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I'm so stressed I don't even know what to do
>Car is in unusable condition, used dad's car today to get to school but he works the rest of the week so might have to miss class
>Laptop needs to be sent in for repairs, in school for programming so straight up need it for school
>School will give loaner laptops to programming students if theirs breaks, but I have to have it actually sent out to get one.
>Need to do it today, otherwise I probably won't be able to til wendsday/Thursday and by them I'll be super behind and even miss a couple of assignments.
>Have really important class today I simple cannot miss so I'll have go after if I do
>Straight up not sure if I'll have enough time to get everything done I need today, and if I can't get the loner laptop today, won't be able to go get it til my car repairs are done (which could be a few days)
>not to mention all the time I need to spend getting everything I need off my laptop and setting up all the programs I need for school again (will literally take hours).
I'm actually freaking out. All this stress is too much
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Write an e-mail asking for an extension, and explain the scenario. Having it written out will probably help with seeing in in a more orderly to-do list and will reduce your stress.
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Why are you super behind in the first place you twat? Semester just started and you're already behind this much? Apparently getting a day planner is too much for you people.
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Yeah thinking about that.
If I can get the replacement today everything SHOULD be fine. It's really just a matter of if I can
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how to quit smoking weed ..? 2016-09-19 18:11:31 Post No.17584916
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how to quit smoking weed ..?
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I'd like to quit smoking weed but every time I try I fail... I know it should be only a question of will-power and I could just throw it all away but I can't. Yesterday I threw everything in the woods while I was high and couldn't focus on the book I gotta read for school because it really pisses me off to see how miserable I get because of my own habit, but today all I've been thinking about is smoking and now I'm waiting for my dealer to show up... Please don't judge, I already feel like a waste, only share what worked for you If you've already been in this situation before...
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I'm in the same boat OP
>>17584340
anyways, it'll be best for the long run. Take a break for a while, then maybe, once in a blue moon, try it, and see if you can handle strict moderation. if you feel like falling back into smoking everyday, stop immediately.
That said I feel it will be easier for me than you, because I'm actually starting to have issues smoking it, and it's less enjoyable than it was in my teens.
Anyways, I'm with you OP, we can do this.
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>>17584916
You might be using it to compensate for boredom. If you keep living your same old boring life, you'll keep wanting to compensate with weed.
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Hey man I recently stopped for college, smoked my entire high school life. The best way to stop is to make it where you can't get anymore, I mean block and delete your dealers numbers throw all your shit away etc and then you have to find something to replace all that time you used to smoke like a new hobby or working out. For example I torrented FL and have been looking at YouTube videos constantly trying to learn how to use it and go to the gym daily. It'll be good to stop man, you'll make yourself a lot more interesting and be proud you are able to overcome this. Good luck man
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Saturday night I was out with a couple of friends when this group of girls came to us and started talking to us, before they had to go they took our numbers and I texted with one of them until she was asleep.
The morning after we talked a little bit more and she told me she was even thankful for letting her discover a cool song but after that I reached a point where I couldn't keep the conversation alive because she was giving one word answers.
My question is: should I try texting her again or should I just drop her?
Also is it okay to start talking with someone I don't know much by asking how was her day or is it cringey?
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Ask if she wants to go out on a date and try to put yourself in a situation where you guys can fuck after in case that's all she's after. No one wants a guy to just meander on and never go anywhere with it.
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We already agreed that we have to do something one of these days but I've accidentally invited my friends and all her group with us
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Asking how her day is going is something I'd say to someone that I've been talking to for a long while. Try mentioning a movie that has caught your interest and if she gives feedback, propose the idea of going to the theatre together and watching the movie.
Also, try finding common interests (shows, sports, music, celebrities) so that they make good convo starters or topic changers if things are getting dry. But try not to seem desperate to drag the convo.
So I've found out this shit happening on parts of me. Itches as hell, but only for 10-15 minutes. Don't know what is it, nor a cause of it. Someone knows?
Also skin issues general I think.
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super cancer
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Thanks, I was thinking about it. Either that or AIDS.
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>>17584849
super cancer spider eggs
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i fapped 7 times and im about to go 8. also when i touch my nipples my shit gets hard and i cant stop fapping, any advice ? i want to cut out my balls
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Just don't touch your nipples.
The previous 7 times why did you fap?
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>>17584928
because i touched my nipples
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>>17584958
All the 7 times are because of that?
Stop touching them and also,are you sure you like to be a man? Do you find the men bodies attractive? No offense btw
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Why do people (especially women) try to stab me in the back so much? 2016-09-19 17:53:08 Post No.17584837
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Why do people (especially women) try to stab me in the back so much?
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Recently I have come to realize that this shit is happening to me way too fucking much. I don't mean to be sexist but I get this mainly from women. Examples:
In my physics class my teacher praised me att he beginning. This girl in my group then started picking apart my behavior and criticizing me, complaining about me to the teacher. The teacher gave me an A anyways, but he was a male.
Another class. Working with this african girl who works on the side and goes to college part time. She applied for a scholarship and it was denied because her GPA was too low. She can't do basic fucking math in my chem lab.
Anyways first lab I did all the work. I told her about how I had a scholarship. When the lab was over she stole my packet and wrote her name on it, turned it to the teacher. I looked everywhere eventually to find it on the teacher's desk. I crossed her name off and turned it back in.
Today we did a lab. Once again she was too dumb to know the calculations, so I helped her with those. At the end of the lab she writes that "my partner may have made mistakes" on the sources of error. The teacher then gave me this speech about paying more attention.
Anyways this girl is pulling my leg and Idk wtf to do. When I was growing out outside the states I never noticed this behavior, but here I see it being extremely common. What the fuck do i do to deal with it?
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Stop helping girls then, you fucking retard.
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You're seen as a pushover. Do not put up with this shit. For instance, when that teacher gave you the speech you should've told you literally did the entire work (even if you didn't), that you wanted to help her, but she can't even do calculations. Tell him that you were fine with it until she started being mean and lying about it, tell him that now you don't think it's fair that both of you get the same grade for the work. If he seems reluctant or doesn't believe you ask him to give her an easy problem (something you know she won't be able to solve) to prove that she doesn't know shit.
Basically stir shit up. If someone's being an asshole to you be an asshole back to them. Never help that girl with anything again. Next time she struggles with anything laugh at her stupidity. Tell the teachers you do all the job when your partners are being annoying and do their fair share. Same with the first girl, if she complains about your behavior tell her to mind her own business. If she keeps at it find something to complain about to the teacher. It can be anything and it doesn't have to be true as long as she can't immediately prove it's false.
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>If someone's being an asshole to you be an asshole back to them.
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Sorry if this is the wrong board to ask, but I really need advice. Got a kitten a few weeks ago. But my brother is a jealous piece of shit, so he went out and got one the next day. But he's never home, so I have 2 kittens, 1 male (mine) and 1 female (his/also mine). First time I've had cats in my adult life and I've got no clue what to do.
I didn't know the mother cat so idk if they're strays or not (got them from a friend), but I got them their shots and flea medication, stuff like that. In a few weeks I'll get them their rabies shots and then get them spayed and neutered. They're both inside cats if that helps. 15 weeks old now, 10 when I got them. My issue is with their shit.
They started off with really light orange colored shit and it was very runny, like pancake batter almost. Found out they had worms. Went to get shots, and the vet recommended some antibiotics that they ordered for us. But my mom is cheap as fuck so she doesn't wanna pay "all that money" (when it all comes out of my wallet anyways) so she insists we skip that. They shit out some worms and their shit looked a little better. More solid than liquid, but it was still very soft. But it never got any darker or more solid like it's supposed to be. So my mom spoke to some literal crazy cat lady at the grocery store and she recommended pumpkin for runny shit, so we gave them some and it got a little more solid but it didn't help in the long run. Then we take them to a different vet again yesterday and they said kittens generally need the de-worm shot twice, so we do it. Now the shit is the right color but it's even more runny than it was before. What the actual fuck is wrong with my cat? It's only the female btw, the male seems fine.
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My whole family up through my great grandparents including me has been crazy cat people who take in strays and shit and generally have way too many cats, so from experience I've seen a lot of kittens that just have runny shit for a while.
If you've dealt with the worm problem, watch the kitten when she's shitting (from a distance so you don't make her nervous) and see if she seems distressed. Excessive talking or facial expressions during shitting can mean that they're uncomfortable and have another problem.
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What other problem could it be? Just so I could maybe preemptively tackle it
I've watched her a few times. Our litter pan has this wall around it to prevent the cats from slinging litter out of the box when they're covering but she props one leg up on the top of the wall most times and has one leg stretched down into the actual box. And 8 times out of 10, she gets runny shit all over her foot/leg and then jumps in my fucking chair, which is half of why I made this thread. I love them to death, but I'm getting really fed up with having to chase her down to clean shit off her paws and then having to clean it off my stuff. And they shit constantly. I've never had cats that shit this much in my whole life, and I've never met anybody who claims that they have either.
She's naturally very talkative though. She makes a lot of noise just because, like when she's in my lap or when she's just laying down in general, or when we're up walking around. She also typically replies to me when I speak to her. Is that bad? The male doesn't make a lot of noise unless he wants attention or if he's trying to sleep and I bother him.
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Cats and dogs are a lot like people, they're incredibly varied. I have 2 cats right now, a Norwegian that never makes a noise, even when she "meows" it's just an open mouth heavy breath, and one that won't shut up if she even THINKS you were talking at her, so that's not a worry.
If the kitten is getting shit on herself I would take her in to the vet again and explain this. Cats tend to be very good even at kittens about keeping things like shit and piss off of them unless they're suffering from some sort of problem. There IS a possibility that she's just a spaz and it will get better in time, but it's very rare to see them get messy like that with toilet problems.
The good news is that most of the time it's not going to be a life threatening thing, like people stomach issues, but she may need some meds.
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A couple of days ago I added this thick girl on Snapchat because she had it on her Tinder profile. I never matched with her so if she swiped left on me or just doesn't use the app much. Anyway, I've been texting her the past couple days about menial shit like "What are you going to school for", the usual get to know you stuff. Night before last she sent me a Snapchat of her thick thighs, to which I complemented her on and called her "Mz Thickness" and I dunno if she appreciated that or not, I also don't know if it was just a mass Snapchat sent to a bunch of her friends.
So today I'm sitting here, doing my online Art History homework and thinking about how I need a shower before I go to class today at 3 so I don't smell like ass because I sit next to a cute girl that I wish I could muster up the courage to talk to.
That's when it hits me that this thick girl is the same person I sit next to in class. Texted her saying "Hey you have Art History at 3 right? I think I sit to your left lol". She asked for a selfie then and told me that she noticed me "looking over at her" multiple times during class and that it was "distracting" and that I shouldn't sit next to her anymore. Tried explaining that it was her bright laptop screen in an extremely dimly lit lecture hall that was drawing my eye but her response was "if its so distracting move the fuck away".
Class is in 2 hours and I guess I'm a creep. Honestly feeling kinda down and I don't even really want to go to class. How should I approach this?
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Sounds like a cunt don't worry about it
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Don't sit next to her next time. That's all I can tell you. If she doesn't want to sit near you anymore, the only thing you can do without making an ass out of yourself is to move away from her. Go to class though.
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>Mz Thickness
oh my fucking god OP.
dw about it though. Move very far away from her.
Hey, /adv/
I'm sure many people have come to this board before asking about this. But I couldn't find a current thread on it so I decided to start one to get some help.
I've been cheated on in the past.
And it absolutely destroyed me.
I was engaged to that girl and we were together for about 4 years right until I broke it off.
It took me about two and a half years to get over her.
Now, I am in a relationship with an amazing girl who I'm slowly becoming more and more crazy about.
I feel, the more I dive deeper into my current SO.
The fear of being cheated on is coming out into the open.
I've talked to her about it before and she herself had been cheated on multiple times by her last long relationship while they were engaged as well.
So, my question is.
How does one get over the fear of being cheated on?
I've tried a few things based on what the top searches of google have brought to my attention.
But most of them involve "Keep yourself busy" or "Talk to your SO"
And so far, I'm just starting to feel like these things are a temporary solution that never seem to last long for me.
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It's fucking awful isn't it? I was with a girl for 6 LOOOOOONG years, lived together, worked together, shared all the same friends, BAM! she left me in the middle of the night to go live with someone she met online, took my money for a plane ticket and I never saw her again
Life fucking sucks like that, I'm in a new relationship now and you know what happened? I got cheated on...again, only this time I caught her before it got worse, she begged me for a second chance and I took her back out of fear of being alone, but it left massive amounts of damage, I'm sorry to tell you OP, but that feeling never goes away, once you're cheated on it's like being shot, the bullet can be removed and the wound can heal, but you'll ALWAYS have that scar and memory of it happening, and no matter what you do, no matter who you are with, the thought will ALWAYS be in the back of your head
I'm sorry if it sounds like I'm being a total douche about it, but that's just how it is, when you love someone so much and they do something like cheat on you, it shatters your world, anyone's world, it's the worst fucking feeling you will ever have, and sadly it'll stick with you for the rest of your life
The only advice I can give, is try your god damn hardest to be the best boyfriend you could ever be, force yourself to do everything right, even if it hurts YOU, as long as SHE is happy, you won't have to worry about being cheated on
Sounds like a shitty way to live life, but if you really do love her, you'll force yourself to do your best, people only cheat when they're unhappy in the relationship, so do everything in your fucking soul and bones to make sure she's never unhappy.
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>do everything in your fucking soul and bones to make sure she's never unhappy.
>Doing this much for someone else
>ever
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You don't know, and it's not your right to stop them if they do. All you can do with each other is be honest. I told my wife 10 years ago when we met that if she cheats on me, just tell me. I've been cheated on before and cheated on someone.
Honesty. Sorry if that sounded harsh, but just remember you can't change or control someone, b/c that will lead to cheating, just accept them, and they accept you, then you fall in love. If they do cheat, don't get mad, just be "upset" about it and ask her why, b/c you deserve that.
Hope that helps.
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I met this girl this weekend who I hit it off with. We have a lot of interests in common, and she has been texting me non-stop the last few days, so she obviously likes me as well.
There are two things I need some input on with her:
1. I'm moving to another country in approx 4 months, it's only a 1h30m flight, and about 10-12 hours by train away. Is it worth it? If we're going to engage a relationship, we wouldn't be able to live together for at least a year. Only weekend visits and vacations.
2. If I'm asking her on a date, what would you recommend? I was thinking about either taking her to this "hip" relaxed restaurant or to go hiking.
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Bump
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Well it's the worst thing to make a relationship and then stay on distance for 1 year :/ I know that because I started my relationship with my be and after one-two months he had to leave for 2 months for a job in an other place. It was really sad experience because we had to be away when we were at the beginning of our relationship :/ I was crying all day,counting the days for when I will see him. Finally he came back and now we are together for 5,5 years. But you need to know that distance brings arguments,that there wouldn't exist if you were close to each other. Especially if you are away for one year.
Are you willing to go every weekend to see her?
Can you afford the cost?
Why are you moving?
Are you really in love with her?
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>>17585102
Bf*
I really need advice.
Tomorrow, I have to say goodbye to a girl that has been the imoportant and dead person in my life, someone who's a helped me change for the positive and someone who I have feelings for. I have to tell her a final farewell with the realization that I might not ever seen her again.. I don't know how I can possibly keep my composure.. Just typing this I am literally crying my eyes out. I don't know how I can do it.
Nobody has ever meant as much as she has. And I'll probably never see her again.
Help me. Please
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>who I have feelings for
Unless you've dated at some point - or maybe even then -, just don't. If it's that bad, you'll just embarrass yourself and make her uncomfortable. Send her a message later or something.
Alternatively, Jesus Christ, man up, dude.
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details OP. Is she dying? moving? getting married? what?
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If you two are close and you legitimately might not ever see her again it's okay to cry. Don't make it into a pity party though, try to make your last moments pleasant for both of you.
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I have a smaller penis. it is too small,just under 7 inches. I just feel that it should be bigger.
are there any programs and/or pills or workouts out there that actually work?
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how much bigger do you want to get?
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>>17584742
like 9
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>>17584733
That's the size of mine and it is perfectly fine man. You are an idiot for feeling like you have a small penis. You must watch too much porn or something.
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uncharted territory: girls giving me attention 2016-09-19 17:21:50 Post No.17584721
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uncharted territory: girls giving me attention
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i'm in a relationship. this is uncharted territory because i was a 25 y/o virgin before meeting my current gf. i had essentially zero romantic experience prior to her. i hardly ever got attention from girls until two years ago or so.
like, what are you meant to do? do i tell my gf? nothing has "happened" besides her flirting. this girl in my class is giving me bedroom eyes and seizes opportunities to be physical with me (i'm entering the medical field, in lab settings we use each other to simulate patient-caregiver interaction and practice movements). if she needs someone to work with then she'll pick me. if she needs help with something then she'll call for me. during lecture she chats with me, after lecture she walks with me to the parking lot. all the students have swapped contact information but she hasn't tried to text/call me.
if i felt guilty about any of this then i suppose i would tell my gf out of respect and to give her a heads up but i don't (feel guilty). i'm going to be interacting with this group on a near daily basis for the next few years and we've just started the program. i feel that i'm just being helpful and building a (platonic) relationship as i should. i'm like this with all other students in the program. if a male classmate or other female classmate calls for help then i'm eagerly coming over to assist.
it feels like this one classmate has taken a liking to me and i'm not necessarily going to shoo her off like some stray dog. it seems ridiculous when no damage has been done. i try to look at it from my gf's perspective and i think she would want to know about this but that's more due to her past bfs chatting up other girls while being with her. she gets a bit jealous and it's cute when it happens but i think she will feel especially vulnerable in this situation because we do get fairly "intimate" as a group in terms of the level of physical contact required of us.
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Holy shit, slow the fuck down, dude. Set boundaries and be chill about it - you're not interested in a side-chick from what I gather, so make it clear to both of them IF the subject comes up.
Don't go looking for trouble and nip it at the bud if it comes looking for you.
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>>17584750
truth is, i'm kind of interested in a side-chick. remember, i'm in my first sexual and romantic relationship. my current gf is all i know and i'm happy most days but she's not the ideal. she's smitten by me and wants to pursue something serious (kids, marriage, etc) but i'm still on the fence about that sort of stuff. she has a lot of shit that she needs to work on but she has a poor work ethic which makes progress understandably difficult.
this new girl is probably more attractive than my current gf and seems sharper. i'm sure she has some fucked up parts of herself but my current gf is a lot of fucking work to manage.
i dunno. i'm not set on any decision at the moment.
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>>17584721
just tell your GF about it, set boundaries and show your disinterest in pursuing anything with that girl from class.
Your GF will understand and may be a bit miffed at first, but if she loves you it won't change anything.
>>17584833
if you cheat, go drink some bleach, that's all you'll be good for at that point. And if you keep trying trade up on women like they're a commodity, you'll end up very alone.
So ask yourself a question, is it something new or is it something special?
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How many sex partners = too many? pt. 2 2016-09-19 17:12:12 Post No.17584698
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How many sex partners = too many? pt. 2
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Hi /adv/,
A couple of days ago, I posted a thread in which I asked you about whether or not you'd date a girl who'd had 11 sex partners. Your replies got me thinking.
A lot of you said that you wouldn't want to be serious with me in any sort of way, because I would be more likely to cheat, and I can see why someone would feel that way. However, many of you said that you wouldn't want to seriously date me, but that you would have sex with me.
So you would have one-night-stands yourself, but you wouldn't want to date a girl who'd had one-night-stands because you're afraid of infidelity? Shouldn't your future girlfriend be afraid of you being unfaithful because you would sleep with a "whore" (read: girl who has one-night-stands, just like you)?
Also, don't give me that keylock bullshit: I'm well aware it's easier to sleep with 11 guys than with 11 girls, I'm talking about infidelity.
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>>17584698
OP. They are morons.
A person who expects his or hers partner to live up to standards that they're not able to live up themselves is an idiot.
Their line of thinking is unjustifiable rationally.
You're better without them. Do not worry.
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>>17584698
Saying youd do something =/= doing something
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>>17584698
I've had 11 sex partners as well. As a man. In my opinion I wouldn't have a problem having a relationship with you as long as I deem you trustworthy. In fact it's in many ways a good thing as you're probably more experienced than the 18 year old virgins most people on this site are looking for.
Also, I wouldn't care what people here think. Do what makes you happy.
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Accidentaly posted this on /r9k/. I need help /adv/
How do I become funny? Today I went to town with my crush and we had a lot of time to talk. And dont get me wrong I didnt sperg out and there wasnt awkward silence between us we laughed a bit but I feel like I could have done better. I know people who can make people laugh like every damn second. Not even chads, just average guys. Am I just not cut out for being a funny guy?
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Sarcastic comments, self deprecating humor, and fucking with people who know you're joking.
Be careful with what you say for the last thing with women. With guy friends there's really no filter, as most of the time, your guy friends will know you're joking, whereas a girl might take something to heart.
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>>17584710
self deprecating humor might work but I dont want to make a clown out of myself. I try to dress smartly and take things seriously but not too much.
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>>17584817
you don't have to go very far with the deprecation's.
Try to not take thing seriously at all. Because if you do people will give you a ton of shit for it.