>Just got home from work >GF didn't know I'd

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>American women

>>17707458
Same shit I was thinking.

>>17707458
I mean, we live on the North American continent, but we're Canadian.

You need to talk to her about it. Plain and simple. Theres a lot of different situations that could be playing out here, even some where she's not entirely this demon skank, though I'd say she's still in the wrong no matter how I see it.
Maybe she was anxious about mooching off you, saw an opportunity to make easy fast cash, and took it without thinking about how you might feel about it. It's the same thing as stripping after all, she's not a prostitute at least.
But still, the correct thing to have done is talk to you first about it and whether or not you'd be comfortable.

Or maybe shes got a dude on the side, maybe she's just doing it for shits and grins. Who knows. Go talk to her, and tell her why it bothers you, ask why she was doing it, get the whole story.
Then dump her if you still feel like that's what you wanna do.
But cool off first. you sound very upset, and that's reasonable, but if you go into it screaming how she's just some huge whore you're not going to get anywhere. No offence, but your post reminds me of little kids when they get really mad and just keep repeating the same petty insult over and over because they're too mad to think of anything more clever or useful.

Chill out, hang with your friend, think about what you want to say, your feelings (besides the reeee rage), and what you'd expect out of her after this. If you can fix this, if you can't, if she could ever make it up to you, if you could ever forgive her even if you weren't dating, or if you just want her out of your life forever.

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>>17707464
>Implying there's a difference

>>17707436
I say don't talk to her. You deserve better , fucking working your ass off paying for everything. Fuck that shyt. Don't even give her the chance to explain herself. Leave it at that, and end it with her.

>>17707436
LEAVE HER, if you don't I'm going to murder you for being an idiot

>>17707465
I mean I own the place, so right now I'm considering if we break up, whether or not I'll just evict her, and I'm leaning towards yes.

And if she has been doing this for cash, why does she still let me pay for everything without saying a word? Shes been unemployed for 6 months, so I'm assuming she has been doing this for a while, and at least has some money. If that is the case, she has intentionally been mooching off of me, and probably doesn't even feel bad about it.

>>17707465
There is no excuse for showing her body to other men, if she wanted to help with money should could've found a real job.

>>17707436
Can we get her cam name? I need a good fap later.

>>17707485
Drop her, lad. She is no good.

jesus senpai

that is a 100% dump right there, and kick her fucking bum ass out too

>>17707485
Again, you won't know till you talk to her. Maybe this is new? Maybe she does feel bad about it? Think past your anger for a second and just explore all possibilities before you make your final judgement. Like I said, you need to cool down first before you can start thinking rationally. It's all a part of the process, so be mad right now thats fine. Just don't try anything with her until you can be a grown up and talk with her about it without name calling and accusations you cannot prove.

And by all means, yeah if the place is in your name you have every right to give her the boot.
>>17707486
Not saying she's justified, actually I said right in the post she isn't. But I'd say it'd be at least better if she were doing it for the money rather than camming for say, another boyfriend? Or for shits and grins knowing her bf wouldn't like it?
All I'm saying is none of us know the whole story, including OP, until he just has an adult conversation with her.

Usually i'd tell you to talk to her, but from what you posted here >>17707485. I'd say it's better off dumping her. She has sucked money out of you and abused your trust.

>>17707519
Fuck off

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>>17707524
With pleasure.

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>>17707519
>>17707519
Get a load of this cuck

>>17707465
>No offence, but your post reminds me of little kids when they get really mad and just keep repeating the same petty insult over and over because they're too mad to think of anything more clever or useful.
Uhhh how does his post give you that impression? His reaction seems incredibly restrained, he didn't say anything about screaming at her or anything. All we know is he called her a whore online, and it's true because she is a skank.

Imagine if you got paid to masturbate. Don't blow your gasket just yet OP. Find out why she cams before you feel like a retard. Or don't.. I don't give a fuck

>>17707534
It was just the fact he was repeating "whore" like a broken record. Its incredibly obvious hes in that state of rage where he cannot think or rationalize properly. I said its completely valid, he has a reason to be mad, but just that when you act while in that state of anger, you just make everything worse. Anger is a drug, it blinds you of your other senses, closes you off. 4chan is a prime example of it, they get so enraged they shut out anyone and everything that doesnt add fuel to that rage.
I was just suggesting he get all his anger out, cool down, and then think properly on what to do with this situation. I'm not saying he should stay with this chick, I wouldn't, but when you make rash decisions in the heat of the moment it typically ends much worse than it needs to for everyone involved.

What's wrong with providing a service? You watch porn don't you? Get over it, it's just a bit of money making porn.

>>17707562
I wouldn't watch porn of someone I care about

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>>17707436
She will lie and tell you things you want to hear to keep you around and will cuck you when you're not looking, you're her source of food and shelter, not much else desu senpai.

Dump that whore asap.

>>17707562
Okay, but did you not here what he just said? He is the only one working paying for everything. Aka she doesn't pay nothing, if she was getting paid she would of helped , but she was obviously she doing it for fun or simply pocketing the money for herself .

>>17707560
No, you insulted OP when you said he was acting like a little kid. His reaction is justifiable, and he was smart to leave the house immediately instead of doing something he might regret. He acted like an adult. I just don't understand why you felt the need to say that.

Post the texts where she tries to explain why what she did was OK OP.

I love watching desperate whores have the chickens come home to roost on them.

>>17707562
Most delusional post of the thread award goes to.

>>17707584
I wasn't intending to insult him at all, just letting him know he was sounding a little childish and angry, but again, I said he had a right to be childish and angry for the time being. Being a little childish isn't inherently wrong, we all get to be childish sometimes. That was your false assumption, and that was your problem more than mine. Not everything is an insult
My whole point was to just say don't think you're going to solve any issues while in that childish angry mentality, because you won't.

might be more to it op. She could be seeing someone else behind your back, and she had cam sex with him because she couldent see him in real life for what ever reason.

>>17707584
You know, when people say "no offence" they're trying to say they aren't meaning to offend someone lol.

OP here, just had a 15-ish minute conversation with her, and heard what I needed to. She said she has been doing it for two months, and made about $6k, and made some excuse that she was saving up to take me on a big trip (she knows I want to travel).

She also said that she was intending on telling me originally, but didn't know how to bring up the topic with me, without "hurting" me somehow.

I told her I'd be back tomorrow, and that if she hasn't packed her shit and left, I'd throw her stuff out. She began to throw a tantrum, so I hung up.

Guess that is that. 4 years down the drain, because she wanted to be a whore to make easy money.

Think its time to go back to isolating myself.

>>17707615
I'm sorry buddy.

>>17707465
>No offence, but your post reminds me of little kids when they get really mad and just keep repeating the same petty insult over and over because they're too mad to think of anything more clever or useful.
Sad that I had to stop reading there, even sadder that you had to stop making sense.

I'd talk to her just to see what kind of retarded bullshit will she think off, dump her and whoring ass after that.

>>17707610
It also means they know what they're going to write sounds offensive. There was no reason for the poster to phrase his point in that way.

>>17707615
I told ya she would try to sugar coat that crock of shit.

Gj op, hang in there. We'll be here for you.

>>17707615
Don't isolate yourself ..go be by yourself but don't be isolated . Go out by yourself if needed, there's more to life than a partner..trust me. I'm sorry to hear this

>>17707618
Your loss mate. Have a good one.

>>17707615
You did the right thing sir. Remember that the strong do as they want, and the weak suffer what they must.

>>17707617
Did you even read the post? Congratulate him fucktard he just cut a parasite out of his life.
>>17707615
Good job dude, awesome to know I was in a thread where the right and logical thing was done for once.

>>17707615
Just be firm, she probably will try to bullshit you still, probably will try at least blaming it all on you and offering sex to make it up to you.

>>17707615
You did right . Don't listen to these fucktards. They are the type of people that have no morals or feelings

>>17707615
Ah, pity. Well, congrats on handling it well dude. Sorry you had to go through with this, but yeah don't let her mooch off you any longer. You'll find a new girl soon enough though, don't hole up. Hang with friends and maybe hold off on dating for a little while.

God Damn it OP. Your ex is a cam whore and you aren't going to give us sauce? What the fuck?

>>17707615
Out of interest OP, if she was actually camming, not bullshitting, and told you from the start, would you have been cool with it?

>>17707519
Maybe she's from /soc/

Similar situation happened to me but my ex-gf was a sugar baby
was making $500 a week off some fucker and still made me pay for everything.
She swore she never fucked the old dude. but was appalled when she put it on me a 19 YEAR OLD that I couldn't provide for her needs

still hurts :(

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>>17707653

>>17707585
SECOND.

>>17707615
You did the right thing, OP. Sorry that deceptive whore wasted your time and effort. At least she will no longer be a drain on you, so there's that. Make sure she doesn't steal your shit either. If you must throw her things out, it might be wise to involve the cops, so she won't try anything stupid, like saying you damaged her property or some shit.

>>17707601
>I wasn't intending to insult
>hes being childish
Stop trying mate you're just digging yourself deeper.

OP, you handled the situaton well. And your instincts are right. Dump her. Literally best case is that she started doing it recently for money because she felt bad mooching off you. She lied by omission because she (rightfully) assumed you would be mad about it. Even in this "best" case you would be right to dump her.

>>17707436
ur fault for dating a hispanic

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>>17707436
Am I the only one who wouldn't dump a girl I love over this?

As long as she doesn't fuck other guys, it could be kind of kinky? You should do couples stuff on chaturbate.

>>17707709
>being childish isn't inherently wrong
Whewee boy cherry picking at it's finest. Again, what you find insulting isn't the same to everyone lol. Thats your own wrong assumption.

Worst part is that we're completely in agreement. I think OP did it right too. He vented his anger online, he didn't bring that anger into the conversation with his ex, and hes free now.

>>17707726
No, I'd be mad for not telling me about it but I wouldn't leave her. Everyone is so quick to dump around here.

>>17707726
cuck

>>17707726
Idk I would have probably had a longer conversation about it myself. What would have upset me more was the whole "Behind your back" thing rather than the act itself. If she had talked to me about it beforehand, I probably would have given her my blessing. Shits easy money and its not like they're fucking her.
But she sounds like she just wanted money and to not have to pay OP back.

>>17707742
I think it's because a lot of people here haven't been in serious relationships or experienced how devastating ending one can be.

Outside of /actual/ cheating, I believe that women should be allowed to fuck up. They're just people.

>>17707726
if i loved her, i would at least hear what she has to sat and think it over. i wouldent dump her straight away.

>>17707744
cuckold
ˈkʌk(ə)ld/Submit
verb
gerund or present participle: cuckolding
(of a man) make (another man) a cuckold by having a sexual relationship with his wife.

I'm only a cuck if I can say I've been in a sexual relationship with every woman in a video I've ever jacked off too.

>>17707755
this. most people here are in their early 20s and have never actually been in love or a long relationship.

>>17707764
>>17707758
>>17707752
>>17707742
/saneboys/

>>17707755
Yup. I'd hope to be granted the same forgiveness when I inevitably fuck up badly. To me, when you love someone you love them through the bad times as well as the good times. Obviously there's a breaking point but you have to use reason. Everyone is just going to call us cucks anyway but that's OK. I don't need their approval.

>>17707768
>>17707755
there's a difference between fucking up
and making 6GRAND AND NOT TELLING HIM

>>17707776
>6GRAND AND NOT TELLING HIM
Shit, didn't read that bit. That's shitty on a different level.

>>17707776
That's right. That's consistent deception. When you fuck up, you're sorry for your momentary transgression. This wasn't momentary. It's been going on for TWO MONTHS. She's not sorry either. She tried to justify her actions, saying she didn't know how to tell OP because she knew it'd "hurt" him. She knew exactly what she was doing. If anything, she's just sorry she got caught, cause she just ruined her cushy life.

She's a troll and deserves nothing from OP.

>>17707726
What a cuck you are the reason why Females still take advantage of men.

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>>17707799
buzzwords are cute lol

>Op LITERALLY found his gf try to help other men get off
>All these people that are saying "waaait hear her out it doesn't matter anyways"

definitely a dump for me.

there are plenty of other fish in the sea, for me to be with a girl who willingly whores herself out for the pleasure of other men, so she can make money.

>>17707848
tits out with a dildo in her mouth and a few more minuted she'd be fucking that dildo shouting the guys name. Yep the mother of my children and proud to have her on my arm around town.

>>17707848
so you don't and have never watched porn then?

>>17707864
Is OPs gf a porn star/actress? If so, was he aware and ok with it whilst dating her?

>>17707864
What does that have to do with anything? Because porn exists it was okay? What are you talking about nigga

>all these hillary supporters wonder why there are still so many cuckphobics on the internet

>all those people who told op he did the right thing, then a flood of sjw cucks afterwards saying "nooooo, I'm totally okay with it, you guys dump people too quiiiiiickkk, deceiving someone for two months and mooching off them totally isn't that badddd you guisss!!"

I feel like someone posted this thread somewhere on tumblr.

>>17707436
you can bet she has hooked up with a regular or two of her fans

>>17707874
I mean, you act like its so wrong for women to help jack off a dude through visual imagery so I mean, I hope you aren't contributing to the industry by jerking off to other women.
The issue is going behind his back, not the camming itself.

>>17707927
Me supporting an industry doesn't mean im hypocritical for the bullshit that goes on in it. You buy bananas but I guarantee you dont give a rats ass about the child slaves harvesting them.

>men masturbating to porn justifies women camsexing her own personal fanbase

Women also masturbate to porn though, what do men get to do in exchange for this?

>>17707436

Just tell her you want 20% of her profits.

>>17707935
That's coffee - especially "fair trade" coffee.

>>17707944
Thanks for clarifying. I heard about it for something

>>17707935
No I don't actually give a rats ass about that.
But thats my point, you clearly do give a shit about women being slutty for pay, so why give your money? If theres no market, it will stop. Don't bitch about it on 4chan if you contribute to the problem. Or just don't care and keep doing what you're doing, and also not bitch about it on 4chan
>>17707939
Camwhore as well? It's not just women doing it you know.

>>17707956
I dont give a shit about women being slutty for pay, I give a shit about being slutty with a boyfriend, and being secretive about it, at that.
Also
>Implying I pay for porn

>>17707956
You keep jumping back and forth trying to weasle your way into being right. You can't do that. The problem is NOT camwhoring, the problem is that OPs gf did it without his knowledge or consent, so let go of this whole "w-well don't be a hypocrite and m-masturbate to them." That has nothing to do with the main point, which is OP was not okay with it.

>>17707458
This, American women sound fucking awful based on the shit I read on here and reddit.

I've really started to understand the mail order bride thing.


You're buddy is right, dump her. I don't understand why you wouldn't?

>>17707943
>20%

White boys kek. Get at least 60% since you're paying for the Internet which makes you her virtual pimp. If she argues just drag her ass to the local truck stop and sell her to Tyrese for 150 bucks.

>>17707533
You must have thought you were on /r9k/

>>/r9k/

>>17707436
hahahahahah you dated a camwhore the lowest of the lowest.

>>17707979
I wasn't doing any of that lol. I said from the start the issue is the backstabbing not the camming lmao. Get over yourself.
Yall just sitting here acting like the issue is the camming, "she's a fucking whorrreeeee"
No, she's a liar. If thats the real issue here, then why has that not been the key point in all these postings. Instead its all about the camming and the fact she's doing sexy shit.
So you're right it has nothing to do with the main point. THAT WAS MY WHOLE POINT. Jfc lol.

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>>17708046
I like how you can tell someone is getting mad by how much unnecessary shit they add
>I wasn't doing any of that lol
>lmao
>Get over yourself
>Jfc lol
Delicious

>>17707436
Make it a thing for both of you. Fuck her on cam. Cuck thousands of guys

>>17707436

>redditors that have invaded this board and site will unironically claim this isn't cheating
>redditors will tell you to get back together with her

>What do I do /adv/?

Find a girl that doesn't cheat on your ass.

I know it hurts anon. I'm sorry. Just remember- you found out. You could've lived your whole damn life and NEVER found out.

You could've gotten old and died with this woman

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>>17707615
good job on not being a pussy whipped. I know many cucks who have taken their girlfriend back and it makes me glad you are not one of them. she has ruin her life by having naked videos of herself all over the internet now.

>>17708046
She's lying about BEING a whore. Are you mentally challenged? That's why it's being mentioned. She is accepting MONEY for SEXUAL FAVORS. You know, a literal WHORE. Is this not something you can grasp?

So the problem isn't that she is a whore, it's that she's lying about being one. Can you understand that?

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>>17708052
I like how you can tell how little of an argument someone has based on how much they derail and avoid it.
Oh an also on how much they
>assume
Anyway, here's your (You). If you really think the issue is she's a liar, then call her a liar.

>>17708085
Ok and whats wrong with being a whore? If you think it's wrong to accept money for sexual favors, then don't contribute to the industry.
Are you mentally challenged? Can you understand that?

>>17708086
>Every reply is an argument

>>17707726

so you would enjoy me masturbating to your girlfriends naked body and being shared all over the internet?

>>17708094
So op should dump the lying whore is what you're saying?

Not because she's a whore but because she's a liar. What are you two even arguing about? Same conclusion just different values.

>>17708095
I'll take that as you conceding then lol thanks. Just admit you dont like women taking advantage of sex all while being a hypocrite because you want to consume said sex.

>>17708104
Yeah he should dump her for being a liar.
I have no issues with women selling sex, thats why I watch porn. There's nothing wrong with camming, all she did wrong in this situation is lie about it and hide it.

>>17708094
Your trolling knows no bounds. There's nothing wrong with being a whore. There's everything wrong with being a whore, withing the context of a relationship, if your boyfriend doesn't want you to be one.

>>17708105
Your implication is that I support the porn industry. I can assure you that I dont in any shape or form, as I dont in any way give them revenue or money

>>17708086
>If you really think the issue is she's a liar, then call her a liar.

I don't understand. Just because the issue is lying (which makes her a liar), you somehow can't also call her a whore, for being a whore, because lying somehow supersedes it?

At best, mooching. At worst, cheating. Probably best to move on.

>>17708107
Yeah but I wouldn't want to date a pornstar because there is no way I can fuck her better than guys who are paid to do it. It's not such the whore part, I'm just aware of my personal value and act accordingly kek.

>>17708110
Yeah, and thats the liar part not the whore part. If you're upset shes a liar, fucking say that. But you're not upset about that, you're upset shes a whore. But you contribute to it too so why are you crying?
>>17708112
By watching it you are supporting it. You are telling them what kind of porn to make, giving them stats on peoples interests, and someone has to buy it too before it makes its way to your torrents. You are still supporting it one way or another dumbass. Dont even look at it if you hate it so much. By watching it, you are telling them there is demand for it, so they will keep fucking making it you are literally retarded to think that just because you're not paying for it directly you aren't supporting the industry.
>>17708120
No, you aint getting shit friend. They're all screaming whore, whore, whore. Hardly anyone has said anything about lying before my posts. Theyre all verrrrry obviously more upset about the whore aspect than the lying.
Well actually, they seem more upset about the money theft than anything. But still, prior to my posting, there was ONE instance of someone calling her a liar
>>17708139
Wow thats sad lol.

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>>17708103
I don't know you so I wouldn't give a fuck.

In fact, as long as she's loyal to me, it kind of fucking turns me on.

Being the only guy who gets to fuck a gorgeous girl who is lusted after by hundreds of guys, jerking their meat at the idea of fucking her but I'm the one fucking her, no one else.

Makes me feel powerful, actually.

It would be different if she fucked/sucked for money, cheated or did anything in person, really.

>>17708153
When did accepting reality become sad? But white Knighting porn stars on /adv/ all day is completely acceptable?

>>17708153
>They're all screaming whore, whore, whore. Hardly anyone has said anything about lying before my posts.

Are you literally retarded? The fact that she's a liar is implicit. She can't be a whore WITHOUT having lied to her bf.

>>17708192
Ugh you guys are all so stupid and have your heads shoved so far up your asses it's exhausting. So now you're saying you can't be a whore without being a liar?
> She can't be a whore WITHOUT having lied to her bf.
Wat? lmfao. Just say you hate women selling sex but want to buy sex too. Just fucking own it man you're just frothing at the mouth at this point.

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this thread has literally been reduced to

>You guys didn't call her a liar, so I'm saying she is a liar, but not a whore
>She's both.
>NO IDIOT, GOD YOU'RE SO DUMB, SHES A LIAR

time to step away from the keyboard friendo

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>>17708288
I agree, you need to stop posting lol you do not understand what's being discussed and cannot possible begin to comprehend the point.
You're angry shes a whore. You're not angry shes a liar. You don't need to bring up the whore bit if you aren't angry about her being a whore. We're discussing what there is to be angry about. If you aren't angry about whores, don't say you are.

>>17707999

Where can I go to find better people anon

>>17707799
See >>17707763

>>17708296
I'm not the person you were arguing with, and I'm angry she is a whore AND a liar.

But you're upset people think she is both.

dunno why

stay may ig? loser faggot

>>17707615
post link to webcam site

>>17708520
seconding this.

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>mfw offers to share the 6k

>>17707519
She was showing her tits and sucking on a dildo in frony of a web cam. That in itself is pretty damning. A woman who truly loves her man and respects him wouldn't pull this shit, I say this as a femanon. She is the one in the wrong her and OP isn't acting childish at all in fact he left and went to a friends house to chill without even doing anything. I think most guys would have flipped a shit immediatly.

Get the fuck outta here.

>>17707615
I'm so sorry OP. Truly I am.

>>17707615
lol how did she think she'd explain that one even if she were telling the truth

>baby lets go to paris I saved up 6k even though I don't have a job

I tried to date one of these cam whore for 30k down a wire transfer.

On the other hand, cudos to her for actually trying to make money while unemployed.

Shame about the entire covering it up and making you pay for the other stuff thing anon.

Honestly I think I'd be fine with it if she lied so long as she split the money she made and will make with me 50/50.

Why is nobody talking about the fact that she had build up a reserve of 6000 dollar? To do what? Why did she need it? Guy was paying everything. In my opinion she was going to leave him anyway. She was building up reserves to dump his ass and move out. Something she couldn't do since 6 months unemployed. Why else would she save that much?

>>17709307
elaborate please