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Ive been to two docs for my constant sleepiness. One said depression and one said sleep hygiene. Even if I sleep eight hours Im tired as fuck. I can sleep for thirty. I dont think im depressed because I want so bad to have energy and live a normal life. My eyes are so bad people ask me if Im sick high tired etc. My voice dies off at work. Im suffering. Been about two years (20 now). My question: how do I get a doc to take me seriously and refer me to a sleep lab? Is there coping mechanisms? My diets not bad or anything.
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>>17706761
And blood tests came back normie
Ive been diagnosed with mental illess (but my treatment helps), and thats one reason its hard to get considered.
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Sleep apnea
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>>17706969
How do i get one to refer me?

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I'm 20 and I still don't know what I should do with my life, I don't want to go back to college just to pick some easy mode meme degree and yet I have no dream nor ambition, I can't think of any career or job that would interest me and it's been bothering me a lot lately.
I know it sounds really vague, but how do I find the motivation and confidence I lack to find my path in life ?
All I can think for now is just being a wageslave.
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I'm in the same boat as you except I'm 26.
Only advice I can give you is to keep trying different things until you find something you wouldn't mind doing everyday for an undetermined amount of time.
There's nothing wrong with being a wage slave, but after so long it feels pretty empty. Make sure you have something else to fill your life with I'd you're not career driven
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I just made this exact thread.


I really don't know.
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Wage slave . Everyone now a days is a wage slave, unless you have a talent and can practice it to create income. Do what you enjoy doing. Find a job until you find something you like and just work . That's what I've done

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I'm a single male, just moved into a major city and don't know anyone.

But i want to get laid on Halloween. Should I go out alone? What costume should I wear to get mad amounts of pucci?
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Go as a doormat

They will get it, just act adorable when they laugh at you and want to take pictures.
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>>17706733
A nice dress shirt, tie, dress pants, chest holster, cop badge, and a 9mm handgun (bb replica), there ya go, a nice suave detective costume.
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>>17706772
>chest holster
It's a shoulder holster you fucking pleb. And carry a real gun, that way no one will fuck with you.

>but I don't have a real gun!
Go as something else.

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I share a room with another guy. He snores plays loud music/youtube videos alot and uses a loud blowdryer every morning in the room we share. It's extremely frustrating trying to get a good night's sleep. I've found myself sleeping through my classes because it's the only time if day he's not around to fuck my shit up. I don't like listening to music. I function the best in silence. I recently purchased noise canceling earbuds and they work but it's rather uncomfortable to wear them all of the time and is starting to cause ear soreness. Is there a thin type of earmuffs someone can recommend that's good for silent sleeping? Something that goes around the ears that is still comftorble to sleep on the side with?

Thanks for the help guys, I just want to be able to sleep through one night.
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>>17706724
find another room mate.
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>>17706973
That probably won't happen until next semester. I put in a complaint with my RHD but they need to find a space for me. Usually people who need to find a roommate in the middle of a semester get paired with the people nobody elsr wanted as a roommate either.

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This is not okay
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How about you lower your phone screen lightning?
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>>17706668

You can just lower the brightness, better for your eyes also!
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>>17706674
>>17706678
It's all the way down

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Neighbor stole my doormat so I stole his. Now he calls the cops. What do? Kill him?
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>>17706660
You should have been the one to call the cops. Still, if there's any evidence of what he did, he just shot himself in the foot.
Don't be the nigger next time.
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>>17706660

Why do you want to invest time into petty bullshit like this? Get a new doormat, have no doormat, whatever man.
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It was to tempting. He stole it and was beeing a dick about having stolen it. Ofc now I see that he was baiting me. Burn the mat and deny everything?

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So I have this big issue with my bf. I've been working really hard to save up money for our marriage. I don't ask for much. Just to hang out with me on x mmorpg but he has a problem with that and says hanging out on skype just chatting (i do all the chatting/effort into the conversations. He just plays league of legends all day and is can't hold a real convo)

We just had a full blown fight last night over him ignoring me and my needs and I've just about given up.

I can give any more info if needed but my question is, is it worth continuing this on /adv/? I give this person the world and they can't even give me a hour a day to play something together while I'm busting my ass to start a future together.
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Have you ever met this person? Like outside the internet.
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>>17706657
are you kinda chubby underage and have sent him nudes?

welcome to an internet relationship lol. Never actually seen one irl
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>>17706695
Yes we've spent a few weeks together irl and it was lovely. We've been best friends for years before we decided to start a relationship up.

>>17706778
No I'm in my mid twenties. Not underage.

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I want to fulfill my maniacal dream of taking over the world. What tips do you have?
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>>17706655

Devote your life to build a mind controlling device that can take over peoples will. Build it so that the people you take controll over will spread to other people like the plague. Then zhe world will be yoooours. Good luck!
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>>17706655
build the next facebook... bitches love facebook
then watch the world burn (evil laughter)
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>>17707106
Bruh you sound just like my best friend

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Hey /adv/, past few weeks I haven't managed to go through a single week without being drunk, often several times a week. At this point its becoming something to pass the time. My life doesn't appear to be suffering because of it though, im still hitting the gym and still making it into work, but im becoming worried about the amount im drinking, and yet cant seem to stop. Advice? Similar experience?
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>>17706637
Do you drink socially or by yourself?

If it's the latter, you might want to find the reason why you do it and evaluate that. Otherwise, getting drunk really isn't a problem.
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>>17706845
Also, a clear warning sign would be that you're upping the amount because of your tolerance. That can get out of hand real fast.
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>>17706637

I am actively in AODA/AA treatment. I can tell you that at the stage you're at, it really comes down to you. I went through my worst phase about 7 years ago. Before that I drank everyday for 3 years. Drinking by myself, hiding my drinking, drinking in the morning and allowing myself to crash financially. The financial aspect is what ultimately caused me to seek help. Even then I wasn't ready to admit I was an alcoholic.

I stayed sober for almost 2 years before I decided I was cured. I thought my problem was drinking too much. So instead of drinking everyday, I began binge drinking after that. So for the next 4 years I continued that trend. Eventually it cost me the best relationship I've ever had. She left me and took my 2 year old son with her.

The lesson of my story is self discovery. Be honest with yourself and understand the problem. Hopefully you can begin your mental inventory now, before things bottom out like what happened to me.

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Have any of you ever had a crush on a girl, to the point of obsession, where your entire life revolves around talking to her, thinking about her, or making her smile, and then suddenly woke up one day and felt nothing towards her? But you also didn't feel anything towards any other girls at that point in time? And you also suddenly felt almost no sexual attraction towards anyone or anything too?

If yes, I have some followup questions.
Did your feelings for her ever come back? Did you eventually start to feel crazy about her again?
And do you have any mental disorders?

Please note that, in this scenario, there should be nothing to trigger this. Nothing bad happened in your daily life or between you and her to cause your feelings to suddenly die like this.
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>>17706623
OP I'm in the same boat. There's this girl I really, really liked but she denied me (said I was too emotionally unstable for some reason). It tore me to shreds and I thought about it for days but after that I just sort of snapped and all of my feelings for her evaporated. I am bipolar if that counts, I still think about her from time to time, but remembering how heartless she was when she denied me makes me angry and want to move on. Love is a bitch.
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>>17706639
The thing about this is that the girl I like reciprocated.
She said I love you too. And she is the sweetest angel I know.
Not only do I just want to remember what infatuation feels like, but I also want to be able to do it for her, since she's so wonderful. She deserves my love. So the fact that I suddenly don't feel any is that much more confusing.
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>>17706623
Having a crush upon a girl and obsessing over her in middle school or high school is perfectly normal, almost every guy had at least 1 "goddess" that they "worship".

Yet.. you must've over-exhausted yourself obsessing over this girl therefore developing further feelings for this said crush of yours. This will happen if you haven't made the move of asking her out or at least questioning that if she's interested in you.

I used to be like you. Obsessing over to the ones that look the tsundere-type. I believe I had a crush on 10-20 girls, Eventually I asked them out, one-by-one, some rejected and some accepted, but then lost the spark of what made me chase those girls in first place.

For me, These feelings never came back I moved on. And you should too.
Nah, since I lost those crazy feelings, and moving on in life, it'll be retarded to want them again, there are plently of girls in the world, another will come.
I think I have autism, since I disregard emotions completely sometimes. I'm just normal guy. I don't know.

Last thing, something should've happened (socially,chemically like low testosterone, depression.) when you lost that obsession. Don't say nothing happened. Find the problem and fix it, don't just ask advice for a "problem" that have nothing to trigger or else nobody will help you.

Retard.

t.friend

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My wife drinks one to three bottles of wine everyday. I hate her for it.

I am hanging around at the office, alone, pretending to be working, while in fact I just want to avoid her as much as I can.

Eventually, I have to go home to that drunken wreck of a wife. It's 7 pm now, I will stay here for 2-3 more hours. I am watching shit on youtube, play CS:GO and read some books.

Fuck my life.
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so why havent you divorced yet?
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>>17706596
So, what's the purpose of this thread? Venting?
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How about you just go hame and get smashed with her? Its not as bad when you do it together.

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I love someone so much, yet I've had sex with two other guys. Is it possible to truly love someone and still do this ?
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>>17706584
No
In that case you're a heartless bitch.
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>>17706584

Nope.
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>>17706599
Unless you mean you're not cheating on him, and you've fucked two guys previous to your relationship. That's fine. Kind of a silly question.

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Hello /adv, I live in the 301 area, and I wanted to get some tips on getting a cute asian gf. How do I go about this???
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Have a > 4in dick.
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You have to be 18 to post on this site.
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>>17706551
So are you 18 then?

Hey I'm 22 and otherwise healthy but I get this stinging pain in my jaw 80% of times I consume alcohol. It's like glass shards being grinded into my jaw joint. It lasts for at least half an hour.
I never can open my mouth really wide if that helps and sometimes the jaw will lock up painfully if I try.
I tried the dentist but they don't have a clue so it's probably not connected to the teeth and my mom who's a doctor dismisses it as a delusion.
Google gives results with people having the exact same single symptom but there is no definitive answers other than something about the salivary gland or ectopic pancreatitis. What doctor do I need to go see about this?
What the fuck is going on?
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>>17706478
Maybe an allergic reaction? I dunno, can you be allergic to alcohol?

Or maybe the sensation of the alcohol is causing your jaw to contract?

Or it could be a delusion like your mother said.

Does it happen with all types of alcohol or certain types? I.E.beer & cider vs. spirits, wine etc.? Could it have something to do with the strength of the drink?
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>>17706539
It's always wine (both white and red), wine+seltzer or beer, never with spirits. I don't have access to other low alcohol content fluff to try it out

It might be an acquired allergy if such a thing exists?
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>>17706550
Wine and beer are fermented, strong alcohol is distilled. Your reaction is likely to some fermentation product.

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My liver enzymes are high. And I do not know why so I'm getting an ultra sound in 2 days and honestly for reasons I want to raise my liver enzymes before I go in without it being noticeable that I did it intentionally.
Advice and suggestions?
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Stop being a retard (and fat) and learn to take care of yourself.
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Are they going to draw blood when you go in? Thats the only way theyll know if theyre still elevated...
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>>17706463
Don't try to mislead medical results, you're just going to make it harder for them to help you.

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