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Best way to find cool girls to talk to?I want a girl I can be friends or more with that's into stuff like games and anime. I only know one and she's awesome but I'm pretty sure she's taken and I'm not really sure how to ask without fucking up our friendship
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Often girls (and guys) like that are very closed in and usually neets. Girls are more likely to go to expos and cosplay though.
The girl that I met who likes gaming and anime, I met at a managing anxiety course. It makes sense because a large majority of us are socially inept in some shape or form.
Tbh she'd be the ultimate girlfriend but she's a self-proclaimed asexual lesbian, so meh. She's a really good friend though.
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>>17824708
I'm going to a con soonish but I feel that if I just try and pick up girls I'll look like a creep
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>>17824717
Just ask for their social media then flirt with them on there
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Traveling to America next week. What type of chips should I buy? What brand, flavor, type, etc.
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>>17824658
Please. I am very excited to try American chips/snacks!
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I rarely eat chips but:
hot cheetos nigga, the hot ones
lays barbecue
sun chips for the giggles, they give these to kids in school
utz chips
fritos chile cheese smell like dick
takis, dont leave the states without having tried these. Theyre mexican but a must for junk food lovers
try the nonbigname brands, they're sometimes better
just go and try what seems appealing to you
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>>17824692
I went on google and there is no such thing as a hot cheetos nigga flavor. You mean hot cheetos?
Thanks anyway.
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Need help. I love in an Asian country where a big part of our culture is respect for elders even if it is just a few years difference. There is the young woman I met, daughter of a family friend. She's 19 and she adresses me with all the honorifics on me. I want to get to know her and ask her out I also want to break this seniority thing that divides us. I don't want her to think I'm this elder that needs to respect and feel imferior too. I want to see me as a man and not as "older brother" or worse "uncle". How do I go about this?
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>>17824607
Which country, OP?
To bend the culture to your favor it must first be understood.
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>>17824613
Philippines. I just turned 30
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>>17824619
>flips
>Interest.exe disengage
Sorry but no. Just ask her out to something fun and have fun with her. Consider getting a racial transplant, btw.
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>met this girl through friends, smoked together a lot as a group
>alone(ish) together on campus for thanksgiving
>we get lunch, dinner together etc, have really deep conversations
>invites me to get high with her
>go over because why not, start to cuddle up to each other
>I'm very high and we ended up making out and feeling each other up for like 5 hours straight (didn't seem as long)
>really enjoyed it, would have tried to fuck if I wasn't so crossed
**just over a week later**
>smoked together again w/ friends, still get dinner etc but in groups, and we haven't talked about last week yet( a couple of my friends found out though)
I really enjoyed it and I think I like her, she seemed to enjoy it too. What ideas do you have to show my feelings without seeming clingy? Is it strange that she hasn't bought it up yet?
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>>17824606
>Is it strange that she hasn't bought it up yet?
You haven't brought it up either, so you tell me. Why are you expecting her to make ALL the moves? She invited you over last time, now you invite her. Or just say "hey I had a great time the other night, wanna hang out again?" Don't let too much time pass or she'll think you didn't like it, girls can be very insecure you know. it's like damn son just be a person
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>>17824616
I've hinted at the fact that I enjoyed getting high with her, not about making out and stuff though. It's very hard because we normally hang out in a group. Should I just pm her or is that too beta?
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>>17824616
We'll we usually hang out in a group, but I've hinted I enjoyed getting high with her that night. Should I message her about it or is that too beta?
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My best friend is in a rough patch with his gf and I don't know what to tell him
Basically she wants to get their relationship "open" and see other people although it seems she does love him for real (I don't really know for sure though cause I don't know her all that much)
On the one hand, he loves her too and a lot and he's terrified of leaving her (last relationship was catastrophic and he is very intense and very lonely in general)
On the other, he couldn't stand it morally to sit by while she sees other people and although he's a sex maniac, he doesn't even want to see other people cause of hiw much in love he is
I had the same situation with my gf and hopefully it turned out alright with lots of luck, love and respect but I don't think that telling him : "I know how it is bro" is gonna help at all
Do you think there is any other way than reminding him that if she expects him to compromise and suffer for her but doesn't reciprocate, she most likely doesn't love him as much as he does her ? Because right now that is the first thing that comes to my mind and it sounds so harsh
Any advice on how to deal with this ?
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If he loves himself and has self-respect he won't accept it and their relationship will probably go slowly down the shitter.
If he is a pussywhipped beta with oneitis, which i think it's the case, he will let her and will suffer silently until he snaps.
Either way this relationship is doomed because they are not compatible.
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>>17824583
If she wants to have the relationship open then she doesn't love him for real.
If she won't commit and he's as serious about her as he says he needs to drop her
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I'm not a relationship guru but the concept of an open relationship sounds so retarded. I've been sleeping with a girl who's in an open relationship with her bf and everything she tells me about their relationship makes it sound so disconnected and on a path to collapsing.
If I was in your situation, OP, I would stay out of it and only offer advice if he's really struggling or asking for your perspective. Should the worst happen, be there for him.
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Community college freshman here. Currently majoring in Comp Sci. Should I transfer to a 4-year after my year here, or stick with CC for 2 years? I'm afraid of missing out on internship opportunities by staying here, but I also don't like the CC environment despite how easy the classes are.
Thoughts?
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>>17824535
You seem to have answered it yourself
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>>17824565
The best benefit I'm getting is saving a ton of money. So, I really don't know what to do.
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>>17824567
As a compromise between those, I'd say stick with CC to get your prerequisites out of the way (any general education classes or whatever), then transfer to a four-year university with those credits. If you plan it out correctly, you'll be able to go from CC straight to a course load that only relates to your major, which will make you feel less like you're wasting money at the more expensive school.
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I think I've got some kind of eating disorder. Essentially, I can only eat just a few specific things that must be prepared always the same. If I try to eat anything else I always end up throwing it up when I try to swallow it. There's no apparent link between what I can eat and what I can't, for example salami it's ok (only a specific kind) while ham isn't.
This has been going on for too long, and it's affected my life pretty badly, since I can't even go out with people if we have to eat in a restaurant or something. What's worse, I'll have to move in Japan in 2 years or so, and right now I know I'll starve if I go there.
I've tried seeing a nutritionist and he only gave me a diet to follow, which failed the very first days, and I don't know what to do anymore. I thought getting a job which involved working with food would help, but nothing.
Any help you guys can give me?
Pic kinda related I guess
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What do you like to eat? I don't really see a problem if your presences are readily accessible.
Either it's physical, in which case see a doctor, or its psychological, in which case see a therapist. Were you ever chastised at the dinner table as a kid?
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Do you prepare/cook yourself?
Worked for me
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>>17824557
Problem is, my eating habits are very bad. I think last time I've eaten any kind of salad was when I was 4 or 5, about 15 years ago. Thankfully I'm still healthy right now, though kind underweight, but I'm afraid this may evolve in diabetes or worse things in the future. And nope, never chastised and that's most likely my problem.
>>17824559
Still live with my parents, so my mother is the one who cooks. I do work with food though, even if it's just making sandwiches at Subway. Other than that my experience with cooking is close to 0
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havent posted here before.
if i post an oc greentext of an event that happened in my life will i get at least a few legit discussions out of it?
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Depends on how mundane or poorly written it is.
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Post your story you faggot
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>>17824525
well i wouldn't know to be honest. i tried posting it on /b and most of the convo was discussing that its not possible to carry my gf so far for so long and i should have gotten a bj for my act of masculinity it was a strange convo.
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Is it okay to leave your friends to chase your dream?
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>>17824512
If your prepared to go at them alone then yeah. Things are more fun with people to share it with.
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Dreams are more important than friends
People will say the opposite but that doesn't mean they are wrong
Friends come and go
Opportunities to fulfill our dreams only come once
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Yes it's ok. Friends are great but they can also hold you back. Keep moving forward, make friends wherever you go, leave old friends behind, make a life for yourself.
Anyone here succeeded at making the transition from being a hermit to a mostly normal person? I've basically spent most of my life focusing on my work and went back to college a while ago, turning 25 in a few months. Never really clicked with my peers and I can count on one hand the number of women I've been seriously interested in.
I've tried putting myself out there some more, but all of the college clubs are based around identity politics and it's kind of awkward being surrounded by teenagers. I tried meetup, but where I live it's basically dominated by coding, hiking, and poly dating. I feel like I'm doing something horribly wrong at this point because at this point outside of my family I have no real support structure since the few friends I do have tend to need me to support them instead.
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>>17824501
Accept the world.
Love Your place in it.
Make better of your Focus to be your Best self.
Commit to your best freedom.
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>>17824507
>Make better of your Focus to be your Best self.
What
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>>17824590
Use your brain.
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Have you ever fallen for someone who lives an hour away from you? Did you ever meet up with them from time to time to make up for not seeing each other often? I've been talking to this guy on OkCupid and he seems promising. I've never had many experiences of driving that long alone but I figure that eventually there's going to be a time and a place where i'll have to learn from such an experience. Could this be that experience? I must admit though just thinking about it makes me nervous. Because I don't know my way around the city very well, plus my car is very old so no sure if it would be able to handle that kind of mileage.
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>>17824495
Fucking one hour is nothing
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>>17824499
It's a lot for someone who hasn't traveled that far by themselves. Plus my car isn't in peak condition...
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A good album or podcast and you're set. As for your car: check the fluids and change your oil every 3-6 months. Is there public transportation?? This might be better than driving.
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My wife (35) has seemingly lost all interest in sex. We've been married a year, and have been together three years in total. Prior to our honeymoon, the sex was amazing, kinky, we did anal, BDSM, she'd call me daddy, but then as soon as we tied the knot, it's like a switch was pulled. She's now rarely interested, and when she is she just lies there like a starfish and avoids eye contact. FWIW, we're both from failed marriages.
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This is probably women hate bait
If not go to /r/deadbedrooms. You have a long road ahead of you
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>>17824467
have you tried talking to her about it?
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>>17824467
Is it because she's a meme and can get fat now?
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>seeing girl for ~2 weeks
>she tells me she really likes me
>asked me to ask her to be my gf
>says she wants to wait to have sex because she says she wants it to be "special" because she says she sees us having something lasting
>takes hours to text back even when we have plans yet seems to be texting a lot of the time we are together
>hangs out with her recent ex who doesn't know she's seeing someone else
>haven't seen her in ~3 days so send her this
Her response kinda stung, mostly because of how abrupt it was, as if hanging with me is such an unchill burden and also like this is supposed to be the honeymoon phase where people are excited to see each other.
All of the above things I've just let slide, including the ex thing but this was enough to make me almost snap.
What do /adv/?
I was seriously planning on moving interstate the weeks before I met her but she tells me not to leave and how much she "really likes me" all the time we're together.
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You're a side piece
>2 weeks
Stop falling into any girl that gives you awareness
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>>17824448
There's plenty of girls who'll use you like this in whatever other state you're moving to anon.
Seriously though, any girl who won't let you move on but won't show you affection or make any effort just wants you to bolster her self esteem/ likes the idea of a relationship, but not -you-. You could do better, particularly if its only 2 weeks.
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>>17824453
I really liked her... I wanted her. How do I excuse myself from this? should I?
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Hey /advice/, 23 y/o male here. never thought I would come here or have feels like this, but im gonna fire away and see what you guys think.
I joined this company a few months ago and was placed working under my mentor. he's awesome and I look up to him and respect him. We crack jokes and share a project no one else in our department does so its kinda exclusive and we sort of bond over that.
My dilemma is I really really want to be friends with him. I know he is a genuinely good person and he always goes out of his way to look out for me like a big brother (never had one). I invited him over to drink a few months ago and he accepted we had a good time, he went home. end of story.
I eventually got to thinking he didnt like me for a few reasons. I'm kind of new to this job and im dragging him down, he never brought up hanging out again and I was alone for a couple months.
Then after holiday break (which i spent alone) he invites me over for dinner. Of course I was ecstatic and accepted immediately. We go hang out at his house, he and his gf are friendly to me, we have a few beers together, and he takes me home. On the way back I mention im really glad we got to hang out and he says something along the lines of "yeah, me and my gf were talking and we felt bad because you dont have anyone to hang out with on the regular like we did when we first moved here". I say that im down to hang out whenever and he agrees. Over the next few days at work we seem to have been more chummy with each other than before.
The big question that I need to know: Am I letting negative thoughts get the best of me when I think that he doesnt want to be friends and rather is just taking pity on my lonliness? or do you think I can find a genuine friend in this guy / Does he want to be friends with me?
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>>17824443
One of the reasons I ask this question is because I want to hang out with him more and do stuff other than drink with him, but im afraid of being a nuisance due to him not really wanting anything more to do with me. That sounds a little harsh now that I type it. The feeling I get is I want a friend in him way more than he wants a friend in me.
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>>17824443
You're letting the negative thoughts get to you
If he really didn't want to he would not have invited you to dinner with his gf
Just be chill
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>>17824472
thanks man, I just have a negative self image of myself most of the time and it actually kind of frightens me how excited I am that someone as cool as he is is interested in being my buddy. I dont really make friends easily and someone actively pursuing my friendship is strange.
I'll take your advice and chill
Hey /adv/ im talking to this chick on tinder and she seems really fucking cool but, ive never met a woman off of tinder. We want to get to know each other first any advice on how not to fuck this up?
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Just take things slow, don't be creepy. Ask her questions about herself or life...Crack a few jokes.
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>>17824423
>i wanna get to know you first
you're supposed to say "how else would you get to know me?"
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>>17824591
That's pushy and might scare her off