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I've been on two different antidepressants for a week and I see no difference. If anything I got worse.

>>17419656
I have taken many anti depressants over the years. I have learned a few things. The big one is everyone is different, so medication needs to be tailored by a doctor who specializes in such things.

For me I found a few that works well for me, but in the end diet and exercise (along with years of hard work and counseling) was what got me out of my dark place. I now take controlled dosages of over the counter vitamins, and yes the details matter, (mostly B3 - Niacin) and follow a strict workout plan as missing a few days can have me noticeably slide back.

It is important to keep records and work with others, including your doctor. As you may not notice the side effects given these things literally mess with your mind. Also oxycodone is highly addictive, has ruined many lives, and is not used for such things. So I would avoid it and look for better alternatives.

>>17419656
You seem to respond to the effects of pain killers as an antidepressant. I'm not sure what about them does that, but I do too. Try tramadol. It's used as an off-label antidepressant. Works great. Can make you a bit dizzy if you take too much at first though. Effects are almost immediate better mood.

>>17419625
The enamal has come off you silly cunt. Get a new one.

>>17419633
Well shucks, let's say that is not exactly an option right now.

-Will it affect my health or skin?
-Can I cover it with something? A special paint or covering agent?

>>17419625
The enamel is gone, you should replace it.

Typical rust is harmless to humans, our blood has a lot of it. It is one of the least harmful things I can think of.

That said rust surfaces can grow other things and increase the risk of micro cuts, so tiny infected cuts is an issue but not sure how big of an issue as I have never heard of this happening in real life but is cited as a possible Tetanus vector by some doctors I have talked with. Would think 50 cent Walmart flip flops would protect from such things.

They do make plastic enamels you can paint on, but those only last a few years and look cheap.

If you are going to be really cheap I would ask /diy/ as they always have some crazy ideas. Mine would be seal it with some kind of compatible sealer. Or something like deck or truck bed liner which seems to always work for abusive situations. Just make extra sure your sealer don't get down the drain or it could seal the pipes which is really bad.

You sound more trans than gay to be honest

>>17419584
I'm pretty certain I'm not.

I have day dreamed a lot about being a petite and pretty version of myself, but never enough to do more than just day dream one or two times a month.

>>17419594
When watching porn do you self-insert as the trap or the woman getting fucked?

When you make your MMO-characters do you imagine them as your dream woman or you as the dream woman?

I'm not 30+ but wanted to point out that the "youth is wasted on the young" is not about young people not having fun. It refers to young people being self conscious, awkward and fretting over inane shit that doesn't matter. Old people are relaxed and at ease with themselves and thus have the mental ability to completely let go and have wild crazy fun... but no longer the physical condition or the life circumstances to allow it.

But a piece of advice anyway, my rule of thumb is that you want to do stuff that is exclusive to the stage of life you're in. You can always fuck around online, but stumbling by and fucking up in real life is still very much the norm at your age and won't always be acceptable.
Also, if your social skills aren't that great, it will only be more difficult with time to tackle that and gain more experience. It is normal for someone your age to be awkward, but again, that changes relatively quickly and you will stick out a lot more at twenty-five.

>>17419503
>no friends
>spends all his time on 4chan

you should find a way to fix this

also everyone dies so who gives a shit

Learn valuable things, that will be useful to you. Programming, art, how to extract DMT, digital art, how to grow cannabis, 3D modelling...

Find some hobbies and spend your time on them. The things I suggested learning, are all fun but not always good for socialising. Pick up something outdoorsy. Biking, skateboarding, freerunning, break dancing... Then surround yourself with good people you can draw inspiration from.

That's pretty much it.

>>17419500

You're french, people expect you to be a deviant pervert.
The only difference between you and an Arab, in the dating world, is that you still require consent, even if it is from the 13 year old girl next door.

Play into the frenchness, bro. Go with whatever age range attracts you.

>>17419500
Yes, listen to the other dude, go with whatever age attracts you. The only person who should be concerned with your age is the person who is considering dating you. If they don't have a problem, neither should you. As long as they are adults, nothing else really matters. My fiance is also twice my age and has daughters from a previous marriage close to my age range. It doesn't matter to me. I'm a girl in my late 20s, btw.

I'd say around thirty. If it was a purely sexual fling, who cares as long as she consent and is not underage. But for a relationship - how much do you really hope to have in common with a twenty-three year old? If you honestly feel like a girl that young can be your full equal as a life partner, I think you've done something wrong in your personal growth.

Around thirty things change in my eyes because the most of your formative years are done. Obviously you never stop gaining life experience but that's different to me from being adolescent and still figuring life out in many ways.

>>17419499
Was she fainted in your car or was she already at the hospital and you were speeding to the hospital?

>>17419501
I was speeding to the hospital to see her. The officer informed me that there would be doctors there and it was not a life threatening emergency.

He took my license and registration but didn't return with a ticket at all.

>>17419498

ay man, try the website/app couchsurfing. say that you're travelling. sure you could get a few places.

otherwise perhaps go to a local church for help or google a shelter if there is one.

otherwise, why are you homeless?

>homeless
>still manages to find internet so he can fuck around on 4chan

>>17419566
Exactly what I was thinking.
OP needs to get his priorities straight.

>>17419483
>I really see a future with her but I dont think I can handle this stuff much longer

Then you only see a short future with her.

>>17419485
I suppose so, Iv'e seen what she can be though and it's amazing
I probably am stupid for being with someone for what they were or what they could be I guess but i guess you get suckered because you think that if they can overcome this obstacle everything will be ok

>>17419493
How long you been with your gf?

Nice b8 m8

>>17419452

Have you ever been outside?

>>17419433
men are beating down the doors of fat chicks actually... dating standards for men aren't even in the same fucking universe.

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>>17419386
Yeah, she wants an excuse to cuck you.

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Wait till you get to university or college and find out literally nobody really cares what you did in high school

Just relax, there's some truth to the saying that everybody's too worried about themselves to really judge you

>>17419373
>I apply myself into all these leadership positions and get them
Well there's the problem

>>17419373
If your parents are willing to let you live with them while you pursue an education, then no, it wont be as hard as people like to pretend it is, as you will be able to ease into it no prob

>>17419365
I am sorry for your dad.

I had a very similar experience.
I decided to take a few months to take care of my depression. I went to therapy and started to go to a help group. I also decided to volunteer - I got some new friends and I felt useful.
After that, I decided to go back to school.
If your family has the financial means to support you for a few months, I would suggest you to do this - go to therapy, volunteer, go to a help group, and when you feel better go back to school.
Not because it would make your dad happy, but because it seems like it would make you happy in the long term: you said you were a good student and you loved studying.
Do some activities with your mom too, it will help you both.
Take your time and don't rush through things. It is painful, you never really get over it, but it gets better. Use this chance to become a better person.

>>17419379
Spot on.
OP, don't feel bad for having to take time out to take care of your mental health. It's okay to give yourself time before you go back to school. That being said, I definitely think you should go back. It sounds like you'll be happier for it in the long run.

>>17419365
Both options seem to have pros and con

But the way i see it, whats a little strain on your mental endurance for what could be a much better life? There are aids for your stress, go get a massage, or even take up smoking weed if you must. Imo you'll have more oppotunities to be useful if you obtain a college education. You'll actually suffer MORE down the road if you decide to just start working, being that the jobs you'll have access to are.. well suffice to say, you'll hate, and subjecting yourself to hours and hours of labor you hate every day is just a recipe for suicide in some cases.

Two step process

1. man up

2. say "hey, do you wanna go on a date sometime?"

they'll almost always say yes. that simple. you want a girlfriend? take a girl out on a first date, don't fuck it up but don't expect it to be amazing, they usually aren't if it's your first time meeting (tinder) but since you flirted at work your first date should be closer to a third date where you have a bit of intimacy.

any more date questions shoot away cunt

yea, i guess i figured as much. cheers cunt

post script:
off topic (kinda) im a closet smoker, quit now or what

>>17419425
i dont date chicks who smoke. i'd get a vape and start vaping so you can quit or just be like "nah i don't smoke i just vape" you can even build your vape to make no smoke

If he is your best friend I think it be best you bring it up to him. Dont be confrontational, just say " I heard...". Also you are here of all places and guessing you are into video games, it is probably true. Use this as and opportunity to improve you and your social skills and go outside to follow more productive hobbies besides video games and 4chan.

>>17419339
Actually no I am not into video games. I am into lifting weights and reading. Thanks for the advice though, I will confront him about it.

>>17419341
*Bring it up with him, not confronting him.

I want to know if you guys think dirty talking at the beginning of our relationship when it was already formed is something I can forgive her for.

Allowing cheating usually means she will cheat again, but if all she did was dirty talk then was it really cheating?

Would love to hear opinions/thoughts from people here, thank you

>>17419313
Your "girlfriend" is an underage girl. You've never even met her. Get the fuck over it.

>>17419318
She is 16 now and I am 19