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I just had my first day of work and I don't think I'm going back tomorrow
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do it
do it for the money
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What is the job? why aren't you going back?
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Do it until you find a better one

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So I think this is the last straw with my one classes. I've tried my best with my assignments but thanks to some bullshit I've really fallen behind mark wise. I don't think there's any fucking chance of me passing at this point.

I'm terrified about what my parents are gonna say. I can already hear their response now, "You were with your friends too much" "you didn't take this seriously enough" "You probably just sat around smoking weed all day instead of doing your homework". I know I'm an adult, but when you live with them they still have a certain weight in your life.

I'm fucking panicking. Idk what to fucking do at this point
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Come to terms with your "bullshit" and be honest with yourself about who's fault it is.

Protip: probably yours, if even partially

You never grow from mistakes if you don't accept them. So assuming that your class is a complete write-off, take a sober look at your failures that contributed to it, address them honestly, regroup, and attack that shit again.
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>>17826068
>"You were with your friends too much" "you didn't take this seriously enough" "You probably just sat around smoking weed all day instead of doing your homework
ARE these reasons you're not doing well in this class?
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>>17826171
I'd say yeah in part.

Lots of bad desicion making done on my end.

But the reason I, for example, would always escape to my friends house (almost daily) was because all semester I've been so unbelievably depressed I can't stand being fucking alone.

What did you do when you realized that great person you thought you were/were gonna be isn't you and is instead someone else?
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>>17826050
Two and a half years ago. I was still underage then. I thought i'd be a sexy guy with great thicc hair but im a depressed hairy balding eye sight losing fuck whom even own mother hates. My only hope lies in gettin gud at drawing, but i know for sure now that i 'm not gonna make it
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I always knew I was a creepy loser.
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Dude just work to better yourself if you don't like the current you, moping about all day won't do anything but hurt you, trust me. If you want to draw do it, even if you aren't the best trying and practicing is the only way to get better man. And if your mother hates you fuck her she sucks you need to like/respect yourself, at least try to. Good luck and merry Christmas chap.

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What does it mean when a girl is lovely with me in person, and we talk all the time for hours when we see each other, but when I text her she takes like days to respond (sometimes she doesnt even respond)?
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It means she's not good at texting
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>>17826032
this

/thread
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I forget to mention that she responds other people normally as far as I know

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I want to get a part time delivery job using my car until I finish school.

I have a 2007 Pontiac with 100k miles on it in decent condition and live in Los Angeles

will doing delivery fuck up my car completely or will it be still usable
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It'll probably still be usuable
I'm going to risk it

If I gotta work at target I'll kill myself
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>>17826020
I was a delivery driver full time in my late teens and early twenties. The you'll ruin your car thing is a meme.

You'll put on miles yeah, and you'll go through oil changes more often, and tires (balanced and rotated mostly). But honestly as part time you aren't going to be putting on that much literal mileage. Just make sure to keep your oil fresh and tires balanced.
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yeah you'll be fine as long as you take care of your car. you'll put a shit ton of gas in it, oil, etc, but if you balance it out right, you'll bank up and it'll be no problem. I honestly miss delivering pizza but my car can't handle it anymore. (I actually ripped up a rotor and had to replace my engine a while back, but it was a freak accident. I also had my brakes go out on my way to a delivery and that was really fun, but definitely my own fault. they were getting fixed the next day anyway)

tl;dr: you'll be fine go for it

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Right so i dont even know how to put this..
So my fathers 53, self employed, lots of money and assets but uptight as fuck! Always been a ladies man and continuously cheated on my mum when me and my sisters were kids so theres me thats 19 and my other sisters in late twenties, my half sister to my dad thats in ireland and my half brother that dosent know im his half brother that ive actually mett has nothing to do with my dad though (rest of us do).
anyway he got a girlfriend two year ago thats 22, has a history of being a little whore, nobody in her neighbourhood likes her and she used to hoover up coke without hesitating but is all clean now.. anyway her friend who wasnt anything like her used to be up at our work place all the time (i work with my dad) anyway i ended up going out with her and weve been together nearly a year but in the starting weeks she confessed that her firend that goes out with my dad had been talking to other people and been gifted presents from other men, anyway after snooping it turned out to be true, i told my father who confronted her and kicked her out, a week later and she was back then started calling my girlfriend a lier to which my dad didnt say anything as he believed my girlfriend! since then shes done other things and has said to me that if he died tomorrow shed buy herself and her mother a nice house and farm and move away, shes a absolute gold digger and everyone knows it but how come he dosent? also she flirts with me and once said a spider got down her top so she stripped off to her bra and thong in her car while i was not even a foot away, whats her deal?
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somebody help me goddamnit, this bitch be out of control
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I dont know dude.
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>>17826177
get to know man, she just takes takes takes, hes currently helping her start her own business that works hand in hand with his, shes only in it for the money and has been known to have threesomes.. i also once said "Fuck you" in an insulting manner ans she replied "go on then"
truthfully ive thought of fucking her but i hate her so bad at the same time like seriously could kill the bitch! oh and she tried getting pregnant behind his back even though he said he dosent want anymore kids especially at his age! anyway she ended up pregnant but lost it last month and took all the sympathy she could get!

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Thanks to feminism absolutely confused how to react to my girlfriend.

Current example:
I've wanted to watch a movie with her but she watched it without me. She is sorry and emphasized that she feels guilty. I just feel sad because i would have loved to watch it with her.

I've told her that i feel sad and i'm now honestly absolutely confused how i should react.
Is it ok that i let her feel guilty or should i show her that i'm just sad but not mad at her?

I hope you get what i mean because i'm absolutely confused.
Please help me
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>>17825965
grow up or lose her
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>>17825965
>Is it ok that i let her feel guilty or should i show her that i'm just sad but not mad at her?
Just leave it.

Behave normally and she will know that nothing is wrong currently but she will remember that she upset you. Do not do anything else otherwise it might send the signal that you are fine with what she did.
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congrats, you've shown her that you're a needy pussy who gets upset at basically nothing

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Hey /adv/ help me out here. I'm beginning to

So for context, I'm 23 years old and have been straight my entire life. I've only ever had sex with women, and I've never had any sort of homosexual urges.

However recently, after drunkenly watching some futanari hentai, I've found myself exclusively masturbating to mtf-trans porn (both 3D and 2D) for the past couple weeks. As a baseline for my reasoning/attraction, if the actress in the videos aren't very convincing traps (i.e. they still look/sound/act masculine) then I immediately get turned off. However, I've found that porn of all kinds involving very feminine trans-females gets me insanely aroused. The problem is, I'm not sure exactly what gets me so attracted to the notion. If I was to go out in real life seeking an encounter with one, I don't know if I could actually go through with it. And again, I genuinely have no desires to sleep with other men.

So I'm wondering, does this make me gay? Bi? I see these trans-women essentially as women but just with dicks. I guess it's like an erotic fantasy?

Help me, I'm confused.
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>>17825899
Try to fuck a transgender woman, if you dont like it that means its just a fantasy.
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Welcome to 4chan. That's your first step in a path down the degeneracy road.

I'm the same and I come to realize thay I have kind of a dick fetish. I only like dicks with very specific looks, and only attached to very passable "women"

Idk where it comes from. I always had curiosity for what having a pussy would be like, and how girls would react to having a penis, from a very young age. I'm by no means transexual, but given the chance to try it for a while without the efforts and consequences that exist irl, I would without a second tought.

So I guess it's more an empathy for what the "woman" is feeling in an orgasm scene. There's also a theory floating around that seeing other dicks make yours harder in an effort to beat the competition reproductively speaking.
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>>17825973
>Dick fetish
>Not gay

Yep, exactly what he said; 4chan degeneracy.

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So my GF broke up with her life and me after 5 years... 1 Year ago she failed at university and got really depressed... she stopped all social activities... stopped talking to her friends and family... I tried everything to cheer her up, inivited her to visit friends of mine. I tried to get professional help for her... her reaction: she wanted to break up with me... it took her 3 more months until she managed to move out... during that time I started playing online games with a friend of me... She and I had a lot of fun... but one day I broke... in treas I told her, how down I'm... that my relationship with my GF is in ruins... she listend to me cheered me up... we started talking alot to each other shared secrets and thoughts... we now text almost every day... I started to feel extremly connected to her... Friends of us where making implications that "they know what's going on" and we both denied it... the more I denied it the stronger the feeling became... she started sending me pictures of her (normal ones) I made her compliments... she liked them... I don't know what to do... is she just a friend and my stupied heart plays tricks on me? or can there be more? we have so much in commen... I often know what she thinks but I can't trust my self on that one...

Biggest problem she lives far away about 400 miles
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go for her
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Personally ive been there and it ended badly but just carry on as you are and stay as friends without pushing too many boundries because once she gets that "its final i dont want anything but a friendship if that" then shell never come round to the thought! proceed as friends and if more comes of it then its a win win and if it dosent atleast you have your dignity and friendship which should be enough if you think that much of her! it personally sounds like shes thinking about you alot and the thought will have probably crossed her mind, just make her laugh and be there for her but not too much, dont try make the world seem unreal either and sugar coat things just keep your cool and be cheeky and slightly flirty! confidence overall will do you all the good you want!
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>>17825946
Yeah,... she never said it but if sometimes when she is at work... she starts discribing things she fibdes funny if she has the times... she normally never writes other ppl while she is at work... for me it feels like she wants me to be with her there... she has to work alot at the moment and has to finish university ... she has almost no free time at the moment... but we write everyday... she sometimes gets visits from male friends of her... and if she does she always wishes me a good night... letting me know that she went to bet... alone...

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Hey /adv/, I gave my pubes a trim and ended up trimming up the nether-regions too just to feel clean shaven, and now my cheeks really hurt, is there any way to remedy this?
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>>17825883
What kind of pain? Stinging, burning, itching?
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>>17825897
Sorta itchy / stabby pain
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BUMp
Geddit?

How the fuck do I tell a girl who I've been friends with for years that I have feelings for her? I was with her when she was drunk and she told me she loved me. I told her that I loved her too. I know it was just the alcohol but I've liked her for an easy 6+ years. I literally have no fucking clue what to do.
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Get drunk with her again and kiss her (hell even go so far as sleep with her)

Actions >>> words
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>>17825898
nice try faggot
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>>17825910
Seriously. Take it from a guy who's been there. Awkwardly telling her "i like u" will probably result in rejection. Also she could have just been drunk and emotional and said it as a friend. It might not have meant anyrhing.

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I messaged this girl who seemed to like me a stupid gif of an otter, and she never replied. Before we were pretty fucking close and in honesty I should have asked her out but I was too dense to realize. For about a month she ignored me and basically stopped talking to me. Just this week she started asking me for stupid little favors she could have easily done herself ("anon I need your help can you get that cup for me?" "anon what's the university office number" etc) and just today she messaged me saying how cute that otter was. Is this my chance now? I don't know what I did but this seems like she's done trying to ignore me right? When she was ignoring me she was staring constantly. I know this is childish but she's 18 so it's no big surprise.
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Go for it
You have nothing to lose
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I thought It was the only one women fuck with

What probably happened was another male in her life distracted her. Now that she's dumped, she's running back to your cock
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>>17826710
Tbh she doesn't talk to any guys, she's usually with girls 24/7

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>Background

I'm 28 years old, and have been working in the trades my entire career and even beforehand, starting at 13. It's the only thing I know how to do and the only marketable skill I have. As of late, my health has begun to fail me in the form of back and lung issues, and although no definite diagnosis has been issued to me I feel that my days in my particular line of work are numbered. I've long since been sick of my line of work and have been thinking of transition into a technology-related career for the sake of my health and growth. The original plan was to leverage my current experience one last time to get the highest paid job I could and use the money to eliminate all standing debt (car) and fund my education however necessary, but I'm starting to doubt that my back will permit me to continue doing this much longer.

>(1/2)
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>(2/2)

>The Plan

So my idea was for software development or a coding-related job. I've always been interested in tech-related things, and also considered in the future using my industrial background alongside computer knowledge to make a break into robotics and automation. I've heard stories of people who are able to semi-freelance in this sort of work or at least work from home (major improvement from a filthy workshop or job site). The primary issue is I haven't kept up with the tech related fields for a while and am mostly ignorant to the careers available, their future prospects, or their attainability. I'm aware there are many free online sources for learning programming languages, and currently is my target of study (brush up html and javascript for web stuff, learn java/C++/?Python? for actual programming). I'm not aware of the value, purpose, or scope of hardware related knowledge, it's relevance, or how to get started.

>Objectives

-Get out of the trades and into a tech related field
-Aiming for respectable middle class income, 50-90k would be fantastic
- *Bonus* Freelance, work-from-home, or entrepreneurial possibilites
-Any means of avoiding college extremely preferred. I live completely alone (no friends or family) and have no time or money for college, trying to avoid debt like the absolute plague it is.

Any ideas, criticisms, or resources you guys have to offer is deeply appreciated, no matter how small.
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What are you waiting on. Should've started on this yesterday
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>>17825835
>>17825836

what trade are we talking about?

you relize that you would compete with 22yo Code-monkyes?

what about drafting?

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So my problem is that Im 20 years old and a little more than a year into my relationship with my girlfriend. Ive only had sex a few times before with two girls, but she has been with around 20 guys. She tells me that they meant nothing to her, and were just drunk hook ups, but i think that bothers me more.
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would i be wrong to end things with her?
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>>17825833
no, you can find someone who shares your views on sex and is also a prude if you wish
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>>17825833
nah, if it bothers you, i mean 20 random drunk hook ups is a lot and definitely a red flag to some people

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Okay. EXTREMELY hypothetical question.

If you were at a party, and this crazy girl (like, literally spent-a-stint-at-a-mental-ward -crazy) got black out fucking drunk and BIT you and the host respectively (hard enough to leave a bruise) before passing out

And days later she asks what happened at the party, as she doesn't remember, apologises when she hears she bit someone AGAIN, as she is prone to doing that when she's in the drunk state which she won't remember, but apparently every time she bites people it's always men she knows and trusts (and she's got issues/history of being mistreated by men)

How the FUCK would you feel about it?
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I would assume she wants to fuck and I would get her drunk again and fuck her

But that's just me
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>>17825799
But she bit the host too?

They've known since middle-school and have never had anything between them.
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>>17825806
So, what's your point

all I need to fuck a girl is their trust
Id just assume he never made a move

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