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Guys:

How do I breach the subject of wanting to move to another state to my live-in boyfriend? He's not financially ready to do so, but I got extended an offer to room with a cousin in a state with a better job market. I've been unemployed since June, so I'm willing to try anything to get work.

What's the most caring, sensitive way to say this without him thinking that I'm trying to break up with him?

girls:

why the fuck am i getting attention from sluts now that i have a gf. 2 girls from hs i knew randomly hmu to hang out this weekend they both have me on fb and insta so they i have a gf. And even when i go out i catch girls looking at me. this NEVER happend when i was single

>>17819779
I'm a guy, but it's probably the fact that if they know you have a girlfriend they know that there is a girl out there who wants to date you, which already separates you from all the sad loner types.

>>17819340
Find smth else in life that gives you what u seek by watching porn

>>17819340
Well... stop watching porn.

But as in every addition I would say:
- do it less
- watch only soft porn
If you are watching dwarfs shitting 20 times a day just do it step by step.

Not OP but fuck I think I need help as well.

I masturbate like fucking 5+ times a day, and am starting to get a huge porn collection. (It is at 300GB right now)

Send a pic with a closed mouth smile

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>>17819147

you look pretty coiffed man. grin could be seen as shit-eating but I dont know what your personality is actually like. what I can tell from your fashion sense makes me think you have some degree of social competence

what type of girl are you into? you could probably get the pre-professional/yuppie type pretty easily. my only tip would be to maybe put some more muscle on

Ask her where she learned those things.

>>17818356
nah probably learn it from the mothers new boyfriend or from having access to the internet.

kids are naturally really curious. accusations can be catastrophic, so make very -very- sure about what you think may be going on before you make any actions. I remember being 5-6 years old and talking about sex and genitals just out of curiosity and because it was funny.

>>17818186
Forgot to include given, sorry.

>>17818186
cut your losses, you paid $20 to know your friend is a piece of shit, stop being his friend

general advice, when you lend money to someone, make sure you can afford to not have it paid back. Sometimes people are assholes, like your situation

>>17818214
This. This was a good cheap lesson to learn. Mine cost me thousands.

>>17813558

I want a PS4 Pro

Something about these threads feel better than posting in the "Write a letter to someone who will never read it" threads, I don't know why.

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>>17813571
Because autism I reckon

Imagine you go up to a woman in real life and say

"Something about posting in one 4chan thread vs another feels so much better, you ever feel that way?"

There is nothing wrong with feeling depressed. You don't have to be happy 24/7

>>17822007

What are you depressed about? Or do you just feel sad in general.

When you say at the time of writing this makes me think it's a temporary thing and you go in and out of this kind of feeling so unfortunately you will have to just endure it until it passes. Maybe listen to music or cry or whatever you need to do to speed the process along.

>>17822016
I have something to study for a test, but i don't know which pages should i read. Should i do it?

>>17821970
Just go for a decent girl who's not going to manipulate you and live happily ever after treating each other well?
Contrary to popular belief on here, it's not nice to be an asshole. And there's a difference between wanting to be a nice person to the girl you're dating (a good way to maintain your relationships) and being a cuck.

>>17822002
I dunno man, It feels like I'm the last man on the earth. Everybody around have moved on past moralfaggotory. Just the thing of the past. Maybe it's better to change and adapt.

>>17821970
You are still salvageable at least you do get girls in the first place.

You just want to work on being less emotionally and financially attached

>>17821895
Check synthesia out,find songs u like with piano and see their tutorials at youtube,learn basic music theory.After knowing theory,the notes u ll see at every song make much more sense

I dont play piano but I guess you should watch some youtube tutorials for the basic techniques.
After that buy etude books and play through them. there are a lot of piano schools with several volumes. Play the traditional stuff when you are good enough. Classical music is GOAT.

>>17821926
I know

I'm keen for that refined female pussy.

>>17821875
Long time lsd user here, I've traveled the USA and been to a ton of festivals. I used to be terrified of acid until I tried it, only take 1 hit ok? It will be magical, and you can still think clearly and control yourself while on acid. Everything just feels very happy and loving and you giggle a lot. It truly will change your life for the better. Lsd is an amazing drug. Dont be afraid!

>>17821901
yea ive always wanted to give lsd a go but my only long free time to try it is at this festival. Mind you i've been to defqon sober so i know what to expect in terms of festival experience and large amount of people. Only thing is whats the come down like if i were to take both molly and lsd

>>17821875
why do you need that stuff to enjoy a festival.
Thats weird.
You can dance without mdma

>>17821863
Shit is about to hit the fan.

This girl is using you. You make her feel good etc but first of all this is only temporary and she knows it. As soon as the initial romance is gone (it will eventually fade away, it is natural) she will lose any interest to you and she will move on faster than you would ever expect.

She made it clear that she is not going to commit into your relationship at all.

So, IMO, you should just take this relation for what it is and not rise up your expectations about it. In fact you have to be ready for it to end at any time by her suddenly losing interest to you.

You have to know that girls really do have a different mind and that they can very easily and unscrupulously do things such as cuddling or being very intimate, have sex etc with people for which they do not have any special feelings for. All that matters is that this person makes her feel good in the moment. With girls, it is not about you, it is not about your couple, no, it is about themselves.

>>17821889

I thought about that. But she really seems like she's trying her best not to get feelings for me but does so anyway.

I'm probably prepared to lose her. I mean at least I try, like you said, I will probably be heartbroken anyway because I'm a weak romantic shit. But yeah, I guess it is probably the best to expect the worst.
Something in me just hopes that she either asks me to come with her, or that we can hit it off when she's back. My biggest hope is still her getting feelings or seeing that it doesn't matter in what situation we met, but that it matters that we met.

But oh well, you sound too reasonable, besides the using you - because hell, I'm using her in some sort also, because she gives me good feelings, she is great in bed, and in all regards perfect for me atm, but I still try to date other girls as long as she doesn't make her mind up - so nothing wrong with her getting romance and emotional closeness from me.

I guess I have to achieve some mindset that says "Fuck it, it's nice as long as it lasts."

She didn't expect to meet you at this time and she may be afraid to be hurt. See how it goes. If you get closer, you'll be emotionally invested in each other, and if it doesn't work, you will have tried

Probably some insecurities about intimacy when it comes to sex

>>17821840
But the thing is I've never acted out on this, I figure the women would find it degrading. And I've had a healthy sex life with no insecurities or inhibitions at all

>>17821833
Probably just in to necripholla and that is next best thing.

>>17821817
Sleep for at least 30 mins.

Morning*, I should mention. My bad.

>>17821817
>Sunday
>Night
>SUN
>DAY
>NIGHT

>>17821782
smoke all the time or just rethink that shit when sober

It'll hardly ever get to that level but you can take things from that state and transfer them to real life

Just close your eyes and imagine yourself ducked up in the past and how you felt
Do this a shit load of times and you keep a bit of that swagger

>>17821782
So you want to get drunk and or high without drugs. Sadhguru man. Decalcify your penial gland and travel inwards. Have an enjoy yourself.

I got diagnosed with ADD this year and went on ritalin for a while, but decided to stop

sure it made me work a little more effectively (obsessively) but my social skills went down, I felt a lot more tense, I'd sweat more and when it wore off I felt extremely depressed

it wasn't even a high dose, 30 mg max a day

>>17821798
I already have problems with MUH DEPRESSION MUH ANXIETY though, maybe you'll do better if you're more stable

>>17821664
Shit rots your brain kid. Sell your Ritalin if you have weak morals or ethics. destroy your Ritalin if you are a good person. Meditate, eat better and then better and ezcersize. Practicing focus will help you focus(meditation)