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I can only think when i'm talking to people and am forced to speak coherent words and logical arguments
Otherwise i keep regurgitating and stating crazy and fragmented stuff
Am i schizoid?
I'm 19, around the age for mental illnesses and disorders to begin, and have a schizophrenic sister
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Having spent the last 2 years mostly on my room in front of the computer might have something to do though
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>>17706462
Yes, you are schizoid. Seek help immediately and make sure you won't come up with excuses not to do so. There are no excuses not to seek help immediately, keep reminding yourself of that.
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>>17706506
Why you so sure i'm schizoid, i still have desire to have friends and sex with a human
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How do I stop being a boring piece of shit in conversation
I'm a guy, 18 and I'm super bad at talking to people in normal conversation. I can make great small talk, and I can talk about politics, economy, and philosophy and shit like that for days straight. I'm just bad at normal level conversation. I like to listen, and not as much to talk, which is why; for instance, I'll be listening to someone, and theyll finish taking, expecting me to say something. I won't most of the time because I'm a boring person with nothing to relate to it. Help
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Bmup friendos
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>>17706428
Pretend to relate, motherfucker. The reason people expect you to say something and relate is because that's the point of conversation. If you refuse, or don't relate, that's just signaling to them you either cannot relate to them (your actual problem) or you refuse to. Either way, it means the whole conversation was pointless, and future conversations will most likely be just as worthless.
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>>17706617
Just to clarify, they'll think you're refusing to relate because you don't like them and therefore do not want to relate to them.
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How do I become more motivated to study and do homework? I do study from time to time, but I give up pretty fast and I do my homework but since I have so little motivation to do them, I do them half-assed. /adv/ pls help.
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bump
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>>17706414
Same problem with me, but I've learned that there's no way to get motivated, you just study.
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>>17706513
Damn that's fucking depressing.
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Have you ever been the other person when someone is cheating.
She told me she loves me and is having regular breakdowns because of the pressure. She doesn't know what to do and i have no idea is she'll ever leave the other person. I love her and want to be with her but I've given her as much time as I can and put no pressure on her but I'm not sure if I'm just enabling her. We meet whenever we can and talk almost daily. It's been going on for around 6 months.
I feel like something needs to change before anything will get better or evolve. Should I cut contact and tell her I'll be there if she decides she wants to be with me? Im not sure what to do for the best but don't want to make anything worse for her, myself or push her away.
What would you do?
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>>17706394
Don't be a cuck, dude.
Also, women aren't capable of love.
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>>17706394
gonna give you some perspective
Why should a woman leave the comfort of her home and relationship for a man she has fucked for 6 months? Throw away the known for really nothing at this point. Now she has two men why not string that out as long as she can?
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Been there, done that. It wont transcend from being more than just a fling.
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I sometimes cry when I masturbate, but only during penetrative masturbation. I used to cry sometimes when my ex (over a year ago) would have sex with me because I felt like my needs were never taken care of and I felt broken because it was so hard to reach orgasm. He would cum and then just stop engaging, and even when he tried to go down on me, it didn't help and he said it just hurt his neck.
Last night I was masturbating and it felt really great, didn't hurt at all, and suddenly I just burst into tears and couldn't stop. I wasn't even thinking about my ex.
What's wrong with me? How can I make this stop?
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>>17706346
Stop masturbating
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And go see a doctor. No wonder your man doesn't want to hang out with you after fucking. You always piss your eyes out.
How's that supposed to make him feel? Great?
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>>17706346
Tears of sadness? Maybe because it only happens during penetrative sex you're subconsciously associating it with your last physical experience which was a negative one. Do you have trouble reaching orgasm alone? Was it hard because your ex didn't care or because you had some kind of mental block and weren't able to get there with him?
Either way I think you're just longing for a partner that's able to give you what you're giving yourself. Until then these feelings might not stop.
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I'm pretty sure something is wrong with my brain when it comes to initiating and continuing tasks and I'm not sure how to cope with it?
Here's some examples:
>Understand that if I don't study, I won't pass
>Use time on bus to campus to study
>Stopped doing it one day and now can't get self to do it
>Understand that if I don't go to sleep at a good time, I won't be able to feel good in the morning
>Understand that if I don't immediately get out of bed, I'll have trouble getting ready
>Understand that if I don't eat breakfast, I'm going to be starving in a few hours and spend money on overpriced food
>Proceed to go to sleep late, lay in bed until 20 minutes before I need to leave, and skimp on breakfast
>Understand that my grades are this way because my knowledge is low.
>This would be fixed if I studied
>Do not study
>Proceed to make flashcards, both physically and digitally.
>Do not use them
>Buy a calendar and use it for a month
>Write out my week and use it for a week
>Will not change and label it even though it was helpful for me
>Use food as goals
>Eat it before doing the task
>Use non food items as goals
>Use those items before doing task
>"I am not going to eat/sleep until I get this simple thing done"
>Proceed to stay up all night/fall asleep/starve self until family asks if I've had anything to eat today
>Feel terrible physically and understand that I would get better if I exercised
>Will not exercise to the point of causing pain to my body due to weak muscles
>Understand that if I do not do well in class, my dreams will be shattered.
>Understand that I cannot do nothing forever.
>Understand that this isn't normal and I should be able to at least try
>Continue to do nothing
I've pretty much tried every motivational technique. Praise, reward, self-hatred, habit forming, and even self harm. Nothing has worked except for self harm and I'm pretty sure that would change if I did it for a more than a week.
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The issue is pretty clear. You value immediate gratification more than your long-term goals. This is everyone's problem. Trick yourself into enjoying the tasks, and mentally give yourself gratification for working towards the goal while you do them.
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>>17706331
Tried it. Didn't work.
Played music. Placed self in a comfortable position for me to enjoy the thing. Tried dedicating certain things for only certain tasks.
All of them failed.
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>>17706334
Then fail. No one gives a shit if you rot.
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A girl I've been talking to seems disinterested, and I've pretty much decided to give up on her. Is it bad form to ask her out for coffee just in case I've misread the situation or should I go with my gut and just stop talking to her.
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>>17706292
If the signs aren't there then save yourself the effort and rejection and move on. She will respect you more if you took the hint and left her alone rather then pushed to meet up after she showed no signs of interest.
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>>17706292
You really have nothing to lose. If you're right, she'll just turn you down (which is the same as leaving her alone), and if she says yes, well, you'll be pleasantly surprised, now won't you?
Just don't be fucking autistic about it and make her hate you by being a creep about it. Be casual, don't be pushy, and take her answer in stride.
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>>17706312
Eh, thanks. I guess I just wanted to hear it from someone else.
>>17706307
I mean, what do I care what she thinks about me? I think I'd mind letting the chance pass more than getting rejected.
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OK, so I'm minutes away from being kicked out of college because I'm incapable of understanding the math.(2dumb4calculus) I took it twice and failed and now I was given one last chance and failed this time, once again.
I have a few options before my parents find out.
A.) Fly out of the country. (Latin America possibly)
B.) Work without them knowing and try to pay off the debt and fuck off and do something else. (Though I'd have to convince them I'm still in college)
C.) Commit seppuku and restore honor in my family's name. (I'm not kidding about the this one, I need some equivalent to pay for my stupidity)
Im open to suggestions so please do. Also, I know some are going to say, just tell them the truth, but it's just not an option now. I'd rather die than face the embarrassment.
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>>17706285
Mang u sure you can't take it again?
I would take the work option I guess.
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>>17706293
Three retake policy, I took it twice, dropped the first time, failed the second and now failed the third.
How would I convince my parents that I still go to school even though they pay the bill? I commute to school so I still live with them and my siblings. Where would they give the money? Do I setup a fake website and just hold it? Then when I get the other money from my contacts, I give it back all at once? This one is difficult to me.
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This sounds more or less outrageous but I just need a way out here.
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I have a job offer as a 911 dispatcher for a 6 month contract with the police.
I have a job offer as a seasonal government call center worker as well, for 7 months.
Which would you take? Stressed as fuck here. I've worked for the call center in the past, it's seasonal work. The police job would be brand new to me, but would like nice on my resume. I'm 20.
Any advice?
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>>17706255
If just thinking about it stresses you out, don't take the 911 job. That's life-or-death stuff, and I wouldn't want you panicking under pressure if I had to call you.
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>>17706255
Police dispatch. Expand your horizons. You may enjoy it even.
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>>17706255
Government call center is low stakes. It seems that just the thought of 911 dispatcher is too stressful for you.
Now, may be it's a good idea to go with the less stressful. I mean, unless you want to experience new things or contribute to society. Either way, it's a job. Think of it as just that.
A government job is also a very nice thing to have on your resume, even if it's just a call center. You can spruce it up to look as if you're part of the establishment now. In which case you could then get other opportunities in government bodies
I worked in my city hall, and believe me it wasn't the greatest job, but god it was easy to get into government jobs after that
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Friend mad at me because of girl 2016-10-26 14:41:27 Post No.17706251
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I have a lot of friends but there are three that I see almost every day and do almost everything with. They're "The guys" and they're my best friends.
Myself and one of these guys were hanging out alone and we ended up meeting another group of my friends around town. Enter girl. My best friend instantly takes to her and she seems to take to him. I was really happy and told him that he should go for it and ask her out or some shit. He does ask her out and she says yes. Whoo! Everything is great and he is happy.
He tries to confirm a date with her and she is a little flaky (she is a very busy girl). The girl then messages me and we end up setting a date for a drink. He was very upset when he first heard about this - Cursing himself, life, other people, etc. He doesn't understand why he has such a hard time with the opposite sex and we (friends) don't fully understand either based on what he has told us.
Myself and the girl go for the drink and.. well.. we're still seeing each other. Last night I told him that I am continuing to see this girl he loses his shit again. When I dropped him off to his house he bolted out of my car, slammed the door, ran inside, and none of us have heard from him since.
This dude has some anger issues and (according to him) unknown troubles with the opposite sex. His endgame in life is to find a girl to settle down with/marry but he can't even find a girl to date.
Bottom line is
>He liked girl
>Girl liked him?
>Girl now likes me
>I like girl
>he is mad at both me and her
Do I have an obligation to stop seeing this girl? Should I apologize to him? I'm at a loss for what to do here. I don't think I've done anything wrong but apparently I have and I can't seem to see it.
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I don't know it seems like you fucked up a little with your friend there. I mean you pushed him to ask her out and she said yes and then you start talking to her and set a date with her behind his back. It would be another thing if you spoke to him and said you feel an attraction to her and you think she feels the same, and if it isn't working between them would it be okay for you to pursue her. I'm sure he's more upset at the way you went about things and that he feels betrayed by you then the fact he wasn't able to keep this girl. She would mean very little to him and easily forgotten where as your someone close to him and now that you're seeing her it's a constant reminder of your betrayal and his failure.
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>>17706336
Exactly what I was going to say. Nailed it.
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So what happened was that you backstabbed that nigga and now he mad.
You fucked up.
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For a university application I have 1500 characters to answer the question "in your opinion what does it mean to be a professional?" All I know is how to be a professional shitposter.
How would you approach this question?
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Look up the word "professional", stay on subject.
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>>17706233
I just need an opening sentence
Fuck this is harder than i thought
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>>17706227
-To have chosen your field rather than fallen into it
-To find fulfillment through performing to a high standard within it
-To feel you are making full use of your talents and potential
>400 word review due tomorrow
>haven't started it yet
What do I do?
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College is a waste of cash.
Go be an intern somewhere and learn something valuable.
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>>17706204
... is 400 words really a problem? It takes, what, one hour exaggerating?
Start writing.
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It's 400 words. It takes 30 minutes. Chill, think, and bullshit.
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I want to fuck my gf again, but hao? 2016-10-26 14:09:40 Post No.17706199
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I want to fuck my gf again, but hao?
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I'm not in the mood for sex... or, rather, I don't care about it that much?
I've been with my gf for a few years now, plan on marrying her, family etc. Problem is, I don't really want to fuck her anymore.
She gets me hard, sure, but, I think we've fucked like once in the past month.
She's also complaining that I'm not goading her into bed and fucking her.
Problem is, whenever I did do that, she'd get all "is this all you think of me? I'm a piece of meat?", and all I'd do was just caress her and then grab her hips/ass, start kissing her.
I said "ok, fine, this doesn't make her feel good. I'll just stop.", and true to my thoughts, I did.
Now she's annoyed I won't act that way anymore.
Thing is, she''s been at home for a while now, doing fuck all except smoking weed all day and getting fatter than she was when we met.
She's depressed and missing her relatives and shit. She doesn't feel pretty. Farts almost every 10 minutes and she's got mood swings and shit, although, lately, ever since she started taking birth control, she's calmed down with the insanity.
I'm still attracted to her, I just don't know when to do anything, or care about doing anything sexual with her.
I've jerked off this morning, and my shit shot out like 3 feet in front of me. It's never done that before. Usually just a quick fap and squirt.
First time I jacked off in a month, I think.
Anyway, how the fuck do I get back into fucking my girlfriend? I am so put off by her constant changes in attitude when it comes to fucking that I kind of feel anxious about her wanting to fuck.
I also don't really have time for me either. I get home, gotta listen to her tell me how boring her life is and how sad and shit she is, then we argue about something I have to do, then I calm her the fuck down, we laugh, cook some dinner, watch a movie while we get blazed and then go to bed.
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Usually, I fuck her and then she goes to bed, after which, I get to spend some time with myself and do shit that I like, like playing games until 3 am.
Lately, I've been skipping this and going to bed with her early, but she hasn't made any fucking moves and is always sleepy.
She makes no effort to be attractive either.
I want to want to fuck her again, but how?
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>>17706199
Wow, she sounds like a fucking loser. A self-centered loser. Everything is always about her. How are you not completely disgusted by her at this point? She's lucky to have you, dude.
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Alright, I might be disgusted by her. I haven't thought about it that way.
How do I undisgust myself with her and just get back into fucking her?
I have no... I don't know how to express this... I have no inherent need to fuck her, you know, how you're in the subway, waiting to get to work, spot an ass that you'd want to get all up into... I don't feel that way about her.
Our sex is vanilla too, mostly missionary or cowgirl.
She's average at sucking dick and only does it every once in a while.
I'd go down on her, but she's always going "n-no" like she hasn't washed in 500 years and I'm scared of the fish smell or something (she's usually pretty clean).
She's recently got a job she's starting in 2 weeks or so, and that's fine, it will take her mind off her shit life and always complaining, so, that's going to help with the whole "sad homecoming" I get every time I walk through my apartment door.
She can be pretty annoying and demanding at times, but she's not always like that. I love her, and I'm putting up with her shit since she's also putting up with mine.
This is a one sided story, but I got my faults too. For instance, I don't really like going out to clubs, or taking her out to 'party zones' where there's lots of people and shit. Fucking hate crowds. I get anxiety and it makes me feel inadequate and bullshit emotions. This is why I smoke weed all the time too.
Anyway, that's all beside the point.
I want to know if there's something I can do to make both myself and her interested in sex again.
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Getting over your first love 2016-10-26 13:58:54 Post No.17706177
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Getting over your first love
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I don't know how to stop putting my first love on a pedestal, I know the reasons we broke up and know it's for the best but it doesn't stop me wishing things were different and we could stay together somehow. I try to remember her flaws, and I know more than anyone that she wasn't perfect, but her positives outweighed the negatives and her quirks and personality I feel like I will miss forever. I'm worried I will compare future girls to her, and miss certain aspects of my ex that they might be missing.
How do I move on properly? Having only one partner in my life makes it hard to know what second love feels like and how I will react to it. If anyone has any stories of theirs and how it went I would greatly appreciate it.
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Is it a recent break up?
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>>17706200
Nearly a month since the break up, about a week since we initiated no contact. Together nearly 3 and a half years.
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You never forget your first love. You'll know what it feels like when it happens and it will. It is still early days for you. You'll be okay in time.
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What good is a high IQ if you are a procrastinating, unmotivated, self-neglecting person?
How can I stop being like this? Are antidepressants good?
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Maybe your IQ just isn't that high.
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Stop sucking your own dick, OP.
Having a high IQ doesn't mean shit if you're a loser.
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IQs don't really mean shit desu