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>>17420892
souds like a brain tumor, sorry op

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>>17420892
>Any tips?
read more , avoid audiobooks and vidya

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You have low attention span which is likely a by-product of modern internet culture. Do some meditation or something.

hopeless self bump because I'm miserable and need help but got nobody to take advice because had a fight with my best friends

Your outfits suck because you don't know how to dress. Transition time sucks, yes, but that's what second hand stores are for.

Go for what will give you the biggest bang for your buck: pray. No, I'm serious, get outside of yourself and find something more powerful than you are. It'll make you feel a little less sad, which changes your perspective on everything.

You could gain weight and still find someone desperate enough to suck you off. Your insecurity is probably a bigger problem than your appearance.

>>17420859
>her career
what kind of career does a 16 y/o have to worry about?

>>17420859
You could keep the friendship but forget about getting between her legs and it should be smooth sailing to friendship zone.

Don't beat yourself too much about it. She is probably looking for a Chad and you probably don't fit the description.

The fuck does she go on dates if she doesn't want a relationship? She sounds like a waddling red flag.
You can combine "career" and a relationship just fine if you are not incabable of basic organization and don't get overwhelmed if you have more than one obligation per week, which is also a requirement for any "career". Basically, she has let you down easily. Just find another girl.

>>17420840
She probably still likes you and wants your attention. Just stop replying.

block her on anything. If she still contacts you just ignore her. Ignore everything she says online, ignore her calls, tell her to fuck off then proceed to ignore her irl if it comes to that.

>>17420840
Then it's time to get a new phone number. Or put a restraining order against her for harassment. But that's really gay and way more trouble than it is for you to just change your number.

>>17420796

i wouldnt say you conditioned her. she was already like this you just enabled it.

you may not be bad in bed, you might be.

but consider this: does putting the moves on her involve talking? when people actually bring up sex, turned off, instant. dont like it. why? kills the chase.

i like when a guy slowly works his way to sex over the courseo f an hour or two. i get that can be exhausting but i like it.

tht being said, sounds to me like the spark in the relationship is gone, and shes very content living in her digital world.

try to fix it til you realize you cant, the nget out.

i cant get a guy to take me out for fuckin sushi but this bitch gets to be a neet.

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>>17420821
Shit.


This makes way too much sense.

And yeah, I guess by moves I do mean talking. We've been together for 7 years so I just assume asking her "Wanna have sex?" worked. But it never does. I think I gotta be domineering and a little forceful. But she's the kinda person that gets a bit "bitchy" when I do that. Like imagine your mom yelling at you for tracking mud into the house. Same general momentum as that. Fuck.
I'll still try to fix it. But god damn if I'm not frustrated by this situation.

I think I might try to be the man I was years ago and work on winning her over with my original charm. Whatever that was.
I guess being a husband isn't good enough sometimes.

>>17420846

she should be more grateful, but she doesn't see what you guys have as a trade off. shes living in the moment and just thinks of this as the natural order. as opposed to 'well he pays the bills so i gotta put out'. and to be honest, you probably dont want her having that mindset (though her current one isn't helping).

what you gotta do is make a date night, even a home one. order out, watch a movie, and then start by rubbing her. the easiest way to turn someone on is to rub their supposedly non sexual parts and work your way around. half way through the movie she will at least let you fuck her. if she doesnt at that point then yeah the relationships way toooo dysfunctional... not that its not now.

>>17420711

having a genetic predisposition for something does not by any means guarantee that it will manifest itself.

besides, at this point we don't know to what degree depression is heritable. It could be not very important compared to environment and such.

I wouldn't worry about it too much.

Depression is not something you inherit. Think about the reasons those people in your life became depressed, do you personally have any reason to be depressed? If you do ever end up depressed it's better to find the source in actual problems rather than just say "Well, dad had depression." Other wise you would just be depressed your entire life.

>>17420742
Oh I see. Thanks, anon.

Do you think adderal might increase the chances of getting it? I take it under a prescription and don't abuse it.

I'd Google it, but I'd rather get an answer from a real human bean.

Are you interested in the field? Does it seem like something you'd enjoy doing?

>>17420709

You chose a shitty college.

>>17420716
I like technology and writing but I've seen a lot of negativity with Communications degrees. This one dabbles in technology so it's not as garbage as a regular communications degree but I still worry

Are you retarded?

>>17420689
You have to be 18 to post here. Also you're retarded.

so do you have a boyfriend or not

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>>17420674
smoke crack

What area do you need the most work? Do you have 10 minutes a day?

>>17420660
I'll run through a checklist with you if you like?

How about you go to one of them and ask if they know anything about lawnmowers. Then if they help you fix it, your problem is solved, and the crickets stop chirping.

Mutually beneficial.

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>>17420670
I've poured oil down the hole to the point that the dipstick is at "full." But then I checked the gasoline nozzle and it's empty inside!

I thought in America all engines were four stroke, and you don't have to mix gas and oil, and even if that were the case WHY ARE THERE TWO SEPARATE SECTIONS FOR THEM? ONLINE IT SAYS THAT YOU MIX THEM TOGETHER IN A BOTTLE BECAUSE THEY WON'T MIX IN A MACHINE.

I don't understand.

>>17420673
They're not present until later.

No. If you don't want to be alive, don't feel obligated to stick around just for others.

>>17420628
No, they'll learn to live with it. Just leave.

>>17420807
>>17420805
thanks for the encouragement guys. see ya round the bend

>>17420624
Alcohol

>>17420624
Alcohol and not giving a fuck. Seriously when you dont care about your inhibitions it feels so liberating and you can talk to people with ease because you feel more comfortable in your own skin. Just think of it this way, even if you "mess" up no one will care because they're too concerend about themselves and their lives as well. I personally psyche myself out into getting inscure about this by thinking that im selfish for making it all about me and my problems, instead of considering what they're doing and what they're going through.

Why would you want to? I personally hate socialising for the sake of socialising - I only like to do it when it's important or worth it mutually (for example, talking with friends.)

Yeah its pretty fucked up. Cant explain her reasoning either. Nothing you can do about it, except try to get the 4 inheritors to equally split it up, which is a long shot.

>>17420614
might be a tax thing.

dude I don't know if you've met a kid under 21 these days, but we would have to have some real fucking initiative to get that ball rolling, minus the fact we're all greedy little b's. Sigh it sucks.. I don't even know how much land or money cuz I haven't gotten the letter yet. I would be up to share the land with my brothers and sisters but idk abt muh money. I mean I loved my grandma a long time to ensure I get that money!

>>17420536
This is fucking hilarious as shit

Take a ruler and measure out 6 inches. Try to fit it all in your mouth. You'll gag, trust me.

>6"
That sucks dude. Not only are you small, but your height will make you look even smaller.

Naturally,I begged her and begged her, trying to logically convince her, promising that whatever aspect of the relationship made her unhappy would be gotten rid of and replaced with new and better things but she was having none of it and was as stubborn as hell. After 3 weeks of begging on and off (as well as casually talking to her, she believed we were “friends” now, I resorted to the "30 day no contact rule, which supposedly will make her miss me so I’ve heard, I caved in after 2 weeks of not talking, 2 days ago I just said through text “oh the little Pixar short film before finding dory was cute, you’d love it” (she loves Disney films and we always watched them together) she responded positively and asked whether I was okay or not, acknowledging that we hadn’t talked for 2 weeks, it then became nice small talk until I asked whether she was okay or wanted to talk about anything, she said;

“not specifically, nice talking to u in general though, like i understand that u wanted some space and that’s 100% fine and if u still want that that’s okay,but i have missed your friendship, you get me?”

That was 2 days ago and I still haven’t replied, what the hell do I do? carry on with no-contact? I’ve heard from other internet relationship coaches that no contact is actually a bad idea! Please help!

>>17420491
>>17420493

What do you want out of this situation?

>>17420503
This, do you wanna get back together with her?