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>>17420478
It's probably your tendons rubbing against the bones.
I have that on my ankles, knees, wrists and elbows.
On my elbows you can see the tendon moving from below the bone to over it.

Are they clicking when you turn in a smooth natural motion or only when you perform a quick jerky motion?

>>17420542
The speed doesn't matter

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Bumping with hedgehog.

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Always address any causes of concern or possible symptoms with your doctor. Even if you think they're silly, there's a chance they could be an important clue to help you.

As far as what you actually have it is most likely a type of seizure disorder. BPPV would explain the dizzy/tunnel vision when you move your head but you didn't mention that you only get episodes when you moved your head (which is the case in BPPV) and people do not generally faint from this disorder and you wouldn't get any kind of indication from an EEG for it so I find it doubtful. But to rule out the more unlikely reasons they will need the results of the MRI.

Seizures can be caused by so many things. High or low blood sugar, strokes, brain damage, brain tumors, other neurological disorders like MS or ALS or drug use. Sometimes deficiencies in electrolytes can cause seizures but this is rare and generally does not happen chronically. A deficiency in vitamin B12 would be a much more likely culprit. Finally sometimes you are just born with it through genetics or random bad luck.

Either way I wish you luck and let us know how it goes anon.

>>17420727
I usually get spells when I move my head too far to the side or up, when I stand up, or when I've been standing or walking for too long. It pretty much only doesn't happen when I'm lying down.

Brain tumor, luckily, is ruled out. I had an brain MRI a couple of months ago.

Thank you for your advice. I'll talk to the neurologist.

>>17420450

dont? i mean even if you are a lesbian it just doestn seem like a good match if you can acknowledge that they were uncomfortable. i know you want to feel like 'one of the guys' in this case, even if your own sexuality is hetero, but its simply not a thing.

male bonding exists for a reason, and its kinda hard to do that with a girl there. and no the strippers dont count.

let men have their bonding.

For more context, I entered last after my friends did and handed my entrance fee . I was waiting for something I guess and looked to the side at my friends for a bit and looked back and my money was still there on the table I guess he didn't want to take my money I felt so embarrassed idk why. Immediately I bought 1 drink for my friend for his birthday and another for myself. A bit later I bought another round for both of us..fucking expensive. I guess in my mind that ment that I paid my fee to stay a while but I was wrong since after a couple hours we started getting badgered to buy more drinks...i felt horrible not just because I didn't want them to dislike us but also since I already spent so much and they wanted us to buy more...is that just how it is at a club? It was my first time. We were forced to wait so long because the girls we were waiting for kept getting pulled away it was frustrating because the woman at the bar kept coming over to "tell us how it worked here" not until late near 1am or 2 I was able to get a hold of the girl I wanted and I made sure to give her a extra tip even before she started. It lasted a while and she ended up telling me she gave me 2 dances for free I was really grateful. But in the end I still felt shitty with how the bartenders treated us..was it my fault? Please give tips.

>>17420472
The thing is it's not like there were NO woman customers there, yes way more men but there were at least 3 other girls there, granted they looked way older than me like 30-35 I'm 24

>>17420445
>Is it normal that the only thing keeping me from cucking the shit out of my beloved is that i dont actively pursue them and also lack the looks to be pursued?

Only if you don't love/respect the person you're with. Attraction to others is normal, but not to the point where you would hurt said person at the drop of a hat. I would never do that to the person I'm with because I value them beyond what they can do for me, their looks, etc.

>>17420461
Please no answers from girls.

>>17420466
I'm a guy and I agree with this post. If you are thinking at all seriously about cheating on your significant other, you are either not actually in love with them, or you are fucked in the head and deserve to be alone.

I can see an attractive woman without the thought of sex with her ever crossing my mind. And that's because I love my girlfriend.

>>17420369
>"girls only go for assholes" is just a meme
kek. It is and it isn't

>>17420369
>finally have a relationship with a nice guy
>treats me wonderfully for a year
>ghosts me

Yeah nice guys really are all that :^)

At least my abusive ex boyfriends all had the decency to break up with me properly.

>>17420369
It's not that Girls like assholes, it's that subs like doms.

Assertiveness, Alpha-ness, these things attract women whether they are negative or positive. Girls aren't really looking for Prince Charming, they want Prince Fucks-Good.

>>17420359
Okay first off, get yourself checked. That sounds like a glaring hint from her that you might want to get checked.

Second off, why the fuck are you friends with an ex? More to the point, an ex that's going around fucking people you know?

Third off, why the fuck are you still in contact with this girl? I realize I said this before. But it's such a big one, it needed repeated twice.

>>17420359

if you know them and are friends with them, yes, why wouldnt you be? or rather, why wouldnt you want to tell them?

>>17420372
Got checked, I'm 100% clean
She and I aren't friends per say, just on speaking terms.
She and I are in similar circles, so it's hard not to see each other.
>>17420375
The guys aren't really "friends", just people I know the names and faces of. People I've spoken to maybe once or twice.

Drugs

realizing one day you'll be dead and there's an immeasurable chance you'll cease to exist

if you still want to waste time on self-doubt rather than taking action, after realizing you're gonna die, then I don't know what anyone can say to you

Life will teach you things. Hopefully you will learn to "take it by the reigns" and all those silly phrases

>>17420313
Improve yourself and spend your time with people who make you feel appreciated.

>>17420275
All of your problems are self-inflicted.

>>17420309
I'm open to talking about that, although the brevity of your posts suggests you just felt like kicking a nigga when he self-identified as being down.

In times like that I force myself to become a beacon of positivity and inspiration.

I don't even let negative thoughts enter my mind.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Urun_rE79_Q&list=PLWL-f1YBw48NKF1PasvuAM5oyiT73A12i&index=7

I make an extra effort to be more productive and helpful and generous. As long as you do it sincerely, it'll rub off on other people and they'll pick up on it. Positive vibes are contagious.

Notice how the negativity of the people around you makes you start to feel bad? If you give in, it'll descend further and further. Negativity begets negativity. Don't let yourself be bitter or pessimistic. It'll try to sneak out of us through little quips or snark or bitchiness like "oh of COURSE X happens right when I'm Y". Don't let it. Firmly contain it at its root and keep it in its place.

http://www.fastcompany.com/3032351/the-future-of-work/why-venting-about-work-actually-makes-you-angrier

Don't let it "bottle up" either though. Try to think about it neutrally and passively and accept it for what it is, but reject the bitterness you want to feel as a result.

>yes that person cut me off but it's not a big deal I'm not gonna let myself blow up over something stupid

You sound like a person that already tries to stay positive, but the negativity around you is wearing you down. I think you're just a passively positive person though, so try to be ACTIVELY positive and radiant. I try to channel Jupiter (abundance, generosity, kindness, charisma).

What the fuck is wrong with you?

Just ask someone to fuck you in the ass.

Your anus/rectum is for digested food. Putting literally anything else up there has risks.

You want to risk it? Then make sure you have a good excuse and enough money for a doctor in case it all goes wrong. Then report back here with your findings.

No. Don't put food up your ass. Especially if there's sugar in it. Just use water or lube, it's not like you can see it while it's in there. Jesus Christ, what the fuck am I doing here

>>17420199
You have to be 18 to post on this site.

21 actually, and i was hoping this board wasn't just an echo of /b/ where i get called a faggot and it gets 404d, o well lol

you have to stop it at the root.

that's why Christians talk about not even THINKING about committing adultery. once youve fantasized about it in your head you have surrendered to it.

you have to reject it entirely "I reject that thought" every time it comes up. block her if you have to.

write down your commitment and share it with someone, anyone. make it public. "I will not have sexual relations with that woman". start now OP! tell us! show us your determination!

Have you seen a therapist?

>>17420188
A doctor, she just said that it's normal when you stress and with my past it can be pretty normal. Abusive alcoholic and drug using parents.

I've had a pretty rough childhood, went to therapy for like 10 years, started when I was 7 years old. Didn't really help with that, ever.

>>17420180
Easy really, get a night light, problem fixed

good on you anon, you manned the fuck up and made the relatively minor adjustment to contributing to society

best part is, you can still play vidya and do all that stuff but you'll be rich enough not to have buyer's remorse about things you buy. You won't be able to vidya ALL THE TIME but that isn't a good thing anyway

>>17420250
also, now comes the hard part of finding a job you enjoy or can easily tolerate so you don't slowly burn out and rely on your free time to make up for work time

>be WoW addict loser
>finally get part time job
>get addicted to that money and take on shifts
>working full time job at that point
>independence came on it's own with a bank account
>i had a car, an apartment, and a job
>it's just a natural progression

>>17420128
Just replace them, you wont get any enjoyment out of that friend anymore

it's over dude. best case scenario they hit bottom, get better and you reconnect in 5-10 years

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>>17420128

had a similar issue in highschool. my friends joined the pill popping craze and would just spend all day getting high at the skate park.

what drugs are they taking? even if they take weed it can be hard to deal with if they do it daily and you are the only one out of the loop.

begin exploring life outside of the aforementioned loop. make new friends, try new things, create your own circle.

leave the door open to see what happens but if they're going further down the rabbit hole chances are it will just fade out.

Define "needs another year to tell her mom".

Is she simply unwilling to, or is there some kind of external situation preventing/discouraging her from doing so?

>>17420126
jesus. It's always a huge dilemma for me when it comes to shit like this.

Like, when you girlfriend tells you she was raped 10 years ago when she was 18 and they guy that did it still lives in town and was never arrested because she never told anyone. type of shit. I mean, you want revenge, but you don't have any evidence except the word of your girlfriend. So it puts you in a strange place. You have to either accept the fact that she could be lying and which case you can never really trust her and it makes fighting for her honor more difficult

>>17420138

this. seems like a really stupid way to make things more complicated than they need to be.

worst case scenario, id just wait til the last minute then say 'sorry dad you cant come cuz you raped me'

>>17420117
how much stupid shit have done? be honest.

>>17420120
None that i'm aware of. I genuinely think i haven't given him any reason to treat me like that...

>>17420117
Do you have a chronic illness? that might account for some(but not all) of this.