What the fuck should I do?
Pls halp
Have fun
Whether male or female, please take a bath and shave wherever you want your partner to put their mouth on.
>>17821031
fucking this
please do it
Hello, /adv/. To all the guys here: eould you mind having a depressed, lonely, weeb girl as a friend? Asking for a friend.
>>17821010
*as a girlfriend
My bad.
>>17821010
>>17821012
if she was qt
>>17821010
Yes i would mind. I always thought a quiet, neurotic would be nice to have but they're a fucking nightmare.
Why is this picture so true?
>>17820993
Except it's not
Who told you it's true? wtf
Because all women posses an intense desire to be dominated.
my gf broke up with me because I "lack sartorial conviction".
what the fuck is this supposed to mean? am I the only person this has ever happened to or do I need to change something to not nuke future relationships?
>>17820961
no way we can tell unless you post your pics :)
otherwise that seems kind of lame reason to break up which means the real reason she broke up with you is
1. she met somebody better
2. something else she doesn't like about you
3. she's a ditz
but it really doesn't matter just go meet somebody new !
good luck
sartorial refers to men's clothing and high fashion
if she broke up with you because you don't wear the right clothes than she's a cunt and nothing of value was lost
if she didn't know what the word meant and said it to sound sophisticated then she's a cunt and nothing of value was lost
otherwise i guess your fashion sense really must be atrocious lol
>>17820961
>sartorial
sartorial
sɑːˈtɔːrJəl/
adjective
adjective: sartorial
relating to tailoring, clothes, or style of dress.
"sartorial elegance"
It means you dress like an autist and need to improve it.
This may sound like a dumb question, but what does it mean when a guy says i'm interesting?
If you are pretty girl it means he wants sexual intercourse. This is not a joke.
>>17820876
Interesting.
But what if I told you that I've been told that by a person I had a story with a year ago and we both have moved one since then?
Hearthbreak was kinda involved.
>>17820890
I'm not sure why an ex would tell you're 'interesting'.
So, my relationship with my boyfriend has been rocky over the past several years. By that I mean, we've been together for 6 years. About 4 years ago, I caught him talking to a girl in Europe. They seemed to have some sort of online relationship. Mainly flirting, she sent him pics and videos. And at the time I found out, he was planning to meet up with her because she was going to visit our state.
When I found out, I lost it, confrontation happened. Boyfriend was a total dick about it. I was very weak at the time of this. I told him to delete her and he refused at first. Later, he apologized, said it wasn't right, deleted her. That was the end of that.
Then, this past summer, I found out something similar was going on with a girl he dated online before me . It seemed less intimate, very obvious flirting tho and they talked on the phone at night. He shouted to high heavens that she's just his friend now.
I wasn't having this shit again. I dumped him. He came back to me, crying his fucking eyes out. Telling me he'll delete her, have no contact, etc. I took him back.
Fast forward to today, I was scrolling through instagram, and found that my boyfriend had added both of these women to his instagram (both of them within the last day).
The shit has been eating at me all day, and I was thinking about how to confront him about it. I'm angry, resentful, and our relationship has been fine as far as I know (no decline in sex life, always intimate, we're always laughing with each other, we go out often), so I don't know why he's doing this.
Well, just as the day was ending and we were heading back to my place, my bf gets a call from his mother saying that their family dog has passed away. My boyfriend was heartbroken, crying his eyes out, etc. because he was very attached to his dog. I honestly cried with him when he found out. I felt so bad for him because we both love animals.
I'm feeling a mix of emotions here. How do I even handle these problems all at once?
>>17820859
Also, we cancelled our plans for the night so my bf can spend it with his family.
I'm thinking, do I wait a couple of weeks or days or whenever he gets over this? Then do I confront him?
The issue is, even though it's just a "follow" or whatever, I'm honestly just gonna assume he's talking to them again. My bf thinks he's sneaky. I wouldn't doubt for a moment it's back to the same shit again. He disrespects me when he does this. He claims that talking to girls and receiving pics from them isn't cheating whenever I catch him. And I want to leave him. If he claims he is happy with me, then there is no need for a relationship with these girls. Especially after he promised he wouldn't contact them.
shameful self bump
This is so horrible. I am sorry you are going through this OP.
I would wait a day and just calmly ask him about him adding them again.
Something like:
I know you've just lost (dog) and you are having a bad week but the other day, I noticed you added Whore X and Whore Y to instagram. Is there something you are not happy with in the relationship? Are you feeling like you want to be single?
Try this approach OP. It's hard as fuck to remain calm when you want to rip his eyeballs out for being a shady cunt but get him to talk to you so you can understand why he keeps adding and talking to these women.
So I'm an average looking guy, 17, who is really confused. I'm 5'9", have a good number of friends, and get along with most people pretty well.
My problem is that I can't seem to get a girlfriend. Sure, I flirted with a girl or two, but they always talked to me less and less and I got 'friendzoned' over time.
Seeing as I apparently have no idea what I;m doing, any advice? How do I talk to a girl I like, because I either end up a.) being embarrased when a girl seems into me and freeze up and not know what to do
or b.) realize that they aren't interested in me.
I've heard people tell me I'm cute, etc.. but I can't seem to follow through and let a girl know how I feel. How do I do that without screwing up?
I can submit a picture of myself if that would help at all.
Thank you internets.
>>17820802
>So I'm an average looking guy, 17, who is really confused.
You are confused: Board is 18+.
18+
>>17820802
Ask a girl out on a date. The longer you wait to do so, the higher chance she thinks you just want to be friends. If a girl likes you, she will know just as soon as you know you like her. Just ask her out go on a date. Go eat icecream, hold her hand. Go sit on a park bench, put your arm over her shoulder, sit close, engage in deep conversation looking her in the eyes, move closer. If she is not into you, then she will bail at any point in the process. If she doesn't bail, keep going.
also use embarrassing moments to come across as charming by pointing it out and laughing at it. Nobody is perfect, and girls spend most of their time self-judging to really give a fuck if you freeze up for a moment.
What's better,
Having your heart broken to the point you trust nobody
Having never loved
Boredom is better than despair.
>>17820709
Hmmmm...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jo3zAdXM4Tk
>>17820701
Having your heart broken. Being in love was amazing, and im glad it happened.
Survey
1) Have you ever cheated
2) Have you ever been cheated on
3) Gender
>no
>not that i know of
>male
>>17820583
> Have you ever cheated
No.
>Have you ever been cheated on
Yes
>Gender
Female
I have been "the other woman" without knowing it, tho.
1) Have you ever cheated
yes
2) Have you ever been cheated on
no
3) Gender
female
>>17820604
whores gonna whore
Is anyone a stonemason here?
I'd like to start an apprenticeship, just wanting to ask if its worth it ?
It's something that I think I would love to do.
The pay must be quite low though if I'm correct..?
>>17820577
>It's something that I think I would love to do.
>just wanting to ask if its worth it ?
You answered your own question. Are you that dense that you cannot make that judgment by yourself?
>>17820581
well it's always better to ask beforehand
>>17820589
You mean its always better to seek validation for the things you would like to do because you cant overcome your insecurity? is that what you mean?
Go ask on DIY, this board is filled with sadfaggots and pussies.
If theres even a single stonemason here then hes busy making a thread on why his GF left him for big dick Tyrone.
Is it cheating to talk about sex related things with someone other than your SO?
By sex related things do you just mean talking about your sex life with friends or saying "I wish I could fuck you so hard" to your co worker.
Asking the important questions >>17820633
>>17820574
Yes. Also saying you wish you were rich is theft and calling someone names is murder
Hi /adv/, I'm 18, and since childhood I've lost all but one or two pleasures. I used to love watching movies and TV shows as a kid, and now they do nothing for me. I really liked video games too, but now they're just dull entertainment instead of actually fun. I liked anime when I saw it as a kid, but now I don't care. Even compliments and conversations don't affect me anymore. I tried STEM fields and philosophy, but still, nothing came out of it. The only thing I still like is music.
I thought this was normal, but I realized today that most people still like those things. This change was very gradual (I stopped liking movies before puberty), so I assumed it was natural. Now I feel it must be the result of some mental condition. I looked it up, and apparently I have Anhedonia, a key symptom of depression. I don't feel depressed, though: just very bored. Still I was told to get a diagnosis.
What do you guys think? Could it still be depression even though I don't fit most of the symptoms?
Perhaps you should embark on the dangerous journey of finding things that satisfy you. Something any well adjusted individual takes on several times during their life.
As somebody who was there in the exact same situation where you are right now, I can safely say that this search took me around 3 to 4 years until I finally got it.
That and I stopped over exaggerating my situation and also topped turning dumb things into big problems.
Honestly, I just think you are a child going through the faggot phase.
Good luck.
>>17820568
I've looked around a lot and everything is similarly boring. I've tried every hobby with a big number of followers, and nothing comes of it. Even still the number of things I do give a shit about shrinks by the year. Only enjoying one activity in life is a pretty big problem, don't you think?
What got you out of this phase?
>>17820586
Trying, searching, time and not being a big pussy in general.
Oh but you want everything to be solved by tomorrow dont you? Probably wont happen.
>Only enjoying one activity in life is a pretty big problem
You are 18. You are a child. You, at least, have around 50 years left if you dont die in a car crash or get killed before hand by some nigger or disease.
So I watched the synopsis to a horror game and I literally feel as if it has given me too much existential dread to handle.
Last night I slept with my laptop playing podcasts because being alone with my thoughts was too unpleasant an ordeal to suffer through. I would wake up every one and a half hours in a haze. I think I got like 4 hours sleep.
Tonight I don't want to endure the same as I have work tomorrow. What should I do.
try to sleep, maybe the problem will continue for a few days but the fear will fade away with time?
What other kind of response were you expecting retard?
>>17820540
A good way to fall asleep without those 15 minutes of vivid thought in the darkness.
what's the name of the game?
Is this some kind of viral marketing campaign?
https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/5g9s4k/this_female_sex_predator_is_confronted_by/daqwkpo/
Can you blame this guy for thinking like this?
Imagine if some tranny matched with you on tinder, looked exactly like a girl and when you got down to it you see her penis
I would be so fucking furious, and I don't think theres anything wrong with that. she lied to you basically...
people have told me im being transphobic, mfw
I would be ecstatic.
>>17820533
why are you linking us to reddit of all places?
sage
Why do we keep calling mentally ill males ''she's''?
Hey all,
I moved to a flat nearer my work so I could actually travel into the offices daily (was kind of the deal breaker to sign me on fulltime), and I absolutely love what I do and I wouldn't want to change it.
Problem is, I've very quickly started to realise that my living and rent costs are absolutely hammering me down, to the point where I'm literally shit scared I'm going to be dead broke and not even able to eat very very imminently - with some bills still leftover.
Been looking online for evening and weekend jobs in my area to squash in around current, but they all require driving -- I can't afford to keep a car.
Does anyone know of literally anything I can legitimately do to make just a bit of cash on the side to tide me over? I'd probably suck homeless peoples dicks if I knew it'd at least pay something.
I'm experienced with Adobe products and I have a degree in Journalism and English, not that that's helped fuck all
Cheers
There are websites that will pay you to teach people how to speak English. Your english and journalism degree might help you with that. Google around and see what's out there.
So I recently met this really nice girl online (Lives about 4 hours away), we hit it off really well sharing alot of interest and really amazing synergy and she's very receptive to being intimate with me, we've grown real close over the past 5 days that we've known each other.
She's got a best friend online for only 2 months, who she spends all her time with whenever he's there (all from the US but talk online) she denies that It's a relationship and says she's open for a new relationship, she's not against the idea of us meeting too.
We've been very honest with each other, and she's made it known that whenever her best friends and his friends are there she's going to be with them. The problem is she says she really wants to talk to me and seems very into me and yet spends all her time elsewhere, I know I shouldn't immediately be the center of her life but I'm feeling like a low priority since she only comes to talk to me when they all go to sleep, I've been trying to figure out if there's something real here or I'm just being used or something.
Talking to her is really excellent and we're two smart people.. Both 20.
Did anyone experience this before? should I be worried or keep pursuing her for now?
Does your flat have enough room for a roommate? Are there any people looking for roommates near your workplace? See if you can become a tutor as well. Check out craigslist for part time work and the gigs and labor section for jobs that may work with your schedule. You can offer services as a dog walker or pet sitter. Get a slow cooker and get potatoes and rice for soups. Google recipes for meals made with 99cent store foods.Cut off cable if you have it. See if you can be added to someone's cell plan instead of being on your own plan. Good luck!