Quick question.

safewords are a thing for exactly this reason

Shameless self bump

>>17823891
Did she tell you that no doesn't mean no? She might be like me and just enjoys a guy that's very take charge and a little rough. But for me no and stop mean what they mean.

>>17823891
What for you got the answer
>>17823772


At least reply to it

>>17823772
>>17823910
Fair enough.

It'll be our first time. I don't want to "break the illusion", so to speak, by asking for a safe word. I know what I can do, but I don't know exactly what she's expecting.

I've done this with other women, not giving a damn. But I do here, in this relationship.


If it's as simple as "dont be a bitch, go for it", then let me know. Just dont wanna Fuck up a good thing.

> I don't want to "break the illusion",
It's better to ruin a sexual fantasy than someone's life due to a misunderstanding.
You should always know if someone's consenting.

>>17824010
Very good point, actually. Thanks.

>>17823991
sup
>>17823772 here
you don't ask for it
you just say "safeword is pineapple. got it?" and carry on after she nods or says she understands or whatever
takes 2 seconds
make it work ;)

This >>17825036

It's not hard and it's the safe thing to do. Do it to avoid potential problems, it won't ruin anything.