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Is being alpha basically just not giving a fuck? 2016-08-03 04:28:04 Post No.17422327
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Is being alpha basically just not giving a fuck?
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2016-08-03 04:28:04
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Trying to be generally friendly but not obsessing over all the little details and not really worrying whether X person will like you or not?
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>>17422327
Being Alpha means you are at the top of your pyramid in whatever you are doing
It just means high status in whatever you're associated with
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>>17422327
there is no definition for alpha in the modern social sense. in the traditional sense, it just means that you are the leader of your 'pack'.
either way you are giving a HUGE fuck about not giving a fuck
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My husband will occasionally give me the silent treatment, then get angry if I ask what's up. Most of the time I don't even know what I've done wrong, and he refuses to talk about it.
Tonight's one of those nights. He dramatically scooted as far away from me as possible on the bed, back turned, and wouldn't speak, so I took the hint and fucked off downstairs.
Now I can't sleep... I hate not knowing what's going on, and I have to be at work extra early tomorrow. Should I pull an all-nighter? If not, how can I relax my mind enough to sleep?
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>>17422317
>how can I relax my mind enough to sleep?
ambien or meditation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SYET4Gf5q1g
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>>17422317
It's not you. He has a problem at work or someplace and is the kind of person who feels he has to work it out all by himself. He'll take any attempt to help (like being asked "What's wrong?") as a threat to his ability to do it himself. When he has worked it out, he'll open up to you again.
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>>17422317
Why do you assume he's giving you the silent treatment? My brother and friend are both prickly sorts who will become irascible if you place incorrect attitudes on them. If they are quiet for a while and you ask "what's wrong", they'll get angry because you assume something's wrong with them when they were content just a second before, and if they snap back with nothing, they know you'll pester them further. You're putting him unfairly into a position where he is going to be perceived as irate regardless of how he responds, so it's best to just not bring it up if you think he's stewing. If he's actually angry at something, he'll be sure to let you know.
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Im moving into an apartment thats fully furnished. Any advice guys? Im worried. Ive never lived on my own before. Necessities
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Buy something like a taser, or pepper spray. Whether your male or female.
Don't forget things like laundry detergent and dish washing soap.
Other than that, as you live there and notice things you're missing, make lists for when you go to the store. You'll realize you want a nicer looking trash can, or a vacuum.
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>>17422309
Thanks man. I didnt even thought of a vaccum cleaner hahaha, im so scared tho. I dont wanna fuck it up.
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if you have roommate, invest in a nannycam for your bedroom
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Hey guys, I'm going to be applying to college this fall. I'm half Chinese and half white (super Anglo) and I was wondering what race I should put on my application. I am applying to mostly state universities, with a few liberal arts colleges that are hard to get into. I really don't want to fuck up the demographics section of my application, what are your thoughts?
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>>17422264
Do you not have the option of putting both? Otherwise, just put the one you identify with more on a day to day basis
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>>17422267
I do have the option of putting both, but even some of my self-identified biracial cousins have had trouble getting into college because of their ethnicities.
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>>17422273
>even some of my self-identified biracial cousins have had trouble getting into college because of their ethnicities.
What in the world is wrong with America? How does your ethnicity even affect anything?
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Is it wrong to ask my 3y bf if he still loves me?
I think he does not love me anymore but he can't break up.. I still love him, so much
> He is not delicate anymore.
I told him that
He just ask if being delicate is some rule and if i have more rules to impose..
(punch my stomach)
>Say I want to be with other guys (not true)
> Never says "I love you" in first place, and barely says it in response.
> Sometimes I ask him to tell me he loves me. Result: He gets anger and says he doesnt have to say it just because I m asking,
if he doesnt feel he want to say he doesn t have to say and i m just imposing my needs
(his words)
> Told him i feel he doesnt care about if he's hurting me or not.
Result: More anger (turn off the phone)
> i tried to read some poetry to him on the phone to make him happy and calm, from pablo neruda
He got bored
Does he still loves me?
> Still dream about him, still love his smile, his voice..
Now i m just crying like a stupid child, feeling like garbage, alone, undesired, ugly, ashamed, and questioning if my love is really requited
Don t know what to do, just wanted to stop being so hurt and sad
It hurts my chest
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You sound irritating and needy, to the point of absurdity. But I'm only saying this based on what's written here--I don't know you or your relationship.
>He is not delicate anymore.
What does this even mean?
>Say I want to be with other guys (not true)
Are you telling him that you do or is he saying that you do? If it's the latter, it's probably because you're making him feel like nothing he ever does is good enough.
> Sometimes I ask him to tell me he loves me.
Why?
> Told him i feel he doesnt care about if he's hurting me or not.
How exactly is someone supposed to respond to this? It sounds a bit antagonistic/manipulative. If you really feel that way, leave.
> i tried to read some poetry to him on the phone to make him happy and calm, from pablo neruda
>He got bored
Not everyone enjoys poetry, and even if they do, not everyone enjoys the same writers.
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>>17422263
I think I'm similar to your guy and it's really hard for me to say "I love you" to someone. Mostly because my upbringing taught me men are *weak* or *soft* if they show compassion and kindness too much. It does make me angry when someone says or I'm being to distant. Worse when someone says I'm being too nice. I can never find some medium
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>>17422294
>You sound irritating and needy
maybe you r right. thanks. i ll think about that and try to change it
>What does this even mean?
2 y ago he used to speak softly, called me sweet names, miss that. he says he doesn't do it anymore because he is hurt because i wanted to be with someone else, but that's not true.
>Are you telling him that you do or is he saying that you do?
He says
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Hey /adv/. I really need your help. These guys are constantly harassing my girlfriend and threatening to rape or pay people to rape her. She blocks their phone numbers constantly but they keep coming back with new phone numbers. What the hell should I do? They've even started to threaten to break into her house WHICH is something they've done in the past but she didn't do anything about it. I'm fearful for her safety and I just don't know what to do.
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It's called calling the police. Don't tell me the police can't/won't do anything unless the guys have actually done something, because threatening to do that shit is a crime. And, you know, they've done it in the past.
And let me guess: this is an LDR and she lives on the other side of the country or something so there's nothing you can actually do about it.
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Do she do anything to them to make them harrass her?
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She has a history of being raped and she's convinced that calling the cops won't work and she'd never forgive me. And no it isn't an LDR :/
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I've been on tinder for a couple of months, got 250 matches. Was talking to this qt 3.14 for a couple of days, got her number. Turns out we are super similar, like the same places, music, movies etc. I ask if she wants to get coffee Friday, she says "I'm busy Friday, don't think I'm ignoring you though! Are you free Thursday?" I say "yeah sure, how does noon sound?" No response, thought that was weird. I text her like 15 hours later with a followup "Does that work for you?" No response. Been about 48 hours since the initial "yeah sure how does noon sound" I can tell she ignored it, she has updated her tinder profile since the text I sent. I literally have no idea what I did. She was into me, bringing up topics. Asking about me personally and shit. Seeming genuinely interested in me. Saying that "I never am able to talk to people on tinder like I am able to talk to you!" Am I retarded? I completely don't understand what I did or what her deal is?
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>>17422225
She's a woman. She changed her mind. It is literally that simple.
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>>17422245
Yeah I assumed that was it. Just weird that someone would change their mind like that. To go from texting you consistently and actively wanting to make plans with you to just completely ignoring
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>>17422275
>To go from texting you consistently and actively wanting to make plans with you to just completely ignoring
Ignoring you is much easier than flat out just telling you they changed their mind. That's the logic for girls and from a certain stand point it makes sense, because if she tells you, "Nah I changed my mind" you'll press on and on about it, asking what you did wrong and blah blah blah, some guys even take this to the extreme and turn violent, I've seen it happen a lot...look at it this way, she doesn't want to hang out, get over it and move on instead of dwelling on it. You wouldn't want to be with someone that indecisive anywhere.
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Hey /adv/, I really need your fucking help. I accidentally got a girl pregnant and she wants the baby and at this point I really don't, I thought I loved her but we really rushed things and those feelings are fading. I know I fucked up big time and I'm a huge douchebag but I'm freaking out. Is there any way where I can just like leave her and not have to be responsible for the child. She's constantly told me to leave her for no reason. She's told me she's not pregnant but she saw the ever so faintest second line on her test. She's crazy and has a really bad history and I just don't know what to do. How fucked am I? I can't take care of this kid I'm just about to start sophomore year of college. Please help.
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You have to face the consequences of your actions, Anon.
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>>17422215
Oh fock ya, dude.
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>>17422215
Kill her then yourself.
Or enjoy the shackles on the next 18 years of your life.
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Long story short, my gfs pet rabbit's back half was crushed (by crushed I mean both legs broken,stomach split open) when the bookshelf I was attempting to fix collapsed and fell upon it.
I did the merciful thing by putting it down, and she is visting her parents until Saturday. How do I let her know? Do I tell her the rabbit escaped the apartment or tell her the truth? Any advice would be appreciated.
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It sucks anon, but if you don't tell her straight up it'll likely hang over your head well into the future. Better to just accept the consequences now, and hopefully she'll understand.
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I'd tell her the truth. I don't know how she would feel about you telling her how you put it down, but that's all on you.
If she's half reasonable you two will cry together and get over it after 2 weeks.
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Lie unless you'll feel guilty.
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Where can I find preppy/rich girls like myself (except I'm a male)? I'm in a sea of normies and I'm tired of all these vapid cunt women who want me to feed them attention when they don't even care about how I feel. It's got to be different with girls with class, the preppy guys I'm pals with aren't dicks like that at least.
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Have you tried upper class communities, you dumb idiot?
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>>17422190
I'm in college right now, asshole.
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>>17422195
My suggestions does not change. Drive your car to a nice neighborhood on the weekend. Surely your daddy bought you a car, right?
Myself and Erin z where born into a scenario that is bad. That being we are symbolic of good with a bad species.
Bad are things like ugly,stupid,retarded,filth,disgusting,molesters,rapists,homos,liars, pieces of shit, assholes etc.
Basically you're a civilization of people no "good" person would ever willingly choose to be with.
As silly as it sounds I've already proved me and her are being mind controlled and others are letting us be whored into relationships so freaks (humanity) can be amused watching their only good people be ruined.
They're basically molesting and raping our lives and trying to make such seem as "love" stories.
All I want to do is make her aware so she knows it's best to never be with someone again, but people won't help me know if she knows or not. So everyday I kind of worry about her being mind controlled and whored. It makes me feel sick that people would let us be violated for amusement and I don't trust humanity at all now.
What should I do? I don't want to talk to her and bother her because she doesn't like me, but i feel like the only right thing to do is try to make her know no one truly cares about her and only using her to amuse the planet.
The structure of the scenario portrays her like retarded queen whore of the universe
I need help making her understand that so she knows not to trust anyone.
Should i map it out on a flow chart and put posters of it all over the cities?
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>>17422091
.....What?
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>>17422091
What the fuck
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>>17422091
Nigga, wut?
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Why is /adv/ so hostile to the idea of manipulation? 2016-08-03 02:45:26 Post No.17422031
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Why is /adv/ so hostile to the idea of manipulation?
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/adv/ seems to hate the concept of lying to people in general no matter what it's about, and always either says its wrong or says it wont work
does /adv/ really think that deceit isn't a real thing that can be done?
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Should be done, is what you mean right?
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>>17422039
It seems on /adv/ there are two kinds of people, normal people and autistic spazzes
They don't seem to think its possible for someone to not quite be either or, and at the same time manipulate well enough to pretend to be normal
Ive talked to a few people here who say manipulation is possible and not that hard, but most say that anyone who talks like that is actually just a chris chan rip off and is 100% oblivious to it and has 0 self awareness
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>>17422039
Also I meant /adv/ thinks there are two kinds of people
Does the time stamp seem photoshopped bros?
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>>17422014
Nope, completely legit. That's how people always place timestamps.
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>>17422018
Cmon man don't mess with me. The top left area seems a little.. Off.
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>>17422021
The top left? The whole thing looks completely off. It's fuck huge in comparison to her, and what do you think she did, laminate it so it stayed completely flat, crossed one arm across her chest, then used her other arm to strategically weave the timestamp under the crossed arm, in such a way that it doesn't get bent?
Also I'm 99% sure I've seen her posted many times before.
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Where to find good people 2016-08-03 02:29:45 Post No.17421984
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Where to find good people
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I'm in a bad situation where bad people (ugly,pathetic,liars,retards,rapists,molesters,faggots,murderers, etc.) try to irritate me while protecting the mind controlled rape "love" stories of "good" people like me(Chris) and Erin. (Kelownasucks.com)
I try to find good people to help so me and her can progress away from this filth the Canadians force upon our lives, but all I get are ugly souls who want to pretend either of us would actually ever willingly choose a population like this while they rape our lives for fake "love" stories.
Where can I find these mythical good people instead of retarded sewer tard souls whose only maneuvers are to avoid the topic and insult/attack/offend/annoy/molest.
eh MOLESTERS!
Eh=Canada btw!
So where oh where can I find good people to help us from the molestation nation?
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Also for many years this looked like a most fake Internet to keep people from knowing of good people. Where is the real Internet will hundreds of millions of people?
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Have you thought about receiving help for your mental illness? Also, saged.
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>>17422012
Youre a freak. Seriously, people get molested and raped and people like you just insult them. You're a total freak.
I need to lose weight but i keep "forgetting".
>do good with diet and exercise for a few days
>have stressfull day
>lay in bed at night and realize that i ate like a fucking pig all day long wihout being aware that i was not supposed to
>try again and repeat the same circle
How do i stay mindfull of what i eat even when i'm stressed out. It's as if my brain goes to autopilot as soon as i'm not able to just have a calm and peacefull day, which is a rare occurence anyways
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>>17421940
pretty sure you should go to /fit/
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>>17421982
I have been for a long time and still do. I know exactly WHAT to do. I just forget often. I need a way to reliably remind myself to stay on track. And no, those reminder apps don't work. I am a pro at ignoring them when i'm in "that mode".
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>>17422002
How do you forget to NOT eat shit? Sounds like a poor excuse.