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Every time I go to the club and the song "These Hoes ain't loyal" comes out all the ladies go crazy and start grinding on random dick its great.

What that has taught me is that these hoes really aren't loyal, and they love being disloyal. So just forget about it, assume she's cheating and fuck other bitches because women love to fuck another's woman's man.

The amount of pussy I got in my past relationship was unfair. And guess what? She didn't catch me and one day just broke down and admitted to me that she fucked her ex. I didn't even care about the relationship AAT that point, dumped her and still use her for sex because she thinks she has the chance to get back with me and be a loyalgflolkek. Its fucking great.

>senior prom in high school
>gf going to bathroom
>starts to take a while
>decide to look through phone
>open some shitty anonymous imageboard
>see month old post about her wanting to flirt with other men
>seeking approval of anonymous people
>only listens to the people who say it's okay
>talks bad about me
>gf comes out of bathroom
>show her what I found
>she tells me that she made that post as a question about her friend
>takes the phone from me
>tell her that I know she's lying and we're done if she doesn't give back the phone
>she admits to it, but tries to defend it
>claims that the only way for females to communicate with males is if they allow males to flirt
>claims that if she flirts she'll have friends, but won't have any if she doesn't
>I've met her friends and I know that it's bullshit
>cries until 7 in the morning for me not to dump her
>end up not leaving her, tell her that I will drop her immediately if she does anything similar again

Now
>gf goes off on tangent about how her life is so hard
>she's so pretty and men "hate her" for it
>claims that male friends stop hanging out once they find out she has a boyfriend
>Men won't hold the door for me because I'm pretty
>Constant shit like this
>I don't know if she hides that were dating from people in order to make "friends"

Is it habbening?

I'm pretty lucky man. My gf is a good girl. Despite what Anons will say there are girls out there who don't cheat. I think I read a statistic that said around 30% of males and females have cheated. That's a large and concerning minority. I've never had a gf before this one but I've talked to a lot of women. All of them were dropped because of infidelity or something else.

Good indicators of a cheater

>high amount of sexual partners
>past infidelity
>no father or good family
>drama queens
>degenerate behavior

My girlfriend is a sweetheart. She only had one sexual partner before me. She's loyal, has a good reputation, and very family orientedI. Instead of partying on the weekends or other degenerate stuff she stays at home and watches movies with her younger sister. Look for girls similar to mine. Also, don't be a cuck. Don't tolerate cheating or non-desirable behavior. Let them know immediately about your stance on the matter.

>>17708187
You sound like someone I know and this image was posted just today in our group chat....

>>17708227
It must be a peculiar coincidence.
How does your acquaintance act, by the way?

>>17708187
Personally, as a male, I find it an instant, total and irrevokeble turn-off when a woman thinks it is cute or feminine to be (or pretend to be) stupid or incompetent.

>>17708071
Whats the difference between gf and wife?

>>17708093
Being a wife is different to being a girlfriend.

I don't want to be a wife because of financial reasons or anything like that. I have more money than him and happy to sign a prenup. It's more the romantic idea behind it that I like. It upsets me a lot that he doesn't want to solidify our commitment.

>>17708093
How much money you can waste on her and how much control of your life you give them.

Also they used to text me a lot but now I find I'm the only one starting it...how do I keep them interested? I was thinking just not texting as frequently as I used to.

I'm pretty interest in both of them one of a friend and the other more...but really if this is it...im cool, just trying to see if I can salvage something.

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>>17707819
do they have names?
sincerely

>>17708501
not willing to share. Sorry.

>>17707745
>Do you think I am doing the right thing?

Is being with her in spite of not loving her doing the right thing?

>>17707756
I mean it's not like I hate her, I don't even dislike her company. We've had some really good times. I guess you could say I don't love her. More accurately I don't want to be with her for the rest of my life.

>>17707791
Well, it's sort of shitty that you've wasted so much of her life (she might have met someone who actually loved her were it not for you), but what are you going to do, waste the rest of yours to make up for it?

She's 36 - she's no spring chicken. Her value as a woman is on a downward slope, while you haven't even reached your peak. It really sucks for her, especially since she's done nothing wrong, and completely trusted you not to do this the whole marriage.

Yes, it's shitty. But, can you live with it?

>>17707526
If you're actually broke then do it. Easy cash.

>>17708080

Not OP but that's all the motivation I need.

I'm interested in this kind of job. Where should I publish my work?

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>American women

>>17707458
Same shit I was thinking.

>>17707458
I mean, we live on the North American continent, but we're Canadian.

What your personal definition of a relationship?

how do i leverage my bachelors apartment to make friends? I am first year university and I have a some small first year only classes that Im sure people would want to chill together?

how do i make this happen

Why does everyone say to not contact someone again if they flake you? That seems stupid

What if I actually really care about this person, and I know they're just going through some tough times?

>>17707212
Police brutality

>>17707259
Doubt it, I'm white.

Charged with child porn?

You're only cucked by definition if she screws around while in a relationship with you.

We shouldn't. I myself would not want (atleast id like to think) marry a girl that is not a virgin. It feels being inferior, like taking that used cloth nobody cares about. It is one of the reasons why feminism must be destroyed. Feminism induced the thinking that girls are humans too, when in fact they aren't. They are assets of humans, which are men.

>cucked
so you can't enjoy sex because of this obsession? in this sexual "economy" you're suggesting, where everyone only has virgin sex, they would only get laid once (or only be allowed to have one sexual partner for life, if you can re-fuck the same person).

so that's a little detached from reality

>impure
are you a religious nut? please explain

>every girl has been defiled, tainted, etc.
so you want to do the "tainting" and "defiling"? could you explain this rationale a little more?

>make my stomach churn
sorry anon. that sounds very unpleasant

>how are we supposed to be okay with this?
figure out exactly why we aren't and start addressing it, unless you believe that you should never be okay with it

poor parents

Motivation will get you NOWHERE. It's 1% motivation and 99% sweat. I can tell you already have that 1% motivation because you made this post. Now stop wasting your energy in things like smoking, and fill the 99% sweat with productive things like studying and working.

>>17706860
Fuck this guy, keep smoking as weed can influence creativity and smart thinking. Just direct your energy towards being productive.

It's nearing the 4 year anniversary of Sandy (We live in one of the hard hit areas), and as such, it's sub section of my local news site is linked from the front page. So I click on it, and one of the first pictures I see is a family photo with the Girl I'm interested.

For some reason I just can't escape her. If it's not randomly seeing her there, it would be friends or family mentioning her. And if its not that, then it would be seeing her FB pop up on my recommended friends

So, I was ghosted by a girl recently

Basically I met her online, and we hit it off quite nicely, spoke for hours every night for 3ish weeks. Then she stopped responding, but I she would still read what ever I sent.

One thing that sticks out is when she said "[My name] I am really glad that I met you."

She also told me about some shit that she has gone through in life. Very personal stuff, probably stuff that only her closest friends know...

What could have led to the ghosting?

One thing I kinda considered was that she started feeling something for me, but due to the geographical distance, decided to cut contact so it didn't become more.

(She did live one the other side of an ocean for what ever it's worth. I'm in the US, she was from Ireland)


What's funny is that I never felt anything for her in a romantic sorta way. (even though she was my type, and she knew that)

I dont get it is this supposed to be confessions?

27 here

There is no mystery
I know why and how I can change it

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>>17702089
Tell us!!!

>23 year old virgin in a few days
Fug getting close. I won't be able to move out for anytime soon either and I'm going for a useless degree. Fuck me.

>>17698386
Assuming it isn't your kid? You did the right thing getting the fuck outta there, even if she was a mentally sound 10/10 raising some other dudes kid is just shit. You'll never be its "real" father, always playing second fiddle to the biological dad in the kids eyes, plus you'd have to hang around the dude you got your gf pregnant semi frequently assuming he has visitation in at least some way.

You don't need any more drugs to take away your problems, by turning the chick down you've already avoided your biggest future problem.

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>>17698407
Yeah the kid isn't mine, I always felt awkward being around him even tho he's cool/cute. The real dad is several states away and wants nothing to do with either of them so I don't think that would have been a concern. She hasn't "ended" it yet but it's absolutely inevitable. It hurts way more than it should, we were only together for like 4 months. I thought the first love hurts the most thing was a meme

>>17698460
>I thought the first love hurts the most thing was a meme
nah its not. you'll move on though, trust me. If you want to move on faster, try focusing on the things that you disliked about her if you ever think of her. It might be a kinda toxic way of ending it all, but its a surefire way to quell any feelings of romance/lust you still might feel towards her.

Dear S, I wrote you but still ain't callin'
I left my cell, my pager, and my home phone at the bottom
I sent two letters back in autumn, you must not-a got 'em
There probably was a problem at the post office or somethin'
Sometimes I scribble addresses too sloppy when I jot 'em
But anyways, fuck it, what's been up? Man how's your daughter?
My girlfriend's pregnant too, I'm bout to be a father
If I have a daughter, guess what I'm a call her?
I'm a name her Bonnie
I read about your Uncle Ronnie too I'm sorry
I had a friend kill himself over some bitch who didn't want him
I know you probably hear this everyday, but I'm your biggest fan
I even got the underground shit that you did with Skam
I got a room full of your posters and your pictures man
I like the shit you did with Rawkus too, that shit was fat
Anyways, I hope you get this man, hit me back,
Just to chat, truly yours, your biggest fan
This is Stan

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>>17693292

Dear A,
I think I could fall in love with you.