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Take it to a vet. Say you found it. Nowadays if it has a collar it probably has a chip too, and the vet can use that to return it to the family. It won't be traced back to you.

In my country you call either the police or the wilderness whatever it is called in English.

So do that, or burry it and live on with or without guilt

yea
shit happens man just let it go and don't panic no one knows so stay shut about it don't call yourself out and yea just another day

i remember websites that literally dumped hacked
brazzer premium accounts every other day
dont torrent porn if you are american

I was subscribed to a niche site that catered to my tastes for a while and it was quite good but produced porn gets boring quickly for me, every video starts to feel the same. Personally i think I actually prefer stories to 3d, but I'm weird.

Anyway I'd say get a subscription if you can afford to do so, without people who pay for content there would be no content. Besides if you don't like it you can always cancel.

No, it's not. Better buy yourself a hooker once in a while.

Ride it out till you get fired

Nah. Get all of em in a room, explain what happened. Try to see things from their point of view and they will see from yours. If they don't understand, then they are clinically insane - quit.

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>>17417947
sounds like a shitty comedy show episode

fucking normies
reee

>>17417897
sex her

Give her the dick. You can start by asking her on a date. If a girl likes you as a friend and finds you attractive she'd like you as a boyfriend as well.

>>17417910
>>17417911
Little more complicated then that. I just want to improve on my life. I started to lift, get in shape, change my style and clothes and etc but I want a personality change also. Idk just want to know what girls like in general for a boyfriend to have personalitiy wise.

>Is that asking for too much?

No, in fact I think you should probably be asking for more. If you want a successful relationship, it takes more than just a partner who isn't dumb, fat, or has a kid.

As for the women asking for too much, you could probably find lots of women who won't ask for those specific things like being able to shoot a gun.

It's always good to have skills like driving yourself, being handy, and defending yourself and loved ones though. You could learn all of those and they will make you much more independent and attractive.

>>17417908

I understand. I just hate how much emphasis people put on driving. Even though I don't make people come pick me up or anything. I usually walk or catch the bus. Its just that around where I live, public transit isn't the best. Cars are generally better in terms of time used in trasit.

But women don't take me seriously because I can't drive.

I could say the same thing about guys, but there's a reason why those kind of females/males are single and you should probably stay away from those kinds of people.

The good ones are usually taken.

>>17417878
That's the million dollar question man.

The real answer is just about anywhere. Keep in mind that you're 19 and have a lot of time before you have to start worrying about it.

Do you live in a small town?

>>17417889
Nah man, I live in a big suburban city where everyone is always in their cars and shit. I use to live in the city where everyone knew each other.

please respond
I feel so lonely. I only have one good friend but I don't see him too much. I was the one who broke up with my GF but she was basically my loneliness partner. I don't have anyone to talk to anymore.

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you already know the answer

Get an aboriginal

A B O R T

>Am I just a loser cunt that happens to be smart by some freak accident? Is there a place for a lazy cunt like me on earth?
You're a fucking idiot that needs 4chan's advice board of all places to hold your hand.
Luckily for you you're not the only STEM Major that struggles with reality, because I want to do the exact same thing as you, the only difference is that I'm finishing a Mechanical Engineering degree

Here's what you do.
> Go on holiday for a while after finishing your degree and be a lazy cunt somewhere else and then go to work

There's a lot of places in remote parts of the world that pay well and your timetable is basically 3months on 3months off, or 6months on 6months off.
The working conditions are usually shit though.
Your other option is to open your own business and have other people work for you.

>>17417904
Buddy, I did biomedical engineering in undergrad.

If you think medicine is gonna be a 9-5 job like engineering well, guess what. And if I say fuck it my days over and go home, I have a lawsuit waiting for me next day. Oh and my holiday? It's 2 weeks a year.

To top it off I'll have to work with the assholes above, most of whom have absolutely no social life and a pathetic existence therefore they focus all their attention on the lives of those around them and make it their duty to know all about it, try to control it. I fucking loved the friends I had in engineering, you should consider yourself lucky for that at least.

You'll fit right in with most doctors OP.

I too am a lazy MD cunt. I think what helped me get by the shitty phase that you and I went through was the realization of interpersonal communications.

The students you're with now are petty and naive, and they truely believe they are the lawful goodie two shoes docs that are going to put everything behind their job and will be rewarded for it.

Some of them will be genuinely like that; a doctor I can think of in particular was one that took in all the finanically disadvantaged patients, the drug abusers, the needle sharers, etc., and yet he would still be more than willing to take a weekend shift at the local ER with no questions asked, or would give considerable funds to bail your relative out of jail, or would be the ordained minister at your wedding. He never asked for a damn thing in return. He was a hell of a man and I was bawling at his funeral last year, and I don't get emotional. What I'm saying is you will encounter those benevolent docs and you may not agree with their lifestyle choice, you should give them respect.

Most of those aren't in your category though. You're still a student with other students, and I can assure you that the classmates youre talking about are petty, hierarchial, and probably hypocrites themselves. Even a lot of docs near retirement age still pull that shit. People are going to be faggots, and you can't do much but smile and accept it. Don't let them run your life though, they don't know any better than you. But for fucks sake do not ever believe you have to match their sacrifice of everything. Those types of new docs are more likely to burn out within the first five years, if they even make it at all.

If you need any advice on the life I'm here for a bit. Hope it helps, just realize there are good people and there are faggots in every culture and profession. Do what you need to do to not burn out. Best wishes

>>17417851
You could ask about a dress code, although HR might not exactly be the person to ask.

I'd say you probably nailed the interview already as long as you weren't totally awkward, dressed well, and don't have shitty prior experience.

Good luck OP.

Honestly, in like the next day or so, shoot her an email thanking her for the opportunity to interview, and CC the hiring manager.

Good luck!

You only had an interview with the HR guys? Because usually it's not them who decide if you get hired, it's your future boss/teamleader/manager. If that's the case I doubt it will matter if you ask pointless questions via email. In fact I think it won't matter at all.
Yeah, it would be preferable to send an email with a question or anything just to remind them of your existence, if nothing else, but asking obvious bullshit questions won't increase your chance of getting hired by much. Think about what you talked about at the interview and what you're going to do at the job and ask something based on that, don't ask /adv/, it will only give you generic question that HR is bored of answering.

>>17417863
Thanks Anon, I appreciate the positiveness.

Who is this band, and how did you get this opportunity?

Just tak about other artists. Frank Sinatra or something.

>>17417862
Screaming Females.
Because they're staying at my bandmates house.

>>17418035
>nobodies hanging out with nobodies
You talk about band stuff and get drunk, duh

>>17417825
I'd do absolutely anything for eternal life.

Yeah, exactly, nothing.

You cease to exist. You won't comprehend that there's nothing, because you are now nothing. Congrats, you'll escape your pain at the expense of not knowing you have.

>>17417825
Same but not the same.
I want to die to know what nothing is, how it is to not be.
It's impossible to know because i'll be dead but i had this curiosity since i was a kid.

>>17417794
Thereis a venting thread around here, try going there instead next time?

Also, what did you expect from 4chan? Some serious life advice for free? Most people here are in their teens.

>>17417794
There's no real recipe for anything faggot.

>>17417812
The biggest problems I have with the vent threads is people usually never respond, sometimes I just wanna talk about my situation and usually you don't get responses in them
Also,
>Just move on
>Forget them

>>17417780
Why you broke up with her?

>>17417790
A number of reasons but mainly she was growing distant, stopped answering my texts, never wanted to hang out. And she was flirting with that guy in front of me.

>>17417793
You should really move on anon. Or maybe meet her to talk and tell her all this (i dont mean returning with her), and maybe you will feel somehow relieved. Im a non full english speaker. What is a wail?

*bump*

>>17417747
Let it go.

Let it go friend, it won't happen. As many times as you hear this on a day to day basis, there are plenty of fish in the sea mate. I get you can't help the way you feel about someone, but the one thing you can control is your spine.

Your closure will only bring you wounded pride and heart-ache, so save yourself the trouble and realise that nothing good will come from it. She betrayed you, she doesn't deserve the time of day; the thoughts you have of her will become less and less frequent until she becomes nothing but a happy reminder of how she changed you as a person for the better.

I speak from experience, the exact same happened to me near enough.
tl;dr not worth it you'll move on in time

>>17417723

it depends on what you mean by each.

its pretty easy to say, 'lower your standards'. even the hottest dudes have fucked fatties. plenty of striaght men have let fags suck em off cuz it was easier than getitng a hot chick that weekend. my point being that sexuality isn't as demanding as we make it out to be.

you could easily settle for someone outside your major attraction zone. you could likely even find parts of them attractive enough to maintain an erection, especially if shes good with make up.

honestly though id rather fuck a dude than fuck a fat chick, gross.

but you can also just get fit if thats what you mean, and also work on yourself as a person. but its hard to say what is 'easier'. its kind of up to you.

whats easier for you, settling, or getting your shit together?

If you're not in peak physical shape and extremely hygenic, the latter. Attractive qualities are pretty objective, you can't really force yourself to find objectively uglier people attractive.

the type of person you attract.