girlfriend no longer there for me emotionally or physically due to depression
I feel like I've done everything I can to support her
but supporting her without support in return has widdled at my endurance
and I think im hitting a breaking point
I really see a future with her but I dont think I can handle this stuff much longer
does anyone have experience with this?
>>17419483
>I really see a future with her but I dont think I can handle this stuff much longer
Then you only see a short future with her.
>>17419485
I suppose so, Iv'e seen what she can be though and it's amazing
I probably am stupid for being with someone for what they were or what they could be I guess but i guess you get suckered because you think that if they can overcome this obstacle everything will be ok
>>17419493
How long you been with your gf?
>>17419627
Bump
I am literally in your shoes with my boyfriend, OP. I think we all hit stressful points and hurt our loved ones because we feel the give and take is unequal. Is she diagnosed depression?
I promise you, 100% as soon as you guys break up, and you're over it enough to look back at it without bias, you'll see how average she is.
Kinda in the same boat, going on 3 years now. Shit is crazy. Every day she's crying, and if she's not crying she's fucking something up that's going to terribly inconvenience her later and make her cry more.
I've been teetering on that breaking point for awhile now. But, I don't want to think about anyone loving her the way I do.. From snuggling her tummy to getting my back rubbed. I couldn't stand to leave her to have some other guy paw at her just because she's depressed, young, and unorganized.
She can't act like this forever, eventually she'll grow up and we'll be a responsible power couple. But, jesus I would like to get some time to play video games.