Recently I met this girl, and I've clicked with her better than almost every girl I've dated. We have the same tastes in everything, we can talk about anything, she's overall an awesome person. The past two weekends she had me spend the night with her and she loves my company. She said I make her anxiety go away, and I feel the same way.
The problem is I have this gut feeling that it's not going to end well. None of my relationships ever have. I haven't heard from her since yesterday morning, which isn't a big deal to me, but she's usually always talkative and I know she's been having ex issues even though he lives like 7 hours away.
She said she likes me a lot and I like her too but I'm starting to have the same hunch that I get before a girl cuts me off. Should I call it quits while I'm still early?
>>17827041
no relationships end well. there are a few sure, but those are the exceptions that prove the rule. if we lived forever, no one would stay together forever. you can't grow at the same rate as someone else for eternity.
everyone breaks up. so why break up wtih someone jsut cuz its going to happen later? wait for a real reason. it might hurt yeah, but so? it always hurts hwen things end. but a thing isn't beautiful because it lasts.
>>17827041
Go for it my dude. You have to understand every being is a different person, maybe with similar thoughts and feelings toward certain things depending on context but never the same so don't let past relationships crush this opportunity toward happiness. If she makes you feel good and you make her feel good then you need to work for that relationship to work and I'm sure she will as well on her own.
Don't overthink, don't make things worse for yourself. Process information carefully before being a reactionary. Be understanding and talk with her. Don't be me and had the same chance as you did and screw it up.
>>17827065
I'm afraid of investing my emotions into someone who is going to leave my again. I'm an emotionally charged person and it fucking blows. If stopped caring about things as much I wouldn't mind but I'm deeply afraid of getting my heart broken again.
What age is too late to try to change your life?
Dead
In some ways never
People mostly only change if they are forced to
>>17827027
34 and basically rock bottom at this point. Change is all I got left.
>>17827046 has the right of it.
Go get /fit/ guys
All my life I've been a skinny pale nerd, looked in the mirror and thought "ugh, whatever, at least I'm kind of smart and know a lot about obscure music and movies"
I started working out 2 months ago and for the first time ever I was washing my hands, and up in the mirror I saw this kind of slightly buff guy compared to myself, and I thought "wtf" for a moment. Is this me?
It was me, this is amazing, it's better than nothing. Maybe it won't fix my life, but it's a good start and if I continue this I feel my self esteem may continue to rise, it may happen for you too.
Go lift
>implying people here actually want to help themselves
>>17827031
Fair enough
Off to lift for me now.
Just remember /adv/fags. Every time chad lifts and you don't, the gap between us and him grows even bigger. So go lift
You're not just a bit behind him, you haven't even left your little race horse box
GET OUT OF YOUR BOX. YOU HAVE TO DO IT NOW, STOP WAITING OMFG WAKE THE FUCK UP
WAKE UP. Jesus. You guys (and me too) we all need a kick in the ass to get started, take this as your kick in the ass
GO START NOW. FUCK.
>>17827044
If you're fat, you CAN lose weight, it's the laws of thermodynamics literally Jesus Christ dude
If you're skinny, go lift. If you're dumb, go back to college or try harder in school
FUCK go to a therapist and learn to talk to girls
My wife says I shouldn't read manga or comics to our son
He's 6
I read him other stuff like the Jungle Book, the Call of the Wild, Treasure Island, the Pearl, To Kill a Mockingbird, Animal Farm, the Hobbit, Rikki Tikki Takki, and Huckleberry Finn
But the one time we're chilling out reading Naruto she snatches it from my hands, makes a face, and says "seriously? this crap?"
Was I doing something wrong?
Sounds lile she's rather interested in having the 'good family'
Tell her you're sorry, she's right, and continue to read Naruto with your son in secret. It'll be a bonding secret.
>>17827015
no you're not wrong. its just a comic about ninjas.
we like to make fun of the people who take things like that too seriously. despite that most of us take something too seriously. you have to remember that even if we make fun of say, /mlp/ it is an entire fandom that spawned from this very website.
and just taking something way from a kid or an adult simply because someone else views it as 'trash' is a pretty horrible thing to do. if the obsession gets unhealthy its usually /not/ because of the franchise itself, but rather the person who is using it.
there are millions of sonic fans that are / were completely normal. then there were some people who were already pretty fucking weird that found it and made ome cringe worthy fan materials, and we blame the materials instead of the person.
regardless, if you like it and your son likes it, enjoy it. majority rules, moms suck.
Ask her what she sees wrong with it. If she can't come up with anything reasonable then she's just acting irrational.
Also ask her if she has something against Asians. You may have married a bigot.
What are your experience in exchanging nudes or partially nude photos?
I'm tempted to send nudes to some guy I met off of a dating app. I want to but at the same time there's a fear of what he plans on doing with them. I've never sent nudes to anyone before, let alone been in a relationship.
>btw I'm 20
for anyone who needed further detail of the situation
>>17827013
i definitely would not send them unless i knew them and was dating them for at least a few months. guys are too eager to show off, and even if they don't show anyone they know irl, they are so likely to just share them online.
there would have to be no doubt in how much i can trust them. but that's just me.
i have sent nudes to.. 2 girls. one of them i was with for 2 years. and it was only because it started long distance (different countries). we mostly cammed together before nude photos were even a thought. the other was casual online flirty thing. we cammed, sent her a couple pictures/videos cos i trusted her a lot and she was into it.
personally i would never show anyone any of the things any girls have shown me in confidentiality. but the sad truth is most guys do not think like that. they just think 'oh fuck it sure would be nice to show off this girl to other strangers on the internet' and some of them are all 'oh man i have a huge boner thinking about those guys touching themselves to my gf'
tl;dr only do it if you are sure you can trust them. try to keep your face out of it, just as insurance.
>>17827025
I'm just unsure of what I should act upon, this isn't something that should be taken lightly but i'm having a strong urge to go along with it. The consequences don't hold a looming impression on me like they should.
Not sure if this is a good sign or not but I'm sure I might regret it if I go along with it.
I told him I might do it if he were to do the same. It would only be fair. But there's no way i'm going first. I have a feeling he would cheap out on me and not do his part.
I have poison oak all over my cock and balls, is it safe to put calamine lotion on my dick head?
>>17826965
That will just make it worse, a mix of 50/50 hydrochloric acid with water will neutralise the poison.
>>17827130
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Urushiol
"Before the urushiol has been absorbed by the skin, it can be removed with soap and water. However, time is of the essence, as 50% of the urushiol can be absorbed within 10 minutes.[citation needed] Once urushiol has penetrated into the skin, attempting to remove it with water is ineffective.[10]"
Is there a reason that you talk when you don't actually know anything?
>>17827163
>Not understanding what 5050 hydrochloric acid and water would do to skin.
That's rich.
My sister begged my mom for a dog.
My mom forks over the cash.
Forward 3 or 4 months
Sister stops walking the dog
Dog barks uncontrollably
Tell sister to walk her dog
Tells me to fuck off.
There have even been cases where she will not pick up her dogs shit, WHILE ITS LYING ON THE LIVING ROOM FLOOR! SHE JUST SITS HER FAT ASS ON THE COUCH INHALING THE FUMES EMANATING FROM THE DOG SHIT.
My mom has to get into a fight with her just so she can pick up the shit.
I'm at my wits end, I need suggestions as to how this gets solved.
Give the dog away
Not kidding
>>17826931
this. give the money your mom spent on it to her so she isnt pissed
>>17826929
Train the dog to maul your sister.
How do I get over the fact that I will never, ever have a biological older sister? I am an 18 year old male with two younger fully-related sisters (3 and 8), and it's just not the same.
>>17826907
Why do you want an older sister?
>>17826917
I don't know, to be honest. I've always yearned for an older, sisterly figure in my life. Hell, even a sibling near my age would be great, but alas.
>>17826921
Don't you have friends that can compensate it? What about your parents? You can be the older sister you want to have, would that be so bad?
My GF is currently having massive panic attacks because of an exam tomorrow. I know she'll do fine if she manages to calm down and get some studying in.
How can I help her calm down? I'm at a loss on what to do...
>>17826880
>if she manages to calm down and get some studying in.
You mean she hasn't started studying?
Share a blunt and fuck her
You can't help her calm down. You can only assure her that what she's feeling is perfectly normal. Accept her for her is the best option to help her.
anyone here lost their virginity to a prostitute? I'm thinking about doing it just to get it over with.
don't do it, you're gonna regret it
trust me, I'm a virgin
>>17826905
lol
I've done so much more things that are worse and I don't regret them much.
I did. Go for it. Nothing wrong with it and it can help you gain confidence to get girls in the future.
I'm a below average piece of shit person with little to no future prospects. I'll die ashamed and alone and my life will be one of mediocrity and suffering.
Dumb. Ugly. Crude. I'll never get laid or have a close circle of friends. I look and act like a fool, an embarrassment to my parents. I've tried self improving but I'm such a sub-par human being that I can't pull myself out of the gutter despite years of trying. I was born an idiot and will die one.
How can I even begin to accept myself and my lot in life? How can I be happy? I've thought about killing myself frequently for the past decade and I'm tired of the thought process. I need to either accept what I am and move on or just end it all.
What do? How can I even begin to enjoy a shitty life like mine, if it all?
>I need to either accept what I am and move on or just end it all
If I put a gun in your hand and asked you to choose right now what would you do
>>17826864
Inside out, bro
Right now, you're looking outside in.
IF you can get others to like you THEN you'll be happy
Fuck that
Inside out
Start with improving yourself
There are so many simple things to do to make yourself better
Cooking, exercise, reading
Do all three and you'll learn how to be, if not happy, but secure
And then people will come to you.
>>17826882
>>17826882
Inclined towards the latter, but I'd feel uneasy shooting myself without doing proper research first. Would need to shoot myself at the proper angle to get it right, I suppose?
>>17826888
Tried it, didn't work. Tried again. And again and again and again but still couldn't get very far, or get people to like me.
I really like my cousin's friend she knows from church. The girl knows I like her and she thinks I'm cute; I know this because my dipshit cousin told and asked her. My cousin is a church fag and so is the girl and I hate religion so much, but I force myself to go just to talk to her because it's the only place I can see her. I try to work up the courage to talk to her but I'm a pussy and she is always with her friends so that makes it even harder. So I asked my cousin for her Snapchat, the dumb bitch said no but I found it out anyways. So the last few days I've been thinking about just adding her on Snapchat and msging her but I think that would be really fucking weird. What do you guys think I should do?
Nah just snapchat her, if she likes you like it was said she wont mind
keep tryin to talk to her and dont do the snapchat thing that is weird very weird
who the fuck do I listen to lmao
My grandfather died last year, and my parents recently told me that he left his children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews etc. money. My brother and I both inherited $14k, as well everyone else mentioned, as well as leaving his wife $1.3m. All coming to a combined count of roughly $1.7m (give or take).
This was extremely surprising as he had lived in a small trailer in the woods his entire life, apparently investing in stocks the whole damn time.
My brother and I are both legal adults with ID's but apparently we can not access the money.
You see, the old bastard actually gave it to my parents and basically told them "Give it to them when you feel like it". He was complicated even in death, the old fart.
I'm trying to use the money for college, but my bastard of a father said "Why the hell would you need OVER $14k for JUST two years in college? Back in my day college was only $20k for four years!" Back in his day would be 1979 (he's an old prick that didn't even go to college) $20k these days was roughly $65k back then.
Basically, this old bastard thinks I'm trying to swindle him out of my own damn money.
What the fuck do I do, /adv/?
Talk to an estate lawyer you stupid fuck.
Show your father the invoice or some sort of estimate of fees, obviously
>>17826807
I showed him the estimations, he thinks they're fake.
He's legitimately an assbackwards redneck that has been driving trucks his whole goddamn life.
He didn't even finish high-school. I'd have a better chance of teaching him college mathematics by beating him over the head with a fucking brick.
The issue is that the money is not legally mine, instead my grandfather just wished it would be given to me. Stubborn old man.
Guys, how do I ask a girl out? There's this really cute girl I know in one of my classes, and our last class together is this wednesday, since finals is the following week. I'm tired of being a loser, how do I ask her out?
>>17826765
well, you could talk to her. i never recommend doing so over the phone.
maybe try to be creative, like asking her in with something she likes, or perhaps something she's really into.
maybe mention a get together, and see what she says, and if all else fails, just ask up front.
Before you ask her out you should feel comfortable talking to her.
Go up to her, think of a reason to communicate with her, have a short casual conversation, then merge the conversation towards flirting. Bring up the idea of getting together sometime, and if she agrees, ask when she is free. If she doesn't give you a definite time she's free, ask her again in a week. If she still says maybe or no, you gotta walk away. Rejected twice means stop pursuing.
When she agrees to meeting somewhere on set day and time, ask her for her number in case something comes up so you can text her, but that otherwise you'll just meet her at the date.
Don't fear rejection. It's going to happen, no matter who you are. The more girls you ask out, the less rejection will effect you. Change your mindset.
>>17826778
I mean, I have tlaked to her before and she's smiled and all. It's just, everytime we do talk after class she leaves like she's in a rush to get to her dorm. Today for example, i was going to talk to her, but she sped out of class so fast, I couldn't catch her. What do?
Not even sure if I'm asking the right question, but here goes nothing.
I have been receiving similar "criticism" about me from female friends, ex girlfriends even random women that they aren't interested in sex when it comes to me. They've said I'm still attractive, have a decent personality, fun to be around or whatever. Some claimed the reason they had sex with me was because they were in love, felt obligated or that I was available. Last time I was hanging out with one of my exs and she even iniated a kiss but refused sex. What does this all even mean?
For the most part generally women see men as hook up material, date able and not fuckable
You're the date able one
To be the fuckable one just workout and treat girls more non chalant
Get a tribal tattoo and a motorcycle.
>>17826766
I've seen way to many cases where that is not true at all.