I have been on a date with this girl 3 times now, what we have - /adv/ - Advice

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2016-12-05 04:23:52 Post No. 17824064
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Anonymous 2016-12-05 04:23:52 Post No. 17824064 [Report]

I have been on a date with this girl 3 times now, what we have done have basically been "hanging out", went to see a movie, going out eating and played some vidya games at my place. However I have never even tried to kiss her, the most I have done is giving hug every time we met.

Is this bad? These are my first dates ever, I have never had a gf before and I'm a virgin. I have no idea on how to kiss at all, I have never done it, not even on the cheeks or something and I'm too nervous to just "try". I feel like I'm just gonna fail, look retarded and leave her face or mouth filled with saliva.

Also I'm worried that she will get tired of me because I'm not making a move, and she expects me to do it because that's what girls expect of guys.

However she agreed to meet again next week but I feel like this is just a matter of time. Would you stop to date a guy if he dosent initiates?

Anonymous 2016-12-05 05:17:10 Post No.17824232
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Anonymous 2016-12-05 05:17:10 Post No.17824232 [Report]

If she didn't ditch you already then she probably likes you so just make a move at next date I guess cause yeah she will lose interest and/or think u dont like her.

Anonymous 2016-12-05 05:19:14 Post No.17824241
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>>17824064
Those aren't dates. Surprise her and say something like "hey there a new restaurant in town. Friday night at 7 we're going there for dinner. Dress nice too." Pic related.

Anonymous 2016-12-05 05:20:27 Post No.17824249
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Anonymous 2016-12-05 05:20:27 Post No.17824249 [Report]

>>17824241
This guy is dumb and wrong

Anonymous 2016-12-05 05:20:50 Post No.17824251
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Anonymous 2016-12-05 05:20:50 Post No.17824251 [Report]

Are these even dates? I'd be questioning it if he hadn't flirted or tried to make a move.

Anonymous 2016-12-05 05:21:58 Post No.17824254
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Anonymous 2016-12-05 05:21:58 Post No.17824254 [Report]

If it feels like it's right, go for it. every relationship is different man. don't worry stressing about it for no reason is dumb.

Anonymous 2016-12-05 05:30:39 Post No.17824278
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Anonymous 2016-12-05 05:30:39 Post No.17824278 [Report]

If you're nervous about giving a slimy kiss, just try to take a sip or two of water beforehand. That way your mouth is fresh.

Anonymous 2016-12-05 05:41:55 Post No.17824306
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Anonymous 2016-12-05 05:41:55 Post No.17824306 [Report]

>>17824232
I guess, feels so annoying to be the guy in this.

>>17824251
We hold hands when we went to the cinema and I had her on my lap when where gaming. I think she knows I like her.

>>17824278
Like I'm in my 20s and never done it, I know first time I do it with a girl its gonna be really bad, I don't know if this girl will accept that.

Anonymous 2016-12-05 06:22:14 Post No.17824410
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Anonymous 2016-12-05 06:22:14 Post No.17824410 [Report]

>>17824306
>I don't know if this girl will accept that

She will appreciate you more actually doing something that worrying yourself about whether or not you'll be good at it.

It doesn't matter that you don't have experience. Because no one starts with experience. What matters is that you try. Never even attempting because you're worried it's going to be bad is the only way to lose here.

It is a good thing that you value her opinion. If you want her to enjoy herself with you, you need to communicate about what each of you likes. Who knows. Maybe she'll have some advice about how to make your kissing better. I'd guess that you're the type of person who'd be pretty happy to take that advice. And look at that. Now you're a great kisser. But none of this happened because this is 40 steps ahead. None of this will happen if you don't first try.