meet a pedo so I can fuck him up badly !!!!
How can your sister have a niece who isn't your niece too?
>>17583254
Cut out the loli porn completely. And have some fucking self control. Just because you're a Pedi doesn't mean you can't control your dick right?
So how do you know if a first date is a success or not?
You get a second.
>>17583181
/thread
Related question but I don't feel like making another thread.
How do you know a girl likes you more than a friend?
This is a genuine question
Criminals actually do well in life. They have more children than the rest of the population.
http://www.ehbonline.org/article/S1090-5138(14)00077-4/abstract
Because of this, surely it's rational and logical to try and become a hardened criminal? I mean what is the point of living by society's rules when you can actually succeed more by breaking them, as that study shows?
Please give proper reasons why a law-abiding life is better than a law-breaking one, and by the way, just moralising or calling me a cunt are not reasons.
Rob a bank (without a gun). They will catch you and you'll be considered legit in prison.
>having more children means you're doing well at life
Really? Are you a retard op?
Well it doesn't even matter because you're undoubtly too much a coddled pussy bitch to do any sort of crime
>>17583133
> Why shouldn't I break laws?
> No discussing morals!
Right
Did I do anything that could have screwed up the conversation?
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May be continued
I'm not really sure what advice I even want, except that I want somebody to listen to this. I've been keeping this a secret and it's been hurting so bad. Here goes:
PART I: FALLING
>be me right before summer this year
>21
>Basically a NEET
>living with parents, who think I'm still in school
>Don't talk to any of my friends anymore, too embarrassed to even talk to them after flunking out of college
>Lonely as fuck
This is the basic scene. I spent most of my days reading political articles online, occasionally staring at my old textbooks, vainly trying to read facts that I'd either forgotten long ago, or shitposting. There was a void that I felt like I wasn't able to fill. I also spent way too much time on Omegle, just talking to people. Some days I'd meet really cool people, some days nobody would want to talk to me.
One day I met her. She had long, red hair. She had been crying. I talked to her, and she opened up to me. She lived in Denver, I did not. We exchanged numbers and started texting, then talking to each other over the phone late into the night. After some talking, she told me that her uncle had raped her over spring break. I was hooked. She really seemed to like me, and she kept telling me things, and I listened and we talked.
From the first night, she kept telling me that I should move to Denver and love her. That she needed someone to love. Love love love love. That's really all we talked about. It also came out that she was 17. I didn't really care. She was gorgeous. But every time we talked she told me that I needed to come to Denver so that we could actually spend time together, and I told her no every time, that I needed to save my money, that there was no reason to rush things, that I could get in legal trouble, that this, that that. One particularly shitty day, I caved. I bought plane tickets, I bought a hotel, and I flew across the country to Denver.
I hate myself.
>>17581855
PART II: ARRIVAL
>Be on plane
>super excited to meet only girl that's shown interest in me in (what felt like) years
>never ridden a plane before
>admire the view before falling asleep
>wake up
>plane lands
>fucking awesome!
>Denver is incredible
>texting Her
>get a little mixed up in the terminal, but sort myself out eventually
>she's getting increasingly annoyed with how long it's taking me
>eh, it'll be fine, she's going to be happy once we meet
>finally find her
>she's irritable and terse
>I get in her car, and we drive off to the hotel, sitting in silence most of the way
I'd never booked a plane or a hotel before. I didn't know how this shit worked. So imagine my surprise when I discovered that the hotel I had booked was an incredibly fancy one. A fancy one that I realized too late I had spent way too much goddamn money on. Yes, I'm retarded, if this whole story didn't tip you off.
I blew nearly $600 on this fucking trip, probably more than that if you count the money I spent in Denver. I felt like a goddamn moron.
The airport was when I had my first inkling this was going to be a shit weekend. As soon as she saw me, I saw her face drop. I'm only 5'5. I hadn't mentioned that too her, and apparently my height never crossed her mind (who expects someone to be a manlet?), because her entire demeanor changed. In that moment, I knew she stopped finding me attractive, I could see it on her face, and in that moment I hated myself.
The plan was roughly as follows. I was going to stay in Denver from Friday to Monday, flying back on Sunday. We would meet Friday, spend Saturday hanging out and getting high, and Sunday she would take me back to the airport after a long night of fucking each other's brains out. As they say, the best laid plans of manlets...
>>17581855
Continue
>>17581863
On Friday, apparently her parents had been getting on her ass about whatever, and she told me she was pissed at them, and that's why she was acting the way she was. She stayed over, and we watched Ghost Hunters or some shit, and she got pissed at me for finding it funny. I must have been incredibly horny. I kept trying to kiss her, but she wouldn't kiss me back. She told me that it was like kissing a stranger, which hurt me more than it had any right to. After all, we had only met a month ago.
We cuddled, and she put off going home, feeding her parents some bullshit about doing something with one of her friends, until eventually she had to go. I didn't want her to go, and I felt ripped off. I felt like I had invested everything and she invested nothing. Before she left, she sighed. Lying down, she told me to take off her panties. I did so. She pulled her dress up. I lay on top of her, and mounted her, and came inside her. It was the worst sex I've ever had in my life. She was so tight, that I was cumming before I even realized it. I was finished in probably less than a minute. I felt ashamed. She kissed me, and put her clothes back on, and I walked her down to the parking lot and saw her off. I felt let down, and I hated myself.
I went back up to my hotel room. I went inside. It was fancy. Certainly the fanciest hotel I've ever stayed in. Certainly the fanciest place I've ever slept alone.I curled up in my king sized bed, and fell asleep watching Ghost Hunters or some shit, and tried to keep the little kernel of optimism in my heart alive that this wasn't all just a gigantic waste of my time and money and emotion. I eventually fell asleep.
Given that my attempts to better myself have yielded little progress and, over the course of a few weeks, Ive descended yet again in a loop of depravity, apathy and laziness, I've found, among all the other problems I already identified, that I wish I wasn't so alone.
Considering that my problems involve being addicted, not doing what I must do, being passive all the time, and slowly losing my mind into a void where Its just me and I cant properly think, I wanted to know if there's some sort of support group you guys know, kind of like the neet threads there used to be here, stuff like that.
>>17581794
addicted to what
>>17581801
Should have elaborated. Not addicted to anything serious like weed or drugs etc.
Just pleasurable things in general, distractions, food, etc.
Masturbation been causing problems in me for the last 4 years, and has caused me to pursue stronger and weirder fetishes, and reduced my self steem (due to the fantasies I partake into) to almost non existent.
In the process of being also addicted to my own fantasies / delusions of grandeur, I've also become some sort of recluse and, in the occasions I have to go to college, nothing more but the socially awkward guy nobody talks to.
what happened when you googled "addiction support group (name of your city or nearest large city)"?
What's on your mind anon?
Yo momma
>>17578184
Frustrations at my job, vastly mitigated by my solidifying dream of starting a +4 acre forest garden and creating my own edible woods to go innawoods in my spare time
Why do I still have to be kv while everyone around me just kept getting gfs out of nowhere? Why were they so lucky and not me?
>gold digger
>cunt
whatever
I'm a 20 year old female and I met a well off, attractive 37 year old. He approached ME, and asked me out to coffee. Then he took me to his house and we messed around. He drove me home and we talked later that night and he said he didn't want to be with me and that he was already seeing someone else his own age.
He kept me on Facebook and snapchat but then he posted a snap with another woman a few weeks later and I lost it. She looked like me, actually. Young, white, all that. He's middle eastern. I asked him who she was and he deleted me off Facebook and snapchat.
I still have his number. I don't even care if he's only interested in me for lust. Do you think I should send nude pictures via text?? It has been a little over a month since we last talked.
>>17576408
Depends on quality of nudes, post here for peer review
Young lady you need to realize that men like view young women like you as very disposable. Sure, living the high life is nice but find yourself a man your age and you'll be much happier.
Back in Texas we have a saying, when a bee pollinates a flower it doesn't stick around for the flowers sake
>>17576411
Dubs confirm.
>>17576408
Forget about him. Find a more productive way of validation, like a hobby.
Simple questions that dont need their own thread.
What do about anxiety? Any kind of anxiety. I get bad anxiety when I talk to girls, but I just try powering through it. I also get bad stage anxiety and I really need help with this because I'm a music major and need to be able to perform
>>17574477
see therapist
>>17574490
That's the solution to all my problems it seems.
>anon you should see a therapist for that mind numbing depression
>anon you should see a therapist for that crippling anxiety
>anon you should see a therapist for those repressed feeling of anger
pls project yourself onto a wall of anons
pls provide only the first initials for extra projection
you know who you are looking for
You do not care about me and that is unfortunate for both of us. You are an invisible person.
A
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Call me please.
K
>>17572919
If they were invisible, you wouldn't know that they don't care about you. It also wouldn't be unfortunate for either of you in your opinion. Sounds like you're invisible to them.
My neighbor rang at my door this evening with her 2 yo daughter.
She asked me if I could keep an eye on her for an hour since she had something urgent to do. I agreed.
Then 30 minutes later she texts me.
"Sorry, things didn't turn well, I won't come back before 1 or 2 days, please take care of Roxane (her daughter's name)"
Then another "Sorry, I can't explain now, I tell you everything when I come back. I beg you to help me just for this time."
Then nothing, and she probably turned down her phone cause it doesn't ring.
What the fuck do I do??
I told the girl to do some drawings and now she's alseep.
Do I call the police?
(sorry for bad english)
Yea call the fucking police. Her mom is a shitbag who doesn't need a kid if she just dumps it on her neighbors with no regard for their time. Guarantee she is out doing drugs or selling her body.
>>17568719
I doubt it, she has a job, and doesn't need money. Apparently it's her first time doing something like that (according to the kid)
>>17568719
this
A thread for people/losers whose windows of opportunity are rapidly closing.
>>17565115
opportunity for what
You must be making this thread for femanons because past 25 is when shit starts getting good as a dude.
>>17565120
like what?