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Is there a good dating website to use to find more introverted nerdy girls?
Or even just women who aren't so much into the party scene/getting fucked up all the time
Or does it not really matter?
Is Tinder just for hookups or is that just kind of a stereotype?
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I think it's hard to find a girl like that online and in real life too, I met most girls like that through school, they don't go out too much and they're too shy to try online dating. If I wanted to met girls like that I'd go to weeaboo or vidya places.
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3 exes of tinder, give it a go.
tinder is way better then any dating website but okc was all the weird quirky introverted ones if that's what you're looking for but they tend to be bottom of the barrel in terms of looks.
everybody uses tinder because there's no stigma surrounding it, it's completely socially acceptable to find the love of your life off tinder but not so much off of OKC or POF for some reason
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>>17419301
Here's the thing about tinder: it finds matches based on the type of women who like your profile. So, if a certain type of woman is more likely to swipe right on you then that's the kind of woman who will appear in your search results. I'm a fat ugly nerd and guess what? 90% of the girls that I get to pick from are also fat and ugly. Every once and awhile they throw in an attractive one to make you think you have a chance.
Its a great feeling getting judged by Tinder.
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I've been working for the same company for the last three years. Friday, while my manager was off on vacation, I sent my resignation in to him and his Manager. I sent them a letter that cited the following reasons for resigning:
>working 10-16 hours a day for 8 hours of pay
>verbal and physical abuse by manager
>Very low pay increase for the last year
>disrespect from coworkers
>mental and physical stress
After I sent the letter to them, I also sent the letter via e-mail to a list of people that I frequently work with and told them that I've enjoyed working with them and that I wish them all the best (these people are not at my office, but offices across the country.) About two hours later i received a call from the director of HR and kind of had second thoughts about sending the letter to all of those people. I get the feeling that i may be canned before my two-week notice is up. I will be facing my manager in approximately two hours which is unavoidable and I have absolutely no idea what to expect from him nor do I know how to prepare for this.
Any input or suggestions guys? I'm nervous as fuck.
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>>17419260
Sounds pretty sweet, you might get your two weeks pay without having to go to work. Probbaly shouldn't have sent the whole thing go everyone though.
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There is a site called glassdoor.com . Write an anonymous review of your company. They can't do shit about it.
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>>17419260
>i may be canned before my two-week notice is up
What difference does it make? You don't want to work there, and you're getting that
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how do i fully get over my girlfriends past
i was a virgin before i met her, she was with 5 dudes before me. she just turned 18 and we've been dating for 10 months. she's been literally nothing but honest about everything and completely loyal and down to earth.
it doesn't bother me as much as it did a while because i tell myself that girls like sex too and she simply had the opportunity to have sex with people she was attracted too and my disgust for her past is a projection of jealousy due to lack of opportunity ( I would have fucked 50 hot chicks if I the chance was given to me before ) and insecurity.
so, how do i fully get over her past and just stop caring? every time i think of it i just get grossed out that other guys have been inside her and jizzed all over her.
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>>17419228
If it bothers you so much find someone new. I don't want to be harsh but if that honestly bothers you, you're a bit shallow, and not only that but you're also very young to even care. Once you get older you'll find out, it really doesnt matter about a girls past but how she makes you feel. If your girl makes you feel disgusted then there is nothing there
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5 dudes at 18? Dude lol..
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>>17419228
>5 dudes
lol
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Girl here. So I just found out this online friend I have been talking to for a long time lied about his identity. (And no, how I found out is not relevant here so I will not share it) Why is it so difficult to let him go? Is it because I am young and naive?
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>>17419223
Delete your internet chat room shit, and get your life in order. Go out for a hike and meet new people.
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>>17419223
If they didn't lie about relevant information, why would you let them go? Value the friendship for what it is.
It is not necessary to go meet if you just chat from time to time.
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>>17419235
I didn't meet him in a chatroom. This happened over a month ago but I still feel sad about it at times.
>>17419240
>If they didn't lie about relevant
information, why would you let them go?
What?
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I'm in a complicated school position, /adv/.
Basically I fucked up my Masters thesis and I failed. I hated it by the end of the program and rushed to get it done because I didn't want to look at it anymore. I know I fucked up and I've come to accept that. My program has luckily granted me a rewrite. I found out about this about two weeks ago. It took me a bit to get over the funk, talk to my parents and to just mentally plan to get shit done.
Here's the thing. They wanted me to re-apply and spend the next year re-writing it. Normally that wouldn't be an issue, but I am already signed up for another Masters (I can elaborate on why if you want but it's a bit of a tl;dr), and I had deferred them for the program I failed last year, so I don't think I can really contact them right before the program starts and be like "lol defer again pls". So I took the more difficult path of trying to get it in by a short-term deadline of the 15th of August. As I've been working on it, it's been slow. I don't think I'll produce as good a work as I could given more time, plus I'm back home, so my resources are extremely limited (I have no access to source materials except online, but there isn't much I could use).
Herein lies my issue. Last week (about 5 days after finding out I failed and saying I would try to get it done by the 15th), I emailed the head of my program that I felt I couldn't get it done in time, and how would the re-applying work/could I do it parallel to my other masters/defer the rewrite to next year. I didn't get a reply for almost a full work week until I got an email saying that there was a family emergency and the head would be gone until the 1st. It's now the 2nd, he still hasn't replied and I'm panicking. Time is quickly running out and I'm fucked if he says the 15th is my only option. Should I contact my other school and tell them what's happening? Do I just keep writing and hope I get something done? Do I keep bothering the head of my program?
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>>17419202
I would suggest deferring from your second Masters and focus on your first. If you cant pass your first, how do you expect to pass the second?
Apply for a second defferal. You were foolish to register for a second Masters during your first, so focus on getting one under your belt then think of another.
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>>17419213
I'm just worried deferring again, and so late, will make them say I can't defer and I lose the chance.
I actually applied to both programs last year and got in to both but the one I took was more appealing so that's why I did it first and deferred the second one to start this year. I had every intention of doing the second one back to back, and everything was going fine until I had failed.
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>>17419202
Fellow uni guy here. Why can't you combine the new master program with writing the master thesis for your old master?
Does the problem lie in effort more than anything else?
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since I became an adult my mom has gotten worse 2016-08-02 07:07:49 Post No.17419159
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since I became an adult my mom has gotten worse
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I turned 18 at the beginning of this year and as the title says my mom has gotten worse in that she doesn't let me do my thing anymore.
I used to walk 3 miles in the morning sometimes to my boyfriend's to have sex after his parents would leave for work. We kept it up until summer started since then my mom won't let me leave the house even to take my dog out for nightly walks.
I got diagnosed with a heart condition, the doctor said it wasn't anything serious and could even be natural for me.. but she blew it out of proportion and now I can't even go out hiking or to the beach.
Her logic is that I live in her house without paying any bills so I should abide to whatever she wants from me. Meanwhile my step dad still does drugs in our garage sever times a day and she doesn't blink an eye.
How do I shake this bitch off of me adv?
>Nb4 get your own place
I'd love to but I'd prefer to not have to take out student loans and worry about a rent just yet. Also my mom promised to pay for my tuition as long as I live with them.
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They way I see it: put up with it or move out. Yes, I know you said you don't want to, but you don't have any other option. You could disobey her like I'm sure many anons will suggest you do because "what's she going to do about it?" but it's still her house and she could kick you out, and she could also stop paying your tuition.
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Hola, anon. I had a similar situation when I was first starting college. Your best bet is to tolerate it and finish school as quickly and well as possible. Defer your gratification until later, and set yourself up for long run success. I just graduated college at 22 with no debt, and spent a majority of my college years at home. It sucks but its worth it in the long run. Hope this helps!
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Generally speaking after a few months of the initial hype and when your mother has better things to do (like earning the money for your college tuition) she will stop being so outright cunty about it.
An alternative is to get your doctor on board and tell your mother that the 6 mile walk is good sedentary exercise for you.
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What the fuck is on my face. It showed up after swimming about 4 days ago. Same kinda shit on my left arm. Its been 3 weeks since I fucked around (with my ex who has been married for a couple months) and shes the likely suspect.
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Showed up on my arm as well.
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>fucking some dudes wife
Well I sure do hope its herpes.. and warts..
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>since I fucked around (with my ex who has been married for a couple months)
It's karma, that's what it is.
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How do i teach my girlfriend to be better in bed without making her feel bad? She tried giving me head and a handjob last night but it just felt awful and i kept getting soft while she'd do it. It's not that I'm not attracted to her, it's just I can't help but think how unsatisfying whatever it is she's doing is and it goes soft. I tried showing her a couple things to do but she wasn't very good and i just couldn't get it up without touching it myself, let alone cum. I'm pretty sure the whole ordeal kind of depressed her and of course I feel shitty because of it too. It's almost like I could barely even feel her handling it, like her grip wasn't hard enough. All I can think of to do right now is stop fapping at all so eventually just about anything will make me explode, but i don't even fap that much atm.
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Tell her what you like and don't like, in the moment. Don't bother telling her not to do something, just mention what's good and what would be better. Eventually she'll learn trough implicit direction and understand the underlying principles at work, as well as how to read the signals she's receiving.
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Talk to her about it.
I've had to make majority of girls I was dating good at sex. It takes time, but get them to relax. Girls are very self conscious when getting their partner off, and need it to happen
Tell her what you like and how to do it, and return the favor with better sex/her desires. Talk about it outside of sex, and then initiate. Tell her nicely while doing it what you like.
You may have to fake a few things, but eventually they would get better.
Hope that helps
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Unless she's a womanchild who can't handle any sort of constructive criticism, talk to her. We don't have penises, we don't know what does and doesn't feel good. There's literally no other way.
Im 27 and have never had a job. I have a very very good reason for never having worked but I'm not sure if I should be honest with employers or just fake a resume... I don't want anything special, maybe restaurant work or retail or something but I can't even get that with the lies I've been telling so far.
Should I tell the truth about my situation? Is honesty the best policy? I feel like I'm starting out at 27 where most people do when they're 17 and I need to learn but I feel like nobody wants to teach you when you're nearly 30 years old.
Not sure what to do. I live in Australia btw, don't know if that makes a difference.
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>I have a very very good reason for never having worked
No you don't. If you did, you would be comfortable talking to potential employers about it.
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Fake a resume? Bad plan. Get a job and be honest. Don't be one of them.
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I married someone who ended up being extremely abusive and controlling. He wouldn't let me work. The only reason I ended up getting out of the relationship was because he tried to kill me. I spent a couple months in the hospital and then about a year and a half after that in therapy trying to become a normal part of society again. Now here I am and I've been searching for a year and can't get shit. That's the reason.
But I also don't want to come off as someone who wants everyone to feel sorry for me. So I don't know what to do here.
I'm so fucking sad, I'm in so much pain and am so angry
My girlfriend left me and it's ruined me, I've never felt so terrible
I really wanted to marry this girl. I keep thinking of our memories, I keep thinking of how connected and deep into her life I was, she knew everything about, I've never opened up to anyone like I did to her
I miss talking to her, I took her for granted, I really did, I thought we were invincible. I keep getting such big shocks of pain and anger and regret. I think of all the things I could have done better, all my mistakes, my regrets, and it hurts so much
The paranoia of not knowing what she's doing is torture, she's already moved on, after such a long time together, it didn't even take her a week to start hanging out with some other guy, probably telling him all the things she used to tell me
I would have done anything for her, I wanted to work on our problems and fix them, I would have died for her, but now she's gone. I so badly want to text her and just talk to her, and I know I shouldn't but I do
I know everyone is going to tell me that I need to move on, I need to go fuck other chicks, but I'm not interested, if anything doing that will make me feel more empty. Everyone will tell me she was a bitch, and I'm better, but it's hard to hear when I still love her, because I invested so much and I just can't let go so fast and easily. Everyone will say I need to preoccupy my time with other people, which I'm trying to do, but I still think of her.
I feel like this has done damage to me that will last for a long, long time, I think I need therapy because anytime I go out all I can hope for is to get hit by a car and die or get such bad amnesia I don't remember what happened, I already had problems before but this has multiplied it times 10. People will say things will get better, I'll eventually meet someone else, and maybe I will, but for now, I'm just sad
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQTbkEeCTeM
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Look anon, you probably don't want to hear this, but this is life. Horrible shit happens, and it can feel like you are trapped in this spiral of pain with no way out. And honestly, you just have to deal with it. Take it one day at a time. Im sorry this happened to you, but you can't control other people. You can't make her come back to you. You can't turn back the clock to be with her again. You could, try to persuade or influence her to come back to you, but ultimately it is her decision. And if she doesn't, then she doesn't. I know its shitty but you will eventually have to accept it, one eay or another. My advice is to not be too hard on yourself. Don't dwell on what you did wrong or if you could've done things differently, its in the past now and you can't change it. If you want to reach out to her, then reach out to her. Tell her how you feel, if that is what you want to do, lay everything out, tell her youre sorry for whatever you may be sorry for, tell you'll do whatever you need to do if she is willing to work things out with you. But this is if you want to tell her these things. You have nothing to lose, and it could help you feel the least bit better for your feelings to be known. And if you work things out, great. If you don't, then honestly youre no worse off.
Day at a time, anon. Life is shit, and I won't tell you things will get better, because that seems like empty sympathy imo. But if you are willing to persevere, and stay in this world, you will leave yourself open to opportunities and possibilities and someday you may be happy again. If youre dead youre dead.
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Are you me? The same thing happened to me last year and i still didn't get over it.
It's so painful, nothing else hurt me nearly as much as when she said to me over the phone "i don't feel anything for you"
I devoted myself so much, i tried to be the best boyfriend i could, i was loyal, i was compassionate, i tried my best and she dumped me over the phone, crushed my feelings and instantly moved on, it's as if all the beautiful moments we shared, all the beautiful words we said and all the promises we made meant absolutely fucking nothing.
I tell people i'm fine, that i got over it but i didn't, it still hurts so much, i love her, i'd kill and die for her, but i'm nothing to her.
I don't even know what i want to do with my life anymore.
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In the past few weeks, my farts literally smell like I shit myself.
Like, my asshole is clean, there's no skid marks, but I have to refrain from ever farting just because of how bad it smells.
I've starting increasing my protein consumption, is that it? Could I have suddenly become lactose intolerant?
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When I was on a high protein diet, my farts also smelled horrendous. It's probably the problem
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>>17419096
My farts smell bad too now that I eat a lot of protein bars.
Where exactly are you getting protein?
Supplements are often high in fiber which causes increased gas.
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farts are air particles of shit. that could be why
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How can I stop videogames once and for all, /adv/?
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By finding new reasons to leave the house. Make new friends. Get a girlfriend. Get new hobbies.
I haven't played vidya in two years. Got a new girl, made new friends and now we're always doing stuff together. If I have down time, I binge watch Netflix shows. Feels good man.
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>>17419061
reading books and exercise pretty much made me stop playing video games.
So i guess, pick up those as hobbies
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>>17419065
>binge watch netflix
>binge play vidya
Not a good trade, you could've at least kept the fun option for yourself and saved the netflix watching for your GF time.
im going to join the airforce soon
what should i expect?
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>>17419004
STD's
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penis inspection day
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>>17419010
This is a reality.
Alright, femanons.
You bf invites you to his house, and while he's taking a shower, you discover his doujin collection.
What is your reaction?
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Ask if you can read them with him!
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Get turned on or be indifferent to it depending on what it is.
Nothing could really be too much for me.
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What if it's hard core Loli fisting? What's the worst thing he has in his collection that would make you disgusted?
So there's this person I've been obsessed with. I think about them every second of every day and have dreams about them every night. I want to be with them forever. If I ever even talk to anyone else i'm gushing over my love. I monitor all of their activity offline and online. If they give any other person attention I feel intense jealously and will quickly start to hate that person if they communicate frequently. I've broken up several of their friendships. I would do absolutely anything for them. I just love them so much. They like me too, but I'm not sure how much..
This has been going on for 2 years. I just don't know what to do anymore. I should just confess, but I'm afraid of rejection. Especially since I've invested pretty much every free moment of my life for the past 2 years into this person, I feel like I'd just completely snap if they shot me down after all of this.
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You reek of crazy
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>>17418984
This. Batshit crazy
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Submit yourself to the nearest mental health centre