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keep going.

you quit what's holding you back, tobacco, which is good. Focus on what makes you happy. You're 21, start going to bars man. Meet some people.

Please don't study graphic design. All of your problems will get way worse.
Go into web or app development, or pick up a trade. Just anything else.

>>17584664
>>17584664
european based, my education is free, i dont think its that bad

Yes it's normal for some cum to drip out. Yes your body absorbs the left over sperm that die.

The only way to get better is, indeed to have more sex. You can't get better at ANYTHING without practice.

Also, condoms don't just prevent pregnancy they prevent STDs. With everyone and their mom getting HPV these days it would be safer for you to have him wrap it up anyway.

>>17584596
>My guess was my body just absorbs it for nutrients.

This line gave me a boner.

>>17584608
We're each other's second sexual partner. Before I got with him I was STD tested and came up negative. He's likely negative toI so we didn't worry

>Darude - Sandstorm
always works

You have to stop giving a fuck about whether you get hard or not. Easier said than done but that's the key. You are having issues because of the pressure you create for yourself, which in turn makes you nervous.

If you have a good emotional connection you could tell her that since it happened that one time you have become nervous that it'll happen again. (Also a great time to educate a girl that no boner =/= he doesn't find you hot.) Ideal would be if you could agree to just have some steamy foreplay a few times, and you proceed to sex whenever it naturally comes up (pun intended). That will take the edge off.

Bonus: it's an important lesson to learn, way too many people think that no boner means no sex, which is just a useless restriction of your sex life.

>>17584544
The girl knows that no boner =/= i don't find her hot, she told that to me herself since the same thing happened to her Ex when they were trying to fuck the first times.

The problem is she is experienced, I am not and I create the pressure for myself to "satisfy" her and you are right I become nervous..

First time we fucked it happened in her car, so fast and with a condom and everything when smoothly.. second time my fail happened and I got so fucking embarrased that the third time I only got hard during a blowjob..

You're right, she told me she loves me and that she is going through some hard shit these days and she needs me more for emotional support than sex anyway right now, I should stop being such a retard, cause I'm making sex way too big of a deal in my head.

>>17584460
Worry about making the animation first because odds are if your gonna plan on taking 2 years then you won't finish it. Worry about the music when it comes up

>>17584468
Heres the thing. By making the animation in correlation to some chosen music, I'm able to make it look and flow a lot better to whats being played and match scenes with cues. I want to do it this way, but maybe you're right.

>>17584460

one thing you can do is test the music. you can upload it online to youtube, just the song, and see if it gets taken down.

of course a lot can change in two years, and what was once okay, or at least ad sense worthy might become banned entirely.

if you arent dead set on a song, look into finding a small badn that will let you use one of their songs. its a tough fucking search, but you can find the right ones iwth some searching. might cost 60 bucks for the rights.

She is dating you and isn't your girlfriend, she can look on tinder. Nothing wrong with that.

>>17584443
She is my girlfriend, I guess "dating" wasn't the right word - it's just the best verb I could think of.

Man, board's slow tonight.

I've decided I'll just straight out ask her: "Yo I was checking something on Tinder and it said you were online the other night, do you still use it?"

Hopefully I've learned enough from the past to be able to discern when she's telling the truth by now.

Can anyone predict ways this might backfire?

read about it and practice. There are plenty of books about it, but reading about it alone won't do you much help. You need to talk to people in order to become better at talking to people. Preferably face to face, but online or on the phone also helps.

Start with "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie, it's basically social interaction 101.

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Yes because the person who procrastinated 10 years in making a facebook is going to suddenly change when some faceless anon gives him advice. Who are you kidding?

People don't really use facebook to socialize anymore.

Time to get a new phone.

Dead serious. If you have a warranty, I suggest you use it.

Tfw s7 edge in my pocket
Feelsgoodman

>>17584356
>samsung galaxy s4........
>2016.......
..............

Sit on your ass and actually use your brain for something useful.

TED talks, coursera, udacity and youtube's plethora of educational content.

You can learn quite a lot if you have free time.

>>17584230
I don't want to learn shit. Thats why I'm taking a week off to clear my head.

>>17584234

Clear your head of what? The semester just fucking started. Fuck you need a week off for mental health for?

Don't fucking apologize for your normal behaviour. Own up to it and if they don't like it then so be it.

I feel in today's society people are constantly apologizing constantly trying to not get anyone angry but who gives a fuck? Do you and only you.

>>17584206
I think OP is saying that he doesn't normally act this way.

>>17584212
Yeah, i don't normally get into these situations, and these are people ive known for years, yet for some reason I'm off

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>>17584159
check em

Talk slowly
Don't say sorry, but rather say "my mistake" instead.

>how do I deal with annoying customers?

No. You offer them decent rooms so they don't come complain to you after. The less time you have dealing with them, the better.

>how do I make extra money?

Don't do the prostitute thing because cops can do sting operations and you name will be implicated. If you want extra cash, buy scrap and sell it on the side.

>>17584159
OP if anyone catches wind you're whoring out some broads you will be fired and arrested to damn quickly.


Jesus Christ I hope you aren't actually this retarded.

Do serious research on job prospects for booty degrees. Talk to actual people who have the jobs. Reddit is the place find them

I have an econ degree and got it without going to class or knowing calculus. It might be very easy for you if you have the mind for abstraction. Ended up working in IT somehow

On the flip side, physicists are working on wall Street and google because of their math skills. Math majors too.

Mechanical engineering is more practical application of high level Math and reasoning skills

I don't know many people who have used their econ degrees to do econ, besides two professors.

But econ is absolutely fascinating, the reason why I majored in it. So think hard and good luck. There are no answers. A solid understanding of econ principles will improve your life in many ways outside of work

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>>17584138

>booty degrees

Nah, it's pointless. If you want to find a solid job in economics just get an economics degree (and masters, maybe, I don't know what you learn for a bachelors degree and what you don't) and be sure to know your math. Learn financial modelling and engineering and you'll have a plethora of well-paid, high-satisfaction jobs open to you because plebs with an economic degree can't into math.

Many physicists go for finance jobs because some of the concepts in financial engineering resemble concepts that are used in physics. And they know math. But if you're only looking for a job in finances there's no reason to learn physics, unless you have an interest in it. Something that would help you more in finances would be some database knowledge and analysis tools, maybe even coding. Stuff like SQL, MathLab, EViews.

>>17584112
No matter how you try to back out she'll know it's because of her kid. Soften the blow, sure. But don't sugarcoat the fact that you don't want to deal with a kid, she'll take it as you patronizing her.

What she does after you leave her can't bother you. You're not responsible for her.

If she can't handle being dumped you dodged a second bullet. Either way there is absolutely no reason to with her

Your impression that she is just like you is a lie. Most of them time, they are pretending to make you fall in love with them. She is nothing like you. You are considerate and cautious. She is a single mother. There is no similarity between you where it counts

Tell her this isn't going to work for you. If she asks why tell her it's because of the child. Don't sugarcoat it, nothing good would come out of it.

A full sized body pillow between you two

Wife used one when pregnant and it was the best sleep i ever had

>>17584101

This, if he doesn't mind not cuddling and it's just the issue after he falls asleep.

If its a body heat issue, maybe AC? or finding a compromise, such as just his arm rested along your hip/leg to possibly help his body get the "cuddle" it wants but not have full blown cuddling.

>>17584101
That would quiet possibly upset him becausr he would feel "separated". He was actually offended when i first told him about my issue (i worded it as nicely as i possibly could). We have an ac. It's just that i don't like to be touched im general when i fall asleep. And since he doesn't do it on purpose, making compromises like "just one arm" only works untill he falls asleep.

Everyone will benefit from therapy.

Has he been cheated on in the past? If so the paranoia and privacy violation is excusable, but also requires therapy.

Have you broken his trust in the past? Then the problem is all you, and he should leave you

If neither has happened, you should leave him.

After therapy helps you, encourage him to go as well. If he is unwilling to go, you should leave as well

>>17584072
he is being controlling and is starting to border on psychological abuse. not only that, it doesn't even sound like he loves you. get away from him before he has you apologising for being alive. dump him, block his number. you need space to work on your own issues. I guarantee you won't get that as long as you're around him.

I always thought hypochondriacs tended to go to doctors more often, not be afraid of them. are you afraid of getting diagnosed with something? or treated for the wrong thing?

part of a therapist's job is to make sure you are comfortable and that you trust them. otherwise they can't treat you. so if you go to a therapist, they will do everything they can to try and work with your hypochondria. they also generally can't prescribe meds, so you don't even have to worry about them pushing pills at you. it's not really like seeing a doctor at all.

go get this guy out of your life and get some help, dear. you will be glad you did.

Wait are you male or female?Different approach to this for different genders

relationships are not econimical unions no matter how hard ppl who are living in failed ones tell you

there needs to be a bit of a lust, thats how you keep togather amongst other things

do you want to fuck other chicks? if yes break up
if not, visit a doctor

Are you limp or do you wanna bang dlsomeone else?

>>17584091
>>17584113
I wanna bang other girls