I asked a girl why her spelling was not so great, and she told me it was because English isnt her first language. Now she is upset at me for judging her or some shit. Should i just ignore this?
>>17826731
middle school
"hey why r u so dumb"
>english isn't my first language asshole
"I didnt judge you"
>>17826731
Tell her that this is the reason trump is building the wall.
So my new girlfriend was a bit of a slut. She puts this down to low self esteem and I can live with it. But there's something that's really bothering me, causing me sleepless nights and I don't know why.
She had sex with a guy, and he humiliated her by posting about it online, posting that he only wanted sex and to stop messaging him etc. He also bragged to his friends that he could treat her how he wanted and she would still go back to him. He then invited her round for sex again, and she went. After all that.
Is it normal for me to find this story so frustrating? How could you let another person treat you like that and still go round just to please him?
By the way, she says that when she was there she realised that she shouldn't be, and shouted at him and left. She intended to have sex before going though. I don't know how much of a difference this makes.
>>17826722
>How could you let another person treat you like that and still go round just to please him?
Same reason guys stay friends with or agree to be FWB with girls who they want to date but don't want to date them: "it's better than nothing".
Also lack of self esteem and self respect.
Sounds like she values an orgasm more than her self-respect.
I wouldn't date her. I had problems with my ex of four years because she had one casual hook up before we met and she constantly tried justifying it when she heard someone say it's slutty to hook up with people.
Eventually her insecurity got to me and I had to tell her off.
You can always look past someone's flaws if you love them, but if it's a constant struggle I recommend you dump her and wait for a more compatible woman to come into your life.
Don't stick it in crazy OP
Even when I'm super tired, I spend what it feels like nearly an hour tossing and turning, and I just get distracted by so many thoughts, I tried counting sheep and listening to cooling major but nothing seems to work
>>17826714
Anyone?
get a job or start working out
>>17826714
Fucking this. I suffered from insomnia for years. Reasons:
- Never did any fucking sport back then (lately I haven't been doing either, alas), then I started swimming.
- Barely any friends
- TFW no girlfriend
- Family problems
This went on through years, then my life improved and suddenly insomnia left my life.
What also helped me is listening to audio books and podcasts, I would always fall asleep on them. Try shit books like The Hobbit and I guarantee you will sleep in 15 mins.
GOD i just wanna F*CKING sleepalready!!!
>>17826700
Then stop posting on on a Himalayan nipple-hair weaving forum, you faggot.
DONT TEL;L ME WHAT TO F*CKING DO IDIOT
>>17826711
fine, go to sleep baka
I have a meeting tomorrow to discuss an open position at another company. It is not a formal interview, just a sit-down at coffee to see if my background fits, and they can see if I'm interested in what they have to offer.
I just realized my suits are not clean and will not be able to take them to the cleaners in time.
Is the outfit in the picture, with a nice pair of jeans and grey dress shoes, appropriate for a discussion about the role they have available?
If not, any suggestions knowing I don't have a suit available?
I'd say even the coat is too much. Nice pants and a business shirt, perhaps a tie, should be fine. Wear a coat if it's cold, but take it off when you get there
>>17826692
It's cold, cold enough that I'd wear it to work anyways.
It'll be in a Starbucks, so not much room to take off a coat and properly put it somewhere.
>>17826708
Just put it on the back of your chair. If there isn't even room for that, unbutton it at least. This is really just logistics stuff, to really answer your question: yes, pic related is fine. No jeans though, dress pants. If you're a little worried, make sure that everything colour coordinates properly.
Hey everyone, I just need to talk, anyone want to?
Pic kinda related
Hey there. How are you doing?
>>17826672
Hey anon, pretty good, just a lot of shit on my mind. You?
We're here for you, famalam. I desperately need to talk to someone too, but I have my role as an immovable rock to too many people.
How do I stop masturbating /adv/
I think the root of the problem is that I use it as a stress release and also I have a pretty obsessive personality. A recurring thought I have often is the remorse of how many opportunities for sex I missed out on during adolescence and pubescence due to naivety. When I have those thoughts I always feel compelled to masturbate. I masturbate 2-3 times a day sometimes more. It's starting to really eat away at me and I've felt the benefits for myself doing no-fap but I've only ever been able to go a week before relapsing. I really can't afford to masturbate any more because I'm training for professional boxing and I know if I don't keep my semen in me I won't have the willpower it takes to be successful in the sport
Please /Adv/ice, masturbating is eating away at my life. What do I need to do to stop.
>>17826639
pick a day, masturbate as there was no future and stop masturbating there after.
The way to manage this is trying to spend as little time as possible by your own.
>>17826639
I used to masturbate 5+ times a day what I did to stop is occupy myself with other things like reading, going over to friends houses,music, and walks.Walks REALLY help
Keep busy. Less time on the internet really helps.
I'm the heaviest I've ever been. My friends say I'm carrying it better than I did last time I hit a high number, but I'm miserable.
I found two pills, Doctor's Select Weight Loss 4 and Xenadrine Ultimate Weight Loss, that seem to do things the othet doesn't; the only similarity is metabolism increase.
I want to take them both. Does anyone have any more insight into these? My friend is worried I'll have seizures, because a different pill gave her seizures a year ago.
Don't be a moron. If these pills actually worked and had little/no serious side effects, don't you think landwhales and hamplanets everywhere would be taking them? Don't you think that the obesity epidemic would be over?
>>17826615
Well, I'm too broke for Lipo and now my work schedule has me up from before sunrise to after sunset. I'm wiped and getting bigger and I don't know why.
Inb4 pregnancy. No one's touched this in the last 50 pounds.
>>17826625
Okay, take these pills. Just don't complain when your liver and kidneys fail. It's your life, and if you don't know when to put the fork down and get up off your fat ass, it's not my problem.
What if you don't need to shit for more than a week? Not constipation, just not needing to shit.
Is that something to be worried about or is it just my body consuming everything i eat and doesn't have any excess food to throw out?
what does your normal diet look like?
when i was at my poorest, I would shit once every 2-3 days. thats roughly $25 a week for food. are you starving or eating like a hog? if its the latter and you arent shitting for 7 days, you need to ask someone wtf is going on.
do you burn a metric fuckton of calories everyday doing activities?
>>17826873
in between, i'm not starving but i'm not eating every 10 mins, i don't really exercise, maybe a week is over doing it a little, it's kinda weekly, but sometimes it goes over a week.I don't think it's ever gone past 3 weeks though.
>>17826886
>i dont think its ever gone past 3 weeks
if you are shitting that infrequently you either need to google an answer that makes you feel secure about your problem or go to your doctor.
Wo i just had sex with this girl and I'm about to have sex with another girl. How do i remove the smell of latex from my dick?
Bump for solutions
>>17826590
Just wash your dick
Stop being a sloot
Anyone have a significant other in the military? I'm having trouble deciding if I can handle this life.
>>17826518
>significant other
I hate this word. Only reddit uses it
>>17826518
What is your situation? Are you thinking of joining and unsure how your relationship will go, is your partner thinking of joining, or are you in the early stages of a relationship with someone who is already in?
>>17826566
My boyfriend of over three years just left for basic a month ago. We talked about it, but it was ultimately his decision. Going from talking every day and living together to him being 10 states away and unable to talk has been rough on me. He told me he wants to marry me after basic, before he left but I'm just unsure how everything is going to work out. I know most are based in state but I'm worried about him being deployed as well since that's always a possibility..
>dieting
>eat maybe half as much as I used to
I haven't taken a shit in probably 5 days. I used to shit once a day every day.
Will it be all good?
>>17826512
Can't speak for your shitting habits but suddenly halving your diet isn't a good idea. It should be incremental.
>>17826512
Sudden first change upsets the bowels
You should be having a daily movement regardless of how much you eat. Only thing that should change is the amount of poo you're dropping at once.
Get some senna laxatives and drink an absolute shit ton of water. Your body will eventually adjust back to normal movements
>>17826512
go on /fit/ and read the sticky.
Don't starve yourself it doesn't work.
I'm in my mid 20s and I have my first girlfriend. She's also in her mid 20s. What do I get her for christmas?
>>17826503
Why do you think that random Internet people know your girlfriend better than you do? If you're completely clueless, there is always money. Everybody loves money.
Do you talk to her sometimes? Did she ever mentioned shit she likes? Or how she hates presents?
What would you get my 20 year old sister for her birthday op
LIKE HOW YOU SUPPOSED TO ANSWER THAT
>>17826521
a horse mask
Hey /adv/, i'm a guy, i'm 23, i've been in a 3 year relationship that is already too damaged and with no repair.
The problem started when my best friend and i fell in love with each other and i cheated on my gf. It never was with physical intentions although they happened eventually. My friend thought she was going to be the one. So i kept lying at her telling her that i was single no, but, two months ago, she saw me with my gf and she got mad. I cut every contact with her and now.
Now i regret this like i've never done. She was the one, guys. I was too afraid to hurt my GF and i never took a decision. Now my friend is with another man (virtual relationship though) and she doesn't feel nothing for me anymore. I was her super crush for years and i screwed it up. She was perfect, damn.
What can i do to overcome this? I can't stop crying for her everytime and it's all my fault, i know there is nothing i can do to get her back.
Never be afraid to do what your heart wants just because you are afraid.
I learned the lesson.
Shameful self bump
>>17826490
>What can i do to overcome this?
suffer miserably for awhile and then find a new gal to fall in love with
and don't fuckup next time
you seem to realize you fucked this up and it all started just as friends with some other gal
don't do that shit, that is why males/females have problems being "friends" when they are dating married etc
>>17827201
But for you, is there any possibilty to get her back? I mean, not now, but i have this stupid miserable hope to meet her again in the future. I don't want to bother her in this new relationship but i really... Love her, man.
Alright I need some advice.
I'm in community college about to transfer to a university next fall.
I live an hour away from the university I'm attending.
I don't know if I should find an apartment closer to it or if I should just stick here in my hometown.
I mean I'm only gonna be there for a year and a half since I'm finishing early.
I know an hour of commute is long but I don't really feel motivated to finding an apartment off-campus if I'm not gonna be there for 2 full years.
>>17826408
Find a closer apartment, 2 hours of commuting every day will eat your soul. t. Drove an hour each way to university for two years.
>>17826408
1 hour isn't too bad, stop being a pussy. I commute about around 1:40 - 2 hours a day so around 4 hours in total a day.
Closer means more pussy and friends