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>Be me
>University Graduate with a good job (in finance)
>Meet guy two years younger
>Very fit and muscular, with a slightly "thuggish look" unlike all the guys I've dated before
>He has some college education but didn't finish
>Runs his own business now (in fitness)
>Start dating him
>We get along super well, even have common interests (mainly video games)
>We are drastically different in all other aspects, we don't even come from the same "social circle"
> My friends worry that I'm only with him because of his good looks

Do you think our relationship has a chance to last ? Also

>His ex-gf is suing him right now because she says he hit her
>He says it's bullshit, that she's just mad he dumped her
>He's super nice to me and I've never noticed him get mad even during arguments

What do ??

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>Spent all day a week or so ago helping my younger brother (who's 18, not some little kid either) completely clean his room that he hasn't cleaned in years
>Mom tells me to clean her bathroom
>Ask my brother to help me clean her bathroom
>He says no, and that my mom asked me to do it

Is this kid just an ungrateful fucking asshole or am I being egotistical for getting pissed about this?

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i've been with my gf for nearly two years, she has been with her boyfriend for five years. she's attractive, petite, fit, and has a very "fun" personality. i'm kind of /fit/ and my facial aesthetics is mid to low-tier. people seem to enjoy my company and humor, classmates are convinced i'm smart.

we see each other four days a week for class. i see her more than i see my gf at this point. i'm not sure how it is for her and her bf but she has told me that she hardly has any "quality" time with him since class started. i feel like we're both flirting with each other to make up for the fact that we're not seeing our respective SOs as much as we'd like. i think we're also just attracted to one another.

>unnecessary touching

she touches my arms a lot. my gf says i have a nice body/arms, girl in question has complimented me as well, they both like to be touchy. she leans onto me, rests her head on my shoulder, and has, on several occasions, simply grabbed me to embrace for seemingly random reasons. i'm not telling her off cause she's qt3.14 and the flirting feels nice. it has gotten to the point where we're giving each other massages on a fairly regular basis. it started with her offering to give me one (due to a migraine i had) and we just trade-off when either feels like we want one. for example, she will feel tightness or pain somewhere and just take my hand and ask me to help her out.

>look to each other for a reaction

someone makes a joke or something unexpected happens? she immediately looks at me to gauge my reaction. i know this because i look at her to do the same. eye contact, acknowledge what happened, and we both laugh about it if it's appropriate.

>routines in place to facilitate further interaction

class is over and we're gathering our things, sometimes i speed up to be more inline with her leaving or she just simply waits at the exit for me, and we walk each other to our cars.

>lunch on a few occasions

help.

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So my mom got arrested on her wedding along with the bridesmaids. What can we do to bail them out. Will it work if we tell the police that it's her wedding?

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I want some Bitcoin.

What is the best Bitcoin wallet?

and where is the best place to buy bitcoin in the uk?

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Hey /adv/

I'm highly distressed lately, I think I'm about to lose track of reality and become a schizo, I've been considering suicide.

To contextualize things: I dropped out of high school last year and was allowed by my family to stay with no job, with the justification that I'm studying for an exam that would give me the high school diploma I've missed and put me into an university, depending on my score. See, I'm from a lower middle class family here in Brazil and people think it's unacceptable that a young adult stay as a NEET, but they let me, since it was only for a year and I needed to get a high school diploma.

But it's been one year now and I managed to waste most of my time procrastinating, mainly in 4chan and in other imageboards. Because I took the exam for granted. I've always thought that I'm so smart, that I'm definitely superior compared to the average person. Until I had to confirm how well I'll do in the exam, a couple of days ago. I found out that I can't do shit. I realized how much of an absolute failure I truly am.

And now I'm constantly thinking about my whole life, about my total lack of accomplishments and delusions of grandeur. I could give you several examples of these delusions but this text would get way too big. You can assume I'm the most deluded person ever.

Anyways, I concluded that I might be in my way to become schizophrenic. And this is not the first time I'm thinking about this, I already discussed this with a friend from high school and he comforted me, but I can't keep ignoring this anymore, the idea that anytime I might lose my sanity, and that I won't realize it. Maybe it already happened... Honestly, if I can't have at the very least my sanity, I think I won't keep living... so, I have a question: why should I accept to live like a crazy person? Shouldn't I take my life? I'm going to a psychiatrist tomorrow and if he confirms what I think I'm gonna put an end to all of this.

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My ex is sober again and wants me to come live with him on his farm. It's stricktly platonic and I need a place to stay because everything has been shit lately, but I'm worried that he'll go back to drinking and that things will go bad. What should I do?

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I beat up a Jewish kid at school today because he was the treasurer of our fundraiser and we caught him cooking the books. Initially we reported him to the relevant authorities but no action was taken. Is it okay to beat up people who are on the wrong when no one wants to step up?

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My girlfriend hit my neighbors dog and killed it.


I don't know what to do.

She was drunk last night and hit it with my plow truck she wasn't supposed to be driving. We have a long driveway and she drives to go get the mail because the driveway gets muddy. I guess she was drunk and didn't see the dog because of the plow on the front and ran it over.

She I guess never noticed because I found the dog in the driveway when I got home this morning

What should i do? I don't think I should tell my neighbors my drunk girlfriend killed their kids dog, even though it was on our property

He's currenly in my garage
>pic related, He looked like Air Bud

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why is my nutsack so small? Can it get larger with testosterone?
And how the fuck do you shave this thing? I've been letting it grow, and trimming it here and there cause >no gf so it never mattered, but I'm getting repulsed by it. I'm turning 20 and want to be more hygienic.

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For years I have had the issue of chronically under-performing at academic exams. Still managed to get into a great school for my subject.

I always assumed that loving a subject, automatically makes you good at it. But that did not happen with me. My symptoms reappeared at university.

Currently in 3 year bachelor programme (not US-4 year). Technically did not pass the first year, but was let through to the second year with generous support from student advisors and university psychologists.

Soon to (again) start therapy, as there have been suggestions about
>chronic depression (with suicidal thoughts) or
>clinical personality dysfunction
keeping me from getting out of my emotional and academic slump.

My current goal is to continue on with Master and PhD at (renowned) universities and continue on to become a lecturer in my field. If possible I want to travel to conventions around the world and hold speeches and inspire students. That demands a fairly decent university.

>But I fucked up my GPA already by fucking up my first year and possibly even needing a fourth year to catch up upon the courses I failed.
>Even if this therapy and all the support I am receiving truly helps me, it won't show over night. It will possibly be a year or more for me to recover.

I do not have friends or acquaintances who went through anything similar and can give me advice.

My study advisor says that it my mental health should be my primary priority right now and that my schedule can be adjusted according to my needs.

But I cannot stop worrying that I already fucked up my future by not bringing my A-game from the very beginning.
>How will any future university application look at this?
>How can I compensate for it (once I am finally able to do so)? I have tried doing it in my current state and it has worsened my mental state and grades.
>What should I do?
>Do professors truly never slip up in their academic carriers?

Thank you for reading, /adv/.

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How is that feeling called, when you don't want to pursue anything, because you don't see the end result. Or when you see the end result, it doesn't excite you. Or when you see the end result, it excites you, but the actual work you have to put in order to achieve it is daunting and about to kill anyone in the process. And even if you take on that road, you still aren't sure you are ever gonna make it out to the end point.

How is that feeling called, anon?

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This chick wants to be my girlfriend, I think. She let me know that she is loose. She defines her amount of partners as the amount of people she had vaginal intercourse with, at six guys. I consider her amount of partners to be the number of people she engaged in sexual activity with, which she says is nineteen. She's only nineteen years old, so this is problematic, particularly for her.

When I realized her number was nineteen, and not six, I was shocked and said I needed to rethink where we were going with this. She said that she didn't mean to mislead me. I think she might just be misleading herself.

I was doing some thinking in the shower, and remembered what everyone who ever tried to give me advice said. "You have to trust people, that is, if you don't want to be alone." This didn't make sense after all of the family abuse and nightmare girlfriends. However, this new situation is starting to put that advice in context. This girl I am writing about does seem to be a genuinely good person, who has been cheated on and thinks cheaters are the worst. She has shown a lot of sensitivity and generosity to all of the people around her. I don't think she enjoys hurting people.

I still care for her, and I think that everyone will give me reasons to be suspicious. If the next girls is not promiscuous, maybe she'll be bad at communication and resolving arguments (another big indicator that a person will cheat); there will always be some reason to suspect your partner of cheating. Accepting this only makes sense and keeps one from becoming paranoid and/or delusional. It's not good to be lulled into a false sense of security, and it's not good to be borderline paranoid.

I need to 'trust' people in order to be happy, and this girl is very intelligent, pretty and talented. It would be nice to have a good relationship with her where we both build each other up.../Adv/, does this make sense?

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Evening /adv/
>girl i know for a year, we become really close.
>Later girl becomes my gf
>Now we've been dating 2-3weeks really getting attachted to her.
>She leaves to another country for 5 months.
>She's been there 1 month and some days
>Havent seen her in month, but talked to her everyday
>Starting to lose feelings for her, i really try not to.
>She everyday reminds me how she loves very much and we talked
>Every time i say i love her i feel empty inside and i dont mean it.
>If i say we should be just friends it will destroy her literally also if i dont tell her.
Wtf i do?

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Okay so, my boyfriend and I like to hang out at this comic shop with his friends, with whom I've become acquaintances since I have started accompanying him. People seem to like me, and he appreciates this, because one time he brought his ex-girlfriend there, and everyone (rightfully so) thought she was a bitch, which was unpleasant. for him Everyone 's chill towards me, but there's this one guy who's closer friends with my boyfriend who's very sexual in nature and thus keeps making sexual jokes at me. He's over ten years older than me and laughs at how young I am, and it's clear that I love my boyfriend, so it seems ridiculous if he actually meant these jokes He doesn't really remember my name, because he's an asshole, so he referred to me as "side bitch," and this actually startled by boyfriend, who later told me he thinks this guy is "insufficiently restrained" around me. I don't have any feelings on the matter, because it seems to me that this guy thought I was pathetic all along, but I'm worried that my boyfriend will worry about this guy making genuine sexual overtures at me or actually have his friendship ruptured with him. You don't think my boyfriend has to worry about his friend meaning anything, right?
P.S. I'm really bad at reading social situations.