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Would getting a bachelor's in computer engineering get me a job?
I can't decide on what I really want to study since I was planning on just being a police officer. Recently though my family convinced me that getting at least a bachelor's is something worthwhile and will definitely help me with a job situation if the cop gig doesn't workout.
I've been thinking of computer engineering since i like computers somewhat. I don't know shit about them but I want to try.
Or should I check out some other degree? What would you guys recommend?
Also, since calculus is required in almost all forms of engineering, what are some good websites I should check out that can teach me calculus from the beginning? I suck dick at math hard but I really want to learn.
I'm tired of going back to my entire family in the holidays and feel like shit because I'm not doing anything with my life.
>20
>Unemployed
>Living with parents
>Really helpful at home though
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No.
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I work with engineers in a pretty rural area. I'd say your employment prospects wouldn't be terrible.
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>>17708460
What kind of engineering would improve my chances of a job?
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How do I gain weight quickly? Should I eat like 5 times a day?
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Why do you want to gain weight? Are you OK with just fat?
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Go to /fit/
Read the fucking sticky
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>>17708370
Do you want to be fit or do you not care?
If you don't care you need to increase your intake of dietary fat. It's the most calorically dense nutrient. I hear that eating too much fat on its own leads to poor absorption though, so you'll want to eat it with carb and fat in the same meal. So.. Bacon and sausage sammich topped with mayonnaise. Eat two/day on top of what you already eat.
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>My aunt and her husband were into some shit, like drugs and gambling
>their son (15) was also into drugs by default
>6 months ago they were the victims of a home invasion that ended with my aunt in a coma (still is) and her husband dead.
>he hid under a bed and heard everything and saw the immediate aftermath
>move my little cousin in after everything
Long story short man, besides the depression and anxiety I feel, my Lil cousin is going hay wire. Like I don't know what to do. He's cool calm and collective during the day but at night he freaks the fuck out in his sleep. My Lil bro and I have to calm him down every night. God bless my neighbors for at first they called the cops but after sitting down and listening to everything that happened they have put up with it and have even taken my cousin out a few times to go fishing. But I can't keep doing this to us and my neighbors. And I can't abandon this kid either. I don't want to send him to some mental hospital he's already gone through enough of that.
What can help? I don't wanna take him to a shrink that's going to pump him full of drugs, drugs that he has abused in the past. Yoga and meditation didn't do shit. Boxing helps him with the anger but not with the terror he goes through at night. I let him sleep with the TV and lights on, he knows I have a gun in the house. What more can I do?
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is your cousin getting any professional help/counciling yet?
my husband is a combat vet and it was like this for a while. it died down gradually for him, but its taken lots of time to get as good as it is now. he still doesnt sleep much either but theres no extreem night terrors
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Therapists don't prescribe medications, you're thinking of a psychiatrist. Therapists just talk you through your issues.
I had low grade PTSD when I discovered my girlfriends body after she shot herself. It was horrible, I'd wake up in absolute terror and shake all the time. I was extremely paranoid and basically just lost my mind after some time.
Sounds like a stronger kid than me though, maybe if you just give him some time and support he'll be fine after awhile.
Also look into MDMA-guided therapy. It's a fucking godsend for PTSD victims
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>>17708409
If you do MDMA and talk through the event, it makes a world of difference. It's like you can really understand and accept what happened. It's like having 6 years of therapy in one session.
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>be 17 currently
>have micropenis (inb4 it will go, lol no it wont)
>never had sex because religious parents instilled that "relationships are bad" and "wait until marriage."
>Never done alcohol because of parents believing alcohol allows demons to go inside you.
>never done drugs because of those values, also because i had no friends until this semester (i always started conversations and most people didn't want to look like dicks)
>only now that i have the courage to ask girls out, but never get far because of micropeen (4 inches erect) and my embarrassment.
>skinnyfat
>white
>Funny, quick witted
>have a average social life
>have hobbies besides games such as writing and biking.
>People tell me i should be a voice actor.
>able to cook, and to some degree dance (i'm white but i know how to have a beat)
Am i doomed to become a robot? i read the threads on /r9k/ and i'm terrified that i'm going to be a wizard.
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>>17708364
*grow
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Cock size doesn't matter if you can go down on a chick and blow her mind.
Stop going to R9K you fucking retard. It's an echo chamber of virgin autists, you'll become one if you don't leave.
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>>17708364
& b&
I texted an old ex girlfriend saying hi, she replied with who is this. why did I do this to myself help me get out pls
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delete the texts
delete her number
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>>17708313
go full autism and say y-you too
its the logical conclusion
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Who broke up with who?
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>live in Canada
>decide I want to turn my life around if even by just a little bit
>dropped out of high school in the early grades
>been a hermit since then
>decide to go and try to get my GED
>start looking up information about it for my area
>can't really find anything, think nothing of it and just go and start researching the study material for the test and start teaching myself basic math from the ground up
>spend a few hours over the course of a few days learning it all
>figure I'll go and find a testing place and see what they have to offer
>spend an entire afternoon only getting obscure results and weird education """"programs"""" that I can't tell what they are actually for and if they help with what I want (which is to just get a fucking diploma and stop worrying about it)
>finally come across some backwater site that says the Ministry of fucking ""Education"" discontinued the GED program
>only other stuff I can find online is more obscure classes that either cost a lot of money or won't tell me how long they take
>all of them using the same stupid fucking buzzwords like "work at your own pace" and "YOU CAN DO IT ONLINE DUDE now give us $200"
>never tell you how long it will take or what the fuck you need to do
>too scared to talk to people over the phone
Thanks Ministry of Education, guess I'm staying a high school dropout forever.
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I don't know shit about the education system in Canada, but I can't imagine it's vastly different from the the US's
It looks like the GED ship has sailed, for you. TO be honest, that's pretty shitty, and I'm not sure why they would do that. On the other hand, make sure you get through a decent amount of maths on your own (try to get past trig and geometry, ffs).
If you have something like a community/junior college, technical school, start by taking classes in those. After you've completed a 2-year degree or certificate program, your high school nonsense won't really matter much anymore.
SO yeah, look into junior colleges and accredited certificate programs
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>>17708311
You still need a high school diploma/equivilent to get into community college courses.
The only difference now I guess is that instead of studying for a few days and knocking out all the tests in a month or two I'm going to have to end up in some weird alternative program and probably take 10 month long full fucking length programs or some bullshit.
Probably all because of some politics and government fucks juking numbers for grants. Fucking niggers.
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>>17708349
have you tried petitioning or asking the academic advisers there? I'd find it weird that they'd just drop a pretty important social net.
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How do I deal with being ugly?
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Get the glandular-look you've got going on diagnosed.
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>>17708247
Whores and strippers. That was my answer for awhile. But now I've got it bad for some girl and I can't bring myself to use my old services because she's what I think about. The cruelest twist is that I don't have a chance with her.
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I'm happier when I don't look at mysf in reflecting surfaces. I forget what I look like and just follow the flow of my thoughts. I forget the world is physical and I feel like an entity living and/or existing depending on the given circumstances and then the morning comes. I look at myself with disgust and remember this world is physical and that my outer shell doesn't represent the life I have inside my head. Reality comes crashing down and I'm back to the first step. I don't have a cure but to stop thinking about it and put your energy into something more worthwhile to make your inner seld happier.
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>be me
>beta 23yo khv
>tall and /fit/, also sorta /fa/
>can't ask a girl out under any fucking circumstances for whatever fucking reason
>take interest in this girl but do nothing about it
>she texts me out of tje blue, initiates a lot
>notice she probably likes me even though I didn't try
>being me, do nothing about it over the whole summer (know her from uni)
>now, almost halfway through semester, still haven't done shit
I realise I'm in the F R I E N D Z O N E and I've given up. My question is: How the fuck do you do it? I can talk and flirt with girls no problem but I can't EVER pull the trigger. What do I do?
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shes in the friendzone, not you
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Does the friendzone actually exist or is that some shit people who can't handle rejection (or never make a move at all) made up?
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>>17708239
Well if I unintentionally put her in the friendzone, it's kinda over anyway. We're friends now and it won't progress from that.
what would you do if you went on your gf or bf's computer and saw nudes of their ex from a while ago?
I'm given permission to be on here, and saw some nudes from over a year ago. Granted it was before we met (right about) , but I know this is one of the biggest heart-breaks in my partner's life so..
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Ask to replace them with your nudes?
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You fap to them.
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>>17708186
I'd ask if they knew they were still there . I'd let them know that I don't object to them keeping photos of their ex but nude photos is too much and that it would hurt me if they were knowingly keeping them.
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Commited petty theft in california. Went to jail for six hours, got out, got court date. Went, saw people go up with misdemeanors. They were always told if they weren't citizens, they'd be deported.
>Oh shit. I'm only a permanent resident.
My turn. Went up, asked for court appointed attorney, sat back down. Talked to attorney. Told him my situation. Advised me to go to pretrial in order to buy time to get a quote from an immigration attorney. Called a couple. Some didn't give free quotes. Those who did, said they weren't sure and that I should get in with them so they can help me out. Poorfag, not doing that, just needed a quote. They were no help. Time passes by. Time for court date(today the 26th). Car crash 2 days before. Place where I comitted the crime is 2hrs away from my home. Missed court. Called them up, said they issued a bench warrant and I should go there as soon as possible to clear it up. Planning on going tomorrow when they open. How fucked am I? What are my options? I'm thinking of just asking the judge what the punishment will be if I plead guilty and if I'll be deported. If he says no, I'll plead guilty, pay the fine, and do community service or take a class. If he says yes, I'll plead not guilty, and just not show up to court. I'm not going back and getting back in via coyote. Fuck that. I'll just not show up for court, move somewhere else, maybe with my ex for a while, get a fake ID, along with fake social, and work under the table. Possibly construction. It'll be a hard life. But lot's of other people do it, and I don't have kids to support, so that's good. Am I overreacting? What can I do? If it turns out I'll get deported, I have no choice. I had the world infront of me, I don't want to believe everything could get so fucked because of one little mistake. It's my first offence at 19 years of age for God's sake. Fuck my ass.
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>>17708135
Sounds like you're getting exactly what you deserve, kid. Sorry and bye bye.
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>>17708135
If you have a warrant all ready, they'll deport you anyway.
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If you're gonna commit the crime, be prepared to take the time. Especially if you aren't a citizen of that country. Goddamn did you think?
If you were in your native country would you want to pay your taxes to support a foreigner in prison who stole something from a business based in your country? No?
Goddamn if it were a possession charge for non narcotic drugs I might show pity, but petty theft? C'mon.
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this girl who is 18 at the time and I was 25, now 26 started messaging me around December for a bit. 3 weeks later we talked again and said we should skype. So until around mid June we skyped usually 2-3 times a week for at least an hour. Shed flirt time to time and even show me her boobs sometimes. Near June I saw her flirting a bit with a bi guy. So I became distant, and she then called me on skype a week later. This happened about twice due to my anxiety and me being very guarded. She then started talking to a guy, lets call him P. For about a month. I stopped talking to her from then out until 2 weeks ago when she shared a post I made on FB, before then she tried getting my attention by liking a few of my posts. Saturday she said she was stopping by in my job cause her friend wanted a laptop and so I can hook it up and get a sale. When she was there I coulda sworn she blew me a kiss and was all smiley and asked me for a hug. Just the other night she asked me to call her cause she was in pain. She brought up that guy cause ppl there thought she was talking to him. I got upset and said I needed to go, we texted for a while then I didnt respond to her last text.
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TLDR: Girl is on and off for around 8 months with me, seems like im her go to guy or something. But my extreme anxiety stops me from showing feelings or love. I like her but dont want to cause I dont want to get hurt. Most of my thoughts are of what shes doing, whos she texting, etc. Think she may have slept with that guy she was talking to when I was gone. What gives me the most anxiety is that sometimes when I text her she leaves me on read or when I get off the phone she tells me to text her and I do but she doesnt respond. She is overweight, insecure, and has depression from her mom dieing last year. She does go out alot with her girlfriends.
No idea where to go with this, we never fully hung out but she has met me at work 3 times. I asked her to chill first two times she said yes but we never followed up on it. Last time I asked round july I was left on read. Id like to keep her as a friend since I have none, but idk how.
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How the fuck is a wall of text the same size a tl;dr?
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>>17707974
She sounds like trouble and I think you can do better.
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Examples of pseudo-kinky nicknames like babygirl and princess?
Would be highly appreciated
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>>17707938
King Ghidorah, Rodan, Mothra, Gojira etc.
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>>17707963
Eh, my girlfriend's not a big Toho fan.
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How can my Girlfriend break up with me and move on so fast? 2016-10-26 22:11:57 Post No.17707824
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How can my Girlfriend break up with me and move on so fast?
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>I was her first serious relationship (all her past ones were just little 1-2 week things, we spent 6 months together and before me she was single for a year)
>We done everything, we were really close, opened up to each other about a lot of things
>I was her first kiss, and first everything else
>Always done cute shit for her, treated her really good and said how she wasn't used to it because of history, even said her self esteem improved because of me
And just to note: There was definitely no other guy 'lined up' or cheating or anything like that.
And then almost out of nowhere she just ends it with me. Giving me one vague excuse after another. I tried for 2 days to fix it, and for her to just talk to me, but she didn't. Just kept telling me she has to move on. Then I left it for like 2 weeks and during this time she tried making small talk. I sent her a long message of our good times together, and what went wrong? I didn't pressure her or anything and said for us to have time.
However since then, her sister told me she's talking to some guy last week and now another guy this week she's trying to get with. So I messaged her saying what's the deal. And she's just being rude to me, saying she's moved on and she can do what she wants. I just don't understand, so I told her fine, I hope "doing what you want" is worth it, you just lost me. And she replied "Finally". I've removed her off everything. But I'm so confused and hurt, how she goes from being so loving to this?
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She's a woman.
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>>17707824
>And she replied "Finally"
that doesn't sound like a girl that was happy. What in holy fuck did you do to her
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>>17707849
Seriously, for a girl to say Finally she is way over what you believed you had and wants to erase you from her life. What the fuck did you do to her?
How I stop being such a shy little bitch? I was waiting in line for a fucking chicken sandwich to be cooked in my college's caf and this girl was very obviously looking at my face when I wasn't looking her direction. Everytime I did, she snapped away. Why the fuck can't I ever think of something to say, or even say "hello"? I've been like this my whole life and it's probably why I'm miserable.
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>>17707802
idk just complain about how slow the service is
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>>17707813
Even my mind holds me back from saying that. I don't know why I want to just be quiet.
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>>17707854
Do it.
The first couple of times your voice might shake, or you might stutter, or whatever.
It doesn't matter. After awhile you'll have no fear of it. Don't hype yourself up about it and make it seem like a big deal, in fact, don't think about it at all.
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How do you make friends as an introverted young adult? I've got a nice job, my own place, even a lady friend who's pretty good to me
However, I've been living in Maine now for less than a year and am finding it hard to meet people with similar interests that don't hold a closed group sort of feeling. I'm a pretty typical dork, so most of my time is spent with the lady or playing video games, and I've been out lately taking part in local d&d and pathfinder games, and I like those guys, but a lot of them I wouldn't venture to hang out with outside of our sessions.
I take classes online and work full time so I don't have the time to go college and meet people in my peer group, and most of the people I work with are pleasant, but again much older.
What are some things I can do to help meet other dorky, introverted/omniverted people and help expand my social life
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And by young adult I mean early 20's, old enough to drink yadda yadda, no teenage bullshit
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I'm in the same situation, except I'm a married woman.
I'm 25, he's 28. We get along as friends do (we were friends before marriage), but he needs other men to befriend and I need other women.
We moved across the country in August 2015 for both our jobs. People are friendly here, the crowd is young and the town is growing, but we cannot find a stable group of friends in the same life situations as us.
Most of the people we find our age with our interests end up being less mature than we'd like. Still live at home with parents, haven't had a long term relationship, or constantly go out and have no relationships of value. We like to go out for drinks or other things, but only once or twice a week.
You aren't alone, OP. Seems to be the older you are the harder it is to make friends...sorry I couldn't offer any advice. But I will bump your thread.
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>>17707795
What hobbies do you have?