I want to get Facebook info from a grill I'm friends with on Instagrandma.
I was thinking of messaging her and saying "Do you like anime?"
That would be pretty awkward
good lord that is a terrible opening question.
just saying "hey" would be way better.
>>17824117
Well, she sent me a message a while back saying "You are very cute" but I just replied "Thanks, you too" and kind of left it at that. Now I'm wondering if she likes anime. I met her at an anime con.
I have been on a date with this girl 3 times now, what we have done have basically been "hanging out", went to see a movie, going out eating and played some vidya games at my place. However I have never even tried to kiss her, the most I have done is giving hug every time we met.
Is this bad? These are my first dates ever, I have never had a gf before and I'm a virgin. I have no idea on how to kiss at all, I have never done it, not even on the cheeks or something and I'm too nervous to just "try". I feel like I'm just gonna fail, look retarded and leave her face or mouth filled with saliva.
Also I'm worried that she will get tired of me because I'm not making a move, and she expects me to do it because that's what girls expect of guys.
However she agreed to meet again next week but I feel like this is just a matter of time. Would you stop to date a guy if he dosent initiates?
If she didn't ditch you already then she probably likes you so just make a move at next date I guess cause yeah she will lose interest and/or think u dont like her.
>>17824064
Those aren't dates. Surprise her and say something like "hey there a new restaurant in town. Friday night at 7 we're going there for dinner. Dress nice too." Pic related.
>>17824241
This guy is dumb and wrong
I want to download music instead of buying cds
I've always bought cds but I'd rather just have music for free and not have to worry about a physical copy. Also I don't have a computer at the moment. I hope that doesn't ruin anything. So can you guys help me out?
Where do I download? What do I download? How do I download? Why should I download? Do I need a computer? Can my phone download? And lastly what is a flac?
I'd appreciate any help
you need a place to store the music lol.
>>17824071
I've got a 32gb we card in my phone. Would this not work?
Find your favorite songs on YouTube. Press share, copy to clip board.
Go to Youtube-mp3.org, paste URL into the box.
Press download. Congrats, you now have your favorite song in your phones download folder!
Guys, I need help. There is a giant pimple in my nose, how do I get it out?
Just let it go away on its own. Don't fuck with it. You'll make it bigger.
>>17824125
If it has a head you can/should pop it. But do it after a hot shower when yr pores are open.
>>17824138
Just because it has a head doesn't mean you should pop it. It will go away on its own. Give it time.
Got my nails done out if town with a friend.
Two finger tips are sensitive and seem to be warm and puffy.
I know its pry an infection. Ive been soaking them in hot sea salt solution. But dont see a visible laceration. What else can I do to help curb the infection ? Trying to avoid doc visit and meds if possible
Bump pl0x advice needed
I'm not sure, but you have really nice hands. Good luck!
>>17823995
show ur dick
Like other folks who work there or girls who are just seeing movies doesn't matter.
>>17823979
not really because there is no interaction
try finding a "movie club" that goes to movies as a group & then dinner afterwards - easier to talk to people then
>>17823979
Some of them got like bars and shit
Find a Bar job and it'd be ok to meet girls but still not the best since most people are probably there with people
I work at a theatre and if there are cute girls working there yeah it's great way. Just keep in mind big portion are still in high school or just fresh out of high school so they are immature.
As for hitting on cute girls that are customers is generally not great. You speak to them for at max 2 minutes, and they are there with either boyfriends or family/friends.
So recently I've been discouraged by Tinder, hoping to find someone that I could start a relationship. I know, it was pretty stupid of me to be hopeful like that on basically a hook up site. I've met at least a small handful of promising guys on there but I never got to go meet them in person to get to know them further. So I gave OkCupid a try. If you were lurking the last tinder thread then you might be familiar of a few experiences of mine and why I chose to give OkCupid a try. Anyways, so it hasn't been too different than tinder. Met a few weirdos here and there and some that are just not for me.
Like I mentioned before I'm not on there for a hook up, I want to spark a relationship. But after a while of having dead end conversations I came across one guy that has slightly changed my motivation.
He's very flirtatious and decent looking at best. I still want to know him on a personal level but now i'm tempted to give into more personal needs. Not necessarily giving up my virginity but it would be nice to cuddle someone, as he's put on the table. But I know that it will lead to something more than that. Have any other femanons here faced a similar situation? I'm very torn. I'm sick of being lonely but I don't want to just give in that easily. I still want to get to know other people in real life instead of starting off online. I was just tired of waiting for someone to come along.
Should I give him a chance is what i'm asking here. Despite him obviously just wanting a hook up.
Virginity is overrated. If he makes you wet and you like him, just do it
>>17823983
Yea, you seem ready
What do you do if you bring a girl home from a club, both drunk as fuck, get to bed, get frisky, strip off to underwear, foreplay, heavy petting, but then whenever it comes to actual sex (penetration) she closes up? This has happened with 2 different girls now and I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong?
Are they just nervous, don't want to seem like sluts, not excited enough? What?
>>17823902
Not every girl wants to fuck strangers. Even if they drunkenly stumbled into your bed.
How long do you foreplay
Do you eat her out
Finger
Do you bring out a condom
What do they say
>>17823923
And to elaborate further when it comes to one night stands the main thing is to make girls feel like you're not looking for a one night stand or just sex. They don't want to feel used (ok maybe a little)
Making out with them a lot, like you're mad into them, like you've never kissed a girl that hot
Don't reach for the down area till you're about to fuck pretty much
Grind on them
Tease them
Master the "I know you know you want it" confidence that doesn't dip into creepiness
Then reach down and check if she's wet, when it's sticky it's time for the dicky
My friend keeps finding hot guys on tinder then complains about how they ended up just wanting sex. I keep telling her pretty much every guy on tinder wants sex but she won't listen to me. I also told her she could get stds if she isn't careful and she freaked out saying I scared her. What do?
put itching powder in her underwear
Let her live you ball and chain ass bitch
Not all guys are looking for strictly sex. However, sex should be a staple of a healthy relationship. Using tinder for finding a relationship is probably not ideal... it's more of a hook-up app and to be honest (trust me I know I'm one of these people) it's great for lazy people who just want to put in the minimum effort and hope for something decent to come out of it.
In my profile it says "looking specifically to date". Yea, I want sex (like any guy), but at the end of the day I just want dates mostly. If sex comes out of it that's a plus.
My question for you is what kind of guys is she swiping on? I consider myself "meh" and I get matches and honestly go on some pretty fun dates with no expectations and just have a good time. I ask this because women have almost total control of the tinder market because it's so flooded with men that she should have complete choices on what she wants. I'm not saying she should swipe a different type of guy, but if whatever she is swiping on (what she she finds initially attractive) isn't working out for her maybe she needs to mix it up. Also, like for men, this is purely a numbers game. You're gonna get stood up, turned down, embarrassed, have shitty dates, etc. It's just part of "dating" or the modern day tinder experience, whatever you want to call it.
Yeah fuck it, People that I thought were my friends really aren't. There's no one here for me. My Mum hates me, My dad is an alcoholic and doesn't care about shit. I'm out.
>>17823841
no one is obligated to be there for you
same way for everyone
>>17824079
Thanks Captain Obvious, good job being a detached sociopath.
why not just move? seems killing yourself is a bit over the edge
TIFU: Female here. TRP relationship so please respect that.
Tonight SO wasn't paying enough attention to me during a serious conversation and like a fucking idiot I took his phone out of his hands. Obviously, he beat the shit out of me and stormed out.
Now he's apologizing (via text). What do I say to do as little damage as possible?
When he walked out I said he wouldn't be welcome back until he fixed the door he beat down (to a healthy "Fuck you"). Do I say nothing back and let him fix it? Do I accept the apology? What is the avenue to retain as much frame as possible (for him)?
We are in a relatively new time of life with me stepping down and sort of throwing him the reigns and I'd rather not slip into old habits. TRP has been good for him.
Thank you.
>>17823809
0/10
>>>/r9k/
Lol it's not healthy idc what anyone says
It's fucked
>>17823809
What do all these acronyms mean? Also what the fuck, is he beating you? Leave this chapter of your life immediately.
Girlfriend says she's been on birth control for the past five months. She wants me to finish inside her. Should I do it?
Assuming she's telling the truth
Yea
>>17823800
Do you trust her? It is literally the only thing you need to ask yourself to find your answer.
Use a condom until you can be sure.
So I swallowed a metal screw around four years old, nothing ever happened, would it still be in my stomach, and if so, is there anything to worry about?
>>17823766
Have you shown any... screw-like properties?
Yes, you're screwed.
>>17823781
All he can do now is get hammered and wait.
Qhats the line between dominance and rape?
New girl loves being dominated, but how do I know when no really means no? Honestly have feelings for her, don't wanna hurt her, but she wants a savage. I'm more than down to do it, but where's the line? How do you know?
Pic unrelated
safewords are a thing for exactly this reason
Shameless self bump
>>17823891
Did she tell you that no doesn't mean no? She might be like me and just enjoys a guy that's very take charge and a little rough. But for me no and stop mean what they mean.
I'm in love with my best (female) friend.
I know she doesn't like me back because i asked her out once a year ago and she politely refused.
Now we got close again and the feelings returned.
Worth noting she is kinda messed up: has literally no friends other than me, terribly low self esteem and kinda depressed.
It's a lose/lose situation here, because if I don't tell her I will still suffer with these bottled up feelings.
But if I tell her and she inevitably rejects me once again and lose me as a friend, she will probably kill herself.
Please help.
>>17823750
It would be better if you just kept your feelings to yourself. If she seems to like you, go for it and tell her. If you feel like you have to tell her anyway, she doesn't have to lose you as a friend if she rejects you.
>>17823750
hierarchy of needs
this girl obviously has other issues to worry about than your feelings for her
also you sound very young and immature, you use the concept of suicide so freely
grow up first, learn how to be a proper human being, your selfish take on your own feelings is clouding your judgement
relationships will come and go but some people cannot be replaced, regardless if you're dating or not
you'd be a fool to think otherwise
>>17823750
Why doesn't she like you?
It's not really a friendship if you have unrequited love for her